MARY HAWORTH MAIL Advises Girl To Forget Brief Shipboard Romance | Dear Mary Haworth: I am writ- chance, and doesn't 'think back'| ing to ask your opinion of a prob-' about it, as you are doing. | lem of mine which I have been! His kiss at parting, when your| puzzling over for many months ghip reached New York, was| Bow. | given because you seemed fo want! About six months ago I came it, I suppose.. His invitation to to. this country, to he home of coffee, when you ran into him a an uncle, I came by boat, and on few months later, was his further| shipboard I met an officer, who concession to your eager - faced sought my company. |interest in him, no doubt. The! He invited me for a drink, along|buciness of taking your address | with another girl, in a fellow of- and promising to write was rou- ficer's cabin. We spent a very tine diplomacy, perhaps--his way| leasant evening and the follow-|Of-easing out of a lady's clutches, | day were invited for dinner|Without being displeasing (at the and spent the evening with these time). : officers. As to why you've Jad to SW up- Late in the evening my ad: JCF, 10 8 CLF BRO IO ent) mirer tried to kiss me and I P25 ould be: {hal he. backs fought him off, mainly because guets Jou ig o v away from girls who pursue. The I had just gone through an un- second guess Is that He gave a happy love affair in Europe. He y phony address, to prevent vou apologized. from invading his private life. FELT HE CARED And a third guess, which ties in When I left the ship in New, with the other two, is that ne is a| York, we kissed goodbye and I/married man, who keeps his life felt sure we would see each other at cea separate from his life on again. However, I didn't until a land--whose shipboard romances few months later, when I saw alare over, for him, when his ship friend off to Europe, and lo, the puts into port. officer was there. He invited me/gUT OF ORDER for coffee, took down my ad-| | pelieve it is taken for granted, dress and said I would receive mongst seasoned travelers, that Joa Sua thats The ant ge shipboerd Jn{imacies, thal Js, ug. to his address, that he had given Son bine 8 fring eX- me--but no good : periences. They are part of the What went Wrong? I fell in love pattern of *'getting away from it with him and thought certainly aj»_5 type of diversion to be fe he Sared for me €Very-' enjoyed by sophisticates on this g pointed to it. } © S8VS| fantasy level, with no effort or it was just "sea wat that); ont make it a continuing a nen have. W part of their down-to-earth story : . So, as to what went wrong, I| CASUAL pre", : think it was your response that| ar P. s I get the picture, was out of order. That is, youl the officer himself misconstrued 'the meaning of the| and, in effect, up' officer's advances. He was casting| first date with you rink about for pastime, not courting] with another gir of (or offering) serious interest. M.-H. | Jjcer's cabin, In a, Mary Haworth counsels through | ss, in the late es ter a her column, not by mail or per-| second gale Je probab 1 Wh sonal interview. Write her in care| pitching for a transient shipboard of this newspaper) ffair. an you foiled hi (prudently), he pre the idea of pursuing : with you, meanwt aware that you fully interested smitten with, | Likely is with him, on an scan the passen pretty girl or we traveling alone, available for lo he tries for con in your case, he p It off, as part Bm ONE-PIECE! 1 had no an-| uncl < The Queen's Corgi a Poses For Portrait LONDON (CP) Susan, the . Queen's favorite Corgl, is having portrait painted in pastels » a. The artist.is Marjorie Porter of | jv! Fakenham, Norfolk, who has spe-| cialized in crayon drawings of for 30 vears an, aged 12, is the oldest and| t - tempered of the royal | | | ver hi « Porter says she expects ol make about four trips to the royal| idence at Sandringham to com. | ote the study | Famous Pearls Sold By Auction NEW YORK (AP)--Two orien-| tal pearl necklaces, once swapped | for a mansion valued at more than $1,000,000, were sold at auc-| tion Wednesday for $151,000. | The necklaces were two of 166 pieces of jewelry sold for $1,122;-| 865. They were from the collection of the late Mrs. John E. Roven- A . then | 0 Plant, tra her mansion for the two necklaces. | | SELF - DEFENCE NIAGARA FALLS, Ont. (CP)-- Forty girls have completed a six- week course in judo offered by Bob Gold, a member of the Nia- gara Falls Optimist Club. An- other course is planned. | ing figure flattery typlica THE STARS SAY By ESTRELLITA By ESTRELITA FOR TOMORROW Some. excellent influences pre- vail now--especially for those en- gaged in teaching, literary work and research. Novel ideas should pay off, and there is a possibilit of belated recognition for worl done along these lines in the past. The P.M. hours will be propi- tious for outdoor interests, sports and social activities. | For the one who lives alone or| FOR THE BIRTHDAY {when the family consists of only If tomorrow is your birthday, two, buy a one-rib standing rib your horoscope indicates that you roast. Have it cut quite thick and are extremely versatile and highly broil it. intelligent but may be too impul-/ ive at times. It would be well to bear this fact in mind during the|are concerned, 1957 will probably ill xt few months, since your not prove spectacular, but it wil elon chart promises unusual|be a good year for making long-| opportunities for accomplishment range monetary plans. | IF you are co-operative with oth-| Look tor some stimulating 80-| ers and can maintain harmon- cial experiences during the next jous relationships .with persons three months and for a possible whose influence could prove bene- opportunity to travel between July ficial. Where financial matters'and September. THE LOVEL WY © 'WiFE PRESERVERS | Y NEW-SEASON LOOK | understands him. do Aldwinckle Women's Editor Dial RA. 3-3474 THE DAILY TIMES-GAZETTE, Friday, January 25, 1957 9 CHILD GUIDANCE Parents Have A Problem KEEP IN TRIM By IDA JEAN KAIN If you can adjust your thinking so as to turn your excuse for not reducing into the very reason why you should take off the ex- cess pounds, vour whole attitude toward reducing changes. For example you perhaps rea- son that being a busy homemaker, you have to keep up your strength and therefore you cannot diet. Your logic is right. but you are reasoning from the wrong pre- mise--for there is no strength in excess fat. If your daily food pat- tern keeps your weight too high, actually you are not eating in a When Child Begins To Steal By G. CLEVELAND MYERS [ It's almost impossible for a'best you can to shield him from child to begin to steal from a per-|temptation. In the meanwhile, son he is sure really loves and you and Dad try to build happier relations with this boy and make A New York mother writes: him feel more worthwhile. "I have a 7-year-old boy. Re-| Dad should especially work at cently, he has started to take|this doing things with the boy money he has found around theland' taking him places with his house. The problem started this|pajs having fun with him, spend- summer. Up to that time he had|ing "lots of time with him at beep getting an allowance. I re-home, veled his allowance for a while! (My bulletin, "Allowances," «8 a punishment for taking one may 'he had by sending a self- of his father's tools and breaking addressed envelope with a 3-cent f. U.S. st it t GAN TO STEAL | stamp on it to me in care of From now On, aim to do the way that can most effectively {keep up your strength, With {weight at desirable normal you {will have more energy and tire {less quickly 3 | It takes energy to carry excess |poundage, To get a vivid picture, pick up a bundle that weighs about the amount of vour excess. Viewed objectively, it is obvious that you are doing yourself no j {vor to continue to carry the bur- en, ESSENTIAL NUTRIENTS | If on previous diets you felt weak and weary. the fault was in {the food pattern, not in the lost {weight. By applying nutrition science, a reducing menu can be this newspaper). "After that he began to take 3 Newspaper money that didn't belong to him! and things have gone from bad to worse. Today, I caught him taking several dollars of my money to school with him. "Having money of his own to spend doesn't seem to remedy the] situation. He was given spending| money for his birthday. 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