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J he] ; | THE DAILY TIMES-GAZETTE, Monday, July 22, 1957 © CHILD GUIDANCE Studying Together Cultivates Close Bond Between Parent, Child By G. CLEVELAND MYERS | they see or hear Shem, Bette ive | Still, perhaps, when parents using die Other day, 2 father of five | ecords and books about birds "For a week all 'of us at home|learn these facts with their chil- |dren. There's no better way to y i : yioren Gave btu digging Pgh ou [cultivate a close bond between i § 0 hild than to have a young robin which still didn't|parent and child fave il its feathers. He had |them study anything together. found it on the ground beneath its nest in a tree and persuaded his mother to let him keep it. "Later she helped him search for information about baby robins in an encyclopedia. They learned that it eats daily about 20 times its weight and feeds about every ten minutes during the day. | "The boy and the other chil-| dren found a deserted robins' nest | near the house, brought it indoors and put the baby robin in it. Since {then all the members of the fam- ily have been taking turns feed- ling the bird throughout the day." | | This family of children from 5) to 13, have always had a variety of pets and wild creatures to ill Joy. One evening while at their home, I saw the mother and her eldest son take a searchlight and | go looking for an opossum he had | sighted during the day. They did | not find the creature but on re- turning to the house the mother and son read much about it in a good reference book It's been heartening to run across a number of young par ents who enjoy pets and various wild creatures with their children and who build up companionable relations with the children while cultivating kindness and tender- | ness toward dumb animals. One can't imagine such' children be {ing cruel to any of these crea- tures. On walks through the woods or in wooded areas near their homes, {some parents study the birds, ob- serving the way they build their nests and feed their babies. Young By ALICE BROOKS tots as well as the older children| Happy little birds add their often share these wholesome pright "note" of color -- em- pleasures. 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Ne have almost no money for degree of gracious living. 0% - - -------------------------------------------- jertainment. We've gone to I should say that you are a re- iybe 15 movies in five years: markably disciplined and thrifty re to a charity dance, and we lin tor of family funds--though ve our families (above 15 per- with a generous (a wholesome) 1s) on special feast days. Our rather than a penurous sense of sreations are TV and picnics at living-values: which is all to the arby parks as often as weather good, in my opinion rmits. I grant that another couple, on Despite careful planning, usu- the same income. with compar- y we are without cash, and able obligations, might not allo- wn to two neighbor couples for cate to Christmas spending, birth- snds--plus our families d Ing 2nd summer acaljons & the amounts that vou do ey \RRIED 15 YEARS might see fit to do without these fly husband's take-home pay is shares in fellowship, and put the i a week--after taxes and insur- money into a savings account-- te are taken out. We've beenias a kind of cash insurance, in rried 15 years. own our house the event of a rainy day. i a 1951 model car; and I make But the disbursement of money. i children's clothes and mine. thegretically to best effect, is hey are ages 4 and 3). My hus- somewhat a matter of taste; or ad wears washable clothes to of temperament. There is no in- rk and I take care of them. flexibly right rule, look nice, though we : ok penis Hareely WHICH DOES MORE Jur Christmas ing averages And when hard times come, a vear hdays for every- if they do, it's an open question as ». $26: and our vacation fund which is more useful--a small "four weeks this ar. is $150. backlog of savings, soon ex-| 0) x . . . y fe t ast we've visited my hus- hausted: or a treasury of mul De nF on vacations (mine ually cherished relationships with » near here): and though I loyal relatives and some few e them. that's enough. We'd friends. whom one had cultivated e to buy a tent ($40) and camp for their own sake. And it doe: a national park. What do you take '"'giving"--i.e., evidence 0 ak? lively devotion, with gifts as sym am used to making picnic bols, and time spent together a "hing he' in vacati to weave close hy. es and stretching the'in vacations ar but now I am stumped 1 man ties that hold firmly through CI" Ss 2't see whether to go ahead or crises. z J : 1 certainly would appreciate However, your immediate qles- ir opinions. : tion seems to be whether to puy ar aE a camp-tent for $40, as a jrst IUGAL SPENDER step in getting the most vacition JEAR B R.: Taking into con- for a total outlay of $150 thisgum- eration your husband's modest mer, Well, again urch pledge every year, Borrow where money service has improved with age - When you borrow money, you want service that's backed by years of experience. That's why most people turn to HFC, providing a money service backed by 79 years' experience. At HFC, you receive prompt attention, friendly but businesslike efficiency, your money in one day, and your choice of repayment plans, Phone or visit HFC today. 4} HOUSEHOLD FINANCE Oshawa Shopping Centre, above Falrweather's, RA 5.1139 OSHAWA, ONT, PORT HOPE BRANCH: 71 Walton $t., 2nd floor, phone TU 85-5050 pon ENTREES by: KEN GILLARD What can be done about youngsters who become the despair of their parents by showing a total lack of respect for their it's a natter own clothing ? EE ---- Tommy comes into the house, decides to take off his jacket and throws it on the floor. Sally dutifully changes inte her slip- pers before supper -- and tosses her muddy shoes on her bed. Travelling in the U.K.? Keep in touch with home--read CANADA REVEW Keep in touch with home new -- sports, finance, politics and urrent events. Canada Weekly Reiew -- the only Canadion paper dited and published in Great Britairis on sale ot leading hotels and npws-stands. Fost cable news gives yu a weekly repost on Conadian affirs and hop- penings. Now I'm no child expert, end | haven't heard of any magic formula for making kids take eare of their clothes. But | have a hunch that some of these tendencies might decrease if parents made sure their youngs sters had not merely a proper place for their clothes, but a handy one, ond one that is even fun for them to use. 1 think ene of the most elementary principles Is to make sure the youngsters hove ample closet and drawer space that is with- in their own reach. The best way to provide this, usually, is to buy one of those children's drobes, plete with closet space and drawers (they're not very expensive if you buy them unpainted and paint them yourself), And then there are various types of novelty coat trees which you earr buy or build yourself. As | say, I'm no child psychologist, but it strikes me that the youngster who has his own closet and other storoge facilities is more likely to take pride in putting his things away -- at least some of the time. From then on, | would think it would be up tn the parent to make sure that discipline end patience. are eombined te make this practices e regular habit | Tha Half the fun of patio parties or| family grills is good food -- with| no last-minute kitchen fuss or | clean-up. The chicken, 'burgers,! lor steaks can be readied early |for putting on the grill when the [coals are "just right", so why not use the same "fix-ahead" plan for the trimmings? | Rosy, in-season tomatoes --! Foil-Wrapped Tomatoes, Stuffed With Savory Rice Will Heat On The Side While You Barbecue Steak . wy WHCOORGE eonverteg Tice tem anc cool. Beute bain Wi 1% cups grated cheese Jaudes. in Jason drippings. Com, 6 slices chopped crisp bacon nt bacon, onion, © y % cup chopped onion er Poe mare a tomes % teaspoon salt |and place in centres of 12" foil Dash pepper | mixture, make a separate 'foil % tsp ground thyme, optional|packet" for the hungriest in the 2 tbsps minced parsley or crowd.) Gather foil ends and celery tops twist slightly. Place on hot grill, | Cut stem ends off tomatoes. allowing about 25 minutes for to- {Scoop out pulp and save for soup|m.atoes to soften and rice to heat {or sauce. Sz! inside of tomatoes thoroughly. Tc serve, roll foil and invert to drain, Cook con-|ends back, forming *'eups" fi "| |verted rice by directions on car-the tomatoes. Makes 6 servings. Staff Vacation Closed from . . . July 27th fo Aug. 6ih Rinker Cleaners 51 BURKE ST. -- RA 5-1191 BRANCH STORES filled with a tasty converted rice! To complete the meal, wrap a stuffing and wrapped in foil for| favorite bread iu foil for a quick] easy handling --. are the perfect, warm-up Place colorful vege-| meat accompaniment. They're es- teble relishes to crisp -- and pecially nutritious because the| check the supply of cool melon or rice has most of the natural fruit, Then, enjoy the pre-eating holegrain vilamine Sealed right hour with friends and family! into the grains. ey can be pre- pared hours ahead of time and PATIO TOMATOES refrigerated until grilling. 6 large tomatoes Order The Oshawa Daily Times-Gazette Delivered To Your Vacation Address Keep in touch with the folks back home! See "what's going on" in social affairs and learn about timely news which affects your community. You needn't miss an issue of the TIMES- GAZETTE while you're away on vacation. Just drop the coupon below in the mail with your vacation address and we'll see that your copy is mailed to you . . ."daily. 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