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§ PEE DAILY TIMES-GAZETTE, Wednesday, April 18, 1955 MARY HAWORTH MAIL Attitude Of Mother Becomes Stumbling Block To Young Coupl DEAR MARY HAWORTH: My| Sue acquired a reputation for being | son John, 17, a freshman in college, | go to yope him into marriage, sible. pes-( about Sue as i she were were sensibly resolved to befriend, . 5 {congregation would remain dangerous rival in a a your son. You would grant her the Oshawa s Welsh a led by a a de in Sue's letter to you is impertinent, | own and dominate John. In reality directly alone in her quest for the g In her sense no doubt, if we choose to weigh| you are John's mother; and as such yourself it conventionally. But it shows in- you ought to be a wise mature talks that ensue. In so doing, you'd at she feels desperately character, ca confess to being! son Ji a 8 and foolhardy in her| must confront you directly about|if you cross her. That's equivalent is going with Sue, 18, who is pretty, y..p cop~o) dating of college boys. her fears of losing John if you| to sayin; you feel you can't beat able of guidig him be makin | aright ONT, adolescent reefs. | of | life--whicl after all is what evéry-| But in vour comment here con-|M. H. | one seeks, no matter how far off| densed, you the beam they go. of aloneness, she urgently feels she "go to an, lengths to get her way' | Mary Haworth counsels through "scared to death' that Sue would her column, not by mail or igh to hear the Gymanfa Ganu in sonal interview. Write her in care Dewi Sant Church, Toronto. of this newspaper. w she asks, and think of mothering her in me Attend Festival yourself an instrument. A number of Oshawa's Welsh saving grace in 'he situation. -- | people and their friends travelled by chartered bus on Good Friday The Gymanfa Ganu is not gen- * |erally known, but it has been es- gave the pitch sometimes without the tuning fork or other imstru- ment. The 'congregation wi be dri ed in the selected hymns fa Ganu, held usually at time. A famous historian named Gir. aldus writing in 1188 describes the skill of the people in vocal music, poised and well dressed. She uses) oe | i" J derania hanlie savin, : " i ry may be that she was Won't accept or understan er. her in battle of wits or wills. I majoring i dramaiice and play: more victimized than cherished in| NO! thai she would phrase her case| If you act your age and are oe a sou {Eis tha art aged bad i which they sang in parts and not acts, all the ime, She is 21 only these associations. Evidently the what it amounts to. | as Lou We amt ing in the ear, temporary deafness ign among Gymry, The custom developed: through e vi Pur a now infers that she has| ACT H. . AGE {of her confusion. On the contrary,| © an aching or Sischarging sar In the little chapels anad|the ages finding its Jo wy | turned to 17-year-old John as a Wha to do? Get straight in your you would be an objective light- requires medical attention. Early '® a day in the Hohn is the eld. t of several chil. comparative innocent, and is know- mind about the problem. As of | giver, as judiciously sympathetic treatment can usually clear up the| churches that dot the a A ingly using her sadly-won wiles! now, you are agitating yourself 'towards her floundering as you| infection and save permanent im-|dales of Wales, the beg... , was dren and always has been serious, ie Derm d hy * ce since. Su is always conniving to Now have a letter from Sue, nervous obedient and ambitious. But I don't think be is emotionally mature or / able to cope with a bad situation, Sue went with college boys all A through school; then in her \\ J senior year felt left out of things J ¥ and man zed, through friends, to S et a date with John, who never ad dated except for proms. They've been going steady ever NV 0 be alone with him, and avoids the ' ' fun and activity of their old crowd. {is mar , aren't too good, yet he [14 » rushes home every weekend to see : , : her. i IS GIRI LEECH? We've been generous in siving ; John edu:ational and social privi- leges we could ill afford; but re- cently I've flatly refused, twice in: succession, to let him drive the car 180 miles on a round trip to Sue's school. a Come clong and see the meny "spec. iol' buys we hove on display for our SPRING CLEANING SALE. You ere sure to be pleased with the large ver. ioty of seasonal items and the savings thet can be meade while buying them during this event. insisting she must see me to dis- cuss (1) how much I dislike her; (2) how John is torn between love of his parents and her; and (3) how terribly I hurt her when I wouldn't him drive up to see her play. and again to fetch her home. 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CLEVELAND MYERS red bim from repeating suel an The other evening, Mrs. Myers | aot at a later time, she had urged me to write more| Or suppose he had grabbed some often on the difference between precious object and started to run what we want him to do, and| If when the mother said No, keeping him from doing what we| the y ter kept on r i she Her idea was that whem a par | take # from him. ent commands a tot to do some But she probably did not con- stronged feeling of self - impor | genge of authority had not been tance than when she commands|gllied, as she supposed. more, she feels a stronger urge oH have spanked this tot the moment punish the youngeter if he doesn't| he began to run, in ordef to teach if he doesn't then obey at two, | attention, at the time, was on res- three or four, he probably won't | eying the object, not on training obey. She punishes him again. He| (My bulletins "Stubbornness" has openly defied her authority. apd "How To Teach Tot Meaning f Suppose, for instance, she tells | self-addressed. stamped envelope the tot, three, to pick up a block | to .me in care of this newspaper.) confirms my earlier suspicion that thing should be broken up, and in somethir he'd like to escape, ¥ i QJ I are stymied. Friends of both Please help us. ---V.Y, ca's most eminent designers, | and its fitted bodice and becom- | = 4 Sue's aggressive -perfor. to delight the most meticulous | tilly lace with matching Jeweled | lovable. Thus she uses heavy make- floor with its full, flaring skirt | RIAN. | for emotional security She's had ive her a wholesome rearing past, to be of help to her To Handle A Child Who Balks taken' --] assume they imply that suggested an idea. 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