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MARY HAWORTH MAIL LRA. ACTIVE 2 DIE IN CRASH | BELFAST (AP) -- The site} ARCOLA, Sask, (CP) = Two lawed Irish Republican Army men were killed Thursday when -- Dear Mary Haworth: My mother, 70, is an alcoholic who {has been drinking for 30 years and today is living oh alcohol. : ~-- |8he is alone in an old house since © dad's death some years ago and is going downhill rapidly, THE DAILY TIMES-GAZETTE, Saturday, September 26, 1957 WOMAN'S WORLD The house has become a filthy hovel; she won't answer the door or telephone, and has no friends. {willing to fib for her boss? Relatives have stopped trying to help. 1 live 1,000 miles away, having deliberately put this distance be- tween us, 20 years ago, to shield my family from the heartache 1 suffered as a child, To this day my children don't know that my mother is an alcoholic, Good Secretary Fibs For Boss But He Must Not Lie To Her Should the ideal secretary be pard and his wife, Ann Marshall, Practically all of her life was Son Seeks Help For Mother | An Alcoholic For 30 Years [kept up it, terror campaign early a J3 Piper Cub crashed ino a today by blowing up.a brick cus- (field half a mile west of here, {toms office near Newtown Butler, Dead are Jack Campbell, 80, Ar {County Fermanagh. An officer on |eola lawyer and pilot of the plane |duty left the building just before and Harvey McEachen, 33, an {the blast occurred. o one Was |ofl worker here. Arcola is 140 baffled; it has been a terrible the blast occurred, No onc was!miles southeast of Regina. thing In all our lives--but hers, blasted a year ago. most of all, Any counsel you can < HE g . give me will be greatly apprec- yoted effort to try to help her? lated. LM. If so, take her ease fo the Sounds KED courts ~-- a procedure proba EFFOR T brocsu letter, here Preferable to letting things ari, | |condensed, you review your of- forts to find help for your mother. You've read many books and ar-| ticles on alcoholism; you've at- tended AA meetings; have en- listed the ald of the parish priest to call on your mother; and have had her in rest homes, all to no avail, Patricia Juck PIANO "oma Dial RA 5-4587 (Mary Haworth counsels OSHAWA through her column not by mail | or personal interview. Write her | in care of this newspaper). J She refuses to join AA. The priest has stopped calling. Even |the family doctor no longer stops Have you tried if they're simply spent around Elora except for a " sald Miss Sheila few years in Morden, Yorkton who is ideall and Winnipeg in Western Canada, "Oh yes little white lies,' Ward of Montreal, in several ways. "You have to|8 Over the years I've taken many trips, and much time off from|PY» 88 he used to. And as soon business, to try to help her, And, 88 She emerges jrom Ty iy he was a dressmaker by trade, although' my wife never com. home, she turns to a drink aga 8, du that to get wim off the hook. A SPECIAL treat for horse | Plains, 1 feel sure she resents the eh wl, hole oe) od pod "hat lovers at the Western Hore] WORE sent thus, unclemly, | must be endured. Also there is a wouldn't be good teamwork _and | Show on Saturday at the Duncan LIVES CLOUDED {hard saying: Desperate diseases he shouldn't tell her any: How Farm in Eramosa township was| Although I won't ask mother to require desperate remedies. So can she help him if he doesn't "Dale", a most talented animal jjve with us, I have asked her to take your choice of these alter. tell her the truth?" belonging to Mrs, Hazel Lightle take a small apartment nearby, natives, as a guide to action. Miss Ward. who Is. 34. blond of Acton, Few of the spectators so that I may watch over her. | pA NFU STEP Miss Ward, who Is 34, blonde, have probably ever seen such &|Byt she refuses and won't live ! L STE pretty and blue-eyed, last July remarkable performance as this with her sister either, | Understandably, it is a painful won an internationsl gontuat Li clever horse put on, I've investigated the handling Step -- requiring great courage secreiaries Sensory hid e Ex- i of alcoholics in this (her) juris- and firmness of character--to set |ecutive Furniture Guile A BURSARY amounting 10 diclion. And I am told that the procedures in motion that might | Secretary for R. A, Neale, a $1750 for study In physical ther- only procedure in a case of the commit a demoralized parent to ? | vice-president of Canadair Lim- apy has been awarded to a kind is that she be committed to|? custodial hospital. But some- |? ited, she Is quite a girl Prince Albert student. Sharon the county hospital as an aleo- times it is the only truly respon- She holds a degree In adverts Demaine will study physical holic, and then examined by three sible course open to those who li g and merchandising from Mc- therapy at the University of Al- | doctors who present their findings | Wish to save the patient from ill University. She has been a berta, according to Hon. J. W.lto a judge, If she is found to be total wreckage. : |corporal in the RCAF. She can Erb, alcoholics aren'! |sing, play the piano and violin lic he provincial minister of pub- menfally deranged, she is then However, aith committed to a state custodial mentally ill, as a rule. They are She likes skiing, tennis and swim hospital; or released, if found sick In a different way---a way ming MISS RUTH Runnells, Hudson, sane that eludes diagnosis, Unless, it She 1s an inventive cook, She Que., has accepted (he position| I doubt that a mental hospital may be, that Dr. E. M, Abraham. solution of alcoholism and son and A. W. Pezet's book Body, can speak and write English and of Handicraft Technician on the is any French and can also get along in staff of the Quebec Women's In- have refused to take this action, Mind and Sugar (Holt) is on the Norwegian, Danish, German, stitute, Miss Runnells is an honor The problem has me completely right track--in remarking a con- (Itallan and Spanish. She can graduate of the 1956 Handicraft -- nection between blood sugar The exciting new floral fragrance y YARDLEY Let thé intimate charm of Freesia envelop you in its feminine allure. This newest, rare scent from fragrance-famous Yardley of London is introduced in a captivating Cologne and a delightfully sheer Tale Powder. write speeches Course at Macdonald College, starvation and compulsive drink- Here are a few tips she has winning the prize for General ing. Likely there is a chemical for girls who aspire to be ideal Proficiency, Since graduation she |or glandular disorder at the root secretaries has been working the Occupa- of alcoholic addiction, plus weak- 1, Dress neatly. Don't wear tional Therapy Department, ness of character that buckles un- jangling, gingerbread jewelry Mount Sinal Sanitarium, Ste, der special stress. | 2, Take as much as possible of Agathe. A stronger character, taxed by | your boss's work load off his : : ; the same physical defect, tends to shoulders. You should be able to MRS, MARGARET McIntosh of Sask., 89-year-old give it a battle, searching inde- {handle 50 per cent of his routine Whitewood, correspondence without taking pioneer, made her first frip west [dictation by stage coach In 1885. She has 3. Stay on good teyms with the lust travelled by air from Regina people you work with, to this northern Alberta region, 4. Leave your personal troubles remarking on the absence of ruts, | and grievances at home, Don't badger holes and lame horses. | bring them to the office, THE FAMILY Service Assocla-| THE ASSOCIATE director of tion, with the co-operation of the {the Foster Parents Plan Incor- Kiwanis Club, is helping Moose porated Monday called for Jaw youngsters with their back. |"'countless more" Canadian and to-school problems. Mrs. T. M. fatigably for recovery. And it is the vallant people who land even- tually in AA, whereas the funda- mentally less able sort succumb {to their handicap and even cling to it, Your mother may represent {this fraller category. PROBABLY SENILE In addition to being alcoholic, your mother probably is senile |also nowadays -- since inveter- |ately immature characters tend to regress markedly with age. {Thus she might feel intolerably of- fended, and might react with {l- {logical venom, If forcibly taken in hand for a diagnostic session and committed, if onlv tran |siently, to a custodial situation, {She might reckon you her enemy thereafter, Are you prepared to bear that wound in relationship? In a de- frecaia ~ COLOONE $1.25 & $1.78, TALC POWDER $1.00 a bil dain Ladies! Treat Your Home To New Bea e CRUSH ~" RESISTANT 04 -- | VE o LONG ~N. x WEARING bi #4! SIZES 0416 4515 By ANNE ADAMS Teens! Dress or jumper plus blouse ~~ a back-to-school ward: | robe in one Printed Pattern, Easy | to sew, too -- such little home. | work puts you at the head of the class In fashion-ability. Printed Pattern' 4515: Teen Sizes 10, 12, 14, 16. Size 12 Jumper takes 3 yards 89-inch; | blouses takes 1% yards. Printed directions oh each pat. tern part. Easler, accurate, | Send FIFTY CENTS (80c) in coins (stamps cannot be accept. for this pattern. Please print | inly SIZE, NAME, ADDRESS, | STYLE NUMBER Send order to ANNE ADAMS care of The Daily Times-Gazette, Pattern Dept., Oshawa, Ontario, 26 24 200 . = 111 165 50 35 0 360 BIG FAMILY 35 nT ha By ALICE BROOKS 3 yon: 3 | » xe ANN This lovely pineapple PE ESSA will give you choice large z small accessories. The square 6 inches iu No. 50 cotton to go on that big double date. | man. made fibre that com. able, they drip dry and need that the 20-year-old organization tion was buying school books for date on campus -- these (wo -- The organization has led 600,000 MRS, MARIANGE Roy, 45, of KEEP YOUNG DIET with neatly | 4 MISS EMMA Sheppard reached expect to leave St. Mary's Hos. {born, She is the last surviving my wife comes home then we can To be able to slp smoothly into| goal. Happy slimming! e and Fanny, They were the boys and two girls died as chil. [least 10 pounds younger Thursday {of the dramatic type but they| months, In fact, a good break late! veloped under the direction ofigcrambled egg with second 100 [no oho ative In financial appointments and strike out for | on averages, the standard num-|Jelly, 1 rounded' tsp sonal relationships. Strong tes, oo.yo careful to avold extrava: In the medium size gange there «cream of chicken soup, 1 110 pects between next June and Sep.| Who are creatively inclined will [ls misses' and 36 is women's, pu gerine and imagination but many incline| Personal matters for many mon. |which you can wear a certain Energy Plckup ment Maintain a down-to-earth atti 8 [ton weight limit on your present cup (made with lean meat only) yield to the emotionalism preval- roundings. Both, therefore, should Iyou can almost wear your smal. '% 0% roquefort cheese, 2-3|cogtly errors, WOODSTOCK. Ont. (CP) CONTROL SIZE lon 0 while your job and financial of- has 17 grandchildren, 35 great- and control your dress size, In the ------ ; ot INSIDE ouT OR OUTSIDE IN American foster parents to help Sutherland, office secretary, re- Whe football game, | ther it be a football 5 bines so happily with wool or | nio' 0 fight touch with a cool 'helps children in Belgium, youngsters whose parents were | als will be sure to charm foster parents to help 76,000 Timmins, gave birth to her 20th | {7 1 1 . 3 A CHOI CROCHET Aim At A Younger Dress Size the 94th milestone on her life's [pital Sunday. "I have no | member of a family of eight, five get together to think of some- {a dress a size smaller wili boost| Tomorrow: © easy way ou (children of the late Jacob Shep- dren. The number of pounds between Breakfast in should be stimulating enough to next month could provide the im- Mansfield Lonie of the US. de agg white (Scrambled in top of matters, however, and, especially pew goals. ber of pounds between dress sizes Coffe, clear rR oy At, p cemented then, could prove high and speculation during No- are 12 to 14 pounds, and in small cup (made with skim milk) tember find the first six months of 1958 there are 16 pounds from one size Hot beverage, clear toward extremes especially of ths to come. Ope word of admon- size dress. However, the number Skim milk or buttermilk A child born on this day will be tude on Monday size. If you are straining the Mixed green salad large, ent under present lunor aspects. be kept on a high plane hy . thsp HE 3 s ler size, perhaps 6 to 8 pounds FOR THE BIRTHDAY Five generations were present x . Hot beverage, clear Now about measurements: The 870 fairs may seem to be lagging as grandchildren and 15 great-great: | is women's sizes, up to 38, there is THE STARS SAY and give a maximum of good children in many parts of the poried to the FSA board of direc-| lovely fall | | a ride along the lovely worsted to give co-eds clothes | jron to look bright as new France, Greece, Italy, Western unable to afford them. 1 r beaus in brightly colored children, child, The baby girl and its, {Journey on Wednesday, in the what to name this one," her hus By Whittling The Waistline y ' g boys and three girls, Fred, Mar- thing new." Fifteen children, six {your morale and help you wok of exercise, sizes has been established In a Tomato juice, 4 oz., with encourage you to try and better petus you need to forget past dis- partment of commerce, Accord double boiler with no fat) fon -- id during the next three months try | oo dealings, however, follow is 10 to 16, depending on the size Calories valuable in the future, Romance | 8ance pod Those of you |gizes only 10 pounds from one Cube steak (3 oz.) on A child born on this day will be highly inspiring and, for all, the, |to the next smaller . . . or larger Calories mood. |ition, however: Don't risk friend. of pounds to your next size de Dinner Stick to routine easily swayed through the emo schedules In general seams, then you would have to topped with Don't make hasty decisions, eit aa, haha if es W 4 Dieter's French dressing) off the right places will let you If Monday is your birthday, when Mrs. Sarah Nunn cel! Calorie alories 1015 of now, there will be a definite grandchildren a 2 Inch difference in each of the By ESTRELLITA Installed WALL T0 WALL With Underlay PER SQ. YD. \ Modern Textured Tweed Rug in five decorator colors of Antique Green, Honey Beige, Beigetone, Old Gold, Agate. These lovely rugs come in 27'--9 foot and 12 foot. These are also available in rug sizes !! Dressed, waiting and ready | yod and aavic fis, the looks. Hand or machine wash- world, Mrs, Leonore Sorin sald tors Thursday that the associa. | country - side or f adhe that take a minimum of care | again. |Germany, Korea and Viet Nam, | plaid reversible akiris om mother are both doing well, They same house in which she was band sald. "IT have to wait till | 4 By IDA JEAN KAIN [work enthusiastically toward your |ghal Frank, Herbert, Henry, boys and nine girls are alive. Two 2 |and help you lock and fee! at KEEP YOUNG DIET | These improvements may not be uptrend within the next six | scientific system of sizing de: lemon wedge plat or 'To, ug AT panes hin ice font to improve all business and per the conservative path, and be es. range. Lunch and travel will be under good as. ember and March |size to the next, Above size 16 Thin slice toast endowed with fine intelligence stars forecast great happiness in There is a weight range within DAY AFTER TOMORROW |ghips through financial involve. | pends on how close you are to the| Beef stew with vegetables, 1 250 and don't tions and influenced by his sur. take off the full amount. But if Roguefort cheese dressing 80 inex Carelessness could lead to fit smoothly into a younger size Cantaloupe, % medium me- vour horoscope indicates that, ebrated her 92nd birthday. She | square bust, waist and hip measurement cq100i06 for day definite piidreg, = Pattern 7260: crochet directions basic measurements from one for 6-inch syuare. Make small size to the next. In misses' dres leces for gifts, a cloth or spread ses, between sizes there is a 1% lor yourself, inch difference in the bust, waist FOR TOMORROW Send THIRTY - FIVE CENTS fd abdominal extension, and a] Sunday's horoscope promises (coins) for this pattern hy inch difference in the hip meas an enjoyable day. Especially fa. cannot be accepted) to The Daily urement, . vored are social pursuits, outdoor | Times « Gazette, Household Arts Take this tip--concentrate on interests and group activities! Dept., Oshawa, Ontario Print wals! whittling, Dresses are fit: generally. Try to get both rest plainly NAME, ADDRESS, PAT- ted at the waist and consequently and relaxation. | TERN NUMBER there is a minimum of leeway on, If tomorrow Is your birthday, | A bonus for our readers: two that measurement Here's theyour horoscope Indicates that FREE patterns, printed in our|score: Perfect waist measure while, at the moment, you may new Alice Brooks Needlecraft ment for size 12 is 25%; size 14, he irked at slow-moving job and Book for 1957! Plus a varlety of (27; size 16, 28%; size 18, 30% in- financial progress, it would not designs to order -- crochet, knit- ches be well to make any drastic ting, embroidery, huck weaving, Now you know where you stand. changes in plans and procedures toys, dolls, others, Send 25 cents Figure out how many pounds and that are basically sound. 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