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\ ig 'home, guests being girls from the pur. ¢ | MARY HAWORTH'S MAIL | | | 5 i PRINCIPALS IN RECENT CEREMONY former Miss Elena de Rose, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Fran- cesco de Rose, and the bride- groom is the son of Mrs. Ed- ward Russo, all of Italy. The couple will live in Oshawa --Photo by Mary's Studio wedding was solemnized recently at St. Gregory's Roman Catholie Church when Mr. and Mrs, Eugene Russo exchanged nup- tial vows. The bride who re cently arrived in Oshawa is the Many Hostesses Entertain For Miss May Lou Taylor A much feted bride-to-be is Mr. and Mrs. Ralph Wallace Miss Mary Lou Tayior, daugh- Jenes avenue, entertained at a ter of Mr. and Mrs. Percy Robert bridge party. The. happy couple Taylor of Kingston, whose mar- were presented with a Royal riage to Mr. Edward Ross Hinds, Doulton figurine. Mrs. Wallace son of Mr. and Mrs. Norman Al- was asisted by Mrs. Ralph Jewell Dery Binds of Oshawa, - takes and Mrs. Robert Holden. p ace Saturday, May 16, at North Mr. and Mrs Kerneth Smi : gia 2 F: erneth Smith, milter United Church. : Saguenay street, gave a party Mrs. C arles Babbit of Toronto and the future bride and bride- held a miscellaneous shower groom. received : k Ide Mrs. Avard Floyd, Adeline av- g.4o0ts . . irhen enue, entertained at a kitchen!" ric" joke per. Athol . shower, assisted by Mrs. Robert son. over thiol: street Galpin and Mrs. Edward Pow- A pretty many east, held a pantry shower, when ell Miss Taylor was also presented The Cubs of Pack 3C presented with a beautiful autumn oil paint- J D ng res » vere Serv their Akela with a beautiful serv- in ye Nahmee pre Served ing dish and warmer, and Mr. p : i day Harold Hawkshaw, chairman' of * my care of the p s3sing d : a f < i 3 urcnas 4 e- e roup comm ities oe he partment, General Motors, gave a pasaeuat ion of an see Te oC . gift of crystal and a cheque Rs a Ds ri Following the rehearsal tomor- , enterta row night the bridal party will be na thelr dangers of he dytine entertained at the home of Mr. bride's moth oP B€ and Mrs. Norman Albert Hinds. | club at a miscellaneous shower. ot 5 FUR Former neighbors of Westmore- T 1 M E land vere presented TV snack -- | Phone RA 5-2722 HOUSEHOLD HINT for FREE pick-up Allow butter, which is to be . i Fashion Uillage used in making a cake, to stand FUR SALON ascoe and Mrs. Arthur Beevor. who present- ed the bride-to-be with chrome kitchen equipment before uttempting to cream it. It will then cream quickly and eas- Son Gives Family Cause To Worry Over His Marriage Dear Mary Haworth: 1 am {happily married, the mother of two. Also I am the eldest of five, often looked to for advice. My youngest brother, Eddie, 20, pre- sents the problem. Eddie always has been some- thing of a problem -- moody, short - tempered, intolerant, He refused to finish high school and served three years with the Ma- rines, Since then he has lived with me. Recently he met Ann, who is still in school, and they plan to be married in Jupe, After a few dates, Ann told Fddie tearfully that she is mentally ill, and her well-to-do parents prohibit psy- chiatric help, as it would hurt them "professionally and so- cially." They live in a northern town and enjoy a good status, apparently. HOME LIFE UNHAPPY Her' problem, she says, Is being "in love" with another girl --with whom she has had a liai- son for some years, 'Currently they are trving to break this off, while remaining friends. 1 feel Ann 's using Eddie as a crutch, to prove herself normal and also to escape an unhappy heme and get help. (She hates her parents, she ays). And 1 don't think he is able to help her, even if she were his resnonsibil- ity, as he is unstable and imma- ture too. Further, for lack of schooling he has to accept mar- ginal labor jobs and his salary is meagre--so specialist fees are out of the question. Eddie has confided the story in mother, who in turn has discussed it with "me--but I am not sup- posed to know. Lately Eddie shows signs of wanting to confide in me, and I want to heln--but fear 1 may say the wrong things. I feel Ann's behavior is abnormal and may say so. JUST A PHASE Eddie tells mother that Ann's family doctor has said she is jus! going through a phase of normal development, that most girls zo through. But I am a nurse, and have yet to know any girls in col- lege dormitories or nurses' train- ing who formed such attach- ments. Knowing that mother knows the story, Ann has been bringing the other girl .to the house--as to 2 haven of normalcy though mother has no desire to become involved in group therapy. She is so upset she's beside herself From what I have written, can iyou determine how malignant the {situation is? B.C. MAKES LIFE HARD Dear B.C.: The situation illus- |trates Dr. Edmund Bergler's in- ] THE OSHAWA TIMES, Thursdey, Mey 14, 195% § Combines Chores | THE STARS SAY With Office Routine By ESTRELLITA DANVILLE, Que. (CP)--Jessie FOR TOMORROW Gorman combines an office ca-| Tact and understanding will be| reer with a profitable pastime as needed to get along with some a cattle breeder. persons now. Keep alert to the In trim, fashionable office ap- Moods of others, aud do your parel, she works as a stenog- part to foster harmony and good rapher for a company at nearby Will. Use good judgment in fi NS Tuning. the day. nancial matters, too, | terestingly doc theory {that neurotics have an affinity for one another. Like birds of a feather, they flock together. | Your brother Eddie seems geared for trouble; predisposed, as it were, to make life hard for himself unnecessarily. And Ann seems mare or less fixated in the same direction, As to the significance of Ann's involvement with the girl friend |--who is, vou say, "admittedly lattracted to' other girls too," --T think it probably means that Ann is more subnormal than abnor- mal, emotionally. | The trend of current events |with the girl friend still sticking along, even accompanying Ann to her fiance's home, suggests that the other girl is probably the aggressor (or was) in their long-time liaison, and Ann her vietir, who can't quite cope with her, INFANTILE BEHAVIOR In appealing to Eddie, and also your. mother, for sympathy and protective succor, Ann is hohav- ing with infantile ca~dor, naivete land poesibly instinctive cunning to trv to recruit help for her wer kness which is being ex- ploited by the girl friend. he picture is accurate, it suggests further that the other girl is be- having with confident deviate malice, in playing a cat-and- mouse game with Ann, her. prey, by pursuing her, cynically, into the new association with Eddie Girls who get involved with de- viate alliances usually have a personal history of cloudy ill-will towards parents (one or both) nd Ann's testimony fits the pat- tern. As for what to do, there is nothing the unguided layman can do to help these sick souls, who orhidly addicted to. nar- cissistic (or sexually subnormal) misconduct. Their arrested psy- chological development presents a problem for psychiatry and the clergy to solve--with the patients' full willing co-operation My advice is, consult a ps- chiatrist or psychiatric social worker, or family relations coun- sellor, for instructions on how to |help Eddie and Ann, if possible. M.H. SAVE YOURSELF MONEY Rebuild and Reupholster your old suites and odd chairs now! . ALL WORK GUARANTEED FOR § YEARS For @ FREE estimate -- coll JOHNNY POCH --- RA 8-645) "YOU GET THE BEST FOR LESS" MODERN UP 9262 SIMCOE ST. NORTH IF NO ANSWER § 2 Weeks Only! KITCHEN CHAIRS 5.00 OLSTERING RA 8-6451 PHONE RA 3-4131 At night, and 3 weekends, she FOR THE BIRTHDAY scrambles into old clothes to! If tom look after her 225-acre farm in your TON Je So Drthay: this Eastern Townships centre 80 very promising indeed. 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