ne, Ta St a -- pe os A-------- gC - * » =~ LR 4 » - =o i Lreren MARY HAWORTH MAIL - Dear Mary Haworth: | have married 13 years and have lovely daughters in grade . 1 also have a very nice d who is very fond of his ng hr done salaried work ever since we married, with the ex- 'geption of six months' leave for ach pregnancy. A husband's income is eight "thousand a year: and mine, five ' "thousand, We have a lovely home almost paid for, and very good furniture that we've bought to- gether. We have always pooled our earnings and taken an allow- ance. We enjoy the same types of recreation, have lots of friends, are always giving parties, and on the surface everyone thinks we are the happiest couple in town. But the fact is, 1 want to quit my job and stay home (I just crave to be a housewife) but my husband objects. LONG FOR MOTHERING The children just beg me to stay home; and bubble over with Raves And Sulks When Wife "Threatens To Quit Wage Earnin husband raves and sulks for week. We have a nice nest egg, and good insurance policies to cover the children's education. When they were kids, they were always put in nursery school. Just how much help does a man expect from his wife? At times I' find myself thinking of leaving and taking the children. Please give us the benefit of your views, C.G. 18 HE SELFISH? Dear C.G.: This is a case of gefting what you went after, and finding it not what vou want, IT think Your at husband's huffiness, the mere idea of having to sup- port his household in the style to which you've accustomed him, in- dicates that he feels inadequate to being a real helpmate, in the protector-provider role. As to 'why this shirker attitude, there are various possibilities. Maybe he is inherently a weak character, indisposed to endure the stress and strain of taking positively good care of other folks female adulation in formative, |years, And perhaps you felt, in [the urgency of courting days, |that your best chance of latching| jon to, and holding him, consisted | {in perpetuating the spoiling pro-| cess--by making the transition] linto marriage seem like 'child's play" for him. In any case, you've undermined his "family bead" potentials hy Use Equipment Wisely When Cleaning House By ELEANOR ROSS It's generally conceded that poor great-grandmoiher had one whale of a time when spring lin sh Well, maybe it was rough, But 5 spare a thought for today's homemaker who has to choose g her housecleaning products from among hundreds maybe even your I over-exp into his proper domain. That is, by, your own partly masculine con- tribution to team-effort. CHILDREN'S NEEDS In addition to your woman's work--as wife, mother, ambitious homemaker and tireless hostess-- you've been a substantial wage, earner. Gratuitously, I gather-- in the sense that you did it or- iginally on your own initiative, to achieve certain getting -- and spending--goals you had in mind.' And also, perhaps. to avoid the tedium of round-the-clock child- care when the youngsters were pre-school-age. Not you are stuck with the performance. The means have become the end--as usually hap- pens, Can you change this? Well, nothing ventured, nothing gained. If family needs can be frugally mel on your husband's income, and you can adjust contentedly to a drastically reduced budget, give fair warning to spouse and |employer, and quit your job. Don't hem-and-haw; just do if. If you hope to exert a signifi- cant influence for good in the cleaning came around First, she had to make ber own soap. She bad to heat wash water on the thousands of pastes, polishes and other varied concoctions, t PVEry 3 ic! aH r vid stove. And, in somc cases, she © Si 2 Thick teiis Het via had to send Junior out in the . ithoot hy an. vospbly fo woods to pick enough twig ab : to £1! fashion into a broom If she brought them all 'home, . she'd have to build an annex in order to store them! GOOD ADVICE Not that we aren't grateful for the fine work our manufacturers and scientists are ou "next" to them emotionally -- by being mother on-the-spot, M.H Mary Haworth counsels through her column, not by mai! or personal interview. Write her in care of this newspaper. poor lone homemaker gets a bit manufacturers constantly strive confused! give her house and i's furnish- afler a good going-cver with a piano once or twice a year suds and a careful hand. RELIABLE AND EFFECTIVE have constantly are doing for us. But sometimes the and, Gift to Glasgow id nated 250.000 to a new hall for C alth She simply wants toto. make their products even better, Add a mop, some sponges, : : cotns-and 10 Benefit Students you're fairly well-equipped. Students from the Common. M2! Keeping your home clean and wealth and from Colonial terri-| os attractive ghouldn't ~at holes in tories will benefit from a grant 2s a good cleaning. Where does some clean drying e start and with what? To help shed some light on ch perplexing problems, here's e best advice we have to offer: students at London University. is hoped that work on the will start next year, and that it will be opened in October, the budget. And it needn't. Clean- of 300,000 pounds, made by the ing with suds is about as in- Isaac Wolfson foundation for a expensive as any help you can pew hall of residence for about get. 150 men at Glasgow University. plastic-coated * There's an art to every! job, of Glasgow is the native city of a" course, no matter what cleaning Mr. Wolfson. an industrialist agent is used. And 'cleaning Whose foundation last year do- house is both an art and a sci- Ee ------- a ence. For some things you'll for cleaning tools. You can buy want a pall full of the stiffest, them in all sizes. wiih or with "driest. 'suds you can whip up out handles, Lint-frec cloths will --for 'the upholstery. your fine serve equally well. antiques, the piano, wooden ve- you can certainly take your netian blinds, books (they need pick of mops -- the spaghetti- a good swabbing too: lighting sponge type, the cotton fibre, the fixtures, picture frames. thick, flat sponge on a long han- SPONGES AS TOOLS dle. Any one of these mops will! art with plain, old - fashioned ids. Most of the things with hich we live today are wash- ble, Oar painted or alls, our fabrics, on floors and i furniture look vastly better the grand cleaning with stiff wlsy sponge. Even needs a basic The soaps and deicrgents we in such abundance today both reliable ard effective Phone RA 5-2722 Fashion. Village. FUR STORAGE TIME for FREE pick-up FUR SALON as good as they are, the Many women prefer sponges do a good job. PRG |. 47 j oP @ . ® h y bib . . A ad v4 2 happiness whey 1 tgke a day's in roufine adult fashion, hildren's adolescent" experience, [ wphrfira 1a Rasplii // 10g ~i) ~a SOL CU "hoe 7 leave occasionally. But whenever y N 4 Or maybe he was spoiled by it is now or never for getting LN AE ry C*'LIN!... 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