CELEBRATING 25TH ANNIVERSARY Cuting their anniversary cake are Mr. and Mrs. F. Jay Goyne, Masson Street, who celebrated their silver wedding anniversary last Saturday when they received the good wishes and congratula- ' tions of their many friends. Mr. and Mrs. Goyne were marri in the parsonage of King Street. United Church on February 9, 1929 with the Rev. Charles E. Cragg officiating. Photo by and. KEEP IN TRIM Practise Saying "No" and Develop Positive Attitude Weight Control By IDA JEAN KAIN ° Many uestions come in to this department. Some 'of you ask if it would be all right to reduce on favorite desserts so long as you do not exceed your reducing calories. Others ask the dietitian to make it clear just what the dangers are fo reducing. So let's do some sizaight thinking. If you figure that because you have considerable fat to draw on for fuel, it matters little what you eat so long as you keep within your calories you are reasoning from a false premise, does not ruh on fuel able in the excess fat, the foods which furnish these nutrients must be included daily, ardless of what you are trying to do about your weight. ONLY ONE SAFE DIET There is one safe reducing diet, and that is to build your daily menus around these protec- tive foods: Eggs, 1 or 2; milk, skim milk or buttermilk, 2 glasses of one glass and an ounce of cheese; a liberal serving of lean meat, fish or fowl; a green leafy or deep yellow vegetable, plus one or two other cooked vegetables; a raw salad, including dark green leaves; 2 or 3 fruits, including one d citrus or juice; plus a restricted The danger in reducing les in Jeaving out the protective nutrients and te: gf aaily Giving. ro. 18 ar ving. Here to reason scientifically: materials are es- sential daily, and are reuired in ormal amounts, not in reduced amount of whole grain or enriched bread a pat of butter. Tg kecp calories down, bread shouid be limited to 2 or 3 slides a day. IS 93 TODAY . Mrs. William Cliff who is today receiving the congratulations of her many friends on the occasion of her 93rd birthday which is being celebrated at a family athiering at her home on Bruce reet. Masosn St. Pair Married 25 Years Many guests called at the home of Mr, and Mrs. F. Jay Goyne, Masson Street, on Satuuday after- noon and evening to extend silver anniversary greetings. A large array of greeting cards and numerous gift bouquets of roses, carnations, daffodills and snapdragons decorated theS®rooms. The silver wedding couple re- ceived their guests in the living room. Mrs. Goyne was wearing a jacket dress of royal blue crepe and a corsage of red roses. Also Jrect the guests were Mr. and . Clinton Bradbury, who were the attendants at the wedding 25 years ago, which was solemnized in the King Street United Church parsonage with the Reverend Charles E. Cragg performing the ceremony. Miss Hazel Waring opened the door to the guests in the atermoon and presided over the white satin guest book, and Miss Haze! Yelland did the honors in the evening. Tea was served in the dining room. Centering the tea table whic was a three tier pedestal wedding cake in a setting of white tulle and pink snapdragon florets topped with a gift bouquet of purple vio- lets, and flanked with lighted white tapers in silver candlelabras. Pouring tea in the afternoon Jove Jn. Lew Dine, mother a silver wedding groom an hn an aunt, Mrs. Sop . A. E. Bon the evening . Everett Disney, . Wal- Stewart and Mr, sang sever: Mr. Blake Branton also eral piano solos. Joust. it crystal and hammered alum- word were received by the bridal couple of a quarter of a century of Mr, Robert Bechanan of Flon, Manitoba, and the late Mrs. Buchanan, and Mr. Goyne is the son of Mrs. Lew Disuey of Oshawa, and the late Mr. Charles L. Goyne. HOUSEHOLD HINT If fine knives have become badly stained, clean with a cork dipped in ofl and then in fine scouring powder. If you use steel wool, be sure that it does not come in con- tact with the cutting edge of the BEAUTIFUL BROADLOOM RUGS colors ond patterns. No obligation to see our som) DIAL 5-1553 Many gifts of silver, silver de- MARY HAWORTH'S MAIL Dear Mary Haworth: Reading your column daily, I have become one of your admirers; and as it | happens, I, too, am in desperate | need of advice on what to do, or whether to turn for help with a problem. My son Tom, past 23, returned from a tour of duty in Korea and got his discharge here at the end of September. Of course we were very happy and grateful to have hime back with us; and we felt he should take his time to get adjusted to civilian life. However, we now think he has had sufficient leisure, and we urge him to go back to college, or learn a trade, or look for a job. He had a year of college prior to being drafted, and was only an average student. In my opinion a healthy lad "om's age should have the ambition to go out and make the best of life; but it seems he prefers doing nothing. SEEMS AFRAID In recent weeks I have watched him closely and I am coming to realize that he needs some kind of counsel. It looks as if he is afraid to face the realities of life. I don't think we can afford psy- chiatric consultation, and books won't help, as I am sure he would not read them. I really don't know to whom to turn, without embar- rassing him. When I show him newspaper ad- vertisements of positions, that seem perfectly suitable for him, he simply says it would be useless to apply as he wouldn't be hired. I am at my wits' end. Please help us soon. 8. WHAT CAUSES NEGLIGENCE? Dear G.S.: One is reminded of the colloquial saying--*'soldiering 4DIAMOND'DUETTE Smart Matching Rings CREDIT JEWELLERS OSHA WS Whittle The Waist And Midritf And Get In Line for Spring on the' job" --which means loafing, idling, shirking a task. T wonder what is the tory of this. mean- ing of the term? What started it? Can it be that overall, there is something in the nature of soldier- ing, or army discipline, that tends to expunge individual initiative, and numb the veteran's subsequent at- titude towards profit-making? Obviously it isn't true in all cases; nor even in the majority of cases; but maybe, down through the ages, the families of soldiers have seen enough evidence along that line to spark the ironic phrase --which equates soldiering with a don't-care attitude. It is my observation that mus- tered-out soldiers make the speed- iest, most satisfactory adjustment to civilian life when they return to work or study almost as soon as they change their clothes. Say within a fortnight, unless they are medical cases--and even then, something to do, that identifies them (self-respectingly) with the civilian scene, is one of the finest 'psychosomatic' tonics. SAPS STRENGTH You note that Tom seems "afraid to face the realities of life." This is a by-product of doing nothing. "Emotion follows action," psychol- ogy teaches: A truism that has a two-edged application to Tom's stalemate. The Family Service Agency in your neighForhood e the logical source of confidential kelp with the problem, I think. Psychiatrically trained persons on the staff can stimulate insight into Tom's emo- tional blocks, and guide you in getting him launched as student or wage-earner. -- M.H. A gift from YARDLEY [imited time only ; 1 : when you buy 8 tablets of Yardley Lotus Soap you'll receive 8 pretty, purse-size bottle of Lotus Cologne and plastic refill fannel for the regular price of the sosp alone sss KARN'S DRUG STORE 28 KING I. DIAL 3-4621 8 THE DAILY TIMES-GAZETTE, Wednesday, February 17, 1954 GROUPS, CLUBS, AUXILIARIES 10th GROUP COMMITTEE , The regular meeting of the 10th Group Committee held recently was resided over by Mrs. Lloyd Halliday. The secretary's report was read by Mrs. Charles Cath- moir and the treasurer's report by Mrs, Victor Phair. The members were reminded of the Brownie Fair and Tea on March 12 from 3 to 6 o'clock. A rummage sale was planned for March 9 at the Scout Hall at 1.30 o'clock. Final plans were made for the mother and daughter banquet on February 26. The door prize went to Mrs. Victor Phair and refresh- ments were served by Mrs. Thom- as Coull and Mrs. Thomas Salis- bury and Mrs. William James. KING STREET W.A. The regular meeting of King Streefy United Church W.A. was held on Thursday afternoon. Mrs, Edgar Wilson the president opened the meeting with a poem "Why Wonder." Mrs. Stanley Bone read cards and letters received in apprecia- tion for flowers, Mes, LeRoy Kel- ar gave the secretary's report and Mrs. Nelson Whinfield gave the treasurer's report. Faithful Group was in charge of the program which consisted of two solos "I Believe" and "May the , Good Lord Bless and Keep You" sung by Mrs. Walter Best- wick accompanied on the piano by Mrs. Douglas Lander. Refreshments were served by the group in charge. CENTRE STREET W.A. (EAST GROUP) The east group of the Womens Association of Centre Street United Church met at the home of Mrs, Charles Edwards, Hay Street with Mrs. Bert Terwillegar presiding in the absence of group leader Ss. C. 1. DeGuerre. "The Better Part" was the theme of the devotional. Mrs. Eldon South- well read the sefiptwe Mrs. Ter- willegar gave reading *'Sis- ters" and closed the w p with prayer. Mrs. Harry Young read the sec- retary's report. Mrs. William Ches- ter gave the treasurer's report. The report of flowers send to sick was given w . William Riding and Mrs. W, Winter gave an ac- count of quilting done the past month, Coppers were given to the team captians. i Many articles of work were hand- ed in for the spring sale to be held Friday April 30. Mrs. Young expressed a vote of thanks to Mrs. Edwards for her hospitality. Refreshments hostess and WILLING WORKERS The regular meeting of the Wil- ling Workers Group of the Harm- ony United Church W.A. was held in' the church parlors on Monday evening with the president, Mrs. Gordon Twining presiding. All of- ficers were present. were served by the ittee. The theme of the devotional "If |. we live in the Spirit, let us walk in the Spirit" opened the meeting |' and was convened by Mrs. Clar- ence Greentree The fashion show to be held in| Harmony Public School on March to s. Howard Stacey, Miss Wanda Lamb, Mrs. William Tay- lor, Miss Ann Lees, Miss Hazel Langton and Miss Susan McKay. |' The soloist Miss Gwen Wilson will be accompanied by Miss Hazel || Rundle. There was a fine donation of SHA and be ting complete ra oungsters o Moths your child's feet in our hands We offer a eonscientious fit service for children. That's because we appreciate how important it is to future foot heqih nd posture thee growing feet be properly fit- - ted. Our stock ped e of shoes for all ages. est materials over lasts scientifically designed to promote healthful foot development, proper balance. X-Ray fitting. DAVIDSON'S "SHOES THAT SATISFY" Opercted By I. A. Southwell = 31 SIMCOE N. DIAL 5.3312 A -------------------------------------------n---- I | All are well made of =] E E B® = 2 I i= 10 Wag discussed. The models are |: IHRE RRA OREO aprons for the spring tea. Refresh. ments were served by the com- mittee in charge. ist OSHAWA MOTHER' AUX. The 1st Oshawa Mothers Aux- iliary met in the Scout hall for its regular meeting with a good at- tendance and the president, Mrs. Samuel McReelis presided. Minutes and communications were read and approved. The trea- surer's report was. given, Mrs. O, A, Taylor's social evening was re- Po! on, also Mrs. Edward Feg- an reported on the rummage sale. Mrs, Thomas Hornsby is lending her home for a social evening on February 22. The Father and Son Banquet to be held March 29 in Westmgunt Church with Mrs. Lloyd Horner and Mrs. Clarence Yarrow convening same. a social hour followed the meet- g. HOUSEHOLD HINT Since scarves and ribbons are small enough for fast washing, a slight running of colors need not prevent laundering. 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