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STYLES FOR EVERY MOOD MARY HAWORTH MAIL pian ey goes hs | to. the other's real self and literal Tom Between Devotion To Wife ister." = cis mixed up isn't due to "loving two A d Lo F Y Ww women," as you think. Rather if is n ve or ounger oman |due to you {rye to make Aline. {thing "wo "' of an esca 3 DEAR .MARY .HAWORTH: I|ing analyst has said, love is that RULES OF FREEDOM pres hope you will answer this quickly, state in which the satisfaction and Until people learn better, they for I must settle things soon. I've security of another person has be- tend to suppose that the godly - heard it wasn't possible, but I am|come as important to one as the mandments -- the classic "thou in love with two women and must satisfaction of his own needs of{ghalts" and "thou shalt nots'. of | make a choice between them, and well-being. Christian ethics--are eal pie in. I really don't know what to do. | In the triangle you Feport, it is|make life grimly sacrifici is One is my wife of eight years. probable that your wife is a more «yale of tears." But, as moral phil- Jane is older than I, and a wonter- nearly loving Jerson than you or osophers have discerned, these are ful person. Our marriage is dull, |[Eve. By which I mean that she the ground rules of perfect. .free- however, and we don't have child- probah!y.has some capacity to care dqom--freedom from the pithalls ren. The other woman is younger, competently and loyally for a mate and guilty anxieties that rob fen very vivacious and beautiful, and in adult fashion; whereas you and of peace of soul. «ill so much fun to be with. We are Eve are as yet pretty callously you have violated the rules and together almost all the time, |self-engrossed, in catering to your are punished automatically; this is My wife has known of the affair/whims and appetites. ithe significance of your confusion ¢ |for four months and says she will AN ESCAPADE |and pain. Thus the only healing not release me; but will forgive, Feeling as you do about Eve, no/course is to do right for its own me and we can begin anew {doubt you take for granted that sake--without regard to whether it will promise never to see the other here is an instance of overwhelm- happens to please you are present. woman again. - ing mutual attraction -- in which{In short, put your marriage first; BOFH LOVE ME sympathetic regard for each other and let Eve save herself. Both women say they love me: |operates. But the probable truth of | M. H. ' and the younger is willing to wait the tangle is that each is blindly Mary Haworih counsels through for me until my wife gives in. But, gratitying an appetite at the other's| her column, not by mail or per- with the way I feel, how can Ilexpense (morally and socially) | sonal interview. Write to her in promise never to see her again? Fach is infatuated with his own' care of this newspaper.) ... She is now in process of divorce| Swe i (and has a child); and if she were oi to ask me next month to return to her, how could I refuse? f es I know that lack of will power is PRIN my real problem; but I don't want to promise my wife one thing and ie 2 om 5 | THE CONVENIENT, COLORFUL enough about this already. f J A I never thought anyone could get so mixed-up, and feel genuine emo- tion towards two different women. I really could use some disin- terested counsel. aturally our friends think I should give up Eve (the other woman); but she is wonderful, too. And what about MY future?--G. S. | SELF-INDULGENCE DEAR G. S.: It seems to me this isn't so much a case of your really loving two women, as it is a matter of your giving free rein to a personally selfish (and, on the one| hand, corrupt) dependency upon their flattering attentiveness to you. Love (as you may, or may not 3 a ' 4 Y " know) is the desire to give fullness 4 3 3 > A YY a : of life to another. Or as a pioneer- M Cd Ferdinand of Rome designed | navy and white si'k ottoman, | Hat is a januty white grosgrain. | tana of Rome has volunimous and rows of narrow black lace | Jace 2 Used in its Fyffies, this handsome afternoon suit of collar edged with white pique. ' Pale pink organza gown by Fon- skirt, embroidery. Designer is | encrust a luscious summer gown | Straples line is very popular IN OSHAWA ee a ---------------------- emma in -- © OY M90" | noted for evening dresses. Rows from Italy. Hundreds of yards of abroad. a ? / 1] § Gh | NG KEEP IN TRIM Automobile | new gorgeous color combinations Ja Vogue . ; . | | are to show to advantage. What i d id fast eu ee . Reflects Women's good is that stunning pale lilac Celina at > J a i i , 'DCS EARS" ARE FOR Re-educate Your Food Habits ig oming Sense |r os sme: so is || "sesor Your In Order To Control Weight | Most women, especialy the sub: ict" This i possible only when] © 0 ore ror Brides Swapokote v " 1 By IDA JEAN KAIN Breakfast Fry ol tlio it's a brand-| the car is free of a dusty film. . : : | : : Si i NL At least ninety-five per cent of Citrus fruit or juice, 5 oz. |new fluid drive affair or a time- all overweight is caused b th- i | honored sedan with battered fend- THE DAILY TIMES-GAZETTE, Monday, June 11, 1956 © ing 'more complicated thas moor! Tost hous hice |ers. It is kept in good running or- Si eating. However. the reasons back, Butter, % pat | der, of course, but how good does' D D E ° CHILD GUIDANCE Se, Seni Yo Sess wre au Colle, wid? |" 7% condition of the car is a a r. D. E. McLaurin ay 0 spot. | | i 1 + 9 i : The bulk of overweights fall into| Cheese grill Lonel mate: Amierl rect reflection on our own personal takes this opportunity in announcing . one of three groups: Those who A {grooming and housekeeping quali- . A To Respect Rights Of Others [Fi ibis habe "hai sinc soon 3 5 05s i Sob penn o re 0 espec g S a S {to belt-pressing proportions; those halves broiled with onion » putation for good grooming should who turn to food through sheer L] LJ a neglect her car. It needs frequent M L \"4 Y t hil h . boredom, or when worried or up- dropped green salad with special washing and touching up. And think C aurin eterinar mpo an SSOn |set, and then from force of habit, Tea with lemon and 1 lump su-| [OW much it saves clothes to have L {continue overeating; and most ser- those plastic seat covers swabbed 4 1 a CLEVELAND MYERS Ve can prepare our Slldeon for fous, those who Sat obsessively due gar ut desired) | clean! ospita column I have p such rela p, if we tr e|to a deep seated emotional distur- Din: SUDSY WATER 1 Townline Rd. N., at King St. E many cases of , bicker- one to respect the bance. + oer ownline Td, N., at Bing St. k. foe and J Juarreling betiveen a|rights of the older child, train him MUST FOLLOW THROUGH Mie GHll: (vin tat) ote Tay aloe Pon br | OSHAWA SAL. A RA 5-2631 younger olde {in self-reliance and encourage him irst, the gourmets who overdo] i MAL! ! LOCATED same family that some of my|at ample play with other children it. There is nothing wrong. with (Liver, beet or calf) Tie gloye Sompastment. One Heyer | ; $. Now. ; 1 | § A Crisp bacof, 1 strip broiled) knows when a journey will run into } Offi h ire 8-12 2.6 . 5- hin wt : readers may suppose it's always of his age. Also, we should encour-| enjoying good food, but overeating & ice hours: a.m, p-m 8 P-m. DG like that in any family. |age similar developments in the is a fattening practice. Once you Bates, 1g mat "oo Taluy, uday Weather, And g clean Soturdoys: 9-12.a.m. 2-4 pm. OLD POST OFFICE BLDG. Parents write me about things older child and express our plea-| decide the bulging consequences! 3 which bother them and rarely say|sure when they show kindness toare too big a price to pay fs Sbinach or asparagus |of the driver's sense of neatness; Sundays and holidays by appointment RA 3-4621 anything of the agreeable compan-| each other. such gustatory pleasures, you want Ambrosia % orange, sliced; 3% | it's also a safety investment | ue between their children.| (My bulletin "Fighting and to ELS oars Color ate sClonne | Panama: 1 hap, eocom, The car must really shine if the More letters come to me in re- Quarreling" may be had by send- of nutrition, when applied, never| sponse to a column around a family ing a self - addressed, stamped fails, The secret is wanting to or child problem than around ciie| envelope to me in care of this apply it and folowing through. recording some successes. Often I newspaper.) The second type of overweight with the Opposite Jere irie Bich Hains not SO mach from love of ut we all know familie in whic! ood as from boredom or loneli- the brother-sister relationships are THE STARS SAY ness. Food Is a solace. Others turn very happy. to food when nervous, anxious or HAPPY MEMORY By ESTRELLITA upset. Food is comforting. The fat- A er mr oe SI (A JAS FAIRBANKS / MORSE ave of our children was the kin | after the circumstances that led to ; 4 5 . and patient way our oldest son had FOR TOMORROW a overeating are past, the habit of ; go ; ; of explaining things to his bro:her| The stars indicate satisiying re-|oatino beyond requirements carries eh ; hg oh who was nine years younger. It ward for well-executed job efforts) op "1t's a short step from repetition : 0a) i was a source of many happy houcs Bow. There may be a cancellation {, fived habit : : / J & between these boys over the years of an obligation or claim on you,| yt is helpful to think back & §& AO 4 ; J while the younger was a preschool | Perhaps even an important conces- when you first started to pile on tot, while he was in the grades, sion to your wishes. 2 pounds. Perhaps it was during a then high school and later in col-| Vibrations in the P.M. will be period of upset. or following an lege. favorable to financial matters. operation, or during a lonely spell. | Now that they have families| Entry into an agreement™may re- yoy solved the problem, but fell! 4 themselves, each one treats his sult in excellent Be opas, but here, into the clutches of habit and con. | / : children in the same kind, patient| as with everything eise in life, good tinued eating beyond requirements. SSE ; : manner. And when these two fath- judgment should be used. Recognize that your di ih appe- | 5 4 ' 'Stra t-A -Master' 4 R BE F rR 3 G E RATO rR ers get together, occasionally, they FOR THE BIRTHDAY tite is force of habit, not food 1 I A enjoy discussing technical matters If tomorrow is your hirthday, the needs, and then it makes sense to i os in their respective professional next three months should bring un- re.educate your appetite. fields. usual achievement. Job projects NEED GUIDANCE About the only thing we parents Started earlier in the year should, The most extreme cases sre did, that we were aware of, to take a tupn for the better as of this those obsessive eaters who are <q cultivate the mutual admiration week and financial ventures, if jously overweight, yet unconsci and companionship of these broth- sound, should make fine headway ously resist dieting even though ers was to observe such relation-| before the end of August. they want to reduce. They turn to ship enjoyably. In this manner we Social and domestic affairs food because of some deep seated] may have had more good influence Should be generally harmonious and unsolved emotional distur- than we E hei 0 for the balance of 1956, but be on bance. These overweights need psy-| HELPS YOUNGER CHILD guard against emotioaal tension chiatric guidance in order to de- It's wonderful when an older late in October and early in No-| velop insight into the reasons back | child does things and makes things | vember. A sense of humor, plus of their craving. with and for a child several years your innate love of people, should] Whatever the cause, once the younger--reads to him, mends his help to solve the minor problems reason back of the desire to over- toys or makes playthings for him causing stress during thesa periods. eat is recognized, it is easier io or with him, teaches him new Late December should find both put the science of nutrition into games and new play skills, helps/ your buiness and personal affair effect and reduce. him learn to protect himself among | in excellent shape, and there is = other children, and to get along every indication that the fine au- BLONDE BEAUTY | with them, helps him know what guries current then will continue Is your furniture light in color? is right and wrong; helps him, in well into 1957. 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