Ifrom normal hetérosexual feeling. |tion bereft of the spark of positive And the only answer shat, Secure love. is--they aren't "alive" to the im-| with time to spare, you are in- portance of warmhearted mutual| : Ad love, as an indispensable factor in creasingly hungry for significant healthy human: development. to a psychiatrist, as T would never go to one. Perhaps I just haven't met the right girl; but I've been out with a lot of them lately. All kinds. D.L. T00 MECHANISTIC? Dear D.K.: Perhaps the difficult is that your whole family's attitude toward living is too mechanistic. Possibly the policy is to try to "control" existence in | of glamour on the beach and pro- mise to stand up to hard wear | {Matching beach jackets go with Camisole Tops, Can-Can Petticoat Forecast For A Frilly Summer By SYLVIA HACK |and® yellows were thrown together; Canadian Press Staff Writer in fetching styles featuring peas- | them. |FREE INSURANCE the rainwear section, one manufacturer offers a free insur- ance scheme to clients with cover- age for six months against loss of | the coat by theft, burns or stains. | Prize of elegance went to .a street dress of black wool with a| detachable white shawl collar sell- ing for about $19. It has three|, quarter length sleeves, dipping | waistline, and a couture look. Among the novelties were cotton | dresses and blouses with printed 'signs of the Zodiac" on them. A horoscope is offered free of charge with this range. Another was a three-way skirt) for girls who ride bikes. With con-| than in a cloth bag, cealed zips, the skirt may be warn | leaves won't rust. divided as slacks or apron-fronted -- - eit |ties--for true companionship keyed 1 take it your parents aren't de-|to sympathetic mutual apprecia-| Pendent Mande. If they Sere, 1ition. But unfortunately your un-| a Br u's Fab il 1 . : : i --Britain's big na- ant necklines, swirling skirts over Hence the question: Why have they Conscious ~om Wiiicls Sponameity! donal fashion fair has served up|can-can petticoats, i J and terms of|€aned upon you as their care. | springs] 3S no i ons to. [hat/next summer's styles as a spicy| cover up jackets. we place for everything, and ever _|taker? Do they reason that chil-{MOE, bid ped 0 ong 301 hen [continental dish flavored by five| American, French, 2 p ave for ¢ Tything, ee y dren "owe everything" to parents?|Kind of alliance. Thus, even w {iv French mannequins who brought|Spanish fabrics--some with local thing in its place"--as regards eX-|sng aren't entitled to lives of their| lovemaking," you are emotionally foo" toir own Paris gendarme|embroidery--teamed with gay de-| perience. : ,.jown until the parents have ar estranged from what you are | iust for the effect." signs to make for a sparkling '36 And maybe the family doesn't rived at something approximating doing. And your longtime solitary| "go. "po "weeklong fair at the| Impressionaist prints on neutrs) include love as an essential part|Easy Street? In short, are they habits probably were sparked by| poy. Alpert Hall, 48 British fash- backgrounds featured high necked| of sensible living: but thinks of it,|anxiously self-centered and blindly| {rigidity of temperament--quite as ;,;"}oyses showed 14,000 garments :oll-collars dipping fo a short V- rather, as fairy tale stuff; as "out| self-serving--due to being psycho-|™Uch as by "duty to parents." |. oga of silk, cotton, rayon and|line at the nape of the neck. Some of this world"'--or as a luxury that|jogically infantile? Are you the| You should have psychiatric|yool, and competition was fierce. of the cute styles are camisole \ can wait until all else is met (ac- emotional victim of that kind of help, to give you the key to emo-! The five French girls displayed|tops above permanently pleated ' A . cording to the family's idea of| family philosophy and family at. tional liveness and integrity. You| «continental inspired" cottons by|skirts, cross over bodices atop Can t Ge . nterested 1n Girls duty done"). mosphere? {wouldn't kndw the right girl if you the Berkertex group, one of Brit- wrap-around skirts, and sleeveless In your case, for Sample, it SEREFT or LOVE {were o meet her in yous Present ain's couture houses. And on a numbers in the new trumpet line % » {seems you've opera on e am struck by your statements, | state. Or rather say, there is noipoatshaped platform -- with the|fitting closely down the hips and MARY HAWORTRS MAIL 0%: theo Hladly trade Dlaceslibeory that you Were righteously|tc wit: "I always have a good time| "right girl" for the psychologically gendarme patrolling alertly alongthen flaring out to the knees, Sif little Eoolien wri son TAI EY mele 1 ause doing your duty--and properly et socially 'when dating . . . but as|impotent man. M.H side--dresses, two-piece and four fened and soft cotton, embossed an 27 oodwootl ist T0ina:nely. Tove for 3 worgan: Bain love wait--in taking care ofisoon as I am home I get that old] May Haworth counsels through piece ensembles won the day for| and satin finished cotton are used|as an ordinary skirt. ' 22 . ef | Y, : parents and helping them provide depressing sense of utter futility. her column. not by mail or per-|chic and color. . for the "continentals." All the clothes sell at less than] Women "THE DAILY TIMES-GAZETTE, Thursday, December 8, 1955 9 MARY HAWORTH MAIL Man, 27, Anxious To Marry Italian and Lettuce that is to be refrigerat should first be washed and wrapped a paper towel rather than in a cloth 1] so the leaves won't rust. WIFE PRESERVER Lettuce that is to be refriger- ated should first be washed and wrapped in a paper towel rather so the HOUSEHOLD HINT To repair a hole in a plaster wall, fill it with plastic wood and let it harden overnight. a ee Ars. one who needs and i i i iy ye two Sn ¥ wy I © Reeds and depends upon your sisters with schooling. One Everything seems so meaninglessisonal interview. Write her in cae| FETCHING STYLES Swim suits woven with glittering|the equivalent of $55---with many - | --." This suggests a family situa- of this mewspape. Vivid jewel shades, reds, blues lurex thread will add an extra dash'under $30. : wonders why your parents have used to making my own 'decisions Pp I would appreciate your com-|let your life take this lopsided turn and giving advice. But now I have ment; a problem that I can't seem to| solve, and T am asking advice for) myself. Before my youngest sister grad-| uated from school a while back and went out to earn her own way, I was too busy making a living to| have time for girls. When I met| a girl who might appeal to me seriously, I would avoid her to pre- vent it. Now, however, with only my parents to care for, I feel that I can support a wife. But the prob- lem is that I have so long barred myself from a social life with women that I can't seem to get interested in any girl. I am begin- ning to worry that I am incapable of falling in love--for I have had plenty of chances lately . . . | Ea cH SS a HE'S EXPERT } . Since I started taking pains with my appearance, I am often ol If your child Co plimented on my looks and phy- sigue. I am a good skater; and; have taken dancing lessons and become a smooth dancer. I have no trouble making conversation and am told I have an unusually| "infectious" laugh. And in recent months of dating I have become practically an expert at making love. Several girls have told me they are in love with me--which| only gives me a trapped feeling, because no matter how I try, I can't be in love with them. I don't drink or smoke, but al ways have a good time socially, and when I am dating, I make certain the girl enjoys herself too. | But as soon as I am home I get that same old depressing sense of utter futility. Everything seems so| meaningless. 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