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MARY HAWORTH'S MAIL Widow Desolate from Loss Seeks to Recover Peace of Mind Dear Mary Haworth: I am a childless widow, age 35, hav- my husband suddenly about two months ago. I would like to know how other women stand the greatest loss a woman can suffer, without going out of their minds. . Sometimes I think death and merciful oblivion would be the kindest thing that could happen to me. Don't misunderstand; I am not thinking of suicide. I mean that merciful God ht t me 1 have tried all the things that people recommend to me. I have a job, at which I've worked for several years. I have tried prayer and reading the Bible, both which make me intensely sad. only ce that helps is laugh- ter and talking my beloved husband -- wi SNAPPY-WRAP! 4655 14%--24% By ANNE ADAMS Half-sizers! Wrap it on 1-2-3 quick! No "'over-head'" fuss -- no muss. Iron it in a jiffy, too -- this snappy-wrap opens flat. The lines are right for short, fuller fig- ure. Proportioned to fit--no alter- ation problems. Make several in crisp, gay cotton. Pattern 4655. Half sizes 14%, 16%, 18%, 20%, 22%, 24%. Size 16% takes 4 yards 35-inch fabric. Send THIR' $ In sine Stamps cannot be ccepted) for attern. Print SIZE SAE, ADDRESS, The | husband, I SEL Shreya She ge el on 5 ED lost loved ones before, but never have I had an g to like this. If possible, it hurts worse today than the day he died. There must be others like me; what do they do? We had bosn marie 11 years; Tom was CHILD'S VIEW OF LIFE Dear T.S.: If i were between the age of, say, 18 and 25, it would be factually correct to refer to| : However, at 35, though you are outhful to be sure, you are not the 3atepory of tender young- ness with w u identify your- self, unconscio and verbally. Tom meant more to you than a ather. He was very much of a father figure also, in of Jou feelings and fantasies about im. . Hence your despair - reaction to his sudden death awful inconsolably, unen- , as if he were in- to your security and darkness, in an indifferent uni- verse. Owing to this childish orien- tation to the business of living, ou are demoralized semporasily, 4) the prospect of having to rally and recover balance as a presum- ably lone adult. PROGRAM HELPS The most effective antidote to the blow you've had is to be so- cially useful and Jutgoing; to in- vest (or participate) widely and ly in present day living. In finding some relief in keeping on the go, laughing with friends and talking to them of your beloved husband, already you've had sam- ple-proof of the worth of this clas- sic Be Iption- xpected that § e pro- found heartache would ease in a matter of weeks. But in six months to a year, you should be mend- ing, and having increasing peace of soul. Meanwhile try to help others compassionately, out of the depths of your newly acquired knowledge of suffering. Thus you add to your humanitarian value, and to sum total of conscious soul-force in the universe. It is doubtful whether anyone, even the wisest, can supply words to lighten the bleakness of fresh bereavement for another. Healing comes as a result of inner adjust- ment to, and philosophic accep- tance of, the irrevocable depriva- tion. It is a by-product of indi- vidual spiritual progress, speeded up to permit constructive accom- modation to "what is." -- M. H. Mary Haworth counsels through her column, not by mail or per- sonal interview. Write her in care of this newspaper. In order to ensure Wore JO ALDWINCKLE _ WOMEN'S EDITOR DIAL 3-2233 This pearl-studded bolero and sumptuous lacey stole are quick- ly and easily made. The bolero, made from only 8 ozs. of wool, is trimmed with pearls or wooden beads. The stole, worked in the popular bubble stitch pattern, re- quires only 14 ozs. of wool. 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