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SMALL BEAU BRUMMELS IF YOU HAVE a young - and- handsome in your life you'll be as delighted as he with these well - tailored outfits. Perfect for | around town they are equally | appropriate for luncheons at the country club or trips to the zoo. Younger brother is seen in a rayon acetate linen suit consist- | ing of a cardigan jacket and shorts which are spot resistant and water repellent. The older son is wearing a sport coat with a monogram pocket and con- | trasting slacks. These are also | treated for spot and water re- sistance. --By TRACY ADRIAN. MARY HAWORTH'S MAIL Woman Craves Conversation Husband Retires into His Shell Dear Haworth: My hus- band and I have been married a little over two years but we don't seem to know or understand each other any better now than we did at first. In fact, we seem to bore each other most of the time, as we are always seeking diversion outside the home -- movies, friends evening study courses and the like. Our discussions either end ab- ruptly with a trite foolish remark or degenerate into hot heavy argu- ments. I try to stimulate good con- versation by keeping up with the mews and current events but we find little to say to each other, as George's reading consists of the comics and mystery stories. So I have to find conversation else- where. . I've seen many married couples occupied in interesting enjoyable conversation and it gives me a feeling of frustration to be denied this experience with George. I am afraid this lack of interchange will drive us further apart and I don't know how to prevent it. George has average intelligence and one year of high schooling, and could be- ¢ome more interested in current events -- such as the headlines re- port -- if only he would take the trouble. I was bought up to believe in self-improvement and, therefore, read as much as I can in various fields. But when I suggest worth- while reading to George, he scoffs at the idea. His whole theme is "relax" -- an expression incessant- ly used by him that galls me near- ly to distraction. To him, relaxing means simply sitting and being entertained, as by movies -- or ust sitting, period. So much re- axation strikes me as a waste of time, to be answered for some day. Am I expecting too much? How to remedy the unhappy situa- tion? C.C. WANTS REASSURANCE Dear C.C.: As I get the picture, George is involuntarily on the de- fensive against your badgering, trying to call his soul is own. And it seems you are habitually tense and aggressive in seeking to gain HAVE A WORD FOR IT «+. WE MEAN the magic word that tells a mule to get going. It prob- ably worked better than usual, recently, when Greek mule-driv- ers had to transport into the isolated interior, roofing materi- als needed for the construction of refugee shelters. The government purchased 2,000 tons of alu- minum for the purpose -- and incidentally licked the transporta« tion problem. Another nice thing about alu- minum's lightness is that a given poundage goes two to three times as far as with other metals. It ofterf'means that aluminum, with all its advantages, actually costs less, too. Aluminum Company of €anada, Ltd. (Alcan). entry to his thought-processes, via conversation. While your ostensible purpose in making talk is to have a good ex- change with your husband, or to nourish, revise and improve his thought content, actually I gather your exertions are designed uncon- sciously to reassure yourself that you aren't left out; that you do figure in his mental life -- or "stream of consciousness." How remedy the troubled situa- tion? Well, as your experience proves, you can't make friends the hammer-and-tongs approach. Better follow George's oft-repeat- ed advice to "Relax," if you would succeed in knowing him. Restful emotional rapport does most to in- duce a sympathetic flow of verbal interchange, and such basic rap- pert is begot if at all by cor- dial acceptance and kind accom- modating approbation of the others personality "as is." QUIET INTEREST In relationship, the practice of awareness, i.e., perceptive interest in others' attitudes -- is the best means of arriving at understand- ing. And the practice of awareness, leading to sure insight, requires friendly silence rather than much conversation to build a bridge be- tween two minds. In a given association, if one person provides a consistant ex- ample of friendly awareness--eith- er listening receptively or accept- ing silence without discomfort -- the party of ithe second part in- ing sense of intimacy. This is basic communication, an exchange of good feeling on a deeper level than the merely verbal--and out of this deeper soil a satisfactory verbal exchange may emerge, treating topic appropriate to the occasion. with a partner's mind by using | CHILD GUIDANCE By CLEVELAND MYERS | The baby or young child cries when he feels uncomfortable. He may be hungry. Something about his clothes may be hurting him or hampering him unduly. He may have actual pain for some reason which only the physician can diag- nose. de may feel frightened or insecure. Something i: the feelings, emotions, tensi or Ss of his mother or others may be the cause. While such may at first be the causes of his crying, new causes can grow out of these. If, for in- stance, at the age of a few weeks, months or years he has discovered his prolonged and hard crying has brought him some satisfaction from new attentions and experiences which he learned to desire, he may er. for these. Often it is puzzling to the mother to ascertain whether the child is crying for what he needs or for new wants which he doesn't need or probably should not have. mov about him CRYING AT NIGHT The baby or young child who often cries in the night may be hungry. But always to feed him then can start a lot of trouble. It may mean he has not learned to SEW-THRIFTY! \' 4506 14v--24% By ANNE ADAMS Half-Sizer! Slip. into this in a second! What a cool, cool blessing on a summer day. This is a wrap- and - button sundress! Coverall! Jumper! Proportioned to fit the short, fuller figure -- no alteration problems. Quick, get it on your sewing machine now! Pattern 4506: Half Sizes 14%, 16% takes 4% yards 35-inch fabric. This pattern, easy to use, sim- ple to sew, is tested for fit. Has complete illustrated instructions. Send? THIRTY -FIVE CENTS (35¢) in coins (stamps cannot be accepted) for this pattern. Print plainly SIZE, NAME, ADDRESS, STYLE NUMBER. Send order to ANNE ADAMS, care of The Daily Times - Gazette, Pattern Dept., Oshawa, Ontario. voluntarily surrenders to a grow- | | DRAPES - CURTAINS. VENETIAN SHADES Madc-to-Measure FREE ESTIMATES WARD'S Simcoe ot Athol Dial 5-1151 for your travel dollar! fares are much lower. For business or vacation travel no matter where you go or when--you save money when you go by bus, because bus ro And you travel relaxed, in comfort direct to your destina- tion--through the lovely countryside, getting close-ups of Often a Puzzle to Young Mother To Know Why Child is Crying' 16%, 18%, 20%, 22%, 24%. Size | Celebrations Mark Silver Wedding And Graduation | Mr. and Mrs. R. S. Cunningham joy enough proper food by day of Brocklin were bose at 8 family enjoy 1 d : |dinner party recently on the oc- With the aid of yous physician, YOU casion of their 25th wedding an- i 8 i "His night crying might be caused IEE HL 5 nete Som, Dr. by some physieal disturb ain 1120 Cunningham, in the 1953 class canse 0. some emo tten |Of Medicine at the University of or conflict by day. You are im | Toronto. Guests included the Rev. tempted to take him up, roc is |B. A. Cranston who officiated at ip Sl be SE if the ible disappears ater a itis 0 PLA ssp The few nights, the special attention i might have been wise. Yet you cle Iollowing day Mr. nd Mrs, can't easily foretell the conse- a the ni) Bet and con- Ld aud this vwjtiingly may grjtulations of over 2 Suegts, ; Re. ouring tea were the two brida Ty Sou, Should go wv the | attendants, Mrs. Lloyd Stewart of assure him and clock re pos- 15%: Catharines and Mrs. Archibald sible causes. A few pats or tender McEFperson of Weliaud, Also Ms. words, or even gently turning him |g ward Trewin, Toronto Mrs Ar- over, might suffice. But to take |i. . Geoar Welland, and Mrs. Wil- him up right away might prove ji... oa) Oshawa i foolish. Taking him into bed with | Tea assistan| th ; you would be. { ssistants were three nieces Whining may grow out of phys. | of the bride, Mrs. Bruce Trewin, ical causes. Your physician should | Agincourt, Mrs, Robert Bennett, search for these. Or it may come | Yinona, Miss Shirley Figgins, St. from a series of unhappy experi. | Catharines, and Miss Lorette Stew- ences. However, whining has be. | art, St. Catharines. Master Bruce gun, it can row Rabitusl Bennett, Winona, and Miss Marilyn Chronic whi Stewart, St. Catharines, kept the Some childden five, eight or door, and Master Bruce McPher- twelve often talk at home in in| in; tones. For them to have more | son, Welland, had charge of the guest book. understanding and love in ily | Other guests were present from 8 diy 2 family | Niagara Falls, Ontario, Niagara experiences that are wholesomel h : : satisfying, should help. There are Ville, Kinsale and Agincourt: extreme cases when the chronic | whiner should be ically or phychologic allyfpond when they get bumps. Treated long enough to help him see that | wisely, the youngster, two, three or such experiences deprive him of |five, may get up smiling after fal- normal satisfactions. When he does | ling. speak in cheery tones, we should| My new bulletin, "When the Child compliment him. | Cries," may be had by sending a Some tots cry easily over every [self-addressed, stamped envelope little physical hurt. Whether they !to me in care of this newspaper. | Falls, New York, Toronto, Stouff- | isolated phys- too or not depends on how we res- | Little Mrs. Yen Fu Has Vast Knowledge WINNIPEG (CP)--Mrs. Yen Fu of Taiwan, Formosa, is a slight, lively woman who works on two magazines and is also a member of the Chingse Nationalist Legisla- ture in Formosa. She arrived here during a tour of Canada on a United Nations fellowship, and does not look on her busy career as anything out of the ordinary. In an interview she explained Oriental women are rapidly emerging from the ancient state of bondage to a role of ac- tive participation in public affairs. Mrs. Fu is an editor of a monthly magazine for women which deals with cooking and child care. She is also on the staff of a pub- lication "Democracy and Constitu- tion" which is often dropped by air to the Chinese mainland. "We include some western reci- pes in our women's magazine," said Mrs. Fu. "Chinese women are learning to cook your way with milk and shortening." Mrs. Fu received her early edu- cation from a tutor and is an arts graduate from Tientgin University. Following a course in political THE DAILY TIMES-GAZETTE, Tuesday, July 7, 1953 7 science at Peking, she studied law from 1930-32 at the University of Washington, Seattle, and municipal government at the University of California. She is a widow with two daugh- ters, the elder at an American university and the younger at boarding school in Ottawa. Surprise Party Honors Couple Married 25 Years About forty relatives and friends attendec a surprise party to honor Mr. and Mrs. George Law- rence, Gladstone Avenue, on the occasion of their silver wedding anniversary recently. Mrs. Lawrence is the former Miss Evelyn Berneice Claus and the couple were married July 2, 1928 in the rectory of St. George's Anglican Church by Canon C. R. de Pencier. 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