MARY HAWORTH MAIL ' Dear Mary Haworth: 1 am a bachelor, 32, and very lonesome, 1 live in a small town where there are no single young ladies available, My work and every- thing I owr Is here, and 1 am getting older and more J One of the highlights of the 25th regional conference of the East as 8 "mistake of nature," a per JS Conta Region {Oitarie and) ' 1 c) 0 e American | jon wisichodly diferent, without eration of Soroptimist Clubs was OE Y, Tom . hon the presentation of the profes- run pman beings. And When gional fellowship in gerontology this "self-condemnation'" bias be- | comes ingriined in the lonely per- Jen io the Region by Sovener and miserable very day, Each year I tell myself that by next year I will have found a girl and be married, but it never hap- pens, This summer I plan to spend my vacation in a city about 70 miles from here; yet I can't dance and don't know where to 5 or what to do, to find a girl. 1 have averafe looks and social back- ground, son's un fous mind, he blindly isses any chance opportunities Marjorie Sarwan Sinith Hout. constructive friendship, that th .|the conference in Barrie, Ontario, hight develop In new surround on Saturday, May 2A . e ng winner s valu SIZE YOURSELF UP able fellowship is known in this Thus, in your case, it seems to|district as she served as a mem- m» that the way to begin to find ber of the Victorian Order of a wife is to sit down with a good Nurses in Whitby three years | Soroptimists Award Fellowship Lonesome Bachelor Seeks Wife To Former Whitby V.O. Nurse [5 seit" forse ssf But Fears Is Social Outcast and Mrs. Don Black were observe ers. Miss Elizabeth Haslam, execu liza noon outlinging some of 0 cedures in looking after frst offenders while in detention and after their release. She empha- sized the fact that these persons often came from broken hsmes and had built up a shell of in. difference and bravado to' pro- tect themselves from being hurt, Very often they could be rehabil. into contact with many persons in the older age grou, and made her realize that tl normal changes and prob) pecull this group were not understood and that there was a real need for further study and hg 0 planning in this field. The VON sent Miss Sith 3 > Jefresnet course on cations Aging given by the University of iaiod and become useful citizens Toronto, Miss Sraith was also ¢ y Sceived proper guidance awarded a VON bursary to take ShoBsorsp o5 release, and a basic health nursing course ah|Were made to feel that there were McGill University, people with a kindly interest in This past year, Miss Smith has been studying at the School for Graduate Nurses, McGill Uni- CLOSE RELATIONS | payehologist and get acquainted {with yourself: as you are, and as thers probably see you, Size up versity, The $2500 fellowship will enable her to continue her stud- fes at the Harvard School of Pub. WESTLOCK, Alta, (CP) = Sis. ters married cousins at a double Born In Viet Nam 31 years ao, ng wedding here. Phyllis Lardner be- came the bride of John Mae- Dougall and her sister Elaine married Danny Lyons, cousin of Mr, MacDougall, lic Health, which will further equip her to give nursing service in she field of geriatrics. Members of the Oshawa Club Seleghues sare. president. Jane egates were , Jennie Pringle, vice-president, Madeline| Kelly and director Mary Lee. Mrs. Olive Petley, Mrs. Gordon Conant, Mrs, C. M, Elliott, Miss Stella Stacey, Miss Doris Moore, Miss Jean Scott, Mrs, W. W. Park of Can you advise me how to find your anxieties, aims, assets, lia-|Where her parents were serv a girl to marry, in the town where Bites. past mistakes, etc., and| 08 | les, oho ; th the 1 will spend my vacation? Or how when you've taken in the whole | English boarding school in Chee. to i about finding a Vite bY | picture, as nearly as you can fig-|f00, North China, Westhill High mall? Or by any means? I have ure it' and have developed a School, Montreal, and McGill Uni- given up trying here, Please friendly adjustment to what you versity, She took her nursin answer soon; and thank you. A. : |find--then you'll be a long step training at the Montreal General Dear AB.: Living in a small shead towards getting married, | Hospital where she worked for town is comparable to §3iting in|" In the city through which you several years before accepting a volved in type-casting, That is to\write there is an Institute of position with the VON. With this say, you become identified in the |Nental Hygiene, also a Family organization she served in Mont- community mind as a certain kind | Service Agency--either of which real, Whitby and York Township, of character, and thereafter you hag counselling staff, qualified to, Work with the VON brought her are stuck wth the label, ther leip ou get on the right track e. people just don't have the inner, |aliveness to take a fresh look at| you can't solve the problem on! a familiar figure, and see the real| your own. You need first-hand so- person "who goes there. {cial education, in the form of a | Something of this sort must be! confidential real relationship with |standing in the way of your find- a knowledgeable, friendly profes-| ing a wife, or at any rate some sional helper--in order to get the| girl companionship, in your home pitch of sharing experience, trust- neighborhoed. Maybe you are re- ing the other person, and also garded as peculiarly shy, or re- trusting yourself to be likeable, markably homely, or too much of| .puring your summer vacation | a sissy, or tied to your parents' | (if you can't do it earlier) make |apronsirings -- so that young |it vour business to get such a self- {people give you the go-by, as a help program going, You might {queer duck who doesn't fit the | write, or telephone, or make a {local pattern of 'good fellow." | special trip to either agency, soon, To be on the receiving end of (to plan ahead for a series of pri- that brand of social rejection for |vate talks, when you have vaca- any length of time is to begin to|tion time to spend on such self- mark yourself down, eventually--|improvement. M.H. a 75 KING ST. E, -- Telephone RA 3-7921 (Opposite Hotel Genoshe) TOP TRADE-IN ALLOWANCE YOUR OLD FURS ARE WORTH MONEY Pa Gus Li MANY ATTEND CARD PARTY SPONSORED BY LIONETTES ley, Mrs. G. C, Pirie, Mrs, | Ferguson, Mrs, Harold P. C. Broadbent, Mrs. Roy | Mrs, Alan Wood, Mrs. Kehoe, Mrs, Gordon Barker, | Hubbard, Mrs. Ralph Mrs. Jack Wise, Mrs. George | Mrs, Myrtle Morgan, Mary Kent, vice - president, greeted | were drawn by one of the past Fairhart, Charlotte Flath, Mrs, | Schmalz, Miss Dulcie Miller , the guests as they arrived, presidents, Mrs. Larry Kehoe. | A. W. Berry, Mrs, J. Biddulph, | Mrs, Albert Walters, Mrs, Cecil | Fine weather brought out many Winners were: Mrs, Chris Too- | Mrs. Glenn Howell, Mrs. A. ' Naish, Mrs, Donald Townsend, | Fudd i de - . i § CHILD GUIDANCE Wonder Why 'Brothers, Sisters . . . Will Differ So Widely | Parents are often puzzled when|always the dull one. Sometimes {their children seem to be so dif- he's just the opposite, |ferent from one another. Is mot Again, one child will lag at | their inheritance the same? Don't gohool because a brother or sister they have the same parents? excels--or vice versa, One young- Actually, the parents are dif- gir may be bad because another ferent when the second or third js go good. The good child wins child arrives than they were more approvals, the bad one more when the first was born, rebukes and this impairs relation. THEY'VE CHANGED 1 ship between them and you. In the first place, they are old- One child may feel he does not er. They have been changed by et as much approval and atten-| Ld other persons, by each other and tion from you as another or may by the first or following children, fear he might lose your favor. Their experience with the first There is no more difficult prob-| child makes them somewhat dif- lem in a family than to help each| I ui Ah : = YOUR © R18 |ferent toward the second and so and every child feel he is as much : ¥: Hg 3 YOUR DOWN PAYMENT fon, The presence of a grandpar. 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THE DAILY TIMES-GAZETTE, Friday, May 17, 1957 © One child's response to one or| both parents may differ from the feel neglected. f response of the next or other As the children grow older, : children, So also the response by| they grow more different from| | each parent to the children may oné another and more different] | be different. possibly in their relationship with Theoretically, you could apd You and vice versa, When you| should love one child as much as consider ali the reasons for the another, but it often doesn't work! Wide differences among your chil- out that way. dren, they mount immeasurably. The good or poor way one child, It Is a great chal'enge to par-| gets along with his playmates in ents to sense these differences, the neighborhood makes a differ. not be too much worried about| ence with you and the other chil-/them, but to continue to strive to dren. So, too, does his success or Make the most of them, failure at school. (My bulletin, 'Jealousy, may | . {be had by sending a self - ad- LAGGING CHILD dressed, U. S. stamped envelope However, the lagging child isn't to me in care of this newspaper.) One-Woman Immigration Bureau Gets 2,700 Replies To Letter KATHIE, AGED ONE ON SUNDAY Daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Hugh Gor'n, Ritson road north, is Kathleen Florence who is | celebrating her first birthday o Sunday, May 19. yon ~Photo by Ireland Try Cheese Carols A With Left-Over Ham CREAMY CHEESE CARROTS (Serves 8) | Here is a way to "dress-up" a| sometimes ordinary vegetable. At| the same time, use is made of the cooking water and high protein rat Honeymoon In New York, Florida After DeNure-Graham Wedding In an afternoon ceremony per- formed' by Rev. Robert Wylie at Port Perry United Church, Dor- otty Ann Graham became the bride of Frederick Calvin De- Nure. The bride is the daughter of Mr, and Mrs, Clarence Graham, Port Perry and the bridegroom is the son of Mrs, Fred DeNure, of Pot Perry and the late Mr. Cal- vin DeNure. The wedding music was played by Mr, Alan Reesor of Toronto, and Mrs. Dobson sang. The bride, given in marriage by her father, chose a floor-length gown of nylon net and lace over white satin, with a train of lace. A pearl encrusted tiara held her GREAT JEWEL The royal sceptre with cross, part of Britain's coronation re- galia, has tne world's largest cut diamond, the 516-carat Great Star of Africa, veil, and she carried a white orchid and stephanotis with a white Bible The bride's sister, Mrs. Harold Mark was matron-of-honor, and the bridesmaids' were Miss Sandra Pugh, Miss Ann Chap- man, Miss Doris DeNure. They Canadians, origs ally from such| had gowned in countries as the' U.K, Germany, | «Knowing that people were 100 were all similarly waltz-length gowns of shrimp silk organza over taffeta, with match- ing accessories, and carried white cascades of pompoms. : Little Heather Mark, niece of the bride, was flower girl in a white full-skirted dress of silk nylon over taffeta, Her headdress and flowers were shrimp pom- poms, Mr. Mervyn DeNure was best man, Ushering were Mr. Peter Sulman, Mr. John DeNure and Mr. 'Ross Graham, The. reception was held at the scout hall where Mrs, Graham assisted by Mrs. DeNure, mother of the bridegroom, received. GUELPH (CP)--Canadians from coast to coast have offered aid to Mrs, Carl Saillian, who inadver- tently set up a one-woman immi- gration bureau here with a one- sentence letter to a United King- dom newspaper, International news coverage was given to her letter, stating that she would like to help people thinking of emigrating, and to the fact that she got 2,700 replies. Reports of the response ap- {peared in newspapers across Can- ada and she was interviewed for the BBC's radio and TV service. She also found she was getting offers of assistance for the stag. gering amount of work she let her- self in for. Canadians from New- foundland to British Columbia wrote to her offering their help. Many letters came from New Holland, France, Greece, Norway, the United States, Poland and the Ukraine, offering employment of one kind or another to her cor- respondents. VARIOUS JOBS Most of the job offers were for offer, and mailed it to other coun-| For a variation -- Add 1 cup farmers, housekeepers, fruit or vegetable pickers or tobacco farm| Besides her United Kingdom | workers, A Saskatchewan lawyer mail, she has received letters of | asked Mrs, Saillian to supply him with a list of her correspondents' trades so that he could obtain help from the Saskatchewan govern- ment in placing them in jobs. A high school principal In a {small western town asked her to Isupply him with the names of a 8 King St. E, RA 3-2245 15 KING ST. W, 317 BROCK ST, S. URY & LOVELL PRESCRIPTION CHEMISTS OSHAWA BOWMANVILLE WHITBY "WE SEND MEDICINES TO EUROPE ---- POSTAGE FREE" 530 Simcoe St. S. RA 5-3546 MA 3.5778 MO 8-2338 |tailor, a shoe-repairer and a den- Itist, He got all three, Mrs. Saillian is especially thank- ful to the citizens of Guelph. Within minutes of the first report of her plight, she began to re- |ceive offers of aid. | High school principal John F. {Ross got his commercial students to draft and duplicate form letters. |An elderly man and his sister re- {corded the names and addresses |of the 200-odd 'etters that poured In each day. A local business man ave Mrs, Saillian the services of is secretary. | The Toronto Telegram supplied |its booklet Guide for Newcomers, paid the postage and mailed Mrs. Saillian's replies, 'There were so many people asking for help that I felt I just to help them," she says. per cent behind me gave me the courage to face an appallingly heavy daily task." | To complicate matters further, |she has: found that people in the United Kingdom have clipped her tries. 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