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CGIT WEEKEND AT CAMP PRETORIA Debutantes From Seven Provinces MARY HAWORTH MAIL | | By SYLVIA HACK Canadian Press Staff Writer LONDON (CP) portant date in July 18. -- Forty - four| Canadian debutantes have an im-| their diaries--| | | 'ToCurtsey ToQueenOnJuly18 | Wife Asks How To Change Mood Ontario: Toronto, Elaine Boy- 2 os siete Sreiiont Bune Of Uncompaniable Husband | and Veronica Lattman, Katherine | : Lee, Joan Lewis, Susan McFad-| Dear Mary Haworth: Is it infan-|boss insists that wives attend | yen, Judith Morow, Colleen Mor- tile for a wife to want her hus-|some special gathering. Then we| ton, Joanna Richardson, Lindsay band to invite her out for a com-/go and enjoy the evening immen- ° The girls, mostly between 17 Stewart, Joyce Walker. | and 19, will meet the Queen, in| Ottawa, Nancy Klaehn, Jayne the ballroom of Buckingham Pal- MacGregor, Barbara Miller, Pat. ace and afterwards join several ricia Roth, Eve Smith; London, thousand guests for tea on the Gayle Watson; Napanee, Edith | green lawns behind the palace. |Anne Binnington; Port Credit, | Two days before the event, Mrs. Elizabeth Brown; Niagara Falls, Sydney D. Pierce, wife of the act- Margot Fraser; Collingwood, ing Canadian high commissioner Mary Irwin; Lindsay, Cecily in London, will, entertain the girls Smale. ito tea-at her hom2 where they British Columbia: Vancouver, | [wit be given practical advice on Nancy Andrews, Sherry Brown! the Sheridan Macpherson, Sidney | Queen. Shakespeare, Barbara and Carol Generally, a palace spokesman Underhill, Ann Lumsden; New joins the tea-party and drops a| Westminster, Lois Hoskin; Vie- | few pointers on court protocol. It toria, Jill Coleman. {isn't done to wear one glove and! Nova Scotia: Halifax, Isabel | | carry the other. Either wear both, McAlpine, Jacqueline Manvel, or remove both, says the rule- Penelope Stanbury; Liv er pool, | | book. Ann Davies, | Some of the girls take lessons, New Brunswick: Sussex, Mar-| | weeks before the event and gar-'garet Mackenie. | den - party outfits have been Alberta: Edmonton, Dianne | planned months ahead Cunliffe, Rona Fairall; Calgary, | | Madame Vacani, who taught! Marion Frayne | | the royal children, Prince Charles! Manitoba: Winnipeg, Susan and Princess Anne, how to dance, Sharpe is a popular curtsy-teacher with Quebec: Montreal, Judith Ben- many debs. nett, Sallie Branch, Gael Eakin. | {how to curtsy calmly to "SOCIAL NOTICES | { ENGAGEMENT | Mr. and Mrs. E. J. Fice of Osh- awa wish to announce the engage- ment of their daughter, Lois Loretta Mae, to Mr. Gary Lyn Winton of Oshawa, son of the late, Mrs. C. J. Sandford. The wedding| is to take place on Friday, August . 2, at 6.30 pm. in Northminster Jo Aldwirckle United Church. AGEMENT The engagement is announced se of Rhoda May Perrault, daughter William Frank Perrault Dial RA. 3-3474. Women's Editor THE DAILY 'TIMES-GAZETTE, Saturday, July 13, 1957 7| evening ally? | sely. : x | My husband thinks it is, and in-| Don (I'ii call him) is very at-| sists 1 haven't grown up, be-|tractive, quite brilliant, cause I'd like a wee bit of sweet-| provider, has no temper; heart attention once in a while. We have two children whom 1|social; never wants company and love dearly, and when they were dislikes visiting. Once when we| small I never would leave them had dinner guests,.he had to get with a baby-sitter. However, now | up and leave the house for a walk. | that they are older and sleep well,| He seems to have an escapist at- 1 feel it would be safe to leave titude in many ways. ' them with a reliable person. Bul pyPTLE LOVE my husband never asks me out| He likes to go his own way and to dinner, or to a movie, or to any pe left aivus; and I've tried to kind of social event--unless his help him by letting him go. He {likes to vacation by himself and have his sawn friends. I just can't figure him out. | He was an orphan, reared by a grandmother, without too much know he loves me. But he is anti-| affection given him. I, on the| ; other hand, was deeply loved by| § my warm-hearted family, and I {do love him with all my heart but this situation makes me te | ribly depressed at times. If only | T could make him understand how| 1 feel--but all I do is cry when I try to talk to him about it. | He loves iie children, but not to the point of taking them on pic-| & I do these| Inics and holidays: | things all by myself. He re bot 3 {he can't change his emotions, but {T feel he should at least try. Ti | feel our lives would be so much happier if only he would give a little. Just how would you tackle this problem? P.Y Dear P.Y.: Your husband's at- titude as described is rigidly sel- fish and. also on the emotionally sick side. He is ruinously selfish, | insofar as close relationships go, in his overriding insistence that your hunger for social comarade- rie, on a twosome basis in mar- riage, is infantile, unwarranted, "wrong," etc.--and that his rejec- tion of your woeful appeal for When "IT'S FUN TO HAVE A BIRTHDAY" day today is Jo-Ann, daughter | are Mr. and Mrs. James Beau- of Mr / and Mrs Joseph pre and Mr. and Mrs. Charles Tamblyn, all of Oshawa Tamblyn, Broadview avenue. | --Photo by Ireland Woman Dolor Is Great Asset To Windsor Board Of Health WINDSOR, Ont. (CP) -- Every|/immunization shots. Clinical work, lecturing or attending to routine THE Training pictured SIX Canadian Girls in above re- ceived their lanyards from the | camp skipper, Miss Margaret 4 Pellow (centre back) at the weekend camp. Young campers crowded together for a group picture (top). Vesper Service Is Highlight Of Girls' Weekend At Camp in God's Plan for This three-week holiday with her par- --- Forty explorers and Canadian Girls in Training from King Street United Church spent a happy weekend at Camp Pretoria recently. Miss Margaret Pellow, camp director, had as her coun- sellors Rae Howell, Betty Parks, Janet Oke, Reva Tiers and Pat Kennedy On Sunday night vesper service was held at the top of Vesper Hill. While proceeding up the hill the campers sang "When Morn- ing Gilds the Skies". The theme of the service was 'The Small CHILD GUIDANCE Maintains High Costs Bar Good Students By G CLEVELAND MYERS The average student attending a state college or' university must be prepared to pay $1,500 a year or $2,000 if attending a private in stitution. Fifteen years ago, the respective figures were $747 and £1,023. Just for tuition, the cost now is from $800 to $1,000 a year, twice. as much as it was ten or fifteen years ago Over a four-year period, the family must raise from $8,000 to $10,000 to educate one child in col- lege. In 1947 and 1957, tuition fees at six colleges were as follows: Barnard College $500, $900; Franklin and Marshall $450, $6 Lehigh University $600, New York University $900; Oberlin College--$450, Stanford University $498, 00 PLAN RAISES Many colleges are planning a round of raises this fall. Yet the tuition pays less than half the cost to the college to educate a student. Mzny colleges have trouble keep- ing out of the red. Costs of buildings, and faculty salaries (still half of what they should be) have jumped. A building put up in the middle twenties at a cost of $12.6 per square foot would cost $63 per square foot today. SMALL INCOME A study by Dr of the U.S. Office of Education, maintenance Ernest V. Hollis, reveals that 10 per cent of college nation? I KEEP IN TRIM of Mr of Oshawa, and the late Mrs. Per- rault, to Mr. Keith Frederick Taylor, son of Mr. and Mrs, Tal- mage Taylor of Burketon. The marriage will take place on Sat- urday, August 3, 1957, at 2 p.m in Albert Street United Church Oshawa By IDA JEAN KAIN "te ! A young mother-to-be has asked The Reverend and Mrs. David for the normal amount of weight Dyck of Waldheim, Saskat- t, he gained during pregnancy. chewan, wish to announce the en-| your dietitian discussed this prob- gagement of their daughter, Lil- jem with a leading obstetrician lian, to Earl (Bud) McEvers, son ho explained that while 20 pounds of Mr. and Mrs. Norman Me- js the recommended amount to Evers of Oshawa. The wedding is gain, it is a mistake to focus on to take place on Monday, August that figure, for it applies only to 5, 1957, at Waldheim. the woman who is normal weight ENGAGEMENT at the start of pregnancy : During the initial visit to the Mr. and Mrs. Glenn Carr wish expectant mother, ideal weight for to announce the engagement of ! her height and build is calculated, their daughter, Joan Leora, to 29 pounds is added to this figure, Donald Lintner, son of Mr. and + , 3 1d! and this total is set as the final Mrs. Charles Lintner, all of Whit- weight goal, our authority said. by. The marriage is to take place. For the underweight, then, the in Whitby United Church on Sat- % ch weight gain should be greater urday, August 17, 1957, at 3 than 20 pounds average, Say a o'clock. {woman is 5'5" tall and weighs a mere 105 pounds. Since her ideal PERSONALS weight is 125 pounds, her weight period is is pounds; In other words, she should aim at gaining Mrs. David Donald and daugh- 40 pounds. It is important that ter, Debbie, arrived in Winnipeg this extra weight be gained in or- ENGAGEMENT { goal at the end of the nine month Expectant Mother Can Control "Anticipated Weight Gains on Monday by plane to spend a potant World." , tents, Mr. and Mrs. Sinch. Mr. Patricia Kennedy conducted the Donald is motoring to join them service. Sally Lean read the scrip- and they will return by way of tue and the story was told by, the United States. Rae Howell Mr. and Mrs. M. McIntyre At the end of the service, Pat- $ ricia Kennedy, Sharlene Taggart, 1100d are spending the weekend i at the summer home of Dr. and Linda Hatfield, Marjorie Cornish, Carol Tiling and Carol Morrison | Mrs. Angus Hood of Toronto, at were presented with their CGIT Rill Lake, Muskoka, Mrs. Hood lanvards by Miss Pellow is remaining to spend a week's The service and the camp week- | holiday there. end closed with the singing of the 5 hymn "Ti s My rid", and Taps The annual picnic of the Silver Cross Women was held on Wed- nesday, July 10, at the summer home of Mrs. Gordon Annis, Plum Point, The following mem- bers were present: Mrs. Arthur Wigston, Whitby, Mrs. Dave Rae, Mrs. Jessie Tooley, Mrs. Edward Holland, Mrs. Frank Foote, Mrs Thomas Loreno, Mrs. Fred Gus- : cott, Mrs. Fred Langley, Mrs F C 11 Warren Taggart, Mrs. Arthur om 0 ege Nesbitt, [students came from families with Councillor and Mrs. John Mac- less than $3,000 income. The aver- Donald, Sydney Mines, Cape age family in the lowest income Breton, N.S. were visitors at the group spends one-fifth of its earn- home of Mr. and Mrs. Harry ings to send one child through col- Bateson, Cadillac avenue north lege on Thursday. On the average, the families R themselves supplied 41 per cent of Mr and Mrs. Daniel Longauer, the money for children in college. Simcoe street south, have return- From the students' own ed home after spending a few savings 1 . days at Lake St. Peter and Al came 29 per cent 2 hey earned m per cent and the arn gonquin 17 per eent while in college. One- hat of the Woman andl two Huirds Mrs. J. H. Lyons, Celina street, of tien wor ed while earning spent Jast weekend with relatives DENIED: EDUCATION at Bancroft and Haliburton. More and more of the poorer Visitors at the home of Mr. and boys and girls are being denied Mrs. W. H. Stubbings, Warren a college education. Among them avenue, over last weekend in- are a lot of gifted youths. True cluded Mr. and Mrs. Andrew there are some scholarships for Graham of Toronto: Mr. and Mrs the bright ones yet the number Peter West and Patsy, Mr. and of scholarships, by and large, are Mrs. John West, all of Kirkland still sadly limited. And while there Lake; Mr. and Mrs. W, H, Stub- is a trend of assigning scholar- bings Sr, Mr. and Mrs, Albert ships to bright students most in Stubbings, Mr. and Mrs. Alfred need financially, they usually Maslin, and Lindy, Mr. and Mrs. mus' compete in entrance examin- Ernest Johnson, Susan and Judy ations with gifted youths from all of Lindsay ey well-to-do homes cs r--- MORE MONEY NEEDED y gi Leading educators agree that 3 HOUSEHOLD HINT more money must be available for. Never use hot water to remove higher education. Also, they agree ©48 stains. Instead, first soak the that tuition fees cannot soar much fabric in cold water, then wash in more if, democracy in higher edu- Warm suds and rinse well. Always cation is not to suffer. rinse egg-stained china, silver or Will most youths have to come glass in cool water before wash- from well-to-do families in order NE | to go to college? Will this group, have most of the potential talent, character and leadership of our Registrations for accepted. Dial RA 5-3375 NOTICE You may still register for Summer School Classes at the Oshawa Business College. Fall Teen-age Typing Classes now being formed. PHONE FOR FULL PARTICULARS Term now being SUNDAY HOURS 10 AM. - 1 P.M. 6:30 PM. -9 P.M. 111 Simcoe St. S. der to provide a weight reserve NEWLYWEDS Married recently chapel of Albert Street Church were Mr James Reid. The the United and Mrs buide, the in former Miss Noreen Prevost is | Oshawa. Sek, understanding is justified. ] : \--} he says he can't change Canadian city would do well to | his emotions, ne lies. As long as have a woman doctor as assistant there is life, there-is the potential medical officer of health, says Dr. | of spiritual health, available to the John Howie, MOH for Windsor. human being who concentrates on| gis assistant is Dr. Marion I. embodying it. 3 | Tefhplin, grey-haired and kindly, Anyone can change, 'from the wh, is 'the only assistant MOH deadness of pure selfishness to the iy ontario, She supervises school Ay ALICE BROOKS liveness of compassionate regard poaith clinics which involve 25,.- after the baby is born, the spec: You'll love this industrious little for others feelings, if he wills' to p50 gop 01 children ialistialist emphasized. Dutch girl! Done in bright stitch. change. If he stays unchanged Dr. Templin, who served in the When a woman is five or so es. she's just the thing to lend With a stone in his bosom, in place ,...1 service, says her 10 years pounds above her right weight, she gaiety to your kitchen! of a tender heart -- that is his go cictant medical health officer will be encouraged to restrict her] Quick embroidery for gifts, choice. And it is not to be white-\} J "rou hoon the most challeng- {otal weight gain to 15 pounds. bazaars! Pattern 7183 includes Washed as fate--as a misfortune ing of her 35 years as'a medical Moreover, when an expectant seven motifs about 5 x 9 inches; wished on him by circumstances), titioner Y mother is excessively overweight one for each day of the week! outside his control, . * at the start of the pregnancy, she! Send THIRTY-FIVE CENTS in The formula for emotional SOUND ADVISER is advised to reduce rather than coins for this pattern (stamps change is, simply, actual change., «an ounce of prevention is permit any weight gain. Our auth- cannot be accepted) to Daily Emotion follows action, psychol- pn » pound of cure' is the ority reported proudly of one res-/Times-Gazette, Household Arts ogy teaches. And jit works both adage to which Dr. Templin olute mother-to-be who reduced Dept. Oshawa, Ontario. Pr.nt ays, may I remind your hus- go io o4heres. from 239 pounds to 180 pounds plainly NAME, ADDRESS, PAT. band. The less he considers your) "yaying administered more than during the nine months period. It TERN NUMBER 2 feelings, the less sympathy he can, 5.) anti-polio shots to school should be noted however, that 2 A bonus for our readers -- two produce. As Shakespeare said, children last year the toes the reducing diet during this period of FREE patterns, printed In our adopt a virtue if you have it not, day will come when poliomyelitis growth is vastly different than a Book for 1957! Plus a wonderful 2nd eventually it will be truly part =o be virtually 'erased. - ; regular reducing diet. The foods variety of designs to order -- Of your character. She spends the mornings givi which provide growth materials crochet, knitting, embroidery Your husband married you be-| °°" "FETT oe must be stepped up in order to huck weaving, toys, dolls, others. Cause he was drawn to your | We Oni | GIFTS !duties keep her occupied in the afternoons. Her. rounds include visits to hospitals, clinics and homes "A woman assistant can be very helpiul." says Dr. Templin. "In the :tccondary schools girls have no hesitation in approaching me to seek advice on health prob- lems, whereas they might stand in awe of a male medical officer. "The same applies to the field training of our staff of health nurses. I try to give sound advice, and help iron out problems facing |health nurses." HAS QUICK WIT In the eys of her chief, and of department employees, Dr. Tem- plin's trademarks are her quick wit and inexhaustible energy. Dr. Howie says: "Dr. Templin is extremely capable but she never tries to run the department, or become mannish in her outlook, {as so many women might tend ito do with her position." meet the increased needs. Send 25 cents for warmth, as to a necessity of life, | For the expectant mother whose this exciting Nw eo: o of course. But he recoils from weight is normal at the start, a pow! | your comparable need, in both a gain of one-half to three-quarters - _{beggarly and a niggardly way. of a pound or more a week during 4 2 | How tackle the problem? Well, this middle period, fats, sugars; Rluid retention, salt should be eut| you might give Don the benefit of and starches should be curtailed !® & minimum. 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