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1 | MARY HAWORTH MAIL Replies To Criticism Ot Views Expressed In Column Dear Mary Haworth: A group | sex crasy--even our children. That of us New Canadians were dis-/is pouncing upon the exception] cussing your column last evening. and calling it the rule -- which is! You do give good advice occas- illogical. {ionally, but yesterday's (March! Another remark is equally rat- 11) column was utter tripe!! tled; namely, your clucking ob- | We refer to the story of the boy, servation that "The more intelli- {11, who upset his parents ak din- gent tells us they are high-pres- {ner by asking their advice on his sured into it"--"it" meaning sex "love problem." The parents in precocity, I gather. But persons turn appealed to grandma, who can't be very intelligent, who per- |then asked you to recommend mit themselves to be stampeded | helpful reading dealing with boy- into behavior they deplore; now girl guidance. can they? They sound like chame- | All Europe is amazed at the leons without conviction, who take \teen-age crime here; and the em- on the coloration of whatever com- | phasis on sex. Your advice in re-|pany they're in--and cringe to gard to an 1i-year-old on love is|your critiques, when in your pres- | typical. ence. { At age 11, children should be in- PASSING THE BUCK terested in games and fun, and] Ag for American GIs who nois- { | | Jo Aldwinckle: © Women's Editor Dial RA. 83-3474 THE DAILY TIMES-GAZETTE, Monday, April 1, 1957 7 GROUPS, CLUBS, AUXILIARIES 4TH GROUP COMMITTEE The 14th Guide Group Commit- tee of the Girl Guide A iati met ak the home of Mrs. Orville Myers, Madison avenue. Mrs, Ian Mastin, president, pre- sided. Mrs. John Collins read the minutes and Mrs: Myers gave the treasurer's report. Promises were received for candy and aprons for May 3, Brownie Fair Day. A rummage sale was discussed. ss, Mastin was left wo make arrangements for " The group voted a contribution RCAF ASSN. toward the expenses of Mrs. Jules, The monthly meeting of the Ethier and Mrs. John Norris, |Ladies' Auxiliary of the RCAF should they choose to attend the [Association was held at the Air- annual convention and Gold Cord port. Mrs. W. A. Vince presided. presentations in Toronto. | A talent night was held with Card convener, Mrs. Anthony the proceeds going to the Re- Plonteck, was granted further tarded children, also a donation funds for her work. was made to the Cander Society. Mrs. Alex. Williams and her| Plans. were made to entertain committee assisted the hostess in the children from the Children's serving refreshments. |Aid Society during the Easter holidays. Twelve dozen diapers SCOUT MOTHERS EX. BOARD are also to be donated to the So- be taking a train to the American Jamboree, It was d that the 5th Oshawa Scout Mothers' Auxiliary will be holding a tea at North- minster United Church on May 15. The executive board was pleased to welcome the 4th Oshawa Moth- ers' Auxiliary who chose to become affiliated with the board this month, Mr. Richardson invited the exe- cutive to hold its next month's meeting at the Trading Post, Camp Samac. AUX. introduced by Mrs. J. H. Hunter, Mrs. Butler i= a graduate of McGill University. After gaining her degree she was active as a minister and is the wife of the Reverend A. M. Butler of St. Paul's United Church, Ajax. She spoke on reconciliation to God and His plans for His people. The world as God made it was very good, she said, and the very spring of our 'actions come from God All, however humble, might carry His message and continue the ministry of reconciliation. The executive board of the ciety. Daughters of Mr: and Mrs. recently at Scout Headquarters. social evening was held. | Reginald Winfield, Wilson road Mrs. Edward Simmons, president, | | ed. woh " Be 'held Ramshaw served lunch. e church parade to be he! " at Camp Samac on June 2 was ST, STEPHEN'S WA I je Jeid SUA oS Rs oa) urora on Ap . More than 3 | . ; ; Holds Thankoffering of their parents will be attending dent, Mrs. Ray Smith, welcomed Mrs. William Corbett, provin-, Mrs. David Duchemen, the mis- offering meeting of the Jessie cial committee ladies auxiliary of sionary convener, had charge of Panton Missionary Auxiliary of on the use of the affiliation fee, Mrs. Frank Crawford and Mrs. |St. Andrew's United Church was | Mr. S. A. Richardson gave a A. C. Ferries Jr. {held in the chapel recently. Miss boree and American Jamboree. duced Mrs. John McKinney ofl The guest speaker, the Rever- About 10 Scouts from Oshawa will [Brooklin who addressed and about three Oshawa boys will|Raglan gave a sacred selection. KEEP IN TRIM Poisons Out Of Child's Reach By G. CLEVELAND MYERS |in open places, as floor, sink, Scout - Mothers' Auxiliaries met| After the business meeting a| Mrs. W. G. Cox and Mrs. H. E.| south, Oshawa, are one-year-old presided. discussed, also the Queen's Scout| The missionary meeting of the Scouts from Oshawa, with some Thursday, March 28. The presi- these ceremonies. the guests. The joint Easter and Thank- the Boy Scout Association, spoke the devotional period assisted bythe Jessie Panton Missionary talk on the coming World Jam-| Mrs. Stephen Saywell intro-/Helen Yule, president, presided. be flying to the World Jamboree, gathering. Mrs. Roy Moon of . First Rule In Safety, Keep Protect your baby and young dresser, table, open shelf or ~~ PLAYMA Christine Ann and three-year- | Jessie Panton Aux. thelend Margaret Butler of Ajax, was| Diamonds, althi among hardest of aio be aged in a fall because of brittle character. NOTEBOOE by KEN GILLARD Judging by most of the custom- ers ot our shop, women are be- oping Td a al materials in the ready-made dresses they buy. \ But @ few apparen tly do not know yet that some moter- iols, far from being pre-shrunk , as they sh- ould be, are actually pre- stretched by the manufacturer -- to make: the material go farther, ond so enable the manufacturer of. the less expensive lines to keep his prices down to a minimum, This may solve the manufec- turer's problem, but it certain. ly creates problems for both the wearer and the dry cleaner. Try cleaning: a fabric that re- verses the pre-stretching pro- cess at the first encounter with - the cleaning fluids and you'll never get it stretched back into shape. In other words, the first cleaning almost inevitably ruins a pre hed gi h, ing its usefulness completely, Now please don't misunderstand me. I'm talking mow only of these so-called bargain mater. ials that look so smart but sell for so little. | con certainly guarantee that cny garment that is made from a cleanable fabric will come out of our shop perfectly clean and the right size ond shape without a flaw or blemish thet wasn't there before it came in. But you'll save yourself money and grief if you take care when shopping to make sure that any garment you buy is pre-shrunk, and not pre-stretched. Give your budget thot much of a break, and the first time the g gets soiled, we'll give you the finest dry cleaning job in the land. TES old Debra Marie, Christine and Debra are the granddaughters of Mr. and Mrs. J. P. McKenna, and Mr, and Mrs. Walter Win- field, all of Oshawa. PERSONALS Mrs. C. 8. Lee, chairman of | the civic action committee of St. Gregory's CWL, assisted by sev eral CWL members, entertain- ed the residents of Fairview Lodge last Thursday at a euchre party | | : | Mr. and Mrs. George Walden of Brockville were weekend guests at the home of Mr. and Mrs. J. V. Burridge, Kingston road east. SOCIAL NOTICES ENGAGEMENT Mr, and Mrs. Alfred Reardon of Whitby announce the engage- ment of their daughter, Doris Margaret, to Mr. George David- son, son of Mr. and Mrs. P. Davidson of Zion. The wedding child from poisons, 'drawer. In 16 per cent the child First keep all things containingjwas able to get at it in a closed poison out of his reach and be|place. Of the 80 cases of lead ever vigilant. Secondly, train him poisoning, including 13 deaths, 87 as soon as he can toddle in the/per cent occurred in children, age meaning of No as a safety meas-|1 through 3 Mrs. Butler's talk carried the message of Easter. ed by d by will take place at All Saints Anglican Church, Whitby, on Sat- ay, April 27, 1957, at 2.30 p.m. The worship service was I Mrs. W. F. Manuel ist other members of the west group. |A solo "Consider the Lilies" was vited the Auxiliary to hear Miss Help your Rotery Club , , » Buy Easter Seals ini TW, 2150 | |ure for keeping him from getting y PHONE 5-3: into closed places like cabinets and climbing up to or getting into {leave sex for its proper time.®The jiu favor gentle Asiatic wives, of- jmore intelligent tell us they are ton this ballyhoo is a way of say- {high presured into it. {ing they don't feel able to cope ENTLE ASIATICS Constance Wagar speak on Trimi- dad. On April 24 Miss Margaret Pellow will show pictures of POISON CONTROL CENTRE |sung by Miss Jean Dickie, ac- New York City has recently EB ied at the piano by M s. | establish a Poison Control Cen-\j Lloyd Pegg. Mrs. L. M. Mec- the " |have told me they In a pretty early spring wed- | attendants (from left to right, ding at St. George's Ukrainian | Back Tow) Jue Misses Mary : | Mizen an nn Jacula, brides- Greek Catholic Church recently | paige "the bride and Miss Ann Marianne Patricia Dayday and | Host, maid-of-honor, and Miss Stanley Malachowski ex- Mary Hanson, bridesmaid. changed nuptial vows, The | (Front row) the Misses Patricia bride is the daughter of Mrs. Mizen, junior bridesmaid, Mitchell Dayday and the bride- | Theresa Baron and Jacqueline oom is the son of Mr. and | Malachowski, flower girls, and rs, Michael Malachowski, all | Pamela Dayday, junior brides- of Oshawa, Seen in the upper | maid. picture is the bride with her | THE STARS SAY --Photos by Ireland. * |during that period, will be gener- ous where long-range matters are concerned. By ESTRELLITA | May will be a Sood monn Hom a monetary point of view but, "OR TOMORROW '| generally speaking, you sould be Excellent planetary influences | ,nysually conservative in finan- revail now. You should make oja] maiters this year. Be extra ine headway in business and fi-|careful not to exceed your budget iancial dealings and there is also ate this month, late in July and strong possibility that, through throughout the whole month of he aid and cooperation of November. The months between nother, you will gain an object-| june will be excellent for social ve which seemed difficult of at-! nq" travel activities, and ro- ainment. mance and domestic affairs Congeniality will keynote the ghouid progress smoothly for, *, M. hours so that social func- ions and group activites of any most of 1957. ort should prove enjoyable. 'OR THE BIRTHDAY If tomorrow is your birthday. our horoscope indicates that it sould be smart to capitalize on very available opportunity to ad- | ance your posikidn, occupation- lly speaking, during the next ight months since your efforts uring this period could provide a ne springboard for real achieve- 1ent by year's end. September nd October will be especially lood months to attract the atten. on of superiors where your abil- des are concerned and the stars, setting Up Nights sr quick comfort help for Bockache, || hamatic pairs, ; ing Up Nights, | i [+ urine, irritating possoges, | So Bi and loss 'of energy due to idney ond Bladder troubles, try | YSTEX. Quick, complete satisfaction or oney bock. Over 900 million CYSTEX iblets used prove safety, success. Don't another wi asking your ugglst for CYS GOOD CLEANING Forgotten' + +» « Mail Your Donation To ROTARY CLUB OF OSHAWA c/o Arthur S. Hill, Treas. ROYAL BANK OF CANADA Simcoe St. N. Oshawa a? Saves | PROMPT SERVICE FREE PICK-UP Clothes | anp peLiveRy MWICK CLEANERS & DYERS on e girl--which is their defect, not s. hers. She needs the restraint of {man's real strength to keep her You mentioned also, some tim ago (Feb. 21), the wrong impre. son the word has of, North Ane 11*h 3 [3a Ce And. vols 1 Ff th 'new. | accommodation between men aud women, jealous prejudice, in large part, 1 think you said. be Eeiea Yet men who fought would readily marry gentle Korean and Japan- {ese women, in preference to {their hardboiled women at home, who are putting them into early graves, giving them bigger cars, homes, etc. Believe me, the people of Europe and Asia are often hap- | pier in their so-called "lower stan- \dards" of living. 'Man doesn't live by bread alone," you know. men and their women should lly work out flict inequities, etc.--with the man con- wributing sanity as needed, instead of his relapsing back into an older master-slave design for domestic: ity (now also passing out in Asia), as escape from being "pushed around." To regain perspective on sex, in- ternationally, you might read C.| S. Lewis' account of his boyhood in the British Tslos--sold u "Sur- ; i prised by Joy" (Harcourt, Brace). Yours faithfully, B.C. He recalls that sex intrigues were LACK LOGIC habitual among English public Dear B.C.: How mixed-up can|school boys of his era, beginning |you get? How biased can you be? |as garly as age 13. (See pages The March 11 discussion of a fam- 87-89). Lewis is the brilliant aut. ily's desire for right answers to a hor of 'The Screwtape Letters boy's candid appeal. for parental | and many other Christian works. advice, in dealing with puppy love,| The 1i-year-old's problem was | was a marked departure from the naive and sexless, actually. He general run of material used here. |was concerned with baffled love, For that very reason, you found it or idol-worship, not with amour, surprising, disconcerting and dis-|in the sense you mean. M.H, tasteful. Mary Haworth counsels through | |same breath to argue that it just sonal interview, Write to her in | goes to show that Americans are| care of this newspaper. pearl grey leads the trend in shades of grey for Spring Season's biggest colour news -- a lovely mild grey of subtle elegance and great delicacy in English melange worsted. Top: Tailored classic with notched revers, inset Pockets, slender skirt. 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He is now with the --are rushed to hospitals and| American Health Association doctors' offices, "About 500 of from which have come the fol- them die because neither the doc- lowing suggestions on first aid for tor nor parent could identify the| |parents: poison in the substance swal- 1. If the poison lowed. i is a drug or . _ |noncorrosive substance, except- Dr. Harold Jacobziner, Assist-|ing kerosene and other fuel oils, ant Health Commissioner of New| induce vomiting in the child im- York City, reporting recently on mediately by putting him across 454 cases of poisoning by chemi-/your lap and placing vour finger cals, says that 84 per cent oc- at the back of his throat. First curred. in children 1 to 4. 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