WOMEN V.0.N. WEEK * Immigrant Pandly Thanks VON For Mother's Return to Health A young mother living in a small community is making a quick re- covery from a serious stroke largely because of the help of a 'Victorian Order nurse. * The woman suffered the stroke a few months after she, her hus- band and three children arrived as immigrants in Canada. The stroke was so serious that it left one sidé of her body completely paralyzed. After she had been admitted to hospital, there seemed to be little hope that she would recover.' Both the familys and the woman were {esponqent. especially since they few friends in Canada to com- fort them. * CALL FOR HELP Despite the fear that she would not live, the family decided she should return home from the hos- pital. The husband and the teen- aged children, however, found it impossible to care for her prop- eH and asked the Victorian Order of Nurses for help. A VON nurse began making daily visits to the home. She sup- ervised required treatments and encouraged the woman and the family to take an optimistic atti tude toward recovery. As a result of her influence, the family and the patient began to adopt a happier outlook. The nurse | 8 laid great stress on the value of | keeping the patient quiet and per- suading her not to worry. Through the treatments, the woman gradu re-acquired the use of her paralyzed limbs and was soon out of bed, although con- fined to a chair. Some three months after the VON nurse first called at the home, the woman had recovered sufficiently to again look after her household duties. The family now is full of hope for the future, and there is a rea- sonably good prospect that the Roman wilk f recover from her ness. CHILD GUIDANCE Training of the Is Outlined by By G. CLEVELAND MYERS I've been getting a good many 'letters about the child, usually a boy, in the upped grades or meh school whose school psychelog st . finds him to have a high 1.Q., or whose teachers are sure he has more than average ability at book learning, but who is satisfied with average or barely passing grades. His teachers often complain that he doesn't do his work or com- it on time, and that he shirks bs which require some effort. A Bright Child Psychologist pealed to us. Wouldn't we be pretty hard to live with? My bulletins, "How to Teach the Child to Help at Home' and '"Re- sponsibility", may be had by send- ing a self-addressed, stamped en- velope to me in care of this news- paper. TROPICAL TOWELS! | time, die pumber of these lads are described with their classmates, of them chosen as class as popular some brig STUDENT The teacher of one such lad distressed that he has been electe ent of his class, since s in his regular for f the which would in hard work. are the type of children d have profited at home t school from being required many things they would not do. A poor education child, and especially poor type of child, is a scheme or school trai based the grinch le of expecting him do only sy he feels like Boy attempting to make everything at he hould do, so attractive from dom it. Si child, over ) smart. While you should help him 5 on well with other children his own age, you also be very eager to have him practiced in Yoing well and promptly some Jeuiany assigned ome jobs, whether he likes these obs or not--and practiced so well these directions that he can rarely escape such jobs. But as a rule, this is the very kind of child who most often runs away from such responsibilities. Just because he is so bright, he can outsmart his parents and teachers. While a few children learn to take responsibilities chiefly by do- ing what they want to do, the real test of responsibility comes when tasks arise which require self-drive to do. Almost every day, you and 1 are faced with jobs we wish we did not have to do. Suppose we Wat tteatty ~Winked these jobs and Rex Sg R88 ges SE By ALICE BROOKS Tropical touch! Parakeets --gay, colorful birds -- add new charm % kitchen linens. Make di: fun -- embroider a set of six In bright colors, simple stitches. Parakeets in six different poses! Pattern 7020 has 6 embroidery mo- tifs, each about 8 x 5 inches. Send TWENTY-FIVE CENTS in, coins for this pattern (stamps can- | not be accepted) to Daily Times- Gazette, Household Arts Dept. Osh- awa, Ontario. Print plainly NAME, ADDRESS, PATTE NUMBER. to sew, embroider, crochet--print- ed right in the Alice Brooks. Needle- craft Book! Plus many more pat- terns to send for -- including gift ideas, bazaar money-makers, toys, fashions! Send 25 cents now! : did only what immediately ap- Newspaper Reporters were Excluded from Parliament! When newspapers first at- KEEP IN TRIM Re-educate Your Food Habits To Control Weight By IDA JEAN KAIN The most pleasant part of diet- ing--keeping slim, As our model reduce 1 femarked DumorouEly, if a vi ppy expe; ence . . . when it's ol overt However, mnany reducers seem puzzles as to just what to do once they have reached their goal. They reason, and rightly, that if thes continue cutting calories they lose more pounds. At the same lear that if they stop come the; Sounding "Ti Lie suc habits. : SHARP CUT NEEDED But back to the choice. To re duce, it is necessary to cut calories from one-half to one-third bslow your requirements. For example, only one h starch food is in- cluded in a low calorie meal. You have a choice between bread and cereal for breakfast, and between bread, corn, rice or potato for din- ner. To curb calories, fats are cut sharply, and rich desserts are Now, in maintaining weight at status quo, the choice can be wider. You might choose a small baked potato with a half pat of butter, and then either a slice of bread or a modest dessert. It would pot be in the interest of weight control for you to return to two pats of butter, potatoes, bread and dessert. On those food habits, the lost pounds would soon sneak back on . . . and perhps more in the Darga SMALLER MEALS SUFFICE You have two things in your favor now--a healthy hold on these new food habits and a smaller appetite. You actually do not want so much food. You feel content with smaller meals. If you are wise, you will hold that appetite right where it is then keeping weight at beautiful normal will be no hardship at all. The trick is to make up your mind that you want fo Neep your appetite under con ro! Here is a rule that never fails: Never eat until you feel you have a stomach. The main reason your appetite grew and then got out of bounds was that you stretched over--is a practice that enlarges eating--even if you eat just a little your food capacity. Habitual over- your appetite. How do you know? When you have that too-tight feeling in the region of the beltline 15 to 20 minutes after you have finished eating--you've overeaten. To forestall a gain, for the next few weeks, practice getting up from the dining table just short of full. This takes effort only at first. After a time it becomes habit-- a beautiful habit! The Victorian Order nurse is a graduate registered nurse, and many have special training in pub- lic health. She will call at home of any sick or injured Cana- dian and minister care under the | direction of a physician. MR. JOHN, fabulous couturier- milliner, designed this sophisti- cated little pillbox with travel in mind. This year is a wonderful time for going places as almost all the world capitals are on the American tourists itinerary. The little hat is in a "'trip-mate" sil- houette of velvet bowed Egyptian sisal straw in beige. And it is a perfect companion on plane, train or ship. The surprising acces- sories are striped taffeta gloves and a cape of white swan feath- ers. By TRACY ADRIAN. MARY HAWORTH'S MAIL Expe Dear Mary Haworth: I married a few years ago, at the age of 27. |I have two c ildren, a daughter, age 3, and an infant son, now six-months-old. My doctor tells me I am due to have another child in about six months; and I have made myself sick, wondering how I am going to break this news to mother. other didn't want me to marry Henry. You see, he was married before, and has a teen-age child. He is a good father and a devoted husband to me; and I have been very happy since I married him. We get along very well together. We have a nice house, and he is he sort of man who loves his home and family. I don't want to hurt my mother; but when she learns I am expect ing another child, she won't like it. She will react as she did when she knew that our second. child was expected. Do you think my mother should be telling me what 0 do--and what not to do? Please try to help me clarify my Perspective. I am very un- happy when I think of mother's attitude; and so sick of her teldng me that I don't do things right. m the | She is critical because I don't keep the house "just so," ete. Yet I keep my children clean, and bring Them up with love and care. -- S.F. AGITATION COMPLICATED Dear S.F.: ey Prolific flowers change color 3 times daily -- | ke MAGIC. Morning -- brilliant orange, eenlers; noon, reddish pink, lighter A climber, summer and | PAC Stokes Seeds, $1. Catharines, Ont. Send me a packet and res catalogue. PROV. cting Third Child, Wie Dreads Her Mother's Censure | know, unhappily, that your mother If you were more H mature, you would be less dis- tressed by imaginary previews of what your mother may think when she learns that you are having a third child while the second is still a babe-in-arms. As I get the picture, you are a bit overwhelmed and panic-stricken (entirely on your own account) to find that another baby is on the way. Consequently you have moods of longing, unconsciously, to es- To keep a fabric you're cutting from slipping and sliding on a table top, place a table-pad, felt side A on the work surface. Fab- ric stay in place on this, and it is also a good protection against the danger of scissors scratches on the table surface. SEW-EASY | ~~ 4656 12-20; 40 ; By ANNE ADAMS With or without the jacket, this is the prettiest fashion in the Eas- how the jacket is scooped to show off the bow neckline of the dress. It's a plea- sure to sew -- that Easy! Choose nrint for dress -- a contrast Misses' Sizes 12, 14, 16, 18, 20; 40. Size 16 ensemble 4% yards 39-inch; 2 yards contrast. This pattern easy to use, simple ter Parade. See a nev for jacket. Pattern 4656: ment in which you are enmeshed --which means that your emotions turn backwards in time, to a vision | of being a child In your mother's | keeping again. | Being an anxious insicure per ing Henry than in being true to yourself, doubtless you wouldn't dream of sharing your dismay and misgivings with him, lest he take offense. You feel alone in a situa- tion tBat seems (momentarily) to be too much for you. Desperately you want sympathy and under- standing from a strong sensible source--somebody who sees the problem as you see it, and cares about lifting your morale to meet it. So, naturally, your thoughts go to '"'mother"--but immediately you isn't the answer to your needs of succor in this hou ar to feel stymied, resentful, defen- sive, etc., as regards your mother --without knowing why. In short, your &ensitivity to your mother's anticipated criticism boils down to this--you are afraid she will be saying what you are feel ing, namely: That you are having | more babies just now than you can | manage. However, if that's the | best she's have to say, I agree with you she should hold her tongue. For help in priming your growth, via self understanding, read 'The Mind Alive"--a wonderful new book by Mr. and Mrs. H. A. Over street (Norton, publishers). Mary Haworth counsels through her column, not by mail or per sonal interview. Write her in care of thfs newspaper. Attention Ladies! SPECIAL!... NEXT WEEK ONLY cape the whole maternal assign- |p! a illustrated instructions. to sew, is tested for fit. Has com- THE DAILY TIMES-GAZETTE, Saturday, February #7, 1054 © Launder in the Modern Way With Snagproof Pins and Clamps By ELEANOR ROSS Clothespins have undergone such a transformation that they tell very eloquently how laundering habits have changed. Gone are the days when one staggered into the yard once a week with a basket full of heavy pieces which were skewered to the clothesline with rough, shaggy. wooden clothespins that snagged or bit into that was DO Now it's fun to launder, easy to care for one's personal items, and a cinch to do the job in small batches. Clothes and fabrics are sheerer, more delicate and easier to suds. Consequently the little indoor laundry is popular. Sometimes the bathroom seems the handiest place for the job. But there's no need to have dangling clothes bothering the family and spoiling the look of the room. There are so many new clothespins, variants on the suec- tion cup clothesline and extra towel bars that you won't have any trouble "string a line' indoors. The smooth surface of polished plastic makes an ideal line -fast- ener for sheer fragile fabrics. There's a novel twist to this, a clamp clothespin attached to a plastic hanger hook. These ean be tucked over a line or over the shower rod. For hanging baby's '| clothes or other tiny items, try a slim plastic pin that looks like an oversize bobby pin and that grips just as firmly. Thesé clothespi proof. There are neat little clothespins of wood, too, but vastly different they are from the old, heavy, wood ones. The new version es use of wood so highly rubbed that its texture is almost silken, No matter how sleek and modern the new clothespins may be, they must be kept as clean as the wash they peg down. Plastic ones should be dunked into lukewarm suds. But don't wash them in terrk fically hot water or they may warp. 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