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HANDMADE BRIDAL LACE for a mid-summer wedding thing is lovelier for the bride 1 her bridesmaids than gowns ide of the new cotton mate- | Is, old favorites with new fin- | ies such as organdy voile, and | ited Swiss. For an original ich crochet your own bridal yoke, crown and mitts. If you would like to have the instruc- tions just send a stamped, self- addressed envelope to the Needlecraft Department of this paper and ask for Leaflet No. C-P.C. 5870. ARY HAWORTH'S MAIL Widowed Mother's Happiness Concerns Teen-Age Daughter ear Mary Haworth: I am a teen- girl in high school and my 'her, a widow, is in her thirties. has a magnetic personality and onsidered very attractive. When died, five years agp, a won- ful friend of the family--I'll call | | Bob--helped her through the is. They've become very fond each other but he is married, agh separated from his wife. uddenly, as if in answer to my yers for a foster father, Carl | eared. He is the kindest per-| , truly in love with mother. As | example, last week I didn't get irom a dance until after 2 a.m. | to a series of events. My date | | I were with another couple. | las astonished to find Carl wait- | up with mother for me, as wor- | | as she. [ith a smile, he sat me down a heart-to-heart talk, and mised him I'd never again stay so late without calling home-- incident that proves to me that we him and want him for my |: but mother doesn't think it ild work out. He has a good and could take care of her ely, and she is fond of him and y have similar interests. How I help promote a lasting love ween them? s you probably gather, Bob is obstacle. How can I convince | ther that no good can come of | ing for him? I love her so much, don't want to see her heart- | ken and growing old alone. In| >w years my brother and I will | grown and gone and what will | ome of her? She needs someone v, and especially for later on. is mother's happiness that is »ortant because, if she is happy, fn _heppy. Can I do anything at ear D.J.: As it happens, adult otions are outside the control of n-agers and, often beyond the trol of adults themselves. Thus your mother's behalf it seems t to pray, rather than try to nipulate her feelings. And if can find a copy of Evelyn ierholl's lovely book 'Fruits of Spirit" (Longmans), it will give | | Carl suggests, you the quiet pitch of effective prayer. Miracles of guidance are achieved this way, by "tuning in" the almighty providence of God. Probably the most you can do, in a filial way, on the personal plane for your mother's happiness, is to take care that you don't misbehave and maybe hurt your own life. By that I mean be responsible about your own conduct, in such ways as keeping sensible hours and; as letting her know where you are, if delayed. Also, be selective and self-re- specting in your choic of compan- ions. Think well of yourself, always, and act accordingly. Don't yield to popular example, if your instinct or conscience says it is wrong. Don't let anyong flatter, confuse or diplomatically browbeat you into trying a course of action that you would blush to recall. Develop the courage to stand alone, if neces- sary, in support of principles vu believe to be right--for this is in- tegrity, the secret spring of dy- namic personal force. REGARD AS INDIVIDUAL About your mother, it's no use trying imaginatively to live her life for, her, nor will it help to an-|- guish over her mistakes, as you see them. Love her loyally. Try to understand what makes her tick, but think of her as an individual, an adult person separate and dis- tinct from yourself. Your present attitude is unduly anxious and pro- tective, as if you were the parent and she the child--which isn't reas- onable. If she has varied companionship now, sufficient for her present needs, she probably isn't worried about lonely old age--and that's good. If and when that notion be- gins to dig in, she will take the precaution of marrying a worthy helpmate, no doubt--and if she is as attractive' as you say, she'll never lack for beaux, I'm sure. Age doesn't wither nor custom stale the charm of a really winsome woman, you know. M.H. Mary Haworth counsels through her column, not by mail or per- sonal interview. Write hee in care of this newspaper. "fedders ROOM AIR-CONDITIONERS WITH PUSH-BUTTON CONTROL When sticky, hot summer days leave the office staff wilting, _ restore peak efficiency with an electrically refrigerating Fedders Room Air Conditioner. Noiseless Fedders units have simple push-button controls for cooling, ventilation or air-removal . . . they dehumidify and filter out dust, soot, and air-borne allergies such as hay fever. A size for every office at prices little higher than a good desk. To install, just place it in a window and plug it in -- no ducts or water connections required. 14 DISTRIBUTED BY LIMITED ANADIAN GENERAL ELECTRIC COMPANY 4925-353 LIBBY 23 CELINA PLUMBING COMPANY DIAL 5-6411 | 251 BRUCE ST. -- PHONE 3-861 CHILD GUIDANCE By CLEVELAND MYERS Georg. Washington once wrote in his copy book, 'Learn to keep alive in thy breast that little spark of celestial fire, conscience." This word, conscience, has almost Fwholly dropped from the vocabu- lary of educators, secular or relig- ious. Perhaps your child under six or seven would like to have you read the following, and your older child might choose to read it alone and discuss it with you. When we have done somethin we know was right we feel good. When we have done something we know was wrong we feel bad. Something inside us tells us to do some things because they are right, and not to do some things because y are wrong. This something in- side is called our conscience. After you do something which your conscience tells you not to do, you feel sorry or feel ashamed or you worry. You don't feel like smiling then. Even if your father and mother smile at you, you don't feel like smiling back. For a long, long while you may have this un- happy feeling. , for example, when no one else were looking, you took something not your own which you knew you were not supposed to take, or if Io did something else which you new was not right to do, your conscience trouble you. So also, if you had promised your father or mother to do something, but didn't do it, your conscience made you feel distressed and unhappy. FEAR OF DISCOVERY Furthermore, you felt a little worried for fear your father or mother might discover the wrong things: you had done or the right things you had failed to do. You may have feared you would be pun- FIGURE FLATTERY GF) ) Cn Cc, 4648 14,--24% By ANNE ADAMS The minute you step into this half-size style, you look and feel as if you'd shed inches off your hips! Proportioned to fit and flat- ter the short, fuller figure--no pat- tern alteration worries! Sew it now in a p, cool cotton -- wear it from now on! Pattern 4648: Half Sizes 14%, 16%, 18%, 20%, 22%, 24%. Size 16% takes 4% yards 35-inch. This pattern easy to use, simple to sew, is tested for fit. Has com- plete illustrated instructions. Send THIRTY-FIVE CENTS (25 cents) in coins (stamps can- not be accepted) for this pattern. Print plainly SIZE, NAME AD- DRESS, STYLE NUMBER. Send order to ANNE ADAMS, c-0 Daily Times Gazette, Pattern Dept., Oshawa, Ontario. REPLACE YOUR OLD BURNER NOW WITH A BURNER If you haven't seen the Winkler Oil Burner; come in today for a demonstration. You'll see proof of oil-and-money saving efficiency you wouldn't otherwise believe 'possible. 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VOICE BECOMES WEAK But if you should keep on doing what your conscinece tells you not to do and fail to do what it tells Yo to do, your conscience might ome so puny and its yoice so weak that you won't always hear it when it speaks. A few boys and girls practice at doing more and more bad things and have fewer and fewer friends an" grow morn and more inhappy because they don't listen to the little voice ins.ae them, their conscience. But you are going to practice more and more often doing right and thus have more and more friends and be more and more happy as you learn better to hear your conscience speak to you and | to obey its voice. You will find as you grow older that your conscience helps you most when no one you love or care about is present to guide you. If you have a good conscience that you obey," you will be able to do as right when no one sees you as when the whole world is looking on. SCHOOL FOR POLICEMEN HAMILTON (CP)--A training school for policemen in municipai- ities within commuting distance of Hamilton may be set up here next fall. Chief Len Lawrence said Thursday night there is a definite need. for such a school in the dis- trict. He thought police depart- ments in St. Catharines, Kitchener, Brantford, Guelph, Galt and many smaller towns and villages would Edith M. McKenzie Walter Ray Hill Wed In Columbus The marriage of Edith Marion McKenzie, dauhter of Mr. and Mrs. William David McKenzie of R.R. 2, Oshawa and Walter Ray Hill, son of Mr. and Mrs. Loss Hill of Claremont was solemnized last Saturday afternoon at Colum- bus United Church. Spring flowers formed the back- round for the ceremony perform- ed by the Rev. I. E. Kennedy as- sisted by the Rev. Roy Rickard. The wedding music was played by Mrs. Wallon Scott. Given in m ge by her father the bride was gowned in net and lace over satin. A headdress of pearls held her fingertip veil and she carried a bouquet of roses and carnations with heather from Scotland. Mrs. Eugene Paisley of Stouff- ville, sister of the bridegroom, was matron-of-honor wearing ballerina- length mauve net over taffeta. The other attendants, Mrs. William Hicks of Whitby, sister of the bridegroom, and Mis8 Lorraine Maxwell, cousin of the bride, were both in blue net styled Menieghy} EASY-SEW! By ALICE BROOKS Oh, what luxury to sleep on THE DAILY TIMES-GAZETTE, Friday, June 12, 1953 7 to that of the matron-of-honor. All wore picture hats and long net gloves to match their gowns and carried bouquets of roses and gla- diolus petals in harmonizing hues. Mr. Eugene Paisley of Stouffville was best man and the ushers were Mr. William Hicks of Whitby, brother-in-law of the bridegroom, and Mr. Wilmot Hill of Claremont, brother of the bridegroom. At the reception held in the Church parlor the bride's mother received wearing powder blue. The bridegroom's mother who assisted her was in mauve flowered taf- feta. Both wore corsages of roses. Later Mr. and Mrs. Hill left for a wedding trip to Watertown, 'New York, and on their return will live in Claremont. For travelling the bride wore a rose linen suit with white accessories. Guests were present from Clare- mont, Stouffville, Oshawa, Toron- to, Uxbridge and Brooklin, Lock- port, N.Y., St. Catharines, Guelph and Brantford. DRAPES - CURTAINS VENETIAN SHADES Measure ESTIMATES INKS CIEE TRR ER po * DRUG SERVICE be interested. flower-frosted linens. Embroider | garlands of roses, daisies, or dog- | wood on pillow cases, sheets or | scarves and guest towels. Shower a bride or your own home! { Pattern 7359 has six embroidery motifs, each about 3 x 15 inches. | {Send TWENTY-FIVE CENTS in | coins for this pattern (stamps can- not be accepted) to Daily Times | Gazette, Household Arts Dept., | Oshawa, Ontario. Print plainly | NAME, ADDRESS, NUMBER. 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