Port Credit Jaycettes, Mrs. Fred Steckley, Mrs. T. Camp- Port Credit Jaycettes Guests Of Local Roy Smith. members fro Jaycettes and Mr: warm welcome to t hoped they would h able evening and perhap. to take back helpful informa their own club. Mrs. Emerson tailed report on {i | s be able tion to Salter gave a de-| he booth operated | at the Home Builders' Fair aud i roved to be a very success ay The president thanked Mrs. Salter for the splendid work she did as chairman. | Mrs. William Edwards reported | on the convention in Hamilton giv- ing the highlights of the program and stated that the Jaycettes had been asked to aid with Operation Brotherhood and that each club was asked to elect a representa- |receive a guard for their pi ' |othy Bergsma in blue brocaded Bowmanville Pair Marry in Oshawa Norma Violet Lyn Henning, daughter of Mr, and Mrs. Harold | Henning, and Harold Duane Thompson Clarke, son of Mr. and Mrs. Willet L. Clarke, all of Bow- manville, were united in marriage in St. George's Anglican Church, Oshawa, recently. Phe Reverend Clinton D. Cross officiated and the bride was given in [martiage by her father. The bride wore a full - length gown of white nylon with three tiers of embroidered lace forming the full skirt, a pearl tiara and a corsage of red roses. She was attended by Mrs. Dor- satin, pink accessories and a 1 |corsage of pink roses. Via bell and Mrs. R. Wills are seen | with Oshawa president, Mrs. | Dewland. --Times-Gazette Staff Photo Gerald Walter Libby, Mrs. R Robert utherford and Mrs. WonmEN THE DAILY TIMES-GAZETTE, Monday, June 4, 1956 9 MARY HAWORTH MAIL Club award for the "l ber of the club will cel ins. Mrs. Lois Wills, the Port Credit president, stated that she and the other members appreciated the op- portunity of attending the Oshawa meeting. She explained that their| meetings were held in the various | Mr. William Bonk was man. At the reception at the bride's home, her mother received cessories and a corsage of pink corsage. As the couple left on their hon-| of red roses. their home in Bowmanville. CHILD GUIDANCE very fortunate. ion for the infant--how can she in|ings, even of irritation and anger. brown crepe and lace, cream ac- MAY SUFFER REMORSE |his mother and others will natur- roses. The bridegroom's mother tions over guiding and manag was in navy blue with white ac-this growing youngs! cessories and a white carnation/feel she is not loving him enough. | |She may even suffer remorse. | ; eymoon, the bride was wearing a heard she may suppose that yellow coat over a blue dress with must not make hi white accessories and a corsage him have {when Mr. and Mrs. Clarke are making restrain him lest he feel unloved| land unwanted. Yet her common- How To Train Child In A Spirit Of Love By G. CLEVELAND MYERS [sense reminds her that he should The child who is really loved is|not have everything he wishes or {have nearly all his wants supplied Any normal mother feels affec-immediately--or even at cll. The best solution is to listen to She knows SHOW AFFECTION As he begins to learn these things d irrita-|ally feel more love for him and ing| inevitably show. him more affec- ter, she may tion. Perhaps the biggest reason so many children don't get enough love is because they have not been taught adequate restraints. (I have m wait, but let|discussed this at length in my spec- what he wants|ial bulletin, "Love and Restraint," wants it. She must not|which may be had by sending a self-addressed, stamped envelope to me in care of this newspaper.) Between her worries an From what she has read and she about he Choose Hosiery To Compliment Beige Ensemble ting out of the beige bracket! BEIGE MONOTONE beige, pink beige and bamboo beige. To attain that monotone color scheme so good in beige this season, you will want to choose| Man Keeps Family On Edge With His Temper And Tyranny MARY HAWORTH'S MAIL homes but that she thought the dinner meeting most interesting and had gained a lot of knowledge from the discussions. For the ben- efit of the Oshawa members she| outlined the Port Credit method of| Dear Mary Haworth: My husband elections. is a well educated, industrious, ef- Following a ten minute recess ficieni man who, through ability, Mrs. Jerry Rutherford, the enter- sacrifice and years of hard work tainment convener, took charge of has built up a very successful bus- the rest of the meeting. Mrs. Ed-|iness. But in the struggle he has wards showed movies of the enter- become bitter, arrogant, intolerant tainment at Men's Night. |and a demanding perfectionist with Mrs. Rutherford conducted two a Violent temper . . . tension of this narrow concentra. interesting contests and the win-| To outside appearances I have tion of mind, year in, year out, is ners of these were Mrs. Henry Et-|all one could want in life--a nice|destroying his health, after having alph Jones. house, lovely clothes, my own car|long since snuffed out his enjoy- he applied himself to money mak- ing--as a means of turning the key that opens the door to the larger life. But somewhere along the way, he has lost sight of what he in- tended to accomplish in the begin- ning. And now he cares only for business success, it seems. And the dress, suit or coat. | And while not much has been| said about it, the new fashions in- dicate that hemlines on the narrow lor sheath skirts are inching up |quite a bit. This means that when la woman sits down in her nar- rower, now shorter skirt, more of | her stocking is apt to be seen. So be sure to choose the right length. Many women don't know just what hose length they should wear. |They are so accustome fuller skirts with longer that they just go on taking hose Let Your Weekly Shampoo Bring Health and Beauty to Your Hair Beige is the big color in every- routine job of soaping and rins-|ing, thing and, of course, in its wide|ing. It should be a pleasure and a|Turkis range, it is the big stocking color. |treatment at one and the sa Beige is so important, in fact, that time. It is a wonderful chance you could own a couple of hundred really brush your h new pairs of hose without ever get- do not 'care whethe {wave is brushed out, for you will rinse. After any type . |be setting it There's golden beige, peachy | good time to give your scal re portant part of the _pre-shampoo. ettes, the right shade of beige in hosiery {"8€0 fhe seals wilh the cush that will do the most for your beige io tips, for you may scrap scalp), and let the blood reac {liven every follicle: |ly. Bend your head down to send | best, | massag! |and rotate the brush along each d to the|line. hemlines right out to the ends of the hair.| | length for granted. It pays to take wee She's giving him this stunning square automatic watch of 18 karat rose gold, with an elegant bracelet of gold mesh attached to concealed lugs. She's wearing o steps. After the first soap- A GLAMOROUS EXCHANGE -- a diamond-crested clip-watch. Both were among the high-fashion time- pieces introduced at the 1956 Swiss Watch Fair held in Basel in late April. his gold Washi ur hair isn't just alin tw or i] ) rinse the hair, then take a h towel and rub each strand| auburn hair: corn silk gives sil-| he scalp to the end untilivery highlights to blond or grey to/nearly dry. This rubs off any hair: pink fire is for dramatically] air when youlclinging oil excess, Then la-|inclined light blondes, red-head and r or not the'ther the hair a second time and white-haired women: it gives a pink, ype of sham-icast to the hair. And of cours, fresh again. It is a poo, be sure to give your hair palomino (for ash blondes) and Ip aja good brushing again. blonde venus for golden blonde) me| from t al massage, too. Experts have created sham-are names that speak for them- Skill has been a tradition with us for over a quarter of a century. LEWIS OPTOMETRISTS. . 3 KING ST. E RA 5-0444 | Indeed, the massage is an im-|poos for blondes and for brun-|selves. | to help restore natural beauty, There are also color tint| (never use|rinses that brighten or intensify | e the|your natural hair color, This is h the|not tinting or dyeing, and will the next shampoo. more than ever be-| Then brush your hair thorough-| fore, women want to look their) and are even casually talk-| s.|ing about the color tint in their| hair. It has definitely become a | conversation topic. Copper leaf for of your fingers ur ecalp. It will en- wash out in surface of yo {And today, the blood circulating to the root Rotate the brush, as if it were ing the scalp, at the hair- line, where thinning starts. Make parting lines all over your head Genuine Cold Storage Be sure to pull the brush! Now for the shampoo itself. A kly shampoo is recommended THE CONVENIENT, Ea ------------"---- ee -------- PROTECT PRECIOUS PRINTS COLORFUL tive to correspond with the Region manski and Mrs. R H Jepresentative aud aid het, by Mes. Donald Brown then intro- as . :|duced Mr. Hen eed, who gave or. 8 also gave an outline of | 5" talk on prt Won flowers gaye the sonsiitution esting reading demonstrated his various pointers roposed amendments b king beautiful arrangements ep el i a at the June meeting. A donation|nrs Robert Dewland thanked Mr will be sent to Operation Brother- Reed. A draw was held for two ol hood |the floral arrangements and Mr and leisure in which to do as I i please. The children are in gh nt of aki school and Duke doesn't come home| Duke suffers from self-conceit to lunch; but he calls me twice a and purse-pride. He feels contemp- day and if I am out I really have tuous towards all who' haven't 5 {achieved dollar-wise on a par with Duke is very generous materially him. This accounts for his arro- ¢ and the children have everything gance, intolerance, short temper, {and only the best--but with strings demanding perfectionism, etc., in |attached. He carefully screens our dealing with dependent (and with length change with the hosier clerk: With the right shade an proper length hose, all will be well It goes without saying, course, that whatever the shade whatever the heed of the new skirt length infor all hair typ: your spring and summer dress|oil purchases and 'discuss any skirt/tw sales|tha d the|pull your fingers along it. Exces- of | es: dry, normal or y. Lather normal or dry hair| ice and then riwse out so clean| t the hair squeaks when you] ial RA 5-6312 .| sively oily hair should be lathered | RINSE CLEAN length, your hose Because chemicals contained in| FURS must be given good care. {the waters of pools and some It is difficult to wear a pair of peaches, are injurious to fabrics, | nylons for many hours without get-|gyim suits should be rinsed out ting them smudged, especially the|jn clear water after each wearing.' delicate, pale shades that are sol F ASHION VILLAGE fashionable just now. Getting 3 26 Simcoe Street South and out of cars, buses and subways, --_-- | The resident asked the mem-| Reed drew the numbers of Mrs. c ealing v bers ®t" think seriously about the Henry and Mrs. Wills, the Port | friends and we aren't allowed any his hirelings too, probably). : 2 % ial activity, not even church. We| Al it is his 1 f 1 they entered on the nomina-| Credit president. The June meet- S0C'2 , | Also, it is his loss of real values, egy Af and to be sure to re-|ing will be elections and the "ers anywhere and have to be his gradual decline into lightless 1 in bed at 9:30 p.m. His violent| cynicism, that causes him to dis- turn same. It was announced that nual reports. t s keep us scared to death we|trust everyone, think everyone is d > t A 1 may say or do upset | jeal and to imagine that his T Old d Y E 1 y wh beginning to show in the children's|T am hoping this exchange may get irati 0 an oung ve ere actions. I've tried to talk to Duke the message across. I hope that et | then. Pevapiration aud sof] ate far him, so we ust sit and say nothing |family doesn't love him. when he is e As for how to help him, or how to By CAROLYN WILLETT in puppetry. The eldest, Kathleen, about our life, suggesting that we is still able to recognize truth when | Canadian Press Staff Writer |often records music and voices for 8¢t help from a family relations confronted by it; and that he willl Seo en ec Which means ome. walking in crowds--all this leaves TELLS ON CHILDREN reach him with the word that he OTTAWA (CP) -- The world of shows, and 17-year-old Dorothy expert, but he flies into a rage, respond to your loyal justified con- it mark quickly on hose. It never pays to wear a pair of stockings twice without sudsing We are all miserable, and it 1s needs help and ought to seek it, "DOG EARS" ARE FOR : PUPS... NOT YOUR a complete fur service : small inanimate things is large teaches puppetry. thinking I am criticizing him. How and alive to those who move in the| "Puppetry goes all the way from intriguing circle of puppets and those who just jounce a puppet . {around to those who can still Jean Sh |an audi with reverance and fsn't quite sure why JriEpets have| beauty," says Mrs. Shannon appeal for persons of all ages in| An 'enthusiastic member of the nearly every country of the world.|Ottawa Puppeteers, she would like _ "That's something I'd like toto emphasize more theatrical pre- evaluate some day," says the|sentations rather than the usual charming housewife and mother. |variety shows. In one way or another her four| Writing the words and music for daughters and engineer husband,|a playlet from suggestions made Wing Cmdr. J. D. Shannon, haveby members of the -puppeteers, become puppet fans. |was "lots of fun." CLOWNS POPULAR. But while puppet-masters don't In' her living room Vancouver- worry about their actors stomping born Mrs. Shannon put a checker- off the stage in a huff, their prob- suited puppet clown through Its'lems range from getting puppet- paces, with quick movements of | actors' wires crossed to synchron- her hands and fingers on a wooden izing recorded voices, music and control commanding its wire life- on-stage action. lines .|ENDLESS THEMES "Clowns are always successful, Themes for puppet shows and she said. ,,/ideas for characters are endless, "My husband's not a puppeteer, '| says Mrs. Shannon, but "often you she continued, but he 'engineered' create a puppet character and a portable stage for marionette| then can't find the right music to presentations. go with him." Marionettes, she explains, are| Her answer to this quandary: wire controlled--like Mr. Clown. "Choose the music first, then Hand puppets, very popular with| create the character to fit." school children, have papier mache! Puppets often become definite heads and kimono-like customes| characters, and, she admits, some- made to fit over the fingers andi times reflect the physiognomy forearm of the puppeteer. {and psychological characteristics A curtained "stage within a|of their creators. stage" is required for marionette| Some artists find the craftsman- shows. This stage stands about a ship of creating puppets, or in- foot above the actual stage floor|geniously presenting them in al- and includes a high, strong lean- most human actions, the whole fas- ing rail for the hidden puppet-| cination of the art. master. Children love puppets as pup- Her daughters, ranging in age pets. "They enjoy hearing and see from 21 to nine, take an active part'ing animals talk, doing what Pupp | CLOTHES LOOK BETTER... LAST LONGER... with Maple (loanors "WE USE PERLUXE" Completely ODORLESS DRY CLEANING Careful handling and expert work in every phase of our dry cleaning service -- thot's Maple Cleaners Guarantee of Quality. 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It's an equally ; y doesn't love him. How can Tj gqnq period for starting new tasks help him? C y HAS LOST den You tell me? EJ.\and projects or finishing incom- pleted matter; Dear E.J.: Years ago, at the foot Th t : ' e P.M. Il be especially ad- oF the lade Fushand prob sonal affairs, cultivating business | the good potentials of life. And he fontacis making new friends. probably fatendsq to achieve a It SHE hmimay wikibisv) 00d c - 3 wi Rong ae, Heh I Havvinesy, Son your chart shows fine indications] with his family And to that end. which could net monetary gains, . il Bite '| perhaps a good occupational lead, ; |and increased prestige within the people often wish animals could next three months. If you use your| do," Mrs. Shannon says. |innate abilities to their utmost, you | The Ottawa Puppeteers Is an|should urn in a fine record dur- adult group formed in 1952. 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