EE 3 Ba 3h 3 ter bo ---- rah x THREE Three budding little dancers, Bobby Kelly, Darlene MacDon- ald and Billy Kelly, were among those who took part in the an- nual recital of the Lillian Mae Marsh School of Dancing held at LITTLE TAPPERS the OCVI recently. Bobby and Bill are the sons of Mr. and Mrs. Walter Kelly, Bond street east, Darlene is the daughter of Idella MacDonald, Ontario MARY HAWORTH MAIL Dreads Meeting Between Girl And Wealthy Grandparents Dear Mary Haworth: I was born into a family of wealth and social position. My mother tried to force me into marriage with a man who belonged to the right social set (from her view); but I went against her wishes and married a man I loved, who is neither wealthy *hor socially prominent My family virtually disinherited me and, after 15 years, we are finally patching up the rift. My marriage to Dave has been extremely happy and we have a lovely daughter, now age 12. We have had very little in the way of material things all these years| and, to the best of my ability, I have tried to give my daughter assets in other ways -- concen- on her talents, intelligence Doris (I'll very inquisitive about her lineage, and her grandparents 1 like to take her bac a visit. And yet, I oa the consequences. I am afraid] that when she sees the things they can give her, that we can't af- ford, it may sow seeds of discon- tent in" her mind. Also 1 fear that we will be snub- bed, as my mother is constantly pointing out what a miserable failure my marriage was, as com- pared to my older sister's, who married into the social set. I would greatly appreciate your advice on how to keep a sense of balance in this situation, as we have been so happy among our- selves, and I don't want any dis- sension to enter our lives at this point. A.G. DISTRUST A CLUE Dear A.G.: By and large, your attitude towards your parents is one of dread--dread of anticipated disapproval on their part, tinged with scorn if and when they get a close-up appraisal of your lot nowadays. Also you distrust them unconsciously, as immutable hos- tile characters who would cal. lously wreck your present modest happiness, if they get a hand in the pie. Thus I surmise that your mar- riage to Dave, against their wishes was the culmination of a long his- tory of unhappy tension between you and them --- a situation in which they seemed chronically dissatisfied with you, in a reject- ing way, while you became in- creasingly rebellious and despair- ing, in the matter of trying to measure up to their requirements. I venture to think that in marry- ing Dave, you were attracted to him not only by feelings of mutual love and congeniality, but also by a profound desire to get off the hook of trying to keep pace with your parents' driving ambitions for you. FASE AND CRUEL Very likely you felt a kind of relief at 'marrying beneath" their station in life. And possibly, also, by this move you were aiming, un- consciously, to put distance be- tween yourself and them, in hopes of escaping the nagging sense of guilt ever-felt in their presence, Sales Olle Cream Doubled Ice cream has become an impor- tant part of the American diet, yearly consumption doubling from 9.8 pounds in 1939 to 17.9 pounds per capita today, reports Chain Store Age. Food chains haye be- come the leading outlet with over $160 million in ice cream sales last year. The merchandising picture has changed by replacement of the favorite quart size with half-gal lons and pints; leveling seasonal peaks to a year-round big business and offering various types of ice cream specialties such as sand wiches, cake rolls and sticks. A though seasonal peaks are leveling out, June, July and August are still tops for sales The ice cream spe clalties, sherbets, iced milks and mellorine (imitation ice cream) are popular during the summer months ome stores report- ing over 30 per cent of frozen des- gert sales in mellorine. vith her sonal at "falling short" of their soclal- climbing demands on you. The fact that your family virt- ually disowned you, for following your heart in search of simple contentment, suggests that they bend the knee to a table of values; and th: he strangers to real-love feelings |well may be that they would it their duty to impress daughter with their standards financial and social your alse and cruel ¢O0 J are are ashamed to be seen in a swim It suit i feel | the best possible exercise. Tles-Webb Nuptial Rites In Haliburton A wedding of Oshawa interest was solemnized recently at the United Church, Haliburton, when Viola Jean Webb, daughter of Mr. THE DAILY TIMES-GAZETTE, Tuesday, July 3, 1956 © and Mrs. Walter N. Webb, and Donald Beverley Iles, son of Mr, CHILD GUIDANCE "There Are Many Causes | By G. CLEVELAND MERS There are many causes, other than dullness, that make a child lag at school. We should look for For Lagging At School and Mrs. James Iles, all of Hali- burton, exchanged vows. ' The Reverend E, E. Pugsley of- ficlated assisted by the Reverend Clifford Manning. The wedding music was played by Mrs. Melville McKnight and Mrs. Donald Wall- ing sang. The bride who was given in mar- riage by her father wore street- length white eyelet embroidery over taffeta. A halo of pearls held her shoulder-length veil and she carried a colonial style bouquet of Of course you should learn from |the school psychologist--if your |school has one, otherwise from a private psychologist your prinei- these other causes, when a child's school success is very irregular. An Ohio mother writes: | "My son, an only child, is 12 | years old. Since we have lived in {an apartment all of his lifetime, his behavior is no problem for he has learned to consider others. But he is a slow child and his school work presents a problem. He will do very well for awhile, then he seems to forget all he has learned. WORRIED TEACHER 'His teacher called me recently to say she was quite worried about him. It seems he just sits like one in a dream and doesn't hear a word she says. As a result, Ihe is failing in all his subjects. | "At home I find he isn't too in- terested in any one thng, doesn't stick to anything until it is fin- ished--even in the things he really likes to do. Everything in life seems too much of an effort. "I realize I may be partly to blame. I want things done prop- 'erly and I do too much for him. "We take him to have physical check-ups regularly and he is in good health." This was my reply, in part: If your son really does good work at school for a spell, he |probably has the ability for pro- tracted periods of concentration and success. | a 'KEEP IN TRIM By IDA JEAN KAIN Many of Eve's daughters, self- scious about some figure fault, They cheat themselves out of Just to show what swimming of can do for a girl's figure--before snobbery-- | Esther Williams got in the swim, and thus diminish your influence|she was fired from her first job over her. "--To bring her back|as a model because she "didn't into their fold," as it were. have a good enough figure!" Est- In view of these reflections, I/her herself is enthusiastic about don't endorse your notion of ing Doris back to camp, and striving done constructively, long $0 as you childi afraid of your pars to maintain compared to yours. M.H. Mary Haworth counsels through column, mail or per- care of this newspaper. S. Simcoe Pupils Given Awards For Attendance Pupils of South Simcoe School who had perfect attendance and no times late were presented with certificates by the Home School Association on Thursday. | Mrs. Geroge Ferguson, president, made the presentations and congratulated the students and| 3 gir] who would like one touch in a plastic case and the new MOre| of Venus through chest and shoul-| waterproof lipstick expressed the wish that would try to have perfect attend- ance in the coming year. Mrs Aubrey McConkey, president, and Mrs. J. F. Norton also congratu- lated the winners Following is the ners: First year -- Dorothy Crawford, | Paulette Hulenchyn, Jimmie Sud- dard, Donald Hicks, Barbara Ann Crawford, Robert Hraynyk, James Patterson, Allan Colleran, Sandra Branton, Edward Malachowski, David Whiteley, Ronald O'Reilly, Billie Fedorczenko, George Le- mere. Second year -- Goria Gulenchyn, Ronald McKnight, Carol Sorochan, Randy Johns, Sandra Kalynko, Joe Kiwior, Billie Aylesworth, Natalia Zadorozny, Kenneth Hicks Third year -- Teddy De Bros- hinsky, Carol Stallibrass, Gloria Hercia, Terry Nikiforuk. list of win- LONG CLIMB The Washington monument has 898 steps, but also an elevator the parental! cise. tak-| swimming as streamlining exer- "It's the one exercise that can round out and slim down at balance there. It can't be[the same time." So come on girls L. stroke workers is st a roe. It counteracts forward bending, gently coaxing the shoul- not 2 de: interview. Write to her in|girl curves across the chest and|to.carry summer cosmetics. into lovely line, gives a | collar bones. The back stroke also! member, never fill a liquid bottle ---- {tones the pectoral Ruscles, Peaut right to the top, allow space for |ifies upper arms and makes for expansion if your cosmetics do not |a slim, willowy waist and midriff. | What more could you ask And it's easy to catch on to . . , just | floating with free wheeling mo- gqueeze bottle, "which can double tion Swimming reaches all those dif- ficult to tone spots . . . the backs of the upper arms and the mus-| cles in the throat and chest. In short, swimming helps to tone up andthe whole body. The old-fashioned breast stroke Vice might be valled the Venus stroke | cool quick face cleansing; and for . it's highly recommended for ders. | The side-stroke and the crawl y| pal | Swimming, Perfect Exercise To Tone Up The Whole Body T about this red and white carnations and child's abilty to learn, Also! chrysanthemums. |a psychiatrist recommended by| She was attended by Mrs. Wal- |your doctor might look into the ter Scott and Miss Donna Webb emotional experiences of this boy|gowned alike in white eyelet em- who may have some worried You proidery over pale green taffeta I es you should fina | Yih matching small hats and mit. |a quiet, understanding teacher to] Lous. They carried white and gold tutor him, unless you have enough | poise and self-control to do this yourself, REGULAR JOBS You should also hold the boy| , strictly to doing a few regular jobs about the home which he is able to do. Don't nag and jaw. Mr. Jack Lyons was best man, Ushering were Mr. Boyd Robert. son and Mr. Paul Thain. A reception was held at the Wig- -Mog Inn, Haliburton. For the oc- | casion the bride's mother chose turquoise blue linen. The bride- ties i us '| groom's mother was in navy blue Bet sorte ales, we Dee uhod | and white. Both wore white acces- privilege or having him sit, un- sories and corsages of carnations, amused, for 30 minutes for de| Later the couple left for a wed- i i OR TI ble home! ding trip to eastern Ontario and| jobs. [the United States and will live in| | I enclosed my bulletins, «rhe | Haliburton. For travelling the | [Child Who Doesn't Concentrate" | bride wore a beige sheath dress] and "How To Teach Your Child With matching duster coat, moss| To Help at Home." Be sure to green accessories and a corsage of have his complete attention be- Yellow carnations and ivy. fore commanding or requesting him to do anything. 'Royal Visit To Scottish Isles | You say nothing about his re- Queen Elizabeth IT and the Duke All offices should be air-condi-| tioned. That will be the day. But] until it happens, many of us have to learn a bit about personal air- conditioning to see ug through the dog days. Clear a space in your desk or locker for a hot weather kit. Tuck into it a smali jar of light, lovely cleansing cream, a bottle of fresh- ener, a handful of cotton batting puffs, tissues, whatever make-up items you want, and a bottle of refreshing esscent mist in a clean, , if your hair is in- clined to be fine and fly-away, to put in a bottle of spray and stay, or a little creme brilliantine, Slicked up hair looks cool -- and is cool -- cooler by far than a rag- mop coiffure. Don't keep putting on powder over layer of powder. In the morning at home, after you've put on your make-up, set it by pressing a piece of absorbent cot- ton wrung out of cold water, over your make-up. 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Give yourself one at home this week in half the time with half the arm work. There's a new quick home permanent that needs only 20 curls for a lovely, t lantoin, it actually heals chafing and rubbing. Wonderful, too, to use if you chafe between your thighs in hot weather. Above all stop fussing about the ily, and be less likely to rub and SALE | SHARP ACCOMPANIMENT cious accompaniment for baked fish. IN OSHAWA ga Uogue ,. 4a Is The Store For Brides Celina ot Athol St. OSHAWA |1ation to other children. He should of Edinburgh are to attend morn- spend considerable time at nor- ing service in the Abbey Church mal fun with others of his age Dad should do and make things with him. Both of you should have more fun with him and attract his playmates to your home of Tona on Sunday, August 12, the | first day of their round-Scotland cruise in the Royal Yacht Britan- nia. Iona, a little island lying to the West of the larger Isle of Mull, | is one early home of Christianity| |in Scotland. 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