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on Cn SO |. oi ow pretty fall wedding was | the daughter of Mrs. W. J. "Rl recently at Simcoe | Shermet of Whitby, formerly of Street United Church when Mr. | Oshawa, and the bridegroom is and Mrs. Irwin Patrick Patter- | the son of Mr. and Mrs. Isaac son exchanged nuptial vows. | Patterson of Oshawa. The The bride, the former Miss | couple will live in Whitby. Elizabeth Wilma Warwick, is --Photo by Ireland Studio Women's WOMEN Editor Dial RA. 8-3474 8 THE DAILY TIMES-GAZETTE, Saturday, October 27, 1956 MARY HAWORTH'S MAIL Dear Mary Haworth: Will you, please comment in your column today, namely, when a married man forgets that he is married and dates a single girl, This does occur when a ge number of men and women work together in an organization. How does it affect, socially, the single girl involved? And the wife to whom the man is unfaithful? And the man himself, in general? In your opinion, which one of them is most hurt?--taking into consideration that each member of the triangle is fairly decent human being. B.F. DEFEATS SELF Dear B.F.: The person who is being actively unfaithful is the key the hopelessly negative, self-de- feating aspect of th etriangle is that this unfaithful fellow, the key person, becomes a ciph chological encounter other two individuals intimately volved in 'the betrayal opera- tion. Take the case of a married man two-timing his wife by dating a girl co-worker. As he becomes un- faithful to his wife, first in his thoughts and desires, then in his actions progressively, he loses (by diminution: ingful, reciprocally satisfactory '"'oneness" with her--in mind; or body; or spirit. At the same time, he is equally unable (for the sam ereason: of forfeited integrity), to establish a vital relationship with the other woman. That is to say, an un- guarded, wholehearted, mutually dedicated sharing of emotion, as- piration and social fellowship. | When Boss Dates Co-Worker She May Sutfer Social Slight about a rather common problem) figure in a triangle situation. And HURT LE er in psy- with the h or adulteration) the) capacity to have any really mean- ments. But socially the girl gets| Thus in reckless suit of for- bidden fruit, the philanderer dam- ages himself primarily, in terms of truly dissipating his capacity to identify himself profoundly with a love partner--so that in the end, his "love life" seems to him barren and disappointing, regard- less of where, how, or with whom he spends it. As for the effects of this kind of thing upon the wife and the other woman: -- well, assuming ghey each care enough to persist in the tangle, they too are feeding upon husks in the set-up, obvi- ously. And that kind of starvation diet, indefinitely prolonged, is bound to result anemic personal- ity, disturbed absessive behavior, socially pathetic status, and so on. The poor thwarted creatures can't experience, even fragment- arily, a worthwhile or consolatory relationship with a male who, for the most part, just isn't there; who is never more than physic- ally present, transiently--in a self engrossed, double - minded, de- fensive mood. As to which of the two women is most hurt by the problem--the All smiles for her first birth- day today is Sandra Helen, daughter of Mr. and Mrs, Ger- ald Hill, Gibbons street. Sandra Helen is the granddaughter of Mr. and Mrs. Ronald Ellis of Oshawa and Mr. and Mrs. Children's Reading Subject Of Address At H-S Council Mr. Miles chose as "chi'dren's re the ampaign g 5 "EEF sise eagk fe i : HH ; i FS zs 3 ge expressing their disapproval of sale of subservisive literature, Marvin Hill of Little Britain CLUB CALENDAR DRAPES - CURTAINS VENETIAN SHADES and great - granddaughter of Mrs. George Wickett, Mr. Isaac Hill, Little Britain, and Mr. Theodore Carey, Osh- awa, --Photo by Hornsby Studio wife or the girl--I should imagine that, subjectively, they might suf- {fer about equally. Much or little, depending upon their tempera- ithe worst of it, of course, in run- ning the gauntlet of public dis- |favor, insecurity and ignominy-- {as compared to th ewife, who at {least has the shelter of a legal {respectable partnership rating. M.H. | Mary Haworth counsels through {her column, not by mail or per sonal interview. Write her in care & of this newspaper. GROUPS, CLUBS, AUXILIARIES FIRST BAPTIST WA [at he Scout Bal, Gihons street, lon Monday, October 22. Tin el, mesg of te WA OR JE, CoO report with Mrs. Richard Bretton presid-| and the treasurer's ing, The devotional period was in|Mrs. Gordon Varnum with charge of Mrs. Sidney Winsley. call and collection for flowers aken, On Thursday night, an interest- * Mrs. Edward Simmons install- illustrated talk with color| oq she "officers for the coming films, taken by Mr. and Mrs.iyear: President, Mrs. Everett McLellan on their recent|Watne; vice - president, Mrs. Mel- trip to Europe was given and Mrs. ville Coolidge; secretary, Mrs. Donald Rice gave a short devo-'E. R. Parker; treasurer, Mrs, |was read by Mrs. Arthur Taylor report by| roll] KEEP IN TRIM Some New Facts On Food Fat In Relation To Heart Disease By IDA JEAN KAIN Exciting findings have come to light in research on food fat sin relation to heart disease. This was reported by Dr. Louis N. Katz, director of the Cardiovascular De- partment at Michael Reese Hos- pital Research Institute and Dr. Norman Jolliffe, head of New York City Health Department's Bureau of Nutrition in a recent issue of Medical News. Food fat has long been linked with eholesterol, a fatty substance found in the blood stream a suspect in relation to heart dis- gave tional on St. Paul's travels in|W. E. Gomme; telephone com- Athens. Mr. Richard Bretton in-/mittee, Mrs. Fred Connell and troduced the speakers. Mrs.|Mrs. Gordon Varnum; sick con- Frank McLellan also showed vener, Mrs. Frank Gravelle and many souvenirs of the different Mrs. Cecil McKnight; press, Mrs. countries they visited. Thanks to Cecil McKnight. them were expressed by Mrs. Sid-| 1t was decided to hold a home {baking sale and a ri'mmage sale at a later date. SIMCOE ST. YPU The Young People's Union of Simcoe Street United Church met ST. MATTHEW'S W A Jon Monday evening with 14 pres- Mrs. G. Nicholson, St. John's'ent. The meeting was conducted Rectory, Blackstock, was the(in the church with group leader| guest speaker at the regular(0f recreation and culture, John meeting of St. Matthew's Anglican| Moffat in charge. Assisting him in Church WA on Wednesday after- the worship service was Miss noon, October 24. |Sharon Brown. An interesting report on the re-| The highlight of the evening was| cent Oshawa Deanery meeting 2 talk by Mr. Robert Gay, a can-| was given by the secretary, Mrs. diate for the ministry. | George Day. Ly evening closed with a sing-| Mrs. K. R. Fletcher, the presi- dent, presided over the business,| CHEERFUL GIVERS and extended a warm me to; The regular meeting of the the visitors present. Mrs. William Cheerful Givers WMS group was Beach was in charge of the devo- held at King Street United Church. tional period. Mrs. Lawrence Allin, president, The appointment of Mrs. Blake presided. Mrs. Norman Wirsching| Allard and Mrs. Day as program read tle minutes and called the conveners, Mrs. Arthur Sanders,|roll. Mrs. Almond Brintnell Living Message secretary, and the treasurer's report. Mrs. Allen Ferris as Literature] Announcement was made of the| secretary was made, also a deci-|anrual 'Thankoffering service on| sion to allot Mrs. Harry Bathe, Sunday, November 4. The speak-| Dorcas convener, money for nec- er will be the Rev. A. Huston from | essary materials for a layette. 'Gormley, and his daughter will be Mrs. Nicholson told of her work guest soloist. in the Arctic, and made a running| Miss Illa Barker led in the de-| commentary as her husband, the votional with the theme 'Tal. Rev. George Nicholson, showed ents", reading the poem "Make moving pictures taken during|the Most of What You Are". Mrs. | their sojourn as issi ies| Wilbur R ll, accompanied by there. The pictures gave a vivid Mrs. Clarence Scott, sang two impression of the vast frozen|solos, "More Like Jesus", and area; the method of traleport via} "Pike Be to God" i og-sled, with many close-ups off Mrs. Wirsching gave a the lovely husky teams; the pre-|from the Bb BS ofthe cise manner in which igloos are Oshawa Presbyterial held in Ajax| built; church services held in and Mrs, Allin gave her report of tents and snow-huts, attended by|the afternoon session. all who lived within travelling dis-| Refreshments were served by tance; and life as it goes on in an|Mrs. C, E. Young and her com- Eskimo village, showing gay and mittee, intricate ceremonial dress and dances, and the great use of fur ARVILIA McGREGOR AUX. villa Mes | | in dress and household use. ular meeting of the Ar-| Mrs. B. Falconer, treasurer, re- ported on a cheque for $50.00 she had recnived from the. Chureh Tuesday evening with the presi-| |deot, Mrs. Bruce McGregor pre-| siding. | Refreshments were served by| The worship service wa | Mrs. Gordon Twining and her ducted by Miss Madelaine Sinclair committee. {and Mrs. Hugh Beaton. Mrs. Wil-| Hornsby Photographs FOR CHRISTMAS HORNSBY STUDIO RA 5.0151 3 SIMCOE §. liam Collison IST SCOUT MOTHERS' AUX. Plans for the fall Thankoffering The October meeting of the 1st meeting to be held on Nov Scout Mothers' Auxiliary was held 27 were discussed. | The meeting closed with prayer M by Mrs. Stuart Coles. Party Menu Refres Mrs Lloyd Pigden's group. For After The Fun | 1m scour MOTHERS' AUX. ' Tie regular meeting of the 10th On Hollowe en Oshawa Scout Mothers' Auxiliary fi \was held recently, with Mrs. Trick or Treat" is the cry on Lloyd Halliday presiding. There Hallowe'en night as ghostly cos-/were ten members present. One tumed figures with ghoulish faces! ow member was welcomed. appear at each doorstep. For the, nrg Neil McRae gave the party afterwards you might dec-\(r curer's report, and the secre- orate the table and windows With tary, Mrs. Victor Phair, read the gay apple jack-o-lanterns. | Minutes of the last meeting. A birthday candle inside each| A rummage sale was planned, So a his Sa aud #f way decided to give the . Ice © ' t. always enjoyed by the children Te Cur a Haliowe'sn irea to give a special Hallowe'en touch, serve ice cream clowns. | To make them -- and they] should be made at the last min- ute so that the ice cream won't | melt -- use large chocolate or ginger cookies for the base. Then) place a large scoop of ice cream | in the centre of each. When rai-| gin eyes and a large red cherry nose are added, this becomes the! face. Top it with a cone set up-| side - down at a jaunty angle for the hat, and decorate with whipped cream pom-poms on the hat and ruffle around the neck Big ears will add to the Tun stick i of cookie into 5 FH @ Re os cream seoop. |} a ------ regor Auxiliary of Knox! Presbyterian Church was held on/terns that go nicely with really] Mr. and Mrs. ease. It was o ally thought| that what coun was whether the fats were of animal or vege- table origin. According to the la- test research, however, it doesn't| make any difference whether the fats have animal or vegetable an- cstry. Th eimportant point is their saturation or unsaturation. The saturated fats appear to be the ones that raise serum choles- terol. Dr. Jolliffe explained the differ- ence between the two types of fats in this way: "The satrated fats are usually the ones that are hard --that is, solid at room temper- ature. They include meat fats, butter and milk fat, margarine, and cooking fats--the ones that come in a can and look solid like fice cream. The soft or unsatur- ated fats are usually those that are oils or liquid at room tem- perature, such as peanut, olive and corn ofls . . . exceptions to this rule are cocoanut oil and the fat in milk . . . The fat of milk is ordinarily thought of as being liquid, but it is a hard fat, finely dispersed through the milk." Reporting on a recent study which supports this "saturated- non - saturated fat" theory, Dr. Katz told of a feeding experiment in South Africa in which seal oil, an unsaturated animal fat, was used. It was found that the seal oil had the same effect of lower- ing the blood cholesterol level as unsaturated vegetable oils. NO BEARING Eskimos are often cited as a people on a high fat diet who are by not Ww. an unusual aunt to, sho of hardening of the arter- nd|ies or heart disease. The fact is, the doctors pointed out, that most of their fat intake is from seal and fish oils that are relativel Rosamond Cooch, who has lived the last two summers on Baffin Island, 150 miles south of the Arctic Circle, says she likes the north with its one- happy-family spirit and the cheerful, friendly Eskimos. But she says it's cold at Cape Dor- set on the southeast coast of Baffin Island where she and her hus , 28-year-old Graham Cooch. of Ottawa, a Canadian wildlife ornithologist, Hved. To combat the cold she wore this fur - trimmed parka made by an Eskimo woman. unsaturated. Significant] h even the Eskimos do not have as high a fat diet as the people here in the United States. Both doctors cautioned that while these findings open up new ajeiies of bprosch to the study of fat in relation to heart disease, the results are not yet conclusive. But, the experts hasi this I) NATURAL BEAUTY Old furniture often contains wood of an unusually good quality even though hidden under several layers of paint. A liquid paint re- 'mover and a plece of sandpaper, then a new coat of paint or var- awa took place in St. James of Clarkson. Elmira Wedding Of Oshawa Interest A wedding of interest to Osh- Whitby, (MoO INDAY Pleasant Mon, Aft. Club TUESDAY S.A. Home League Christ Church W.A, Canadian Legion Aux, Holy Trinity W.A. St. Gregory's PTA Banquet WEDNESDAY S.A. Prayer Meeting Lutheran Church, Elmira, recent-| ly when George Blaiklock Kirby, | a former member of The Times-| Gazette news staff, was united] in marriage with Margaret Ruth! Brubacher. 1Pe bride is the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. C. J. Brubacher, El- THURSDAY 50-50 Club Sunbeam Chapter, OES St. George's Eve. W.A, Happy Doubles Club Calvary Baptist WMS Simcoe Street WMS mira, and the bridegroom is the son of Mr. and Mrs, F. B. Kirby | The Reverend H. Baetz offici-| ated. Miss Jean Deyo of Sarnia plaved 'he wedding music and Mr.| Howard Mawson, Toronto, saag. Given in marriage by her) father, the bride wore a hooped gown of champagne peau de sole styled on princess lines with an underlay of crystal cord lace in pleated panels. A shell of match- ing lace held her circular veil of Freuch illusion 2ad she carried a lace-covered Bible with pink roses and stephanotis. The matron of honor was Mrs. E 7. Layton in aqua crystal charm and the bridesmaids were] Miss Rosemarie Gies and Miss| Colleen Campbell in sea-foam green. They wore pink feather bandeaux and carried pink chrys- anthemums. Mr John P, Hamilton was best man, Ushering were Mr. J. P. Wilkinson Mr. William Checkley, Mr. Murray Brubacher and Mr. Ralvh Brubacher. Following the reception the couple left for a wedding trip to Muskoka muda and will live in Toronto, nish will work wonders with a for- gotten piece of furniture. much is definitely known -- the| American diet is excessively high in fats, ranging from an average of 40 per cent of the calories in| fat calories to as high as 60 per| cent fat calories. It would be wise, strategy from the standpoint of eart disease as well as weight to lower the proportion of fat cal- ories in the diet. SOCIAL NOTICES AT HOME Mr. and Mrs. A. E. Colvin, 320 King street east, will be at home to their relatives, friends and' | | | New Look In Steel Boon To Housewives By ELEANOR ROSS Have you noticed that more and more of our kitchen equipment, sports accessories, even furniture, are being made of stainless steel? In the stores, the housewife will now find fine flatware and serv- s on Saturday, November | 3, from 3to5 and 7 to 9 p.m., on| the occasion of their 50th wedding anniversary. ENGAGEMENT Mr. and Mrs. James Gibson wish to e the t of their daughter, Hazel Isabel, to Mr. Ross Phillip Graham, son of Mr. and Mrs. Clarence Graham, all of Port Perry. The marriage Jpecial Elizabeth Arden Hand Lotion Lue Grass + Sine Goraniuny is to take place on Saturday, No- vember 10, at 3 o'clock at Port ing pieces that keep their lovely shine without polishing. Many of] hem are designed in elegant pat-| fine china. | There are also serving pieces of stainless steel that can go from| oven to table and add luster to the whole table setting. Holloware of stainless steel is | presented the study. also being shown in high style de-| Ukrainian Greek Catholic Church signs such as pitchers, gravy ember hoats, salt and pepper shakers.'p.m. | Perry United Church. ENGAGEMENT Michael Bohun ow Oshawa announce the engage- | ment of their daughter, Helen, to| John Robert Rudka, son of Mrs. | Harry Rudka of Oshawa, and the| late Mr. Rudka. 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