! § WOMEN! CHILD GUIDANCE | Suggests Ways To Help Child Defend Himself Against Bullies By G. CLEVELAND MYERS |them. I hope your husband spends Many parents write of neighbor-|2 good deal of time with the boy hood bullies. {and his playmates, doing and Here's a sample making things with them. "Dear Dr. Myer: We have lived Also, study your child with the | in a good section of a small com-|Bope of helping him to be a better | munity for three years. The chil-|Playmate himself dren around here seem to have DEFEND HIMSELF the run of things. The parents turn. Danny should learn to defend | the children out and never bother himseli. But it is not practical to to check on them or correct them urge him to stand up against a if they are at fault. boy who is much stronger than he "We have tried to bring our is or against the whole gang. It child up to respect others and the could be that, in his fear of them, | property of others. There are kids he cries easily and calls them ugly here who are always trying to in- names, not knowing what else to olve my son in fighting. He is not do. mae the aggressive type I don't believe it will help you { "One child in particular has a to complain to the parents. f habit of jumping on him and] (My bulletin, "Your Child and punching him in the stomach or in His Playmates' may be had by "* the small of his back. He always sending a self-addressed, stamped does this when there are other! envelope to me in care of this boys with him. Then they all jump newspaper.) | on Danny SHOULD FIGHT FAIR _-- believs / Shidsen must fight, Says Time Coming they shou ight fair his other * oder than When Women Will child is six months Danny, and is what one would call a 'wise guy'. The expressions Do The Proposing he uses are terrible. 'Ripping out : your guts,' is one of them. This! MONTREAL (CP) -- Democracy Wait for the knight on the white boy also tells the youngsters on has moved into courtship, with charger, : : the school bus that Danny is a/women sharing the job of wooing] MTS. Barrier believes a more v and doesn't know how to and winning. | realistic attitude, adopted from the fight. | So says Mrs. Dorothy Barrier,|beginning of the courtship, would "This child's mother is never executive secretary of the mar. Make it easier for the two parties home. when he comes home from riage counselling centre of the Men-|t0 adjust themselves after mar- school. I called her up and asked tal Hygiene Institute | Flage : X er if she would please not have "Democracy," she said in an! "It's only logical that as women her son keep punching Danny in interview Wednesday, "has crept! achieve more equality with men the stomach. She became insulted into courtship. And as we accept they will have more to say when Ech and said she belives in letting chil- this theory, we're more apt to it comes to the Yuestion of Shes. a. = dren fight the way they want to, think of marriage in terms of a|ing a mate for the rest of their and never interferes in any way| partnership. Women are going to| lives. And, I guess, that may entail| WIFE PRESERVER or corrects them {have to acept more responsibility the actual proposing of marriage." | "Was 1 correct in telling her in the selection of a mate . . , and,] Mrs. Barrier also said. that If it is rainy or smowy outside, what I believe or should I teach eventually, the idea of a woman women's increased freedom has znd you have no foot-scraper, my child to be aggressive also?" proposing may be acceptable to produced a greater number of place a brick or large, sharp stone My reply, in part: You have a|societs.' divorces. {on the doormat as a temporary, hard problem. 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