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WoMEN THE DAILY TIMES-GAZETTE, Monday, March 26, 1956 © MARY HAWORTH MAIL a Dear years ago I became involved with senior. He vowed love for me, even| Mo! though he admitted he could find/It is § [no fault with his wife as a person, | We saw | being employed at the same place. | Once Involved With Married Man 8 Now Feels Past May Spoil Future MARY HAWORTH'S MAIL |atonment jew hone ment) by . becoming obedient to moral laws-- Mary Jaworth. Several in defenrence to the good of all-- is constructive action, But re- morseful brooding is destructive. a downward spiral of dis- couraged irreligious . self-concern. |In effect, it assumes that Divine (which created all things) is Love Love (which created all things) is married man many years my| each other constantly, CHILD GUIDANCE Accetp Child's Make-Beleive As Part Of His Development By G. CLEVELAND MYERS "See the little birdie coming out of that bottle," said one of our children at the age of 2'2. At about this age, another child invited me ore day to drink imaginary tea from toy cups. I did, much to his delight. , 1 remember when our children were between the ages of 2 to 6 they often talked of things not present to the senses and turned 1i sorts of real or imaginary | hings into creations of their own. JIMILAR EXPERIENCE You have probably had similar vxperiences with your little child. You have seen your son or daugh- er of five, sx or older, with a real oy truck, a car or even just a sock used for the purpose and wishing it all around the floor. He vas putting his imagination into #it, convinced that this was an ex- Since then I have married a won- derful man my own age. I haven't told him of my previous indiscret- ion, and am constantly afraid lest he find out. I love my husband very much and realize that the former attachment was just ex- citement, not real love. As we live in the same town. as the other man, I fear that my hus- band, at some future time, will discover my sin. The r 4 's wife had even consented to a uivorce, and I am afraid there were other persons besides her who suspected we had an affair. Should I have immovably unforgiving and vind- ictive; and, paradoxically, that humans are required to be intrin-| sically sinless in order to "save" | themselves. Or to merit the frind- ship, love and compassion of fellow creatures, DON'T TELL OF "PAST" Instead of dwelling in fear about the past, you might better invest your energies in private praise ploit of great consequence. Per- & + haps he did this for long periods ad 4, bi 3 a 3 oh "sg Cp and thanksgiving to God for hav- ig brought you, by the right way, to your present blessings. If you are still entangled in guilt feel- il A po ' 4idint a time, day after day. a £3 You have seen your child and playmater after entering school, i slaying school or putting on some Uther scene, each taking the part ©f anothe: person. RESPOND TO CREATIONS How fortunate for him if you | could respond to his creations as| {if they were real and always en-| «them with puppets, plays and dra- fun Pan. | By nature, the young child is a| dramatist and continues to be one until we parents and teachers, fac- ing him with the hard, cold real- ilies, crush out his imagination. Here and there a teacher rescues his creative powers and cultivates of Mary Martin in "Peter R When you are dusting the fur niture, don't forget to give thy light bulbs a dusting too. A dus light bulh can decrease your If atic creations at school. 5) Do teat. It's during the youngster's years| rom 2 to € when his imagination 's most fertile. It is at this time hat we parents can do much to n ltivate and enjoy it. JON'T MAKE FUN Therefore, never make him feel hat his flights of fancy with things, rawings, colors, rhythm, or words ire queer. Don't charge him with ying when, for him he has never een nearer to the truth. Don't nake fun of his wildest make-be- lieve. Accept it as a normal ex- vession of his development. And A.Lich come out of his little head. 'njoy it. More than that, stimulate his/ magination by putting wings on 'our own and share his creations. Fill him full of fanciful tales nd welcome the imaginary yarns 'ccasionally write down some of hem and read them back to him Late and file them away for him| o read himself some day. These things will help to foster is intellectual growth and render | | and our children and grown-up him a more interesting and at |iriends can enjoy the whimsical | ractive person, (My bulletin "Now Come the| SWANKY Let it rain, says this pretty model, who shows off one of the | F 1 HANDLE | handle, by Polan Katz, decorated with metal and delicate mother- of-pearl. new spring umbrellas with inlaid Rules of Etiquette May Change But Bad, Manners Are Inexcusable Etiquette has done some chang- ing along with our swiftly chang- ing times. In grandmother's day it was necessary to know how many cards to leave on 'a formal call and when to tip the second foot- man. Today most of this pomp and ceremony has been replaced by a simpler, more democratic way of life, and the transition poses new questions about what is considered good manners today. You may be surprised at some © 8-0-0 PRETTY! and self-respecting woman avoids gins of clothes or behavior which are in-| ample appropriate . or ' woman | | | | equal -- By ALICE BROOKS Cool scooped neck pinafare Jecomes a pa retty dress -- by adding the separate colar! She'll love this versatile new style, you will too--its sev-very-easy. Pattern 7196: Children's sizes 2, 4, 6, included. Pattern, embroidery transfer, directions. Send TWENTY-FIVE CENTS in coins for this pattern (stamps can- not b> accepted) to Daily Times- Gazette, Household Arts Dept., Oshawa, Ontario. Print plainly NAME, ADDRESS, PATTERN NUMBEI Order our ALICE BROOKS Needlecraft Catalogue Enjoy pages and pages of exciting new desirn kniiting, crochet, em- broidery, ircn-ons, toys and novel: tins! Send 25 cents your copy, of this wonderful book now. You'll want to order every design in it! for BSS SASS SSSA LARA ESSS SS SASS Spring Coats Frances Benton gives in her 'Modern Book. of Good Manners." For instance: the rule about a man walking on the curb side of the street is not too rigid any more. Nor is it consider- ed so bad for a man to be ten minutes late to a date with a lady NEW RULES Such innovations as 'drive -in movies and maidless apartment living call for new rules of con- {duct. For the movie - goer, eti- quette requires you to dim your headlights as soon as you enter the parking area and never to blow your horn during a perform. ance. The maidless hostess should| plan a menu which can be pre- pared before guests arrive and thus avoid giving them a vaguely guilty feeling about the work en- tailed in entertaining them, Casual clothes call, for a few new rules too. A well - mannered) of the answers conspicuous. Af boarding. a subway in shorts at the rush hour is being| immodest, not because shorts are| in themselves indecent, but be-! cause they are being worn in the wrong place at the wrong time, Today the well-dressed man is ar chauld sanm ta about his clothes. He should look neat but he definitely should not look natty. The Victorian rule that a well - bred man never came to the dinner table without coat or tie is outmoded. Casual clothes are better suited to playing with the children and helping with the dishes Though women have gained rights, it is poor manners to refuse or ignore the little things a man is trying to do. Don't race him for the matches or ignore his arm if he offers it when you're stepping down from a bus. On the other hand, a man never should take a woman's arm but should offer his arm o racnal SHOPPING MANNERS All manners really spring from consideration for others, and per- haps the best example of this con- ideration how we treat the people who serve us. When shop- ping it good manners to be patient when a counter is crowded ond not to shove in before your time. Don't criticize the merchan- dise, just say it isn't what you were looking for. Remember too, when a salesgirl has spent time showing you something it's unfair to make your purchase from someone else ADVICE TO WIVES A wife whose husband is on the way up in business should under- stand that she should never in- vite superiors in rank to her house unless they invite her first She should not be so outstanding in any way clothes, behavior or even intellect as to be con- spicuous. She should be under- standing when her husband has to work late and ready to listen sympathetically to his troubles BSS SSS SRNR disclosed this before we married? Should I tell him now? |--although a psychological counsel | Sometimes I hate this man for|lor might give healing insight too. having led me astray. I know now|But you shouldn't burden your that his love was shallow, com-|husband with the matter, now or pared to what I have. My husband|ever. ji Sect and kind, but I have | heard him denounce, in very strong| misgivin "least said, soonest |terms, people who defy the moral| mended is the best rule to go by |code. Pease help me. G.S. |in marriage. M.H. IMANY HAVE SINNED | Mary Haworth counsels through Dear G.S.: In regard to your her column, not by mail or per- past lamented indiscretion with a senal interview. married man, you'll simply have care of this newspaper. 0 become self-possessed, psycho HALF-SIZE STY logically. It isn't appropriate to be LE er] quaking in your boots, as if the public were the keeper of your conscience. And as if you are at the mercy of any possible loose talk that might happen to drift {into your husband's ears, | If you have sinned and fallen! short of virtuous standards of be- havior, well, so (with One excep- |tion) has everybody who has ever |lived--we are told by John, the 'disciple whom Jesus loved." He further states that anyone who claims he hasn't sinned is a liar, and the truth is not in him. We must understand, of course, that sins of the flesh are by no means the whole story. The fields! of temptation are innumerable.| } and sins of the spirit are, accord-| ing to some authorities, more dia-! bolical (or more inhuman) than! those of the flesh. Characteristic the spirit include, for ex- snobbish pride, self-right-| eousness, uncharity, envy, malice, jealousy, etc. SHOULDN'T BROOD Despair and anxious remorse, entertained long after a wrong course has been renounced, are likewise sins of the spirit--inas- much as they conspire to prevent inviar progress. They . hinder rowth of faith in, and reliance upon, God's loving cooperation (via His graces) to "deliver us from evil," To repent a wrong course of ac- tion by giving it up, and to achieve Church Accepts Leamington Woman WINDSOR CP The first woman in Essex county to seek admission to the United Church of Canada ministry Thursday was ac- eepred for ministerial training ou c sew this pretty sundress Marilyn Hunter, of Leami Jou 820 SEW. 1a13 ELLY. pe said her approval by the ington. in jiffy time! No frills, no fuss -- committee on colleges and students| ¢:0°01 comfort on hot summer is fulfilment of a hope she has 438, a cinch to launder No alter- held since 10 years old. ation worries either--this pattern The committee's is proportioned fo ht the shorter, launches her on the final seven-| "ner 1gure perfectly. i year course of training, Church! Pattern 835: Half Sizes 4a, officials said there are fewer than 16%: Jou. 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