MARY HAWORTH MAIL Woman Concerned About Rift Between Herself And Daughter Dear Mary Haworth: 1 am a year. Meanwhile the tension does mother and mother-in-law, andinot lessen. andmother of two beautiful] So I told Grace this year that tle girls. The problem Is u ten-|I never will return for a visit, slon that exists between my|She seemed hurt and was sorry. daughter and me. T would apprec-| How are we to solve the fate your advice and help, lem? BP. Before her marriage, Grace FAVORS HEALING worked evenings until pm, and| pea. BP: Understanding is we were happy and eongeutal Sn half of cure, in dealing with a til she met George--whom she, hiem of mutual bad feeling. married, subsequently. And, as of now, you don't under- George began to pick her upiytang. or at least aren't facing-- after work every night, and ollie nature of the difficulty with ten she wasn't home before 3 a.m. | your daughter, Thess Jats lous loys in As I see the picture, you have gros AR she got in, And as 1/2 dictaterial temperament, and explained to George our nelghbor- hd habit to tell those close " ty,|to you how ve Bood wasn he sales In he S15. gla to their bet interes, until the night iatch was on the| trom your view. doo This bossy supervisory attitude may be constructive and justified up to a point, in dealng with children and shaping their ac- tions, But as young people grow up, and reach the age when life requires them to move out on their own--when they. should be maturing in the eapacity to make sound decisions--Iit behooves par- ents to work out a new method of r. Often I put the latch on and dropped off to sleep, and didn't get up to let Grace in--so she would spend the night with gir] friends. Later I would explain my reasons and urge her to get home earlier. She would argue that her nights and days were in reverse and she could sleep until midday. WIDENED RIFT "Influencing." But I had to get up at 6 am.| ynfortunately, you failed to to get the housework done andigeepn abreast of the times in this omen 10 THE DAILY TIMES-GAZETTE, Friday, September 27, 1957 KEEP YOUNG DIET By IDA JEAN KAIN Grab hold of an exciting new Asaph [your 1 It's enth ideas and effort that restore energy and vitality, On a scientifically planned way look and feel the way you did 10 for they drain your energy, from the joy of living. The protective foods provide bargains in calories. By furnish- ing their full share of the body replenishing nutrients, the cal- Faddy Diets Drain Your Energy By Skimping On Nutrition Vegetables, fruits, In middle age and older we u of eating you can slim down 10) less fuel, but no less of the essen. |tial nutrients. All this makes it or 20 pounds ago. You get nO|gp.iingly clear why our food such rewards from faddy diets, |, pits must be changed so as to tak SOUT in olude needed protection with- the disposition and take away|,. axcess calories. Faddy diets |are aging for they fall far short of meeting ments, nutrition KEEP YOUNG DIET Breakfast milk and whole grains are all calorie bar- idea and you can put life into|8ains, for they are nature's best iasm, | sources of vitamins and minerals, |The nutrition weak spots in the diét are apt to be in milk and green leafy vegetables, require- se " By ALICE BROOKS Everyone will admire this pert puppy as he protects your chair. You'll find the filet crochet easy By ELEANOR ROSS The admonition to watch one's step 1s just as important indoors as out, Outdoors, of coures, one keeps the warning in mind to avoid treacherous tumbles, At home, the admonition should be a re- How Long Since Repairs Were Made On Stairway? have to withstand the attacks of the elements, but other problems. heatin, depending upon the type of fuel Cellar steps, of course, do not they present In winter, your visits to your unit increase in mumber, the worn concerned, you do not have W protect it against the rigors of the weather, nor do you have to paint it in contrasting colors, You do, however, wish to keep # ¢|smooth and beautiful with the type of finish that will enhance its appearance, If the treads have been var- nished or shellacked, touch up laces carefully, When , 80 over the entire minder to focus our af'ention on both the apppearance and 'condi- tion of the stairways in the house, The main indoor staircase, the porch and cellar steps all require frequent inspection, Before autumn 'storms begin, give careful attention to the steps that lead to your porch or en- irance, PROTECTED WITH PAINT If the steps are of wood, make sure that they are adequately protected with paint that moisture has not rotted away the steps themselves or their sup- ports, This happens more often than you think! If the paint has worn thin or blistered in spots, it's high time to repair the damage. Before recoating the steps with porch - and - deck enamel, make sure they are sanded smooth and that they are clean and dry. If it has been necessary to replace any part with new lumber, the wood should be primed and al- lowed to dry thoroughly before installation, After Installation, JURY & LOVELL PRESCRIPTION CHEMISTS 8 King St. E. RA 3-2245 15 KING ST. W. 317 BROCK ST. 8. "WE SEND MEDICINES TO OSHAWA BOWMANVILLE WHITBY EUROPE -- POSTAGE FREE" 530 Simcoe St. S. RA 5.3546 MA 3.5778 MO 8-2338 travel 10 miles by bus to my job; respect, when your daughterories In the protective foods do and often 1 wasn't home before started going steady with George.|double 'duty they repalr and dat ond very tired, on winter| yoy tried to treat her as usual-- regulate as well as furnish fuel nights, in the "mother knows best" tra-|for energy. Wohl Wo sai , Sirec-] Now, after some years' mar- dition, She rebelled on the score Protein, calcium and iron head Soast, 1, Thin Wee 2 Hons, are lor 12 X18 nex riage, Grace still holds it against|of hours, and you locked horns|the list of vital nutrients which(Cofee' clear o/string, Easy pick-up work me for "locking her out of her|yith her by barring the dgor help to keep the body young. Or|fotal calories 180/ Send THIRTY . FIVE CENTS own home --those times when I'when she falled to obey your turn this around . , . with ad:| Y.unch | (coins) for this pattern (stampe put the night latch on. She knows| curfew, equate amounts of these essen: y bl amen {cannot be accepted) to The Daily too that I disapproved of the mar- UNIFY INNER CONFLICT tials, the body withers, | Vegetable soup, 1 cup Times - Gazette, Household Arts riage, and the smoking habits, : Cottage cheese and pineap- Dept, Oshawa, Ontario. Print ete,, she picked up from George,| But more was involved than MORE EMPHASIS ple salad : 80| plainly NAME, ADDRESS, PAT- He doesn't bring her to visit me; simply the hours she kept, You| There is increasing emphasis| (2 tbsp. cottage cheese, 1 TERN NUMBER. i each/made a big Issue of this, to beat/on the importance of having a| small slice pineapple) A bonus for our readers: two -- [the courtship over the head, fig: complete protein food at each of/ Thin slice toast, lightly but- FREE patterns, printed in our uratively speaking. You 'didn't|the 'three meals, Plan each meal| tered 75inew Alice Brooks Needlecraft like George, didn't approve him|around one of the following|Skim milk 5 Book for 1057! Plus a variety of as a suitor for Grace and tried foods: lean meat, fish or chicken, | Total 330 designs to order ~-- crochet, knit. your outmost to undermine him. cottage cheese, cheese or eggs. | Energy Pick-up [ting, embroidery, huck weaving, In effect, you ejected George, | When you are very hungry it is/Hard cooked egg and cup of toys, dolls, others. Send 25 cents! and also Grace, for marrying well to have a generous serving tea 80 (for your copy of this needlecraft him. Yet in your heart you love of protein, preferably lean meat, book ~ now! | her, just as she loves you. And Meat has that stick-to-the-ribs 200 it is this special mixture of hurt quality, To cut calories, trim off| "3 slices, 4"x3"x%" love and resentment ion both! 41 fat and cook the meat in such| mexican corn, % cup 0 sides) that causes tension and|y way as to elintinate fat, | Asparagus, 6 medium spears 20 heartache during visits, i The solution, therefore, is to Sliced tomatoes and watercress apply one or more coats of finish. " Tomato juice, 4 oz, with lemon wedge 5 with its plain mesh, Soft cooked egg go! Pattern 7034: crochet direc- No, 239 Black Send your No. 240 Brown boys back to SCHOOL in but they invite me to visit ~ SEW-THRIFTY "collegians" In the smart patterns young men demana , . , also Ritchie Jet Boots and Ritchie white bucks! Senior sizes 8 to 7 in B, C and D widths, Dinner Chuck roast, lean meat only THE JOHN RITCHIE COMPANY LIMITED Quebec, P.Q Shoes for men and boys Patricia Juck PIANO CLASSICAL ¢ POPULAR 74 Burk St. Dial RA 5-4587 | Ritchie BOYS' SHOES are priced from $7.95 to $10.98 No. 245 B OSHAWA No. 246 Black 0. 246 |Calories for day MEMBERS OF: 1 KING ST. W. RA 5-4611 rT --m-- hy ¥ Look around and compare. You'll ba convinced there's give love the mastery over re-| HOUSEHOLD HINT | sentment--in the spirit of Corin| Use a damp cloth to remove Cup custard (made with skim thians 13. This is the way to be-|soap film from your washin, come unified inwardly, a uni-| machine wringer, Cleaning fluid | Beverage, clear all fied in affectional relationship, and abrasives should never be 1010 No doubt you still carry a chip used here, SEINE oN -- oni on your shoulder emotionally, - about losing Grace to George;|order to achieve the success pos-| oe - whereas she still nurses a wound sible early in 1958, of humiliation '(how damaging| personal relationships will be NO EXTRA CHARGES FOR CREDIT "" "+ LL you may never know) about being|well . aspected for most of the | Goods Satisfactory or Money Refunded locked out of the house, after late|year ahead, but it would be well | Gates With him, An his at a to follow a conservative path| 00 00 Complete Selection of : ime when a more hospitable attl-iwhere finances are concerned. | LJ tude 2 Your pa would have Avoid extravagance -- especialy) DOWN WEEKLY RITCHIE FINE SHOES BURNS a DANCEY'S meant everything to her happi-|during November and March-- PRICED WITHIN EVERYONE'S BUDGET els -by Jing het Snotional and don't let others talk you into "status" in relation to George, [risky ventures, Look for good | i M . For advice: Take the chip offi news, where travel and romance| CREDIT Available Only In 18 SIMCOE ST. §, your shoulder, leave it off, and|are concerned, between June and Downtown Oshawa At... RA 5-1833 write to Grace in friendly loving September of next year. Sou Mia et, an. vooing. your ihe Dorn, on his day wi JEWELLERS y ' heartily dislike meanness and hove of a real reunion next ver. |gordidness and will face life and, 32 KING ST. WEST RA 3-7022 OPEN FRIDAY EVENINGS TIL 9 P.M. ¥ H. h ¥ . Mary Haworth counsels through oe eavals with -caimy, philos | w-- her column, not by mail or per- : : A as sonal interview. Write her in , care of this newspaper, By ESTRELLITA 10 -- - bod FOR TOMORROW By ANNE ADAMS i day's J0pects are highly Our Casual Coat tops every. Stimulating. New ventures can be|l thing from sults to skirts fo|\dunched successfully and pend. | dresses! 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