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/ Af: J THE DATLY TIMES-GAZETTE. Saturday, October 31. 1058 WOMEN DIAL 3-233 WOMEN'S EDITOR JO ALDWINCKLE TO LIVE IN TORONTO At a ceremony held recently in | lie Bailey, son of St. Andrew's United Church, To- | Bailey of Dublin, ronto, Edna May Cope, daughter | the late Mr. Bailey. Mrs. V. A. Cope of Oshawa, . Df hme the bride of William Les. | Photo by Cectl Morris, Torohto. CHILD GUIDANCE Mothers Should Prepare Children For The Return of G.I. Father By G. CLEVELAND MYERS [She knows you can't compel Some fathers are among the GIs show of affection from the child returning home from Communist by commanding him. She knows prison camps. A few are sick and [that her child's affection for her | wounded. Some others hardly can has grown over the months and be their former selves, after their years through her constantly be- indescribable experiences. It will ing with 'him and gradually win- be especially hard for some of ning his love. these fathers, so long away from | Firmly this mother believes the loved ones to fit themselves back | child will also be endeared to the into normal family life. Nor will it father, by and by, as. the child be easy for the many other fathers | grows' acquainted with the father returning home after a shorter and enjoys experiences with him. period in Korea, elsewhere on for- The father should know this -- I on St." oumpments few do -- but he often overlcoks in y {the simple psychology involved. MAY BE A "STRANGER" | Tt would be wonderful if the re- Fathers may have many heart- | turning father could be alone with aches 'on returning home or soon the mother: and child (even the thereafter. They have dreamed of older child) for the first week of how their children will welcome |two after his return. them. Yet, alas, the baby may | [pet us hope the mother will un- not know the father but be afraid derstand the father's problem and of him, a stranger. The child, four he very patient, that she will em- or five, eager at first to see the ploy ail her love and ingenuity -to father, may not show. the affec- win the father gradually to a wiser, tion Jor Whish the father had 80 | patient way. ong , e child, eight or ten, | UR Nome greeting the returning | PREPARING THE BABY father may hurry back to play.| To prepare the baby for the Believing that the long absence father's return, baby and mother should have made the child's heart | ought to look often at his picture grow fonder, the puzzled father together, and talk about him and just can't understand and may be |the good times, they will have to- vely hurt. : gether. The mother of the child others have written me of 'the | over five or six should also pre- child two or younger responding to pare him for the father's return, the returning father as if he were even talking with this child about a stranger, even refusing to go to the ways he might make his father the father or to accept his caresses. | happy, even though neglecting A few mothers have said this fath- some of his own customary fun, er tried to force the child to kiss | My bulletins 'Your Child and Na- him; one said the father scolded tional Defence" and "WPathers Are Mrs. W. B. Ireland, and her for not making the child share affection with him. DIFFICULT FOR MOTHER It's hard for this mother, too. Queen Salote Plans New Royal Palace By J. C. GRAHAM Canadian Press Correspondent AUCKLAND, N.Z. (CP)--Queen Salote of Tonga who stayed here after her visit to Britain for Queen Elizabeth's Coronation has returned to her South Pacific island king- dom with plans for a new royal palace. Parents, Too" may be had by {sending a self-addressed, stamped {envelope to me in care of this newspaper.) The dusky six-foot queen, whose smile made her one of the most popular Coronation visitors to Brit. ain, lives in a twostorey, wooden palace with an iron roof at Naku alofa, capital of the Tongan Is- CLUB CALENDAR - MONDAY Mary St H. and 8. Assn. Albert St. H. and S. Assn, North Simcoe H. and S. Westmount H and S. Assn. Women's Welfare League Pleasant Mon. Aft. Club Sunshine Rebekah No. 222 Simcoe Street CGIT TUESDAY Knox Presbyterian WA North Oshawa H. and 8. Holy Trinity WA SA Home League Christ Church WA WCTU Kinette Club Ever Ready Class Centre St. (West Grp.) St. George's Guild Alice Jackson Aux. Pearl Group 9th Scout Mothers' Aux. WEDNESDAY 8A Prayer Meeting Northminster WA Queen Mary LOBA CGIT Leaders' Council All Doubles Club Rundle Park Auxiliary 3rd Scout Mothers' Aux. Women Teachers' Assn. Harmony WA THURSDAY 30-50 Club Oakleigh Lodge Sunbeam Chapter, OES St. George's Eve. Br. Happy Doubles Club Calvary Baptist WMS Simcoe Street WMS Christ Church Eve. Guild 14th Scout Mothers' Aux. Albert Street WA St. George's Aft. WA Evelyn win Grp. Challenger Group Maple Leaf LTB King Street WMS FRIDAY Christ Church Aft. Aux, Simcoe 8t. WA (Grp. 9 Hadassah Plans Next Year's Bazaar At a meeting of the Piyah Chap- ter of Hadassah held at the home of Mrs. Albert Sugar on Thursday the members made the initial plans for the annual bazaar and i which will be held next February | 23, in the UAW hall Mrs. Albert Sugar was appointed general convener and other conven- ers were elected as follows: Mrs. Joseph Grossman, manufacturer's; Mrs. Martin Norden, sewing booth; Mrs. Joseph Sklar, tea room; Mrs. Lionel Schwartz, child photo con- test; Mrs, Arthur Cole, raffles; Mrs. George Haas, home baking; Mrs. Meyer = Evenstein, candy booth; Mrs. Jack Appleby, bingo; Mrs. David Crotin, grocery booth; Mrs. Albert Sandler, white ele- phant booth; Miss Mildred Wald: man, publicity. Committees were appointed to as- sist the conveners and it was de- cided to give three door prizes and a major prize of an electric mix- master. DID YOU KNOW ? To keep frost from forming on windows this winter rub the inside of the panes with a solution of one ounce glycerine to one pint of rub- bing aleohol. Once every six weeks is often enough to replace the nutrients which potted ferns absorb from the soil. If the fertilizer is in powder form, measure out one level tea- spoonful and mix it into the top! soil. Ferns should not be over-fed. | land works ministry, signed Queen's request, has gone to Tonga | to discuss the plans with the Ton-| gan government. The architects | were set some novel problems as | they had no precedent to go on in! planning a palace suited to South | Pacific conditions which de- | and customs. | Queen Saloe is the only reigning monarch in this area. | LOYAL TONGAN | During 'her stay in Auckland | Queen Salote acuired perhaps the most unusual odd job man to serve | any sovereign. He was : heavy- weight boxer who cut the Queen's | lawns and chopped her firewood | as workouts to keep in trim for the | ring. When the young Tongan be- | came a headliner in New Zealand, fhe Queen immediately sent for im Kitione Lave, 19, had proved the hardest-hitting boxer seen in New | Zealand for years. 'n five fights | he knocked out five leading Aus- tralian and New Zealand Baad weights, three of them in the first ' round. Fearing the success would go | to his head, Salote lectured him on | the dangers of pride and made sure | the money he was getting was in| safe hands. / "I'M READY, LET'S GO" All ready to help Daddy is Robert Wayne Pesarchuk son of Mr. and Mrs. Fred Pesarchuk, Simcoe Street South. Bobby is the grandson of Mr. and Mrs. Fred Ostapowich and Mr. and Mrs. John Pesarchuk of Oshawa and great-grandson of Mr. and Mrs. Panko 'Smutylo, Corona, Saskatchewan. Photo by Hornsby Studio. Mystic Rites of Hallowe'en Kepta Girl Busy in the Old Days This | In celebrating Hallowe'en these days we have not only become more subdued -- certainly less destructive -- but we have also, judging from a peek into older customs, forgotten some of the quaint and romantic aspects of this night of the hobgoblins and banshees. The small fry do very well for themselves, what with organized parties and bags and bags of spe- cial Hallowe'en candies in yellow and black wrappers being handed ed out by one and all. Fact is, they do much better than in the old days when they were fobbed off in many cases with whatever old candy, cake and apples the householder had kicking around. The candy-makers now put on a special effort to get into the spirit of the spooky evening. But how many of the bigger kids -- girls, that is -- know that Hallowe'en is the time to take steps to find out who their intend- ed is going to be? Candy is dan- dy, bobbing for apples is all right and so is dancing in the dim light of a grinning pumpkin, but with | the aid of a rhyme or two and the proper routine a girl can find out not only what HE is going to look like, but what kind of a job he's going to have. One of the easier ways to a look at this future meal - ti et volves stealing a cabbage. one might be tricky for the aver- age girl living in a large city, but it seems to have certain sure-fire angles to it. Anyway, she goes out and steals a cabbage at midnight on Hallowe'en. (Anybody can do that). If a man comes along and helps her, he's the one. Other- wise she puts the cabbage over the door and she'll wed the first man upon whose head it falls. The book didn't say, but there seems to be a slight suggestion here that she might able to influence the fall of that head of cabbage on the cabbagehead of her choice. In Scottish lore there's a belief in which a girl goes out and sows hemp seed at night when no one is looking. This is pretty hard to do because a crowd always gathers when a girl goes out at night and sows hemp seed. Any- way, while she's doing it she has to chant this contender for the hit parade: '"'Hempseed I sow thee, Hempseed I sow thee; And him who is my true love Come after me and pull thee." Pulling hemp is certainly less strenuous than getting hit on the head with a cabbage, although in this frolic the end result is about the same. In Pennsylvania (at one time et anyway) if a girl wanted to dream |entertained the group and display- is for a girl to look into her mir- of her future husband she walked the new palace at the | ,. oy the bong of midnight, and, | backwards out the front door, so the book says, she will see the picked up some grass, wrapped it man she is going to marry looking |in paper, then slept with it under over her shoulder. her pillow. Result? She dreamed If that one seems too simple, |of the man she would marry. she can try this one. She must walk into her bedroom backwards | doom before at midnight, undress without turn- ing '(even while getting out of a girdle?) and while removing her shoes, chant the following -- "I place my shoes ih the form of aT To dream of him who is to be The color of his eyes, The color of his hair, His occupation, And the clothes he will wear." Then, she gets into bed back- ward and she will see her future husband in her. dreams. Simple? There's another one that in- DRAPES_- CURTAINS VENETIAN SHADES Made-to-Measurc FREE ESTIMATES WARD'S Dial 5-1151 lands. It was also the residence of her father, King George Tupou II. 'The palace has an imposing en- trance. courtyard and tower, but it has been affected by age and a modern building is planned. A representative of the New Zea- CLEAN FU SAY- JUST = NOTICING HOW SHABBY RINKER'S 3 Locations PLANT -- § BRANCH 30 SIMCOE ST. 8. Dial 5:1191 CLEANERS in Oshawa 1 BURKE ST. STORES 4 RITSON RD. N. ot KING A, yp DISPE 28 KING E. PRESCRIBES Your Pharmacist Komi Doug Stree FILLING PRESCRIPTIONS IS THE MOST IMPORTANT PART OF OUR BUSINESS NSES DIAL 3-4621, Ip Maryland, a girl opens the Quiting eggs to fry on the stove. This is so her young man can come in and turn the eggs. Of course, if she prefers scrambled eggs and the poor oaf can't turn an egg anyway she winds up single. > This is hardly likely, however, because any girl who is optimis- tic enough to fry eggs in order to catch a husband will undoubtedly dream up some other clever scheme that will work, come Hal- lowe'en or a rainy Thursday. Geraldine Bouskill | Ralph Kennedy Wed In Audley Church | The marriage of Geraldine Sa- die Bouskill and Ralph Delmer Kennedy, both of Pickering, was 'solemnized last evening at Aud- by United Church, Pickering Town- "The bride is the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Thomas Bouskill of RR 3, Eckville, Alberta, and the bridegroom is the son of Mr. and . Henry A. Kennedy of" An- gus, Ontario. ; Ferns and chrysanthemums formed the setting for the cere- mony performed by the Rev. A. E. Young. The wedding music was played by Mrs. Archie Bell. bride was given in mar- riage by Mr. Carl Olsen of Osh- awa who acted on behalf of her father and mother who were un- able to be present. She wore ice was inset with a yoke of lace i an off-the-shoulder effect. sleeves were pointed over the hand. The floorlength skirt was styled with a fishtail lum. A flowered headdress Reka her fingertip veil and she carried a cascade of red -roses. She wore the bridegroom's gift, a rhinestone necklace and matching bracelet. Richard Puckrin was matron - of honor wearing mauve. The other attendant, Mrs. Carl Olsen, was in green. Their taffeta gowns were designed on | identical lines. Matching stoles complemented the strapless bod- (ices and layers of net added {interest to the floor-length skirts. | They carried nosegays of chrys- anthemums and red roses in con- , trasting hues. The best man was Mr. Richard Puckrin and the ushers were Mr. {Ross Kennedy, brother of the bridegroom, and Mr. William Lindsay. A reception was held at the home of Mr. and Mrs. Richard Puckrin, Pickering. For the sion the bridegroom's mother was in turquoise taffeta with black ac- cessories and a feathered corsage | of pink roses. | | When leaving for the wedding | | trip the bride woré a navy blue |dress and cape with red acces- | | sories. Mr. and Mrs. Kennedy will | |live at RR 1, Pickering, Ontario. | GROUPS, CLUBS, AUXILIARIES CALVARY BAPTIST YOUNG PEOPLE The Calvary Baptist Young People are once again enjoying the fellowship of another season meetings under the leadership of | the president, Mr. Tim Kovack. | After several favourites, the serv- ice last Tuesday evening was ed by singing the hymn, "When The Roll is Called Up Yonder". This was followed by prayer. Testimonies given by several of ithe Young People bore evidence | of the reality of Christ's power and love present in individual lives to- Nr. Roy Smith and Mr. Harry Grant led in prayer. Mr. Tom Page, a student of the | Toronto Bible College was warmly { welcomed as speaker. His message was taken from Exodus 6:5-8, show- ing God's willingness to direct lives. Next Thursday evening all "gre welcomed to see the film entiti~d, | | white slipper satin. The fitted bod- | BRIGHT ID Striped pique and denim contrast | brightly in this bedroom ensemble | that you can make. The color com- | binations of this set can bring sun-| skirts of the spread and the ruffle! EA FOR A BEDROOM on the pillow sham. If you would like to have a leaflet with direc- tions for making the bedroom en- semble, just send a stamped, self- occa, | shine right into your bedroom. Srip- | addressed envelope plus ten cents ed fabric is used for the ruffle for handling, to the Needlework {valence on the drapes, the side |Department of this paper and ask for Leaflet No. S £-2826. KEEP IN TRIM 7 Don't Let Politeness Deter You From Adhering to Diet By IDA JEAN KAIN Social calories have been made the scapegoat for too many pounds, too many years. So before the sea- son gets into full swing, toss out the old alibi for overeating. Women of assorted shapes and sizes are happy to go along with the ready-made excuse that a polite | guest never violates the rules of | N- | etiquette by turning down profer- red food. Let's examine the rea- soning behind this widely accepted notion. On the surface it might seem that since the hostess has gone to no end of trouble to pre- pare delicious food, it would be an insult not to eat it. This might hold true if the hostess invited a guest merely to help her eat up all the food in the house! And, if| that were the case, she would make up her guest list on the basis of the biggest appetites. Seen in this light, the whole idea is ridi- | culous. NO INSULT INTENDED It is true that a hostess enjoys " inds" | having her entertaining efforts ap- | Contrary Winde™. | preciated. But a refusal of food | LAUREL GROUP doesn't mean that the food isn't The regular meeting of the Lau- | delicious or appreciated or that (rel Group of St. Andrew's WA wa: | you wouldn't enjoy eating it. | held in the Ladies' Parlors on! This is a calorie-conscious age, Monday... Mrs. E. F. Cuthbertson. and understanding hostesses are the president, opened the meeting not affronted by a. polite, *'No, {with the Lord's Prayer. {thank you." Or if they are, they'd | | A business meeting was held | petter catch up with the times, for | {and another rummage sale was |jt ig quite fashionable nowadays {planned for November 10. not to overeat. Queen Elizabeth IT Miss Muriel Oke very kindly |pac even made, "No, thank you, I'm dieting," socially acceptable. ed pictures she had taken on her trip to Hawaii. . Roy Stevens thanked Miss Oke for a delightful evening. Re- |freshments were served by Miss {Vera Moyse and Miss Mae Storie, hostesses for the evening. Today the emphasis has defin- itely changed. The trend is toward | light refreshments and hearty so- | ciability. Once you analyze it, you {to a tea, luncheon, or church sup- per SOCIAL NOTICES and enjoy people. With this idea crystallized in 'your Lyin you | can have twice as much fun at all | The IE NOACEMENT | social functions this year--and | And look at her beautiful figure! : | realize that your reason for going | § is to be with your friends! § HAVE A GOOD TIME This shift in enjoyment will ac- complish miracles in your think- ing and this attitude will succeed where a grim determination not to overeat at parties will surely fail. The mind follows the line of em- phasis. If you go to a social func- tion resolved not to overindulge you won't have a good time at the party for thinking about all you are denying yourself! And chances are before long you will be samplying everything in sight. Does this mean you can't have anything good to eat Certainly not! 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