Women MARY HAWORTH MAIL DEAR MARY HAWORTH -- Please advise me what books to send my daughter, as there isn't THE DAILY TIMES-GAZETTE, Tuesday, Merch 12, 1957 © a bookstore near her: and also bx she doesn't know what CHILD GUIDANCE By G. CLEVELAND MYERS While all clothes - wetting and bed - wetting children should be checked by a physician, most of these cases reveal no physical causes. The reasons are generally psychological, chiefly emotional, The mother of an only child, eight, writes as follows: "For the past four years, she has been wetting her clothes by day and her bed by aight. Care- ful medical tests, including X-ray, show nothing wrong organically. "Her father died when she was three weeks old and I have been working since then. TOO MANY BOSSES "During the day, she is with relatives or at the day nursery. She is with me at night and on my days off. As a result, she has too many bosses, "Others find her hard to man- age. She's often in trouble with her classmates, although she likes LENTEN DISH Easy To Prepare Fish-Bake For Lent And Meatless Days Lenten fare this year need not)2 tablespoons chopped green mean a stretch of monotonous olives (optional) meals at your house! Cheese,| % teaspoon basil eggs and fish will come t % teaspoon marjoram ald with aplomb . . . and provide|1 tablespoon chopped parsley variety and substantial eating| 3% teaspoon worcestershire sauce during meat-less days. Teaming| % bay leaf : up fish and some of the dairy| % cup buttered bread crumbs foods alone will give count-| Saute onion slices in butter urtil less new tasty dishes, and to transparent. Spread slices in bot- Both Room Time Schedule May Answer Training Problem Suggests Helpful Reading For Parents And Teenagers However, Evelyn Millis Du- " DIGNITY TURNS She shows tting and this aspect Bla her six boy e ens et nt ane Ie more | pairs her incivility--then it will be things fade friendly Josngster Ne di course welcome 8 Ainge a woubagone; selfish bad manners WOM ven, wong. SO FE Co Bah Bs . " 31 . 5 him dead. inexplicably; oa HC knees about It. Wait jschooimates And if the girl s until the gir. thaws out and re-|aloof not w Hy her; owl Daretts time endugc to invite an explana- Barry should stand on|tion of her misbehavior. nity after the snub. That's| Tell Barrv that. in the mean- he shouldn't look pale and Mary Haworth counsels her column not mail sonal interview. Write to care of anly ettitude He should ofltime this newspaper. vall's book, "Facts of Life and k. Love for Teen Agers," ($3.50: Association Press, 291 Broadway, New York City7), hits a happy books to ask for. Her son Barry, 11, has a girl friend: and at the dinner table recently he was telling his par- ents about her. He said he had told her he loved her, and s had said thax she loved him. And then in the afternoon she woudn't even speak to him, He says that she has six other boy friends too. He asked his parenis what tc do about it, and is dad went into the subject with m, But my daughter says that she thinks the father was more shaken up than the son, and stayed awake half the night won- dering if he had told the boy the right things! What books should I send for the parents and what books for the boy? - MC MAY BE HELPFUL DEAR M.C.; I don't have in mind any ocoks that seem pre- cisely suited to this situation, They may exist, but they haven't come tb mv attention yet. Ma-Mere Piquet Chic Chick At 90 SUDBURY Ont. (CP) -- Mrs. tives to protect her from shame and ridicule for her clothes - wet. ting habit, to be consistent and reasonable in managing her, and to try to ehjoy her as a person. They should encourage her to have normal fun with children of her own age and should limit her viewing of exciting TV programs. Please show no anger over her wetting her clothes or bed. Prove that you are going to help her, Tell her that some of the people who are now grownups used to wet the bed as children. POST SCHEDULE During the day, post a bath. room time schedule. Be strict and make sure she follows it; but if she has an accident, then merely revise the schedule. Set an alarm clock often enough during the night to keep her dry, lengthening the periods gradually us she succeeds. At first, help her to awaken when the clock rings, he [ing in a newly revised enlarged in elling parents and children about ticklish sub- fects of mu'ua. interest. Mrs Duvall's book, first issued in 1950, is now in its ninth print. edition, It is available in paper- back format also, at 25 cents, by speciai arrangement with Pop- ular Library Inc., at 10 East 40th Street New York City 16. AUTHORS TEACH In my opinion, this book is a first-rate example of popular help- ful writing. Its clean, sensible, warmhearted handling of deli- cate, difficult topics will! be ap preciated by parents who fumb! for words, \n trying to give pro- tective knowledge and poise fo youngsters who are becoming sex conscious, And in the same class I would list Ralph ¥ckert's pamphlet "So You Think 's Love!" (25 cents), | distributed hy the Public Affairs Committee Inc. at 22 East 38th | Street. New York City 16. This brochure educates both parents | and children to the long view, in coping with problems of youthful | riendships and infatuations. i As for Barry s sweetheart, she sounds a bit unwholesome (or | emotionally unstable) in refusing to speak--the afternoon of the | verv day 'hev had testified to FOREIGN FASHION INFLUENCE HIGH STYLE AT A LOW PRICE The car coat . . . new high fashion with triangular pleated back, toggle button closing. Of weother-resistant English poplin In beige, aqua or red. 10 to 20. 15.95 The trench coot . . . always Intriguing, always good fashion Here, masterfully cut and magnificently detailed of sturdy men's weight imported gabardine with water-repellant German lining. Buckled, belted and double breasted in authentic style. Beige only, 10 to 20 29.95 rove this point, here is'a Lenten h with a difference! FISH-BAKE (Makes 6 Servings) » cup onion slices tablespoons butter pounds cod or haddock fillets | pan and simmer for 15 minutes. | teaspoon monosodium gluta- mate (optional) (10 ounce) can tomato soup tom of a buttered 12 x 8 inch bak- [ing dish. Cut fish into serving pieces and place over the onion | sttces. Sprinkle fish with mono- her teacher and gets good grades at school." This was my reply, in part: Try to prevail on those rela- until she can manage the night program herself. Show no displea- sure over accidents, but express satisfaction over successes. sodium glutamate, C re- {maining ingredients in a sauce- {Remove bay leaf from the sauce] land pour sauce over the fish. | |Sprinkle with % cup buttered] {bread crumbs. Bake in a hot oven | Teachers List Paper-Marking Augustine Piguette, 90, says "a woman might as well be dead as out of fashion." She is proud of her slim figure and when interviewed on her 90th mutual love Maybe she was hav- | ing a jealous fi' just then--about some wound to her ego that, Barry had c¢'ven, unawarely; and was testing her power to make him crawi, in her first flush of birthday wa, wearing a frock of fine wool fabric in "the very lat- est style." "Why, that's simple" she said. when asked "how to live to be proprietary 'eeling Or maybe she had a sudden revulsion to him |due to the earlier moment of Soirweitin OSHAWA SHOPPING CENTRE, King St. at Stevenson's Rd. closeness. This is a neurotic re- flex. | 3% cup water Among Drawbacks To Profession 90" "You just eat lots of good (425 deg. F.) for 15 to 20 min-| utes. | By CAROLYN WILLETT j1ed steak, lots of meat for pro- rather than academic and eultural | {oo lots of vegetables and leave OTTAWA (CP)--A group of wo-|2¢hievement. isan |the sweets alone." men teachers list the "endless| The survey found "striking evi-| "Mrs, Piquette, a resident of Sud- marking of papers" and too much |dence' that older women had a|pury since she came here in 1909 report-keeping as difiiculties en-|limited choice of careers, partic-|yith her late husband is a chic countered in thei: professiin. {ularly in the depression years or|g5 pounds She is called *Ma- The problems--but also the sat-|the years when fewer teachers fore" Piquette by her friends, isfactions and the reasons for Were required her son and daugiter: her 10 their choice of teaching--are out-| Many older teachers followed |grandchildren and 10 great-grand- | lired in a study of university wo- [members of their family into the | children. men's occupations made recently profession. Others went into gorN IN QUEBEC y the women's bureau of the fed- echool rooms because parental op- | Andras Avelin eral labor department. position barred fields such as nares Aven, % cup diced celery Juice of 1 lemon KEEP IN TRIM Suggested Exercise Routine To Strengthen Back Muscles NAME ELSIES TWINS - Native of Ste. By IDA JEAN KAIN | All working surfaces should be As life gets physically easier, at the heights which permit work back troubles plague us poor mor- without strain. For homemakers, tals. If is well known that mus- tLe surfaces to be checked are cular deficiency can cause back-|the ironing board, work tables and sche. But often backache can be [the sink. Ironing boards are now the result of habitually working in |sdjustable, and work table levels faulty posture or working at{can oiten be changed. If the sink wrong surface levels. is too low: a wooden rack under In my own experience, I found the dishpan helps to eliminate the my upper back definitely aching need for bending. by mid-afternoon. Naturally I con-| When it's the lower back that eluded I was working too long causes trouble, overweight can be Bours. A wise friend suggested aa factor. Dorothy Nye in her ex- simple test which revealed that I|cellent book '"Your Aches' in the did not measure up to my big ex-|chapter of Back Talk, asks, "By ecutive desk. An inch and three-|the way, have you weighed your- quarters off the feet of the desk [self recently? You'd be surprised eliminated the cause of the strain how ten extra pounds and three| . . . and some simple back [inches around the abdominal re- strengthening exercises completed gion will drag at your lower back the cure. The test for the right n.uscles." desk height is to stend sideways STRENGTHEN BACK scientific, office! In increasing numbers and that| = ono work. teaching of'ers ready employ-|, 4inoc' Reports on the survey mow are ment, there are still limits to|pance Hotel being published monthly in the 'eaching opvortunities, joange department's Labcr Gazette, Science graduates, for example, | Mrs Piquette now rents a room ""The real purpose of the survey tound a tendency to regard sci-|with {riends ano does al' her own | was to get some authentic reflec- (ence as a man's field. with only housekeeping taking a long walk | tions on the reasons why women secondary posts open to women .ach day besides doing her own choose their work." says Marion science teachers : marketing Royce bureau director. | Home economics however, has| She loves to dance and sing. The CFUW membership is com- hecome an increasingly popular She told guests that she enjoys prised of vlder graduates and subject and one that fits well intoa good party. and executed a of Sudbury's larger including the Nickel and Sacred Heart medical and professions. the career of teacher, " fo the desk arm down at side--| Here are s'mple back strength- the desk pve should. be at! ning exercises. Take them regu- Kies of th hand. larly. Lie face downward on floor, SO MUCH VARIETY! fcc straight roe exercise 1s sins | ply to squeeze the muscles of the but their professional experiences yife. s of certa or house. tricky littie clog dance and al 'waltz to prove it. and their reasons for gosing ert Teuls sre tll valld, the report HOUSEHOLD HINT Although the teacher answering To disconnect an electric cord, | questionnaires represent only a| grasp the plug, not the cord, Pull 'raction of the total in Canada, | straight. $ 2 5,000 1ST PRIZE |b: Of some 1,000 members of the!law. once thought unsuitable for|2 Quebec, near community of Ot. Canadian Federation of University women tawa, the former Aigisie Sk Women in 7% lecal branches who! Younger teachers were influ- seney a ken ig or her ailing replied to the bureau's question- enced by summer teaching jobs, mol "Sh when Re I naire, nearly 400 were teachers. camp counselling and encourage- BIEL ae Many ui a EXPEKIENCED GROUP ment from school principals. They. wore i tn Suey Also contributing to the survey | Despite the fact that since the pen Simeos booueht his diminu- were nurses, librarians, home eco- Second World War married wo-| jue hride tc Sudbury, Mr. Pi- nomists, dietitians and women in|men have returned to classrooms |..eite who died in 1915, worked | $5,0 (0 (0) 2ND PRIZE 0.000:5- $1,000 somm AND ALL THESE OTHER WONDERFUL PRIZES butiocks together strongly and |ikey seemed to echo the ups and | If the plug sticks, rock it gently [n-orl-d for a slow count of 10, Re- | owns of the profession generally, from side to side as you pull. to i plas = el A es later | COME DRAWBACKS loosen one connection at a time. wd | S. ---- => g ling alternate legs about 4 inches| This group listed low salaries, | 2 ys i |from floor, h-o-1-d for count of 10, |struggles for education standards GRANDMA SWIMS me and over. Repeat five times,|and limited opportunities for ad- WANGANUI, N.Z. (CP)--Mrs. later ten times Do not roll side- (vancement--men are still prefer- yngelhy Morrison, 60 - year - old 8 wards. |red for administrative posts--as grandmother, is a regular com. §| On hands and knees. "arch" major drawbacks. Average salary petitor in long-distance swims. | y She has just won the annual H | your back like an angry eat, ull os the group was $4,000 or $5, ing up-and-in firmly with abdom- annually. bridge-to-bridge swim through the a inal muscles. Hold for slow count| In daily teaching, "the difficul- city ee Wanganui, RN roug the | Speciaily formulated for babies! of 5, relax and repeat five times. ties encountered reflect the reali-|distance in 34 minutes, 52 seconds, | Breaks up phlegm--eases wheezing Again, from the position of ly-(ties of the modern classroom," [to beat six competitors much | mg face downward. clasp hands|the report said | younger. | behind back. elbows straight. 24 6G | Electric Color TV 50 Maytag Double-Decker 100 General Electric Portable Sets. Today's brightest picture Refrigerator-Freezers. Two full: TV Sets with "Daylight Power" in color or black and white. picture. Weight 26 lbs 125 Evans Firebird Bi America's foremost 2 NoYihe. equipped with 3-speed gearshift. Raise head and shoulders from floor as ou pull up strongly with clasped hands. Hold for a count Teachers complained of classes too large to enab'e them to give students individual attention, and | size appliances in space of one. raid that repeating the same les- of 39, repeat five times. later ten on to several classes was monoto- : nous. Followed regularly. this routine| Others noted a sense of frustra-| wil Rrengthen weak back mus tion or failure in trying to teach cles. Ask your doctor. the gifted or disinterested child. THE STARS SAY Many teachers were critical of parental concern with monetary By ESTRELLITA Send in your names for the new little boy calf and girl calf, and you may wim as much as $25,000 and a Ford 9-passenger Country Sedan. y It's just 100 years since The Borden Company started out in business, so --to celebrate this big occasion -- there's a total of $100,000 in prizes. 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