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Hd mcr St ---- rs MARY HAWORTH MAIL Dominated By Grandmother - Girl Finds Herself Friendless Dear Mary Haworth: My prob-|and girls; and opportunities, gra-| vous problem But it is construc. bolster their courage and self- the boy, in the instance menting bitter ingrown and defeatist |intp reckless mistakes, in ques tioned. Evidently she has a cer-|in feelng. ting for maturity. tain conceit about 'throwing her| As tor how to bear your pres-, Whom can you call upon? Your weight around. Maybe she feels|ent frustration -- you need a re- pastor? The family doctor? A Ishe has a family reputation for|liable confidante. preferably an|sympathetic Sunday School {being bossy. and rather enjoys|older person, to help you keep a|teacherb A motherly neighbor? A living up to it. prudent pace, during the next few psychologist on the staff of your | As you sagely surmise, it isn't Years. All adolescents is {nearest Family Service agency? likely that an outsider can con. |tyPe of safely vale. hen deals Explore So ee along i ing wi ome culties -- ese lines; and don't 90K- | Firibate directly to the solution of {Dg until you've found a real lem is that, being an orphan, I've|ciously provided by your' guard-|tive to spell out your dismay and confidence and hope for the fu- h~lper, with wisdom to share. - always lived with my grand parents, who are very strict -- "lians, fo be a hostess and guest|get am objective look at it--as without self-consciousness. Your you sre doing here. This is an my grandmother in "particular;|o onimother was and grandfather is complet dominated by her ... As a child I told myself that things would change as I grew | older. But now I am 18 and never {have had a boy friend or dates lor even close friends -- I've never been allowed to go |anywhere unless an older rela- |tive is along. And grandmother |makes sure that these relatives; |feel as she does... 1 let myself believe that she |does this only for my good. But now that I find myself friendless, I wonder. I used to dislike girls [who saw their boy friends on the sly: now 1 envy their fleeting hap- piness... | { ||CALLED DOWN | | To give you the picture: Once ? |T went to a family party with my g | grandmother because, as she put ; CW it 'you should learn to be so-! i ciable." There 1 started dancing % £4 with a boy who sce med very nice: : and grandmother was very gay : {| until she noticed that I was danc- ; Sa SC. | ing mostly with him. 4 Immediately she called me . . . over, asked what we were talking uick Dip For Discarded Bottles si tnt'viy"s vas aman x much with him. I explained that wi |he was the only boy my age and And You Have Ori inal Vases {seemed nice, In front of everyone d {she told the boy that he wasn't Most households have a dusty(bottle by the neck -- as close to 0 dance Sau Me agaln, Je ieft collection of nicely shaped|the top as possible -- dip it co him again bottles which no one has the down into'the water. The bottle "| am very lonely and feel there heart to throw away. will pick up the colors on top of can be no happiness for me be- Here's a way to swirl them inthe water .as it goes down, s0/ cause of this I'm afraid of being color to create highly decorative make sure a smooth, continuous forced into marriage as a means vases or lamp bases. All you motion is used -- don't stop half of escape. Every Sunday I pray need are odds and ends of left: way. Give it a twist as you dip for strength to go on. and ask over enamel. it to create a swirl of color. God to show me the right road. First, give the bottle a base As each bottle is dipped, extra I've kept these feelings inside and coat of flat paint -- creamy beige paint will have to be added to no one suspects. I've never is good. When the paint has the pail. But don't use too much sought advice before, and don't dried over night, take a good paint at once. Very small drops expect you'll have the answer-- sized pail and fill it with wa or|do the trick. When dry, give the but getting this off my chest may to about four inches from the surface a lustre with wax and help, - E. B top. Now, dribble a few drops polish. BEHIND TIMES of each of several colors of quick-| You'll find you have a pattern' Dear E. B.: Your grand- drying enamel on top of the of color which could never be mother's heavy handed manage- water. The enamel will float and produced by brush, or, for thal ment of your rearing is about 100 the drops can be flattened out on matter; ever be repeated. If you years behind the times. But you the surface by blowing on them decorate bottles for your friends, seem to be a pretty sound person gently. vou can assure them that the de- in spite of it. Maybe the fact that Now comes the fun. Holding the signs are guaranteed excl sive! |you've been well loved at home, if not wisely helped, has kept vou lin fairly good shape, psycho- logically. In beginning to feel rebellious, and to question the sense of your| | grandmother's bossiness--and to {let off steam, as in this letter-- you are running trué to the nor- ture, so that they won't veer off'M, H, rude and of- ise in good / ' ays : . €1¥ | ficious, in a show - oft i yo prs ely Detter" than British Woman Digs For Relics calling you down and lecturing brooding. It keeps you from get- a) 'In Remote Parts Of India LONDON (CP) -- Few people|for British Archaeology in Lon- have the opportunity to follow up don. A smartly clad and neatly (an i inative notion, especially | coiffured brunette, she supervises [if it means travelling to the wilds the administration and public of Pakistan. © |schemes organized by the coun- | But Beatrice de Cardi, a Brit-|cil, co-ordinating body of British ish woman who worked for a archaeological societies. |British government department to MAKE REPORT in Karachi in 1947, can claim to| past July, Miss de Cardi re- be one of the lucky ones. For she turned to Baluchistan to follow up § not only followed through a plan|her Quetta findings. In four |to search for prehistoric sites in|months she covered 16,000 miles, |the Baluchistan area of Pakistan, travelling by car, camel and on| [but she is the only woman to horseback. Now she is working on have carried out excavations in a report for the Pakistan govern-| |that part of the world. | ment. READ OF FIND Sleeping in tents and digging, The idea came to Miss de Cardi for oS ric relics under a after she read an article about|seorching sun and in dust storms prehistoric pottery found in the haven't dampened Miss de! Quetta region of northern Balu Cardi's enthusiasm. She is quick chistan. to pass off a discussion of the "I had always been deeply in-| hazards of exploring by enthus- terested in archaeology," saysiing about a historic find. Miss de Cardi, 'and the article] Cooking on expeditions is the fired my imagination to such anigniy thing that worries her. When extent I became intent on chasing she goes to the wilds it means up some sites for myself." [taking dehydrated food and a When her annual leave came cook--and it's difficult to find one round she borrowed a jeep and|who will go. driver and went off to the wilds| An unlikely - looking explorer where she discovered a number who enjoys wearing high-heels, of early occupation mounds that tailored clothes and nail varnish aroused the interest of the Pakis- in town, Miss de Cardi applies) tan government. femininity to archaeology. Later, Miss de Cardi"s job took, She takes cosmetics on her her to Lahore and from there she trips and likes to wear summer used her leave to investigate un- dresses when excavating. "I explored parts of Afghanistan. don't believe in slacks for these] | This trip lasted five weeks but jobs," she says firmly. "But I do| proved rather disappointing, since wear Baluch pants when I ride she only found one site. |a camel or a horse. These are In 1949, Miss de Cardi became garments worn by the nationals assistant secretary of the Council in Baluchistan." 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