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Ede Ga ge WomEN chameleon than an adult of integ- rity, in dealing with your husband's infantile demandingness, Thus in effect you conspire with him, to | perpetuate the Siamese twin act {you detest. You put up with Jay's paracit- ism, in a mood of expediency, while feeling martyred about it-- and it might be a step towards why you make this craven accom- MARY HAWORTH MAIL Wed 17 Years, Now Deplores Husband's Possessive Nature THE DAILY TIMES-GAZETTE, Wednesday, May 16, 1956 9. modation to a senseles type of tyranny. Also, you might help Jay | get on the beam of *'right reason," | his obsessive claims to your time. | At the start of the marriage, it| especially when dining, probably satisfied some deeply neu-| games and TV are all going at Atfords Haven Today' if you were to question him, intel-|i ligently, about the motivation of|these and be a TV room, too. | rotic needs of yours, to have Jay, so phobically intent upon sharing {your every breath. Perhaps you were chronically disturbed by "i Bed-Sitting Room From Family Living, purpose room, especially in a mod emotional health, to ask yourselflern layout where every inch of space is put to use. With the vass- ing of the best parlor, the sitting room, dining room, music room, library, and den, the modern liv-| ng room must serve as all of Where does one find sanctuary, talking, with a neurotic affinity for each other, it seems; and, whereas you {den or second household is the bedroom. With a bit of ingenuity, any bed- room can masquerade as a study, iving room di g the non-sleeping hours. By substi- tuting dual purpose sleeping equip- ment for standard beds, even a small bedroom can serve as an indispensable second room. The se- lection of dual-purpose furnishings give it a bed-sitting room look. Of course, the results will depend on available space and individual taste. The combination of mattress and spring on legs can be slip-covered| in e + washable materials and dec 1 with bolsters and scatter: pillo in pretty colors. A studio couch may be preferred or per- haps a jack-knife sofa in which the back drops down even with the seat to form a sleeping surface. If the room is spacious, a convertible sofa 'once? The only retreat In such ajfully if it is slipcovered in a fabric) witR the same wallpaper that was that ties in with the decor of the yged the walls. An extra roll room. of paper covered the books so that a sina desk is 2ood, 320, Py 2 they blend into the background. will offer the chance to chec | or catch up with correspondence in FINE ACESSON Y fine accessory peace and quiet. | ( for the bed-sitting room and so, NICE TOUCH |too, is a good reading lamp. We Bookshelves add a sitting room also keep a folding table in the look. For a nice touch, give the bedroom closet and out it comes books dust covers that harmonize when required for card games or with the room. We covered ours sewing. NYLO -MISTED FOR ABSORBEN | in coping wi feel preyed upon, in coping with| Lop th Ry CONVENTIONAL ROOM For the bedroom with conven- tional sleeping equipment, a few added touches will give it a sit- ting room quality. An easy chair instead of or to- gether with the usual boudoir chair is one device. It works out heauti- : 3 | security" feelings, carried over: 4 Dear Mary Haworth: My hus: | I have to watch TV with him from tne past; nence encouraged his needfulness, he probably. fanc band was an only child and has a|evenings, when I'd rather sew or|jay's clinging, as a sort of insur-| = ay acting. you. Reading very possesive nature. We have|read. The fights are the only thing|ance that would never be without | {EY You need firsthand special- been married 17 vears and he get (I can realy beg off. If I get up|ijoue" again, bins Delp, br orasp: The Inpliogiions worse ins'ead of better. He doesn't| during the Bight Jor 8 dink of Also it may be that you are the of your own excessive dependency just own his house, car, boats, fish lc he is up too. to find Passive type--infantile and help- attitudes--which tangle with Jay's ing gear, cameras, etc., but he ¢¢ I P. P : |less in your own unconscious e.il-land breed mutual resentments. nosse ses me along with them, He Ve an up . hia rol Vato of self. Thus you don't estab-| MH. bas to know wht I am doing orl o 20 alone. ond sen atimec| lish any social interests or activit-| Mary Haworth c through! thinking, day and night. I haven his 78 Ye go alone, and some Ames |. lin your own right, and by de-|her column, not by mail or per- a shred of privacy, of mind, soul as Ihanage 10 3et Joet fof 5 fault remain a deadweight on Jay's/sonal interview. Write to her in or body. the house and grounds for me. Can| hands. 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