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CHILD GUIDANCE Training a Bossy Youngster To Get Along With Playmates By G. CLEVELAND MYERS A child who seldom plays with , at Sols ewes ny at have m coming, turn, fo his by When they do come, he may try boss and manager. And if they or- a club, may make him- the president. © Even child has played some at other children's homes, he may not prove at ofce ag ate own home. ME Bossy "HOST" The following letter is an ex- "Dear Dr. Meyers: Our son Bob is five, and is our only child. He goes to other children's homes and can play two or three hours and have a good time, and only seldom omes home ¢ y _-- Wheeves ™ Shildres Some ¢ play, are here abou 1 wi 4 thes there's 2 Jet. o home. Usual trouble y that Bobby wants to play a certain game, but the others want to play something else. If he doesn't play what they want, they get 48 A he gets mad, and so on. He's usually stubborn enough te stick by his game, so they go home. MOTHER'S GUIDANCE "1 uy to tell them to take turns and play each other's games, which they. sometimes do. Now I don't feel that I should make Bobby ve in to them all the time, and don't think it is right for them 'to get mad and run off and leave him every time either. But what can I do? Bobby is not too good at sharing, but after a while, you can talk hin into letting a friend play with a certain toy. "I've gone visiting with Bobby, and know that he then has to play fo be the big| his ood | this: It is my guess that ey A i mare at case, ge ong A him take more? "We have told him that we want friends to come here and lay, but that he must treat Jem oe! someday they won't come any Bs clad they won't like him. AN AGREEAB VISITOR I wrote this mother about like our boy, while in the homes of he other children, just figures he can't have his own way and Adapts Jimset 1 reeably. Bu home, he seems to assume that he must be boss. I think you are unwise to make so much of the children tak turns when at your home. You should instead, try to get your boy to see he is a host, and that most of the time the other children should choose what they will play. he | You won't achieve this just talking. You will attain it as you uide him in hundreds of situations fh the family and more especially when playmates are there, It is rather significant that you say you must talk this five-year-old to sharing a toy in his home. CURB AGG our own boy very mueh by study- Av him and curbing his aggres- siveness. The chances are that you have given him too much at home and too often let him have his own feels sort of lord of the universe. Cat least that is the way this case looks to me, though I know it is dithioult, for a parent to see any er own child. Wy bulletins, "Teaching the Tot to Be Social" and "Your Child and His Playmates," may be had by sending a self-addressed, sta d ie way the other children want. has to give in. So I think it is only natural that he wants to be envelope to me in care newspaper. THE MIXING BOWL Unexpect ed Dash Herbs or Spice Makes Everyday Dishes Exciting Hello Homemakers! During the 2. Add 1 tsp. to chili sauee jn housecleaning spree of the kitchen we sorted out spices to relegate' to the top shelf until next year's pick- sessions. Then, one by one, each bottle was brought back to a mew shelf on a door of the cup- board. We have been using them more frequently, with magic re- sults. Our discovery has been, that the unexpected bit of spice or pinch of herbs transforms mere into a memorable Susie I you enjoy adventures a- oo this list of ideas for us- ing spices and herbs. By the way, use sparingly until you decide on family favorites. BAY LEAVES 1. Add a bay leaf to cooking water for tongue, corned beef. 9. Cook a piece of bay leaf with tomato juice or tomatoes for soups and gravies. . » 3 Erueh a small piece (sige of a dime) very fine and add te six se s of soup or stew. A ( R 1. Add a dash to creamed corn. 2. Add % tsp. turmeric to dump- Hogs Sot four. RY SEED 1, Add a pinch of celery seed to boiled cal 4 4 ch of celery seed to ham. ugtard sauce for s M3 Add a % tsp. to drop tes RY SALT 1. Add % tsp. (for servings) to vegetable soups or meat stews. 3. Flavor oys stew or fish chowder. - 3. Add 3 pinch to scalloped toma- toes. CHILI POWDER (pungent and nippy) 1. Add % tsp. to spaghetti sauee or stewed tomatoes. EASY DIAGRAM ! 7 4770 12-2030-42 By ANNE ADAMS ONE pattern part to skirt! TWO main parts to bodice -- could any- thing be easier! We know it could- | 'nt look prettier on -- just see the | dashing flare of the collar-- the exciting whirl of the skirt. Choose short or 3% cuffed sleeves. Back- sipped for flattering fit. Pattern 4770: Misses' Sizes 12, 14, 16, 18, 20; 30, 34, 36, 38, 40, 42. Size 16 takes 4% yards 39-inch. This pattern easy to use simple to sew is tested for fit. Has com- plete illustrated instructions. Send THITY-FIVE CENTS (85) in coins (stamps cannot be accept ed) for this pattern. Print plainly place of fresh hot peppers. 8. Stir 1 pinch into sweet relish for hot dogs or hamburgs., CURRY POWDER (A combination of spices) 1. Stir 1 pinch into salad dress- ing for cubed meats. 2. Use % tsp. iw cream sauce. Pour sauce over poached eggs or cauliflower. ; 3. Stir Y% tsp. into flour mixture for dumplings. GROUND CINNAMON 1. Combine with sugar to sprinkle over apple sauce, baked rice pud- dings, custard and apple pies. 2. Add a dash of cinnamon to het cocoa. 1. Sprinkle over apple sauce, bak- spice cake. 1. Sprinke over apple sauce, bak- ed rice puddings, custards, egg- Ss. "¥ Add a dash to mashed turnips or mashed sweet potatoes. 3. Add a % tap. to 8 servings of pudding sauce. 4. Use in fruit eakes MACE (Similar to nutmeg but milder) 1. Use 1 tsp. in a pound cake batter. 2. Add a dash to soup. 3. Add % tsp. to 3 cups sauce for fish. ONION SALT Use in all dishes which are im- by a little onion favor-- meat loaves, stews, gravies, sand- wich fillings and such. ALLSPICE (A single spice sold either ground or as berries) 1. hse in combination with cinna- mon and cloves in spice cakes, cookies and fruit cakes. 2. Put whole berries in piekling syrups or spaghetti sauce, GROUND CLOVES (A strong flavor) 1. Rub over ham before baking. 2. Use 1 tsp. in fruit gelatines or syrup for candy. 3. combine with cinnamon and all-spice for spice cakes. Use exact level measuremnts in reipe. WHOLE CLOVES 1, Use for pickling beets or red cabbage. 2. Stick 5 or 6 whole cloves in ham. 3. Add 1 or 2 whole cloves to boiling onions. PEPPERCORNS 1. Add 2 or 3 to cooking water for tongue or corned beef or smok- ed fish. . 2. Grind peppercorns as a substi- ee Ada Ror 3 to split pea' e or split pea soup. SAGE (A strong aroma) Use sparingly in meat ball mix- ture, meat loaves, bread stuffings or meat sandwich fillings. CARDAMON SEED (has hot taste) Use. % tsp. in dlews or dumpling batter. THE QUESTION BOX Mrs. C. F. asks: Should we aye Christmas cakes in the tins or foil when placing in freezer? Ansser: We do not advise freez- ing fruit cakes since they ripen and mellow befter in a cool dry place. Wrap in aluminum feil and store in a crock, tin or plastic container. Mrs. T. §. asks: What makes sil- in ver tarnish in a dishwasher? Answer: Silver will tarnish districts where water contains a lot of sulphides even in dishpans. Soft. en the water with a conditioner and select a can or box of part soap and part detergent or a syndet. Mrs. K. D. asks: What makes the attractive glaze on baker's fruit tarts? Answer: This is accomplished at home by i half-teaspoon of apple je on tophof each filled tart ore baking. Anne Allan invites you to write to her care of this paper. Send in your suggestions on homemaking problems and watch this eolumn for replies. WEST VISITS RMC KINGSTON (CP)--Maj.-Gen. Mi- chael West, retiring commander of the Commonwealth Division in SIZE, NAME, ADDRESS, STYLE NUMBER, Send order to ANNE ADAMS, | Korea, visited military installa- tions, including Royal Military College, I really believe you could help i way, so that when he is there he [5 Paris Introduces 'The Jungle Look,' London Catches On By MURIEL NARRAWAY Canadian Press Staff Writer | LONDON (CP)--The Paris-born "jungle look' is catching em in turns | conservative Britain. Ingredi ents? Plenty of and ocelot trimmings in syn e furs. : In France, the fall fashion col- lections feat leopard ot! cloches and leopard-collared coats, leopard muffs s There were unusual touc! like a strapless leopard bra to a chiffon evening gown, a matching Ji long muff taking the place an evening 4 SMART FUR FABRICS le gvenin wear wt in en on and you for he leopard J eid a Noy printed bra panties shown re- cently across the channel, but me Bf tor, s to n pebble {weeds now a seasonal favorite ere. There are rich-looking fur fab- rics for those who want to add a fur strip to last year's outfit. Ocelot trimming in eight-inch strips costs less than £1 a yard, and narrow collar edgings are priced at less than five shillings a yard. Leopard handbags fur fabrie sell under £5 and a beret hat with matching muff can be bought for ss than £2 In smart dress shops ou'll find fabric leopard and oce- waistcoats and matching drain- pipe pants, there's circular sk and striking hiplength coats real or synthetic skins, fabric blouses are teamed with evening skirts or black drainpipe nts. Bic TOUCHES For smart women there are leopard-printed - velvet linings to dark 1p coats, fur-printed nylon taffeta lining white nylon fur jack- ets and fur-spotted hats in many styles. Muffs, cravats, belts, col lars and shoes come in printed velvets, fur fabrics and real skin. Not all trimmings are of the tted variety. Paris' for 'ersian lamb and beaver lamb trimming has also crossed to Brit- ain. Luxury touches to princess- line coats age outsize polo neck- pieces in black Persian lamb matched to bonnets or muffs. A pre-war favorite, narrow fur trimming encircling the neck and travelling down the front of the coat to waist or hem, is also noted. A chic French touch is narrow fur trimming to wide neck- lines and three-quarter sleeves. | The post-war demand for smart clothes at low prices has resulted in preference for fur fabric for trimmings and accessories. Work ing girls object to paying that small extra cost for real fur touches. Fur fabrics now are so close to the real thing. Nylon fur is stead- ily increasing in popularity. Imita- tion ocelot, leopard, ermine, min- Persian lamb and other furs come in a wide range of fashions in- cluding long and short coats, capes, res, hats, 3 muffs and | re. vats. re are also many on trimmings. Nurses from Abroad Studying at U. of T. TORONTO (CP)--Nurses . from nine countries are taking post- graduate work at the University of Toronto school of nursing this year. One of the three Colombo Plan students, Mrs. Beatrice Thakurdas of New Delhi, is taking nursing administration. Before coming to Canada she was assistant super- intendent of nurses at a medical college in India. Another Colombo Plan student, Emilia Sequeira, was nursing su- perintehdent of the 850-bed Os- mainia hospital, largest in Hydera- bad, India. Maria Parentini of Montevideo, here on a Rockefeller studentship, will become an instructor at Uru- guay University when she finishes her course in nursing education. Maria de Lourdes Ramos dos Santos of Lisbon is taking ad- vanced administration and super- vision work. A 1952 graduate of the Escola Tecnical de Enger- meiras, Miss Santos expects to work on cancer research when she returns to Portugal, From England comes Marjorie Matthias of London. She has working as operating room super- visor at St. George's Hospital--es- tablished in 1733 and one of the oldest in England--and now is taking elinical supervision work on a Florence Nightingale scholarship. Another Florence Nightingale student from Britain is Dorothy Biddle of Manchester, on the staff of the 385-bed Booth Hall Hospi- tal for Sick Children, taking ad- vanced nursing administration. Odete Barros de Andrade of Brazil taught nursing students in Sao Paulo's school of hygiene and public health in Brazil. ROUX SHAMPOO TINT It's quick glory for your hair with ROUX Shampoo Tints. 24 shades --one to exactly match your need, Each package contains two appli- cations. You will be amazed at y the result. Ask at your beauty " parlor, drug or department He is on eare of Daily Times-Gazette, Pat |his Lore ain ors th 1 imes-! ly W, of Bg Mg coi {Bar Bast. J ? Fur | things perfect, much, as I would » MARY HAWORTH'S MAIL Man's Unreasonable Behavior Threatens to Disrupt Marriage Dear Mary Haworth: Today is my 17th wedding anniversary. I am 40 and have five sweet children, the eldest 15, the yo st seven. I have enjoyed a wonderful com panionship with all my children; we work and play together. My problem is my husband, who has made my life miserable all these years. He uses very profane language that I wouldn't dare write. He nev- er says a kind word to any of us. Nag, shout, fuss, that's all he knows. Any mistake he makes he charges to something I did. My house is very clean; there is no real dirt to be found. But if we fail to put away such articles as gloves, books, scissors, needle and thread, he calls the place a dump, Maybe I should be more tidy; but try as I will I can't keep like to--to avoid his fussing. do all my housework, laundry in cluded, with the children's help; still he calls me lazy. I have to fight to get 20 minutes to roll up my hair and take a bath. WIFE FALSELY DEFAMED Time after time he says to the children, "Your mother is no good; she is a liar and a cheat." In their presence he accuses me of being immoral; and if there were any truth in what he says, I could understand. But I am re spected in our community and I have earned this respeet by being decent. When I point this out to him he says I am very clever and fool the people. I am a practising Catholic and he calls me a hypo crite because I go to church. Many. times he threatens to have me judged incapable by some doe tor or lawyer he knows. What is wrong with him? Among his: less important faults are gambling and drinking. What on earth am I going to do? I never could get him to a psychiatrist. He thinks Iam crazy; and if the. strain keeps up, I may have a nervous breakdown, Can 3% help us? -- R.G. A RESENTFUL FELLOW Dear R.G.: Your husband is a, sorely confused and resentful per son, hostile to the burdens of fam ily life. He dslikes being respon sible for the case of wife and chil- dren, He holds you accountable for his situation, of being, involved in such relationships. scurely, he blames you for '"'everything"' that bothers him, simply cause you attracted him into marriage, an undertaking that overwhelms him. When he calls you "no good, a liar and a cheat," he is holding up a mirror to his own bad con science, charging you with failings that are really his specialty in the partnership. It is a common fallacy of ailing characters to suppose all persons are afflicted with their habitual vices or follies. AN INFANTILE HUSBAND Your husband is illequipped for conjugal teawork. Not only is he lamentably infantile, thus unpre pared to cope creditably on the adult level of life, but, moreover, he has a paranoid bias, a compul sive sickminded distrust of the love partner's reliability. This mor bid disposition "usually stems from an early experience of profound in security and emotional rejection-- a distress that prevents the per- sonality from organizing itself for healthy growth, apd also ingrains almost incurable fear of the double cross in intimacy. If he won't face his problem, to try to solve it, you are confronted with a necessity to talk to some outsider about your difficulties as a means of preserving your sanity. By letting off steam to a wise sympathetic listener, you may re gain balanced perspective periodi cally, as often as you f driven to distraction by his cruel rant. Your priest would be a suitable confidante, if he is a friendly ap proachable person, Or a counsellor at the local Family Service Agency might also give you psychological support and helpful insight. -- Mary Haworth counsels through her column, not by mail or per sonal interview. Write her in care of this newspaper. HOLLYWOOD HIGHLIGHTS Purged of Oaths, Life With Father Is Being Screened for TV By BOB THOMAS HOLLYWOOD (AP) -- Father Day, the terriblytempered parent of the stage and screen, will soon be blasting away on the TV screens. Mr. Day, the central figure of Life With Father had an historic run on Broadway, ehalking up a record 401 weeks. At one time, four companies were playing the show in the United States. The film version, starring William Powell and Irene Dunne, grossed more than $5,000,000 in the U. §, and Canada. The Day family of 1880 New York will be seen on CBSTV starting Sunday Nov. 22. The stars will be Leon Tuttle. He has long appeared in films and she has been radjo's bus fest actress (she has given up an average 15 shows a week to be come Mrs. Day). Here to help the show get on the air in the proper spirit is Mrs. Clarence Day. widow of the man who wrote the stories about his irascible father. Mrs. Day said she will stick around for a few shows so that the new Days will adhere to the Ames and Lurene: established characters. She ad- vises on the costumes and sets and sees that the scripts hew te the spirit of her husband's stories. She performed the same function when the movie was made, but admitted that some things got out of hand. "I didn't approve too much of the crowd scenes," she remarked. "After all, Life With Father is an intimate story and is best told in intimate surroundings. The picture 60 INCHES ACROSS! By ALICE BROOKS Circle of beauty! The elegant round tablecloth is easy te erochet in this combination of pineappl design and spider-web -titch. Crochet Pattern 7164: cloth, 60 inches across in Mercerized Cro- chet and Knitting Cotton. For 40- inch centerpiece. No. 30 cotton, Send TWENTY-FIVE CENTS in coins for this pattern (stamps can- not be accepted) to Daily Times- Gazette, Household Arts Dept. Osh- awa, Ontario. Print plainly NAME, ADDRESS, PATTERN NUMBER. TEN COMPLETE PATTERNS to sew, embroider, crchet--print- ed right in the Alice Brooks Needle- craft Book! Plus many more pat- terns to send for -- including gift ideas, bazaar money-makers, toys, fashions! Send 25 cents now! house. Actually, the Days weren't rich; they were gomfortable." HELPED HUSBAND WRITE Mrs. Day, who helped, her hus- band write the stories recalls her H. | mother- and father-in-law vividly. "Mr. Day actually had great charm," shé recalled. "He could be as charming as you please until something went wrong. He was a man who insisted that every- thing be orderly. If something interfered with the system, he erupted. "Mrs. Day was just the opposite. She was flighty and emotional, in- clined to do things on the spur of the moment. They were a wonder- ful pair, They were still alive when some of my husband's stor- ies came out; he died in 1927, she in 1929. She would bring one of the stories and say, 'See!' Then the original argument would start all over again." As in the film version, the TV series will have to do without' the oaths which Mr. Day uttered in the play. The author's widow de- plores this. "The funny part of the play was hearing these oaths in such sur- roundings,'" she said. "I think it's silly that children can see all kinds of ways to kill people on TV, but jcant hedr am occasional swear word." showed the Days living in a huge C .| the! THE DAILY TIMES-GAZETTE, Wednesday, November i, 1008 § DOROTHY ROE NEW YORK (AP) -- Business men who expect to keep any office help . Bre a ves To Ah fin ten uj "dusty, fusty" offices and Rasta a 'lush, posh, atmosphere. With competition for competent secretaries ever keener, the rec- ent comments Miss Bernice Fitz-Gibbon, New York advertising executive, to a group of college {® Dlatement officials are likely make things even tougher for ing beautiful girls off to work dull offices and recommended they demand the. best for their gradu- al : TWO HOURS FOR LUNCH The secre demand such as an e typewriter, a dictating mac foam:r u bb er upholstered o chairs and two hours for lunch. But to keep her happy the for- ward-looking employer is going to have to go even further, says Rob- ert Dunlap, presidént of the Con- necticut Telephone and Electric . who has devoted much ht to the subject of improving the ot of the not-so-poor working girl. Today's secretary deserves priv- acy for her confidential inter-office conversations, says he. Most secre- taris also get frazzled nerves from the old-fashioned "squawk box" inter-communication system, from which the boss' voice may thunder at any moment. Dunlop recommends installation of the pew private line inter-office telephones, by which any member of the office staff may carry on a private conversation with any co- worker, with no danger of eaves- dropping by nosey bosses or by a switchbo operator. PINK PHONES, FLOWERS The new system was shown at the recent business show in New York and attracted admiring at- tention from secrgparis. The phones come in decoratiVe colors, operate by push bottons, The employer might create a happy atmosphere by having fresh ) ce worth having will |] "Lush, Posh" Atmosphere Demand of Today's Secretaries flowers sent to his secretary's desk every morning, and the office ioe her tayoni ang scheme--say pink, with phones to match. Of course, the best wi ting a secretary is for the advertise that he is young, hand. some, rich and unmarried. But since so few employers meet these qualifications, must think up other lures. 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