Owns 20Piancs Lacks Tie to Play TORONTO (Cl--Music students in Toronto are ndebted to Mrs. Lucille Henderst, She provides ation wether they want R praciise an hot, or rent a room 1 practise all ay. gan whena student from a nearby conse asked per- i + Ary an hour tach day, and soo requests fi = HILD GUIDANCE rs came streming in. M r8/ rson decidedio buy anothe ' and rent anoer room. FOR CHRISMAS! 4531 FOR DOM 17-2 ® ANNE ADAMS A Chrismas gift your little girl will enjoy all year! Her beloved doll will yok new In, these ador- abe togs.3mart, new fashion -- and they's easy sewing. A few gay sctap will make the whole outfit--hat jumper, jacket, blouse, coat, robe,pajamas, lingerie. Pattern is for dolls 12, 14, 16, 18, 20, 3 inches tall. Yardages in ern. Rate ss. single pattea easy to use to sew, is teed for fit. Has com plete fllustrad instructions. 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OTHER ADVOCATES But "wonderful to relate," as the Latin pony used to say, some re- cent writers, advising parents in books and magazine articles, are saying the tot s ould learn to obey No very early. Of these writers some, however, are saying the child must be able to reason before he can learn this word, in contrast with my own claims that the foundation for this learning is best begun before he can see the reason why. It was in my own children, and most of my 13 grandchildren. I know scores of other children in which it was built as early. But many, who admit the need of No, still haven't reached the complete solution, to my mind. One recent writer after saying. "Teach 'em to mind," slipped bac into the old line, '"'but don't spank 'em: that would be an acknow- ledgment of your failure. Deprive them of a privilege," she advised. Of what privilege would you effec- the {she should never Child Restraint Early Training tively deprive the tot 15 months old, in order to deter him from turning on the gas jet playing the fireplace, or running into the of | street? Would you take away his toys, put him in the (which bi wish him to Prison in a room, doors? The average flax pen ike), im- g him mother, bellevitg 8) her chil but Jat Ie sao Jeatd to re- spect No, is gol employ some kind of pain that will pass the censors--seizing him firmly with a painful squeeze, sh him, shrieking at him, over and over, louder and loude makes no hitt! hand, since that's the sin, Seems silly, docunt it? WHAT THE EXPERTS DO My guess is that practically all the parent advisers who censor Shankine have spanked their own children (I know ome who has), or have a spouse who did; or would Spo their own children if they had any, and would do it de- liberately to teach him early the meaning of No. I have maintained that a bit of physical pain consistently a plied the most effective first in teaching No, and that when it is used consistently, it can well be abandoned before the child is four or five, and chair-sitting effectively substituted. There's been another group of writers who are saying, "Don't spank a child unless he makes you so angry, you can't help it. t him know you're human!" But the | unpardonable sin they name is spankling . a young child deliber- | ately to restrain him or teach him the meaning of No. KEEP IN TRIM Don't Let Discouraging Remarks Deter You from By IDA JEAN KAIN It has been the heartening ex- rience of this dietitian to find hat dieters are spontaneously eager to pass along slimming tips tell other overweights what helped them get started on a slim- ming course. You'll admire today's dieter. I'll start at the begin- n "ie IS hen I married 1 weighed a neat 110 pounds. When my first weight went up to 155 pounds. I lost some, but not nearly enough. Three years ago I had a second baby, and my weight soared. Again I failed to get back dawn to nor- mal and one year ago I weighed 150 pounds, measured: Bust 38, waist 29, hips 38. $0CKED BY SQUEEZE "} didn't care--or pretended I didn't--but actually I hated the fat and disliked to be kidded about it. My sister visited me about a year ago, and one day I ressed a fa- vorite dress and put it on. I could barely squeeze into it. Sis laughed and said I would have to let it out all over, or else buy a bigger size -- which was what she always did. Well, that ned my eyes, for my sister Mo over 200 pounds. 1 thought to myself, "If I let this dress out I'll be fat for the rest Sticking to Diet "That very day I started cutting down. I followed your articles and Jout diet suggestions and stuck to t. It was hard at times because everyone would say: "Wh do you want to lose weight? You /flook fine! Do you want to get sick? who would take care of your children." [But I had made up my mind and had determined that their remarks would not stop me this time. NOW--23" WAIST "Now, one year later I weigh 110 pounds and my measurements are bust 34, waist 23, hips 34, I still need more stiffening in my stomach muscles, so please send alomg corrective exercises. Every- one says it is from having chil- dren, but I believe I can still re- store tone to those muscles. (She can too.) "I feel so mueh better now, and have a lot more energy. I have weighed 110 for three months now, and feel that I can stay at this weight right along. I weigh once {a week to make sure the pointer does not sneak up unawares." That's it! Once this overweight really made up her mind that she wanted to get her lovely figure back,' and set her goal, not dis- couraging remarks could change of my life--maybe weigh 200 it. Actually that's all it takes-- pounds! | i making up your mind. THE STARS SAY W There is a tendency toward gaseibility durisg thu period but, you are on you can much to counteract this unfriendly influence. Make no hasty decisions oroughly {zed with details in advance, it would be advisable to postpone new ventures for the time being. Time spent, however, in planning for the future, both» where career and finances are concerned, could valuable results. Be cautious or using electrical or mechanical equipment. Also be careful if taking part in contro- versial discussions with associates. If tomorrow is your birthday, e travel in {the coming months should prov you with several new contacts and an opportunity to succeed in new fields. It is important, however, that you curb any tendencies to- ward belligerence or impulsiveness since you might antagonize the very one who could prove of great- est assistance to you. Romantic affairs are favored now, but you must guard against an inherent tendency toward jel- and possessivehess. matters, travel and social interests will be under most beneficent as- pects from the early part of 1954 until early summer. Your financial status should be good now. Con- tinue present program for even nore Peneficial results by year's end. A child born on this day will be determined, aggressive and ex- tremely poy of EASY TO CROCHET By ALICE BROOKS Skirt of the season! 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Every Thursday evening, they hurry from their place of work to a municipal domestic science school in an Oslo suburb. They set about,preparing a three- course dinner under 'the instruc- tions of the domestic science teacher, Mrs. Havinwhose hus- band is one of the pupils. sen the class 1s over and the dinner is cooked, pupils and feacher sit down together to eat t. The class was started as an ex- periment by MIS. Havin, encour- aged by her husband, a psycholo- gist. Mr. Havin's problem is that although he eats like a hor 1 is at the same time lazy by na- ture, he remains as thin as a rake. WIVES NEED CHANGE "I wanted to find out how it was prepared, all this food which disappears so completely," he said. "It is an interesting study, some- [thing like the theory of the con- | stancy of energy." But most pupils are arried men, who have decided that their wives deserve a day off every so often. On the first evening, nothing more ambitious than vegetable soup and pancakes was attempted, but by the fifth lesson the male cooks were at home with Irish | stew, fruit salad, and 'lemon and { almond cakes. The male pupils now say women |are too bound by tradition, and {they are already claiming they {will be able to produce more ex- |citing dishes--and produce them {more cheaply than their wives. MORALS PROBLEM | BRIGHTON, England (CP) -- | Saucy" postcards at the famous seaside resort are to be examined by a group of churchmen, who want the matter raised in the House of Commons. THE DAILY TIMES-GAZETTE, Tuesday, November 1m, 108 9 Small Rugs Remain a Favorite In Household Furnishings By ELEANOR ROSS One old saw that tells us that "The more things change, the more they remain the same" is exemplified almost every day and in every way. In household furnishings, take the small rug, for instance, which for years has done yeoman duty all over the house. Interiors have changed radically with the advent of the ranch- house, and many kinds of furn gs have gone by the board, efpecially in floor cov- erings. But the small rug has re- mained. "AREA" RUG Now it emerges as the 'area' i |rug. It's all set for a new career, {not merely as an auxiliary floor covering, but as a beautiful and | colorful accessory. We have been admiring a new series. of such rugs, rich in jewel tones, almost like paintings in their designs, and seemingly perfect for the contem- porary setting that is devoid of another pattern. A nice function of these rugs is to give unity to an arrangement of furniture in a big living room of the found in the ranch- type interior. They emphasi the Rosed of looped and sheared tufts. e designs include some delight- ful modern versions of traditional designs. One such is a Ratchwork pattern, composed of pink, blue and white blocks in different weaves. Some of the blocks are shot with gold metallic thread and others are touched with checker- board or star-like pattersn, woven in black. EXPENSIVE BUT LASTING These rugs are expensive so far as their actual cost is concerned, but their value far transcends cash outlay. Woven to last and in distinguished patterns, they are bound to lend color, distinction and interest to any setting in which they are placed. . This is also true of another group of small rugs, which are machine-made and therefore, not quite as expensive. The material is a rich cotton pile with a tex- tured, velvety appearance. Ab- stractions and f d des are carried out Be or schemes. One example, re] resentatives of whole yy is a freehand harlequin pattern-in gray, gold and brown on off-whit. dining area or add interest to a conversation - grouping. 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