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¥ ~ BRIDES GO HAND IN GLOVE WI TH SPRING Bl i hil | | By OLI DAUM Canadian Press Staff Writer TORONT® (CP)--A New York industrial designer says children [need toys that stimulate their cre- !ativeness rather than those that entertain them. Arnold Arnold, himself a de- signer of 12 educaional-type toys now on the market, said during a visit here that creative toys take Says Children Need Creative Toys To Stimulate Their Curiosity 'tereative toy," Mr. Arnold said. | "The parent must create in the home an atmosphere that is con- ducive to the child's independent | investigation. If a .parent says 'here, go away a play,' he de- entertain the child as much as Siroys the child's enthusiasm to they do the parent," Mr. Arnold| "0%, : x Bg On the other hand Mr. Arnold said. "Children prefer the cre-| autioned parents against intrud- ative--building toys, for instance--|ing on the child's play. which are not an end in them-| "Do not play for the child," he selves but merely a means to an|said. "It's his toy. Let him play end." with it." The adult may mean They allow the child to put to|wel! but if he made an elaborate use his past experience in invent-| building out of toys the youngster ive ways and at the same time|couid become frustrated by trying) the adults creative or educational toys are those that teach the child reading equipped to teach these subjects as effectively as a well-trained ® teacher," he said. "The right toys® fo. a child are those that will op~& copy him for as long a time as his% age, attention span and prior train-% ing will permit and parents should show an interest in the end thes child achieves regardless of whe-' ther it fits into their 'adult con-g& copt of reality." permit him to have new experi-!and failing to copy ences, example. { "It isn't enough, however, just. The amiable designer said it is to give a child the well-conceived,! often mistakenly supposed that CHILD GUIDANCE | How Should Mother Treat Child! Who Is Afraid Of Being Hurt? By G. CLEVELAND MYERS won her confidence and coopera- They are the developing years dur- "What should you do with a child tion. Perhaps her physician also ing which he subconsciously dis-| who is terribly afraid of being | will. covers those things he will either hurt?" many mothers will ask. Mothers of tiny babies should be- reject or pursue through life, | An Indiana mother writes: ""Our| gin now to train their foungsters Therefore parents should pro- daughter, eight years old, won't| to take the little bumps. vide ett children with creative play ball for fear of being hit with] (My bulletins "When the Child toys--those that will awaken the|the ball. In the playground at| Cries" and 'Fears in Children' | child's curiosity and allow him to|school, she won't join in any of the] mav be had by sending a self-| develop the maximum of his po-|games for fear there would be| addressed, stamped envelope to me tential, Mr. Arnold said. danger of getting hurt. When we| in care of this newspaper.) "Non-creative toys--the mechan-|talk of taking her to the doctor| ---- ---- ical tvoes which rform--do not |she worries constantly and cries) SLIM AND SMART! j'tict 27a pie id the place of whimsical, imaginative parents who don't have time to! play with their children. Mr. Arnold, designer of such things as lubricating dispensers and tissue boxes, began designing toys six years ago for his young son. IMPORTANT YEARS Play may be entertainment and relaxation for an adult, he 3 But to a child it is work and a necessary preparation for adult! life. The first five years of al child's life are the most crucial.| * DRAPERY TRACKS RUGS * SPREADS PEER MAR SEIN Esa Re at having merthiolate applied and she cries and screams if we want| | to remove a splinter. | "She cried so hard at the den- tist's he said he couldn't work on her. Finally I said I would spank her when we got home if she didn't let him fix her teeth. That seemed to do the trick. Actually, she likes the dentist. He has always been very patient with her '""We have never told her any-| i thing to scare her, We try to ex- | plain to the best of our knowledge { what to expect." This was my reply. Your problem is not easy. Von should attack it in just a few s'§ »- tions at first until you win sc.ne success. Continue in your patient way, but be sure not to let your- seif grow panicky or your voice | rise when she shows signs of fear, Be sure you don't shame this girl and call her fears babyish Instead. protect her from the taunts of paymates and adult friends. FIRST AID | When she must have first aid, | don't argue about the matter, Have |an assistant on hand to hold her | firmly until the antiseptic is put| {on or the splinter removed. Then praise her for her growing courage. | Set the stage so that she will play freely in the rough - and- tumble with other children of her age. This may require a good deal {of your time, thinking and plan. (ning. As she gains in such play| | skills she will see that learning to take bumps without crying is the thing to do. But don't look for quick results, Be thankful for a small show of improvement, I WIN CONFIDENCE her dentist has here it 1s... bY Vd yor June brides busily building trousseaux know the importance | MARY HAWORTH'S MAIL Married To Strong, Silent Man Wife Lonely For Companionship Pear Mary Haworth: My hus-about your feelings and impress- 5 A - of pretty gloves. Machine wash- | two - toned with azalea pink | pin or clip is ultra chic if worn | sparkle to these black kid eve- able leather ' shortie here is | thumb, flanges of creamy white | on your glove cuff this spring. | ning shorties which can be toss- kid from New York. Jewelled = Rhinestone flowers add festive | ed into washing-machine. Completely new for 56 is the Hoover CITATION! 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Also, important de-| | cisions may be made regarding | band is the strong silent type, and sions; a real give-and-take {travel, change of living environ- I do meson He hardly ever] I knew when we married thot --0 - mi -- ent iid Jusiness pLainerships. has much to to me at least. to believe that you shouldn't THE DAILY TIMES-GAZETTE, Friday, April 27, 1956 9 Dut only after care ul analysis, of When we are with other people, have been taken into account -------------------- S-------- ry y p 4 AAT i ' » During the P.M. romance and y li p dong . - y 3 i x : we both get Ah ong well Sonyer for 1 am quiet too, And I've come domestic affairs will be high-| sationally. But when we are alone to btlieve that you shouldn't [i } " nan g Phos : : iF tn ighted, and the stars also prom- together--I just can't understand marry the quiet type if you are ise much enjoyment through what's wrong. auiet too. 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