Wn | --------------- Witny wok oner A QUEEN IS CROWNED Writer Feels Throb of Great Heart As England Awaits the Queen L@NDON, England -- There could not have been anything quite like this before in history. There were of course ancient sov- ereignities whose way extended over most of their known world, and their e subject and slave gathered in the triumphal proces- sions of their kings, but modern has brought about prob- ably the greatest concentration of human life ever known one small area. In greater London's 700 square miles there now dwell over 8 million people and it is estimated that from every corner of this and other lands some 3 to 4 millions have teemed steadily into ancient Londinium in these last few hours. Imagine three quarters of the pop- ulation of Canada jammed into one of the smaller counties of Ontario this is London Coronation Weekend. The business in hand is to see the Queen's city, the Queen's abbey, the Queen's gaily festooned ways, the Queen's palace, the Queen's men, the Queen's family and hope and joy ineffable, the Queen herself. YOUTHFUL MAJESTY The Queen seemingly tireless and incredibly voung and reliant is giving herself to the people in such a gay unity of crown and commoner as to send the crowds cheering madly with joy. Let any carriage swing in or out of Buck- ingham Palace or anyone sally forth from the abbey rehearsals to his waiting car! Didnt we find ourselves caught up in a waiting crowd the other night applauding our own high commissioner, Nor- man Robertson, who will carry Canada's standard in the abbey. As soft black hat jammed firmly on the back of his long bald pate, he slouched out to his car per- PROTECT BEAUTIFY See the modern design of leaves arranged in a fan shape. this on a chair or buffet. And for matching doilies, Each Jiffy crochet in No. 30 cotton. Pattern 7299. Send TWENTY-FIVE CENTS in coins for this pattern (stamps can- not be ) to Needlecraft Book! Plus many more to send for -- including éas for gifts, home accessories, toys, fashions! Send 25 cents now! haps the most surprised and em- barrassed man to be caught up in the Coronation clamor. To be exact, 'clamor" is the wrong word. There is no clamor, nor shriek of brakes, nor honk of horns. Yesterday coming back from Oxford we were an hour get- ting through from Hyde Park to Marble Arch. There was no tem- per, no complaining. The 'bus driv- ers got out and talked to the taxi drivers. The taxi drivers were philoscphieal, "We'll get there, madam, whenever we are in any kind of a mess we give way here, some one else gives way there, and so we make a go of it. BUNTING COVERS THE SCA This is Englnad. These are the people with their flags and bunting flying as gaily over the still heart- rending ruins of their bombed churches, schools, places of liveli- hood and living, as over the mall the noble buildings of their heri- tage and the gallant simpler edi- fices of their energetic rebuilding. For there is a rebuilding of more than the physical plant of Britain. Life is pulsing on this land and London its heart, is vibrant. Extra buses and extra trains, millions of motor cars crawling in by every approach, bearing to honor the sovereign whose crown is accept- ed by 54 nations and states, the leaders of one-quarter of the world's population, dwelling on over a quarter of its area. At the Buckingham Palace Gar- den Party, I found myself beside six-foot six chief Ganda of a Gold Coast tribe who wanted three things that day; a glimpse of the Queen, of '"Churkale'", whom I found to be Churchill, and third, food. He had arrived in robes and charms and tribal trinkets, and all morning he was hungry and his tribesmen's eyes and his own gleamed as ducks flew across the palace sward to light upon its gracious pond. 'Live bush my country," he said, adding, "Cold want to go in sun." The royal party moved majestic and splendid, the handsome Queen, Selote of the Longa Islands 20 paces away stood the Queen, Prince Philip, the Queen Mother; the Duke and Duchess of Glouces- ter, the Duchess of Kent and her son, the attractive young Duke, our own Princess Alice, and the Earl of Athlone, the Prime Minis- ter and Mrs. St. Laurent, and the Drews, Mrs. Drew's grey mink rivalling that of Her Majesty. In a winding line, the representatives of the happy parliaments of peo- ples who are held together by nothing more than the tremendous strength of a service and loyalty that are not bound but free wher- ever one turns. Strangest of all is the foreign invasion of these isles led by the swarming hordes of our own close neighbors. I vote there are more United States people than British subjects in every place of record in our story upon which we have touched. Visitors still stream in from the far and middle East. Our hotel lobby is colorful with the saris of India, the vivid robes of the Sultans and Sheiks of ancient and of desert lands, Seventy great air cruisers queued up wing to wing almost waiting to land last night, and underfoot baby car- riages and old e in wheel , men bent in age and young Sallors, airmen and men at arms or the Queen in all the millions of all her far flung realms, all wear- inging some where in some form the symbol of the crown. Hordes of the USA forces riding the road- pat- | ways waiting for the buses. ABIDING OPTIMISM Here as the heirs of these free- doms that after all are our com- mon heritage and a people without enough food for themselves, with- out enough dollars to buy what they must import, concerned over PW rend Bl en , keep on through it all. Their greatest single concern at the moment "Queen's weather come Tuesday and the erowning' and the worshipful company of gardeners claiming its ancient right to offer to the Queen at Cy platform os flexible as your very ows fool, DAVIDSON"$ "SHOES THAT SATISFY" | 31:SIMCOE ST. NORTH OSHAWA DIAL 35-3312 - CHILD GUIDANCE By CLEVELAND MYERS le girl over the age or in great de- Under proper condi , baby sitting can be valuable experience for her, It can give her a semse of worthwhileness, afford her good practice at bearing responsibility and enable her to earn some money. Besides, it's good prepar- aion for her probable parenthood by and by. UPBRINGING COUNTS Almost any type of gdod home upbringing of a girl from her early ears uld help prepare her for coming' a good baby sitter, as training in self-reliance and re- sponsibility. Certainly the girl who likes young children--the more so, as a rule, if she lives happily with Jounger brothers and sisters--who as learned to share in her home responsibilities and is very depend- able, has resources within herself for becoming a good baby sitter. You and I know the adolescent girl who .takes baby sitting seri- ously and evinces great pride in her successes and in the demand for her services. Young parents feel comfortable in trusting their children to her care. Some young parents write me of such girls. And as I go about I also hear enthusiasm expressed over these fine helpers. A GOOD EXAMPLE While on a lecture trip recently, I heard a young mother exulting mother to write me about this girl and allow me to quote from her over her baby sitter. I asked this | Baby Sitting Can be Valuable Experience for Teen-Age Girl letter. Here is what she wrote: Nancy is 16, a sophomore in high school. She lives in our neighbor- hood with her parents and two in this area has called Nancy at younger brothers. I think everyone some time to ask her to baby-sit, but she's hard to get on weekends because she is so capable. "Nancy dates but she doesn't cancel a baby-sitting commitment for something perhaps more inter- esting. When a parent gives in- struction to her, she pays attention and then does as you ask. "But what is more important, she loves the children and they all look forward to Nancy's com- ing--in fact, many are glad to see their parents go! We don't have to tell Nancy to read or play with |i}, them, she does it spontaneously. MAKES A REPORT "She calls the parents by their correct names, and also the chil- dren, not referring to them as 'the kids." She reports before she leaves, and you're sure your chil- so, dren have been happy. Something we think is very important, her parents know and care where she is, and if an emergency arose and we were at a distance, I know her mother would help her until we arrived. "Early this year, she decided she'd like to try working and took a job at a drug store. She didn't let all her employers call and then find out she was no longer avail- able, she came to each of us and |let us know.' The letter concludes: "If we could only find more girls like this who want to do an impor- tant job and do it well!", MARY HAWORTH'S MAIL been married seven years and have two lovely children. We are buying our home and, while we haven't too many conveniences, we have been happy. Recently we've had some sexual disturbance but I have felt this would work out. Until this year I've held no offices in any clubs, due to Fred's objections, as he feels I should devote myself wholeheartedly to my family. However, with his supposed permission, I became president of two groups and took on a Sunday School class--and now any disagreement we have ends with a tirade against my church work. He says I think more of the church than I do of him and the ghildren--whieh I don't believe is rue. Last night I went to a meeting, and while our son was sick, I felt he would be all right. I came home once, in the middle of the meeting, to check on him and then returned to finish up. Later, when I got home, I was bawled out sharply by Fred, as the boy had wakened, crying for me--and his dad had a time explaining where I was. Now I've given up my Sunday School class and have promised to accept no more club offices, after my present terms expire. But I feel completely let down and am almost at the point of accusing Fred of being inadequate sexually. He has been ill and I try to take this into consideration-- BUT I am almost at the end of my rope: What to do now? We can't afford costly advice but we surely need dawn on that day, a bouquet all of white flowers from all parts of the realm. The live and let live of the British. The firmest because the freest of the federations of na- tions which history has recorded. The London Gazette today drop- ped Queen Mary's name from the prayer book as the new reign opens on a new age; which, there can be no doubt about it, these people are sure will be as glori- ous as the Elizabethan from that conviction they draw this new courage and new faith. Ninth of a Series) Interested in Church Work Wife Faces Husband's Objection Dear Mary Haworth: We have help. Once before I wrote you of a matter that was worked out happily. 8. V. FEAR 1S TO BLAME Dear S. V.: This is indeed a problem. Your husband is strug- gling against your growth as a person, because already he feels small in comparison, and he is acting meanly about it--in a mood o blind anxiety about what ails im. I gather he fears that if and as you continue to grow in social favor in the community, he will be found increasingly inadequate to hold your interest and elicit your respect. And just as Scripture warns, the thing he greatly fears hath come upon him! Not evoked by your actions but by his." You are beginning to feel some distaste for him as, driven by fear, he is fettering you--thus cheating himself of the gain he sought. Such is the deadly kickback power of fear, over him who yields to it--letting it determine the charac- ter of his treatment of others. In all probability the sexual disurbance you note, in which E To prepare fresh pineapples, slice them first ana then remove the peel around the edges of the slices. The slices then can be cut for salads or serving. Skill has been a tradition with us for over a quarter of a century. LEWIS - Optometrists 3 KING ST. E. 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On the contrary, to be a good wife and mother, able to give wholehearted devotion to duty, you need the refreshment of asso- ciation with neighbors and friends, in meaningful causes. Through social interchange, jntelligence and character are developed. Thus your course of action affords a right example for your children and opens doors to growth for em. Actually the salvation of the situation depends upon Fred's get- ting wise to his self-defeating bias, and changing his ways, and grow- ing along with you--by turning his hand to community good works M X s. H. Mary Haworth counsels through her column, not by mail or per- sonal interview, Write her in care of this newspaper. SUN-TO-CITY STYLE * By ANNE ADAMS Look cool, slim, smart all sum- mer--it's so easy when you have an ensemble like this! Wear the dress for cool working, smart sun- ning! For dress-up or travel, add the pique-iced spencer. Make it in pastel checks or plaid. Pattern 4845: Women's Sizes 34, 36, 38, 40, 42, 44, 46, 48. 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