love Hungary but T am going of footed. Some had lost their shoes. with them only a pitiful far away as possible to make 3 In #| Others had thrown them away be- handful of belongings in one | cause they were too heavy with |satchel. But they d strik- | mud. |ingly unconcerned about the fu- HUGE STACK An attractive woman called | ture. | Warld's tallest chimney is a Maria, a 27-year-old economist| "Why should we worry," said 570-foot structure of reinforced graduate from the University of Maria. "Anything is better than|concrete at a copper plant in Budapest, said the Kadar-govern-| what we left behind. I'll always Sagazanoseki, Japan. ment has been unable to estals, . "|lish even a semblance of control' over the workers. . hy ht ad - "My country is in a state of D.E? THE DAILY TIMES-GAZETTE, Monday, December 17, 1956 9 MARY HAWORTH MAIL Man Wonders Why He Wrecked Beginning Of Nice Friendship Dear Mary Haworth: Why does) of dealing sanely with the present {la man rack the beginnings of opportunity. the nicest friendship he ever had) you are conflicted, =onfused {| with a woman? I am a bachelor| ang self-distrustful; full of ancer- !|in my thirties and have had the tainty about our worth fo the Army experiences of most of my opposite sex. You assume uncon-| : generation--wartime service as an sciously that you aren't «quipped, | © officer and a college education/by natural endowment and rocial| © via night school. cultivation to be truly acceptable & My present job requires a know-/or satisfactory to a girl--an at-| ledge of people and I am fairly tractive desirable girl --as ber successful. For several years I gweetheart. friend or spouse. couldn't marry because of cerl- pence your courting mood is ain responsibilities; but things a mixture of fear and bravado, are easier now. which flares into angry shame] §. Recently I met a and aggressive rudeness, if a nice| young girl who 1s lovely in ever|gi. (whom you like) happens to] | way. There seemed to be a good hurt your feelings. You are driven| § | deal of rapport between us, and yy "face saving" impulses mostly | f several mid-week dates followed. that don't make sense to the other { When I invited her out for a Sat- persons who get involved, since {urday night. she agreed. they can't comprehend the inner) : | Then I did the stupidest thing mechanism of your offensive .e- |T've ever done. I telephoned some havior, So they drop you as not! |days in advance, to make the fi-| worth the trouble, and leave youl (nal arrangements, and then shel; a vacuum with your problem. | economic collapse," she said. Maria, who spoke English, said thousands more will be forced to flee because they cannot make their homes livable this winter, NO RETURN Most of the refugees are young. A Probably the average age of the J| adults is not more than 30 years. + 4 The journey was too difficult for | the elderly. Almost all said they will never return to Hungary. This reporter was surrounded by refugees who asked what their chances were to emigrate to Canada. Could they et in? What's the weather like? here is the best place to live? What's the cost of living? < Conditions in the shelters are | i|primitive but probably adequate | {| because no one stays too long. 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