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| Dept 'aceepted) for this WEDDING OF OSHAWA INTEREST At Christ Memorial Church re- tly Mr. and Mrs. Charles Dewhurst exchanged ° nu vows. The bride, the former Miss Beverley Ann Phillips, the ps and the bride m is son of Mrs. E. Dewhurst, all of Oshawa. Photo by Ian McNab. auger of Mr. and Mrs. Philip. the CHILD GUIDANCE Family Cooperation is Vital In Bringing Up Children By G. CLEVELAND MYERS The homes of our grandchildren, now totalling thirteen in three fam- ilies, are a good many hundred miles from ours. In relays, or al- together, they have spent several weeks with us practically every summer since there were only a few of them. Always there have been some babies with us each EASY DIAGRAM 2 By ANNE ADAMS Wht ! Diagram proves Bow swift- ou can whip uj smart, slim skirt. THRIFTY! One yard S4-inch fabric for Misses' Waist Sizes 24, 25, 26, 28, 30! Have one in basic black or brown wool to This pattern, easy to use, sim- ple to sew, is tested for fit. Has complete illustrated instructions. Send THIRTY - FIVE CENTS (85¢) in coins (stamps cannot be v SIZE, NAME ADDRESS BE NUMBER. ' Send order to ANNE ADAMS, e/0 Daily Times-Gazette, Pattern ., Oshawa, Ontario. PLANT A HEDGE *™ui5re FREE ~One Hardy White Orange Blossom Shrub for order 6-inch 15-inch size 100 for $6.95; 20" to 24' $3.98 or $15.00 per 100. GREEN BARBERRY--For a med: fum e--brilliant Fall; With Every Order Can- ada's Finest Colored FREE 2: Pel, Brookdale-Kingsway Nurseries Bowmanville, Ontario year, and always several children from two to five. They and their parents have provided a good lab- oratory for me. NO EATING SCENES During these years, I have ob- served almost no eating scenes by these grandchildren. Their parents have assumed that the children do their own eating and eat when they are hungry, and the young- sers seem nearly always to be hungry at the proper times. they ha oa big enough to as ve n en sit and eat comfortably from a high chair, have eaten with the whole family. You who have come from big families know what an ex- tension table is. INTERESTING FAMILY GROUPS Having an aggregation of fifteen or twenty persons from babies to grandparents makes an interesting family Eroup. It hardly would be interesting all the adults were fighting with several of the young- sters over their eating. But I'm able to report that ours has usually been a peace table. Of course, some parents who have a scene at every mealtime over just one youngster from two to five may not believe the fore- joing. They have only my word or it. But they should consider that scenes over eating can more eagily arise in a small group than in a larger one. With so many children present, hearty eating can become contagious, and attention by the adults doesn't tend to centre on just one child. Too, in the case of a large group, each person pres- ent can grow so interested in every- else as not to pick on any particular child. Suppose you have a child, say from two to five, over whom there For a pleasant climax to a family drive, you'll save more than enough to pay for your gas . . . BY SHOPPING AT GLECOFF'S IGA SUPER MARKET 174 Ritson Rd. South Open Every Evening until 10 p.m. WATCH FOR OUR IGA AD "IN TOMGRROW'S TIMES-GAZETTE They come from the east and they come from the west. They come from oll streets afar to shop et our store. For velues galore! In texis, by bus end by Shop and Save Eve at Our Ferran Duy Low Prices! GLECOFF'S IGA SUPER MARKET 174 Ritson Rd. South Phone Day or Night 3345 = as eating scene at almost every meal. MAP OUT A PROGRAM Let me entreat you, the parents, to sit down together alone during a quiet period and map out a program you can agree upon. If it is to be successful, you probably will that one of you shall be solely responsible for the child at. mealtime, and that the other parent, and the other adults or older children, will pledge to be silent and entirely indifferent to this child's eating. They should also agree not to say a word about their own dislike food or what anybody should eat. Together, everyone will do his part to create responsible parent will resolve not to tell the child he must eat any- thing, but to serve him very, very small portions of food he should have, one at a time. My bulletin "Eating Problems" may be had by sending a self- addressed, stam envelope to me in care of t newspaper. COMPANY BEST! By ALICE BROOKS Dramatic doilies! Buffet or Luncheon set! All these from this treasure of a pattern. 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Macko Jr. MARY HAWORTH'S MAIL Husband's Extra-Marital Affair Constitutes a Family Problem Dear Mary Haworth: I have been married *2 years to a fine upstand- ing man whom I always considered my "rock of Gibraltar" until re- cently. Recently I discovered that, for the past two years, 2 'has had a strong attraction to the wife of his oldest and best friend, a couple we've known 14 years. I had suspected something during that time and foolishly expressed my jealousy, hoping Phil would deny it, as he did. The man went abroad last June and his wife stayed here two months, then flew to join him. Phil's sorrow at her leaving brought things to the sur- face. He told me all about it--a friendly affection including kisses, but no affair, he insists. He says he has always loved me but wasn't happy at home, and felt the need of lighthearted comradeship. For some years, prior to two years ago, I was briefly attracted to other men, never letting them know it, as I couldn't be unfaithful actually. However, in that time I was less than sympathetic to Phil's society and interests. I wz. a good mother and housekeeper--but a "good" wife can be very tiresome, Skill has been a tradition with us for over a quarter of a century. LEWIS... OPTOMETRISTS 3 KING ST. E DIAL 5-0444 I suppose. Hence Phil's disloyalty. After Ann's departure, Phil was very morose at first, but after sev- eral long talks and confidences, of which we'd had so few for years, he seems more like the lover I knew years ago. I have been chas- tised and shall be more understand- ing and companionable in future, but it seems hard fo. me to forget. I keep harking back, asking ques- tions, ete., which isnt' good, I know. How call I trust him again? Am I making too much of the whole thing? Can you clear the air, in what might be a happy home? S.E. Shouldn't Look Back Dear S.E.: The Good Book has something t say about the lack of wisdo in looking back, once granted reprieve from danger. Re- member Lot's wife, whose morbid curiosity turned her head in this respect, and reduced her to a pillar ¢ alt, which symbolizes futile de- structive grieving. It is idle to ask "How can I The Oshawa GIRL GUIDE ASSOC. wish to thank \ the citizens of Oshawa for their support on €ookie Day » 145 KING W. rele C The best of everything includes Coke On Thanksgiving, you want the best of everything for your family and guests. Naturally, that includes Coca-Cola, served frosty cold in its own bottle. 6 Lotte carton 36° Including Federal Taxes, Plus deposit 2c por bottle, Authorized bottler of Goca-Cola under contract with Coca-Cola Lid; HAMBLY'S BEVERAGES A DIAL 3-2733 trust John again?" The question serves only to draw your mind away from your real disturbance, w_.ich has to do :h badly shaken self-confidence. John is not so un- trustworthy, actually, He is still your devoted husband, still closely comp nionable, giv a break of | really interested wifely attention, | still loverlike, after a seige of temp- tation that tripped him, originally, only because of your indiff€rence at the time. _ | When the urge is strong to die ir'o the past, skip the chapter of John's armour with An flect upon your own blindfolded perfo: mance that preceded it. You were taking John's love too much for granted in those days; so much so, indeed, that your fleeting thoughts of infidelity with other men were motivated by uncon-| scious desire for relief from him, | I think. HELPS TO KEEP AWAKE In that case, John couldn't. help | sensing the inner significance of ' THE DAILY TIMES-GAZETTE, Wednesday, October 7, 1058 ¥ your detachment, even if he didn't reason it through. The drain to his self-esteem would be injurious, "so that involuntarily he would wel- come reassurance from another wo- man, at which point Ann played friendship false. She was the more deliberate, more conscious offender in the triangle, I think. And pos- sibly her husband was tacitly forc- ing the issue, in pulling up stakes to live abroad. What John needs, evidently is a real love relationship with some- body, and given opportunity for it in marriage, he is disposed to be fully faithful. However, he rightly feels that, reciprocal love is synony- mous with mutual warm awarenes a disposition you are only now acquiring. Eternal vigilance is the price of affectional security in mar- riage and it is just as well that you've awakened to .he fact. M.H. Mary Haworth counsels through her column, not by mail or personal interview. Write h - in care of this newspaper. 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