MARY HAWORTH'S MAIL | | Brother's Sudden Engagement To "Unknown' Dear Mary Haworth: My |brother Evan, 33, is marrying a ' {girl 19. Went steady for just a month, then popped the question. ' |Her family immediately made _ |arragements for the wedding-- ' Inext September. There is a difference in nation * |ality and religion, but the wed- ding will take place in his church and the children, if any, will be raised in his faith. We don't object to Ruth's re- ligion and nationality, but it both- 3 lers us the way her family has {made all the preparations with- , [out meeting our family. Evan is {ashamed of the section where we |live. But 7 am engaged to a West feliow and I'm not a, | Point ashamed of the neighborhood-- oi » o i ' " y j DOREEN, DOUGLAS AND PAMELA Children of Mr. and Mrs. Har-| old and Pamela Lynn. Doreen { the grandchildren of Mrs. Mer- : vin Dale and Mr. Heary old Braund, Park road south, |'who is 14 years old, Douglas, | Braund, Oshawa. : .are Doreen May, Douglas Har- | three, and Pamela, seven, are | CHILD GUIDANCE | It's a good medium for further- ing mental health. Nobody feels hurried, nobody works at the puzzle who doesn't want to so. And there is no show of com- petition. Each participant can enjoy the contribution of other Working On Jigsaw Puzzle Is Fun For Entire Family nh aly {2 Soon, her 14-year-old grand- SIMPLE DEVICE daughter joined in the activity.| I like to think of the value of | Before long a four . year - old|this simple play device not only standing beside his|for the entire family but also for "Here is a piece aged couples living alone, Special jigsaw puzzles may be made for the child from three to By G. CLEVELAND MYERS ~ After the roast was put into the oven, Grandma went to the| next room, sect up a card table grandson, d on it spread out 500 pieces mother, said, J ape jigsaw ee. p of the tree." A few minutes later -- |he went outdoors and his mother Photo by Hornsby | land he stays overnight, as his folks live upstate. Evan had been going with an- other giri off and on for seven years, but they never mentioned marriage, he says. Grace now is * Upsets Sister the pie of Evan's romances, until he met Ruth. And because the family got no opportunity to mix into this latest attraction, in the early rounds, it has surprisingly outdis- jzheed their belated grab for con- trol. Unconsciously you are fighting Mom's battle for possession of her baby son, I think You echo her sentiments of concern, with- out understanding her deep moti- vation, or recognizing the "why" of your ditto. Evan has met his fate, it seems--the giri who can change him from an apron string bach- elor son into an eager bride groom; and this without even trying. Ruth had been engaged twice before, you say--which probably explains why Evan is letting no grass grow under his feet. He daren't procrastinate about tying the knot, lest she think again, 25, the same religion and nation _ ality as we--=and has stuck to |Evan through thick and thin. She |is quite upset about Ruth, and |says she'll make Evan wish he was never born, ALL LIKED GRACE We all had liked Grace and can understand how upset she feels. Evan had broken away from her many times, but would weaken and go back when she called. Our family feeis that he should go 0 steady with Ruth a few months| longer, to make sure what really wants. When 'some of the stardust is out of his eyes, maybe then he can think clearly. Ruth knows all the answers and has been engaged twice be- fore. She has a beautiful face but is rather heavy. She and Evan and look further, and jilt him too. {STORIES MIXED UP In one breath you blame Ruth's |tolks for going ahead with wed- |ding plans, before consulting your family. In the next breath, |[you mention that Evan is ashamed of your home address. | | This indirect association of ideas | suggests that he has been stalling |off a two-family meeting. And I surmise that he's been manoeu- robe -- from this Printed Pattern, [MAY NEED REPAIRS Vary the neckline from mandarin | |vring for time, to keep you all) [from freedom sabotaging his break-for-|coliar from apron strings, |«eeves in three versions, Easy to NEW WARDROBE | By ANNE ADAMS Make a wonderful new ward- to low squared beauty; whiie his purpose was formulat-|sew, joy to wear -- pure flattery ing {for your figure. Actually, according to. tradi- Printed Pattern 4605: Misses' tions of good form, the man's qo 10, 12, 14, 16, 18. Size 16 | parents are supposed to take the lead, in paying a courtesy call {requires 3% yards 35-inch. Printed directions on each pat- vpon the girl's family, once an|,.rn part Easier, accurate. engagement is in-the-works. So ol met professionally in December your folks have sat back amd| (both are singers), but didn't date until April. In May he tells |waited on this score, |vour error. Send FORTY CENTS (40c) in coins (stamps cannot be accept- that was| 4) for this pattern. Please print plainly SIZE, NAME, ADDRESS, THE DAILY TIMES-GAZETTE, Tuesday, July 22, 1958 § By ELANOR ROSS At this comparatively late date say the real estate agents, there's a belated demand for summer cottages. Actually, & summer cottage is more than a physical retreat. It's a psychological turnabout. Away from the city, you dress more casually, move more leis- urely and to further the. psycho- logicai break, your country-home decorating should be completely different from your city surround- ings. DIRECT CONTRAST Choose decorating "colors that are in direct contrast to your city decor. Furniture lines should have no resemblance to the more sophisticated town pieces. And, of course, you'll use bedspreads and fabrics that wash and drip-dry, table mats that can be sponged in a jiffy and have floors that require a minimum of upkeep. If the budget permits, furniture in the "'escape' jouse should be of summer-type -- wood, metal, canvas, wrought - iron -- rather than castoffs from the city that Get The 'Escape' House | In Shape For Summer look by applying a stain. Your paint dealer will advise you as to the right type of stain to use type of wgod from which the furn- iture is made. Tough, durable ls, in a] |that glow at night. Touehes of luminescent paint on chairs left on the lawn, on back steps, and in other night hazard spots cam protect the family from. bruises or even serious accidents. Using bright-hued enamel to in- dicate danger spots on the mov- ing parts of power mowers or for the desired effect and for the Power saws is an excellent idea, wo, especially if children in the household are at the inquisitive stage. wide range of colors, are now available in aerosol spray cans. Clear finishes--ideal for use, on! rattan or wicker--also come in these containers. Metal furniture requires spe- cial attention if rust is in evi-| dence. Awnings, canvas chairs| and sun décks can be brightened with color, using special canvas paints Painting stripes is fun 2nd; easy, too, if masking tape is used for obtaining straight lines. i EASY TO APPLY To paint the interior walls of your summer place, there are of a nice, well-furnished summer | home, with its own swimming, pool, keep it in tiptop condition | with special coatings devised for | are reminders of the daily rou- six out of thin wood or thick card-|us they are engaged and she is| jt is too bad about Grace's dis- (cpyLE NU 2 {boa v e gy wearing his ring. We met her last |, i i [STYLE NUMBER. UR GUEST JOINED IN board Pugin Mow Thuis. Th week for the first time. Ee ere Send order Wo ANNE ADAYS: A guest joined in and worked and saw out puzzies for younger I love Evan and wish him the| ng the price of having tried to gare o Ve | BE Imes Haze , at the puzzle, keeping at it until| children As they invent the pat-|best. My other four brothers aillcourt Evan under his parents' Pattern Dept, Ds 1awa, i dinner was ready, Meantime, the tern they acquire good creative married different nationalities, |nose. Much as you may have grandmother went off to finish skills and all but one are happy. The|jiked her, in a patronizing way. [preparing the meal. |PARENTS' QUESTIONS bad marriage was based on too|for looking after him--still, you That evening, while a card] Q. Please name a good recent WALL PARASOL | on tie ses ir HOUSEHOLD HINT In icecream. season, it's a little acquaintance--and I don't|chewed her to pieces, apprais-|good idea to remind the young- |game was intesrupted so that book for youths who are entering the mother could round up the high school. children, the grandmother used| A «So you're in High School" |the interlude to work at the by Mary F. Detjen and Ervin W. |--and not too eager to go--each cy, ) want Evan to make the same (ingly, in his hearing, no doubt, |sters mistake. But he says he's sure.| hus neutraiizing his feeling for |shoul What is your opinion?--W.R. y DEAR W.R.: As I get the pic-| |puzzle table. On their way to bed |Fatjen." (McGraw-Hill Publishing! ture, the family probably always | do his own marrying, for better bas had too much of a finger in ther. For advice -- let your brother lor for worse.--M.H. as out. This prevents longer. of the children p d to add a that ice-cream containers d .be kept, closed or wrap- in the refrigerator as well loss of moisture and keeps the ice-cream tine. | But if you do use city castoffs, | {disguise them. A thorough wash-| this purpose. | There are also special paints ng, a coating of colorful enamel | land the possible addition of {bright cushions, can work magic. If the furniture is not in too |good shape, you may have to do {some sanding and repairing of holies ana cracks before you ap- ply the new color. 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