"LONDON DARK This after-six Separates Cos- Jiille was created by the bril- : oung British couturier, Yant, avanagh, and is a fine example of his skill and versatil- ity. Black cotton velvet is the fabric used for the bodice with its scoop-meck and jet button closing. Worn with it is a full black pique skirt with a cotton velvet border at the hem. An alternate decollete which is not pictured, is in white cotton quipure lace 2.0 with rhipe- stones and mounted on black vel- vet. -- By TRACY ADRIAN. KEEP IN TRIM Erect Posture Is Important In 1 Keeping t the Throatline e Young ma JEAN KAIN Poy on this: no professional singer ever has a scrawny neck or a throatline. Singers use their throat muscles and reg- ular use keeps them round and do pinched tones. And a singer al- ways has an erect, elegant head posture. book and i A ye . wi pe You don't To a professional singer to hold head up -- and erect head fs most important of all in the throatline young and . Your style is the way Jon carry sour head. When the hea i RR poise: eld . square] ge Mig all the muscles of the neck vy in tone. Get the habit of holding your head beau- and a dowager', A hump or a double chin hasn't a chance, now 20.5700 TENSION mi at you ad high by pulling up with at line at the back of your neck . shoulders relaxed and easy. o prevent any tension, roll your A around on your shoulders, ith a slow, heavy, relaxed mo- Many of you inquire if chin- sive s, creams, muscle oils and ngents are helpful. Chinstraps ie of no value, they do nothing on your to restore mi race vive Creams Ey privet 2 surface value for they soften and lubricate ft! skin, and a well lubricated doesn't wrinkle so easily. Astrin- gents have a tonic effect. Cold, cold water splashed over the throa and chin is all to the Jood too, for this tones the skin and superifieial muscles. But it is bracing tone in the mus- cles that hold the head up that = most impostant, MW nd ml Sarfisge jaws taining this may posture will fix after the muscles have fallen doy on the job. Corrective exercises are needed too, in order to restore tone . . . thes the prac- tice erect head carriage will keep them toned. There is a definite exercise tech- nique to use in dealing with that fragile line. Aim to exercise the throat muscles without overly Sretchivg i the skin under the chin. Massage in a bit of cream, then follow this resistance exer- cise: Rest chin on fist, with chin held level . . . not tipped up or down. Resistin, ing with hand, slowly lower chin. en resisting with throat muscles, slowly push chin back to level. Relax and repeat three times twice daily. ex- ercises should never be rugged, but they must be regular to of any value, CHILD GUIDANCE By G. CLEVELAND MYERS It is sometimes possible to make an infant, under eight months of age, take milk from a bottle when ho doesn't want it. You can push the nipple into his mouth and if his resistance is not too great, he may get a bit of the milk But if you do this often, you can cause him to refuse the bottle more often later. What is more you have. prepared yourself to push other foods into this child. ON. SCHEDULE FEEDING ' The wise mother offers her baby the bottle approximately on scied- ule. She may gently touch his lip with the aipple. But if he closes his lips against it, turns his head and clearly indicates he doesn't want it, she removes the bottle. Usually, she will not offer it "| again until sh eis sure he is good t any Bun for it. While she may reasons for not waiting ali sw, the next scheduled feed- ie time she will aim to approach SEMI. SOLID FOODS When the mother begins iving the baby solid or semi-solid oods, she needs to have great skill in order not to stir up resistance in and -easy" should be her him. New foods, put into his HAND CLEANLINESS The constant contact of the hands with dirt and bacteria may cause disease germs to be transferred to the mouth unless the hands are carefully washed before handling food. TRON-ON-DESIGNS IRON-ON BUTTERFLIES! We even | Wish you :could see the vivid tur quoise, sun yellow and ocean blue shadings of their wings! Let them dance across sheets and pillow- cases! Or beautify a tablecloth and matching' napkins! Iron them om washable fabrics -- the colors stay, butterflies look handpainted! - No embroidery! Iron on! Wash able! Pattern 7355 has 14 color motifs: 6 butterflies about $%x4; 8 from 1%x1% to 1x3 inches. Send TWENTY-FIVE CENTS fia coins for this pattern (stamps can- not be accepted) to Daily Gazette, Household Arts Dept., Osh- awa, Ontario. Print plain] NAME, ADDRESS, PATTERN ER. TEN COMPLETE PATTERNS to sew, embroider, crochet--print- ed right in the Alice Brooks Needlecraft Book! Plus many more patterns to send for -- including giit ideas, bazaar money-makers, toys, fashions! Send 25 cents mow! MARY HAWORTH'S MAIL Exacts High Rent from Relatives But Treats Them as Charity { Cases Dear Mary Haworth: My mother- in-law has a salaried job; and she and her husband are pe] enough to enjoy a rich active life with their friends. But all her free time is spent with us, and she resents our PY friends of our own. She even s our six year -old's close eieny 'friends don't come much any pens, more, because her presence doesn't make for a pleasant time. Unless she is the centre of attention she becomes moody and sulky; and she habitually eid her husband, even in company. For the past two years we have been living in a house she owns, paying a high rent we can scarcely afford, as she knows; and this gives her a chance to play benefactress--the role she most enjoys--making us feel like charity cases. . . . Although constantly here Joe's parents never suggest that we go out for an evening while they tend the children. We were asked to dine with my husband's boss one night; and it was important that we go. So Joe broke all precedent and asked his Nerents if they would mind the children for the evening. his mother refused: said she wasn't ever going to be our baby-sitter. . . I believe for some reason they don't want us to go out together without them. . . SHOULD THEY MOVE? Now for the main problem: There isn't the advancement in Joe's job that he had thought: and he in- tends to quit and look after some- thing-better in the nwe year. Re- cently he had a letter from friends ir the West--where he spent a year during the war and loved it. Should I urge him to go out there when he quits his job here? He has men- tioned it a few times and naturally I would love to put a few thousand miles between my in-laws and us. But I hesitate to urge anything he might regret. : It wouldn't be easy; but it might be worthwhile, for the freedom to live our own lives: and the boost it would give my husband's mor- ale, to know he could manage by himself. Pease help me decide. C.M. MOM'S ANXIOUS Dear C.M.: Here is your letter, cut to one-fourth its original length, with much relevant data You feel that Mrs. Max Tote oh call her) has more than you and your husband combined. | Strong isn't the word for Mrs. Max; rather she is Hiepressibly outle anxious. Her in aggressive stri to dominate her environment , as it hap pens, her sphere of influence boi to the family. In this alm she intends to be kingpin, gure J hep Jiappiliess, on her h%. for he A oF clue to the significance 0: her pseudo-altruism and over- riding rule in in-law relationship is given in your statement, 'Unless she is the centre of atteation (in the parlor), she is moody and sulky." She is fired by jealous neu rotic (emotionally insecurc) deter- mination to h on to the role of leading woman her sou's life. Thus she tries to thwart the de- velopment of circumstances in which he might feel comfortable, happy and safe without her to the fore, hand on the wheel. TIME TO EXPERIMENT However, the mother's wrong be- avior isn't the whole problem by any means. Actually our marriage flounders in perennial difficu:ties| due. to Joe's ingrained passivity in dealing with life on all fronts--a net effect of too much mat>rnal squelching Hence his failure to advancé™in the job field. Opportunities aren't lack- ing in his present environment but so far he just isn't geared to siand up to, and overcome, obstacles that beset all paths of achievement As to whether to try your luck in the West, it sounds like a good idea. Inasmuch as Joe loved the place during a year's stay, he might become a real man there, if cut off from his parents in con- genial surroundings. Evidently you are comparatively youthful yet and this is the age to expe:iment-- when you've plenty of time to "try again," if thin, 8 don't pan out. So my advice is, eacourage Joe to lead the way Wes. -- and take the results in stride, without regret, whatever happens. M.H. Mary Haworth counsels through her column, not by mail or per- sonal interview. Write her in care of this newspaper, 1 in formative years. By ANNE ADAMS STUNNING! SEW-EASY! This is a wonder-pattern! Collar is in one with bodice, no side-seams in skirt. Simplest of lines, smartest of frocks. Make it in a crisp, wash- able favric for spring and summer, Whichever way you make it, this will make you a hit! Pattern 4854: Misses' Sizes 12, 14, 16, 18, 20; 40. Size 16 takes 4% yards 35-inch fabric. This' pattern easy to use, simple to sew, is tested for fit. Has com- plete illustrated instructions. Send THIRTY - FIVE CENTS (35¢) in coins (stamps cannot be accepted) for this pattern. Print lainly SIZE, NAME, ADDRESS, TYLE NUMBER, Send order to ANNE ADAMS, care of Daily Times-Gazette, Pat- Baby Should be Encouraged 'ToFeed Himself at an Early Age mouth, surprise him, because of their strange taste and texture and tem_ and he may make grimaces eject them, close his mouth against them or turn his head. For gradual adjustment,' the mother may wisely mix a bit of broth in his bottle of milk And when she offers the first mashed vegetable with a spoon, she will merely bathe the tip of the spoon into it for his fi morsel. Cer- tainly she would put on the spoon | nothing larger than a pea and con- tinue at that meal, even the next few, with morsels no larger. "Very slegan now and until he begins feeding himself. After the baby has accepted sev- eral morsels' from the spoon, she may be inclined to continue even though he Indicates, that he wants no more, food he enjoyed for several Yoox he may suddenly re- fuse. Whenever he indicates he wants no mare, she should not try to feed him more. Whether she should immediately offer him a new food, or another she believes he i accept, is hard to say, Always refuses the first may soon lead to a lot of eating problems later. SELF. FEEDING Encourage your baby to feed himself as early as possible, even if it hampers you when he tries to help guide the spoon to his mouth. Before he is a year old, place on a plate before him, pieces of hard toast or bit of crackers, big enough for him to pinch be- tween his thumb and finger. By the time he is a year old, he may have thus begun to feed him- self some. Don't hasten to have him use a spoon insead of his bare hands. 'Just armor him and the floor and let him go to it. No better way to cultivate self-reliance and a good appetite, and to pre- vent and correct eating problems. My bulletins, "Eating Problems: Their Prevention and Correction' d "Self-Reliance," may be had a sending a self - addressed, stamped envelope to me in care of this newspaper. him a second food when he | thy GROUPS, CLUBS, AUXILIARIES CHRIST CHURCH AFT, GUILD Owing to the membership of the Af Guild ha increased to thirty-four it has been found al- most impossible to use the mem- bers' homes for its meetings, so in future they will be held the first, Friday in each month at 2:30 p.m. in the Parish Hall. The president, Mrs, A. Law- rence, presided for the. "Feb meeting and welcomed Mrs, Daniel back into the group follow- ing her year's residence in London Ontario. Mrs. G. A. Steadman, Mrs, Charles Robson, Mrs, 8. J. Beaufoy Mrs H C Bohaker were also wélcomed as new members The minutes were read by the secretary, Mrs. Avern Taylor and the financial statement by the treasurer, Mrs. J. W. Edwards. In the absence of Mrs. Norman Millman, the Parish council Teport was given by Mrs, F. G. comb. Mrs. Harry Bull was oy to meet with the Wardens and re- presentatives of the other women's groups for discussion on various matters, There were several im- portant items on the agenda which were considered. The president announced that ar- rangements for the holding of a tea at the home of Mr, and Mrs. F. V. Skinner in June had been cancelled for this year. Coming events include a rummage sale at e latter part of h; the an- nual daffodil Shage on April = in the with Mrs, ! the parish hi J. | Elliott convener a; tables and the : May Day sale. Following adjournment of the meeting Mrs. Philip Phillips was tea hostess. MAPLE LEAF JUVENILES The Maple Leaf Juveniles No. 2 | held their meeting at the Oran e | Temple. Worshipful mistress Si ter Mary Thompson presided. Sis- ter Keitha Cleveland was in the deputy's chair. After a short meet- ing a ae member was welcomed to the Lodge. All memers were asked to attend the Valentine party on February 18, Lodge closed in the usual way. . CENTRE STREET WMS The monthly meeting of the WMS of Centre Street United Church was held in the chapel on Wednesday afternoon. The presi- dent Mrs. William Calder opened the meeting taking the business portion first. Mrs. Ace Abbott call- ed the roll and ead the minutes of the last meeting. Mrs, Harry file to Was a ed a Joleatts to the worlds of pr. held in Centre Street Church March 5. Mrs. Bert rwilligar and Mrs. Abbot: was . liitea \Jelspates to the pres- held Simcoe Sheet Charen' February 25. Mrs. Jordon Ww baeote read a letter ey thanking | ed thém for ions wo A from overseas relief. An invitation was received from Westmount WMS to visit them and héar Miss of Blackstock report on her trip to the Coronation, on Mon- day evening February 1 Mrs. Terwilligar took the Chap- the 'devotional. Fu ave a short reading, Mrs. F. Cowan led in prayer. Mrs. Torwilliooy réad the appoint. day by THE DAILY TIMES-GAZETTE, Tuésday, February 6, 1084 § Seripture. Mrs. Calder read a med- Mrs. Trwilligar took the Chap- ter of the, on y book the theme be! "Evangelism by Radio" in South America and was assisted Mrs. Young Mrs. Wonnacott ad Mrs. Abbott. The meeting clos- ed with prayer. The member MDCK. LOBA e members of Victory Louse LOBA, held their regu meet La Roy Orange Temple with yh ane Foote presiding assist- Sister Reta Thomas. ou NAk 'meeting was held and those reported to on the sick list were Sistér Agnes Wallman, Brother Arnold Duke, Sister or trude Summerville, Sister Mary Dalton. A very satisfactory degree prac- tise was conductéd by Sister Elda Howard. 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