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WOMEN MARY HAWORTH MAIL MARY HAWORTH'S MAIL Dear Mary Haworth: Mine is a strange question, perhaps, in view THE DAILY TIMES-GAZETTE, Saturday, November 17, 1956 © - @ 42 We HEADED FOR WINTER VELVET AND fur are the clever combination that is used to make this fascinating winter hat. It is a perfect topper for | daytime costumes and is par- ticularly chic with tailored suits and coats. The sailor is of n of the more serious problems I've had in the Roi that 1 often thought of writing to you about-- but which have more or less | worked themselves out. One ex- ception is my teen-age marriage which, after 13 years, I've prob- ably just resigned myself to. or several years I've been in a state of indecision about relig- | lon, and have finally decided to | make a total and permanent com- mitment. |" In the course of my search for a faith, many persons have been | helpful, inspirational and patient, in guiding me to my goal. And mow I am wondering if it would be proper to invite them to the ceremony, at which I will make 4 the promises required of a coa- vert? | The friends I have in mind in- clude a cleric from whom I took instructions five years ago; a woman now in religious work, who: was a' classmate of mine; an Army officer with whom I have worked; a very sweet girl of a different race, who is a chem- ist; a college professor--and also |the dean of the college, who is | probably unaware of the influence 4 | brown silk velvet and has a beaver trimmed brim and a wide grosgrain hat band of matching brown. There is a ecir- cular fancy decorating the bow on the grosgrain silk band. --By TRACY ADRIAN Canadian Fumiture } Makers Seek To Please The Housewiie By OLI DAUM Canadian Press Stalf Writer TORONTO (CP) The house. wife never had it so good. Producers of electrical vices . . on disposable dishes and pleasant memory. And now manufacturers FOR TEENERS! 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Send for Free 44-poge descriptive Booklet and Free Trial lesson. Write AMERICAN SCHOOL 165 Colbourne St., Kingston, Ont, Name bees Address appli- ances have outdone themselves to provide her with labor-saving de- . scientists are working linens . new detergents and fabrics have teamed up to make ironing almost nothing more than an un- are striving to give her furniture that is more attractive, more func- tional and easier to clean. So says Harry Parker, manager of the | received into the church of your her column, not by mail Canadian Furniture Mart who had choice--either as a member of a|sonal interview. Write her in ¢ [that his sure faith has had on my | life. | This is to be a very solemn oc- |casion for me; not for "show." | Would it be better if I wrote these people a little note? If so, what | should I say? F.S. TOO ABASHED Dear F.S.: It is my impression that you feel so shy, and so lack- {ing in savoir faire as you ap- | proach this new commitment, that you hardly dare ask questions concerning the informal rules of social fellowship that customarily surround the religious ritual. It seems you suffer an almost child- like embarrassment concerning Jour innocent lack of social know- ow. {at rest, with this information: The mannerly, sensible, grown - up way to obtain exact advice about counsellor. are mediate spiritual Presumably you arrangements or the pastor's assistant, to be Should She Invite Friends To Share Spiritual Experience? the propriety of asking friends to am a convert ceremony is simply to such-and-such Church on Sunday, clear the matter with your im-|December 2nd, at 3 o'clock in the achievements | afternoon. making | happy if you could be presen through a pastor,|let me know." Ete. M.H. Mary Haworth counsels through home, one by one. or per-| Study this lad and help him be a are better playmate DAD CAN HELP rivate individual ceremony. I can't think how else you could go abeut it. And, in either case, you will want to follow the usual prac-| | tice in that particular congrega- tion. And the way to find out is| to ask the churchman in charge of your admission. OPEN TO GUESTS However, I've done some dig- ing on your behalf and am told that," from the clergy's view, friends of converts are welcome to witness such ceremonies, whet- her solemnized on.a group basis|® But|! or as individual occasions. there is always a chance that special circumstances might just-|' ify special exceptions to this gen-| eral rule of hospitality--so it is courteous foresight to get explicit | answers for yourself. Now, regarding the form of in- vitation: It would seem natural and right to telephone those per- sons to whom you feel really close and write to the others, whom you like and respect and feel greateful to--but don't know so well, Thus you might telephone the former classmate, also the cleric from whom you took religious in- structions five years ago (identify ing yourself afresh, if necessary): also the girl chemist. The Army officer, the college professor and, the college dean qualify for al slightly more formal invitation from a married woman, I think. WHAT TO SAY As for what to say, try the fol- lowing outline for the telephone: "This is Frances Smith and I am going to be received. into such- and-such church on Sunday, De- cember 2nd, in a (private or group) ceremony at 3 o'clock in the afternoon. I am asking a few friends to be there, and I spec- ially want you to come." Then any other friendly words that come to your mind; and sign off. The written invitation might be saving kitchen similarly phrased, as ample: 'Dear So-and-So: Because! Therefore, may I put your mind you are one whose fine life and| influential part in_my finding a faith, I want you to know that I going to be received into And I would be so just completed a cross - Canada convert group; or perhaps in alof this newspaper tour of 400 manufacturing firms which are to display their wares here in January. The manufacturers, he said, are particularly eager for the house- wife's reaction to their new light- weight furnishings, styled partic- ularly for the woman who likes to re - arrange her furniture fre- quently, 'She won't have to wait for her husband to come home from work to help her," Mr. Parker said. |"Even chesterfields are light enough in weight for one person to move." RAISED FROM FLOOR | The newly - designed heavier pieces of furniture will not, how- ever, have to be moved for clean-!| | Ing, purposes. They've been raised so that a vacuum cleaner or mop can be easily slip, underneath. Wood trim, scral 1 by plagiul children, is no longer fash- {lonable, Washable fabrics such as {nylon and orlon are being used in | upholstery. Bolder colors are be- {ing suggested because they are more reluctant than pastels to re- veal stains or smudges. The new trends, says Mr. Par- ker, were introduced to meet the|ent story, he starts to cry and spend lots of time with needs of 20th-ceatury living. In the process, however, manufacturers | are developing a style that is dis- !tinctly Canadian. It emphasizes simplicity and durability. Mr. Parker said that although it has been the practice of Canadian furniture manufacturers to copy United States styles they now are designing their own. Their aim is to turn out prod- ucts that will compare favorably with those of other countries now |leading the [furniture-manufactur- CHILD GUIDANCE The Over-Aggressive Chilc ild ' May Be A Jealous One By G. CLEVELAND MYERS Many parents write of constant fighting and quarreling between children in the family. | An Ohio mother writes of her |two children, nine and six: | "They fight like two wildcats every time they're left in the same room for five minutes. Their constant bickering unless you know for sure which one is the aggressor. If your daughter were not as good and as well-liked by oth children, her brother hardly be so bad and so unpap- ular with his playmates. The com- ets on my | parisons, even when not expressed | nerves to the point whoo I'm now in words, arouse jealousy in him under the doctor's care. |and result in more antagonism to "Lately our boy has come home her and to other children. {with extremely tall tales, about fights he's had. | "He really has usually] Though his aggression may need curbing, he needs positive some knock- |help, poor kid. Most of all, he down, drag-out fights with any- needs help at getting on with | {one who'll fight, but accordin him it's always someone else's to other children of his age. His sister can't be his ideal | fault. If someone tells me a differ- | playmate. Besides. she needs to |says everyone is against him. other children of her age. Try to per- | "None of the children want to gyade her to be more appreciative play with him anys more and the ittle fellow is so unhappy. | "Our girl is well behaved, makes friends easily and is invited everywhere, She's mortified by r brother's behavior but takes bis part when others gang up on m." | This was my reply in part. |SEPARATE THEM { Expect a good deal of quarrel- 8 | | f ut when you can't endure) ing field. Their desire to compete their warfare, just separate them! has a double purpose -- to gain recognition for creative ability and to help increase Canada's in- dustrial output. 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Do work harder to attract other chil-|Success promised in sound husi- dren of your boy's age to your ness and financial moves--espe- by making and doir him for fun, some: mates present; sk 11s othe r boy mie £ oiten of a psych the for half an hour or so. Don't try have to piace the blame on either one yourself better mn hand. Quarreling ¢ Jittery Moth "sending st would With the Full Moon, teaden- cies toward emotionalism and ann iln ie irascibility will prevail with some A rubber spatula is a money-| go use ali the diplomacy of which tool. Use ik t0yoy are capable if you'd make HOUSEHOLD HINT Qe ots om - clean, to|thjs Sunday the happy day that it the beater does If tomorrow is your birthday, your horoscope indicates that the next three months should be un stimulating. From now |until mid - February initiative and enterprise are favored, wih There's an extra thrill in giving ...and geuing... baggage proudly hall. marked by the name McBrine. Come in and choose from our many fine values. Perhaps you and Dad should Then you could ! cially during the latter part o his month, early .ecember and late January. Take advantage o all opportunities under these ex- t help him cellent aspects 1 with! Socially, you should gain in m play- popularity and win the friend ving him gain ship of influential persons be- s age will ad- tween May and-September and places with him, during the same period, the a ole or more play- pects will be fine for travel an g nce. Domestic matter 't look for miracles. uld prosper during most o ht profit from counsel 1957. ist for yourself! and| A child born on this day will boy. Certainly vou need to be imaginative, talented and more relaxation and get highly ingenious in carrying out unique ideas. and The Day Afier Torrow _ | ous, | Imnortant plans and projects : il by should do well with the help of] dcressed U. 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