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SUCCESSFUL SEPARATES Cottons are being seen this sea- son in very impressive combina- tions. The two-piece outfit pictur- ed is a fresh and feminine ver- sion designed for summer wear. An exclusive cotton print depict- ing a flower bower entwined around a Venetian gate is used | for the full, graceful skirt. A high waistline ig held in the centre/by a shoestring tie. Topping the cos- tume is a peasant blouse with a curved neckline in back and front and tiny pouf sleeves of eyelet cotton lace. -- TRACY ADRIAN. CHILD GUIDANCE Parents Should Start Early To Teach Child Unselfishness By CLEVELAND MYERS You and I know some very un- selfish persons, but they were not born that way. They learned to be unselfish. Self-preservation is a very use- fu] instinct that has helped the in- dividual person to survive. But it needs to be modified if he is to be happy, liked and enjoyed by others. soon as the baby can reach, he begins to seize apzining he can, and for months or years thereafter he feels that everything within his grasp is his. By and by he may choose to share. Accordingly, we give up some of his most precious ones or exercise effort and self- sacrifice to make others happier. REGARD OTHERS' RIGHTS £40 first essential in reducing selfishness in the young child is to train him early to avoid certain things and acts, to educate him in reasonable restraints and regard for the rights of others, enabling him all the better to respond to itive suggestions and other in- uences toward unselfish ways. Wisely we don't as a rule, com- mand the tot two, three or four to share his playthings. Rather, we set the stage so he gradually will choose to share .Acrodcingly, we help protect this child's possessions so he will feel that the toy he lets another child use is safe. We IT'S MAGIC! By ANNE ADAMS Four-way Wardrobe! Keep her well-dressed all summer, Mother! M idriff-top, shorts, skirt -- and a shirt shat doubles as a j- ! £.1 easy sewing for you! Choose sturdy cotton for hard playing, quick washing, easy ironing! Pattern 4767: Children's Sizes 2, 4, 6, 8, 10. Size 6 bra, skirt, 15 yards 35-inch; shirt, 1% yards shorts, 7% yard. This pattern easy to use, simple to sew, is tested for fit. Has com- plete illustrated instructions. Send THIRTY - FIVE CENTS (35¢) in coins (stamps cannot be accepted) for this pattern. Print plainly SIZE, NAME, ADDRESS, STYLE NUMBER. Send order to ANNE ADAMS, | care of Daily Times-Gazette, Pat- tern Dept., Oshawa, Ontario. [practice no end of patience at per- suading this tot to share, and then warmly approve hig doing so. We go on finding news ways to cause him to do unselfish things and to win satisfaction therefrom. Of course, he needs to play freely with many other children of his age. In the long run, his play- mates can do most to cultivate un- selfishness in him. But let us not forget that we help the child to be more ready to learn from his play- mates to be unselfish if we teach 'him the meaning of "No." Cer- tainly the child who has learned in his early years that he cart have everything he wants when he wants it, or can't do always as he leases, is more ready to restrain mself in these directions when he is playing with other children. We parents' and grandparents often assume that our children and grandchildren will emulate our own unselfishness. They may when they often see us be unselfish to- ward persons other than them- selves. , MAY DEMAND MORE y But when children are nearly always on the receiving end of | our unselfishness, they tend to grow more selfish, and instead of feeling grateful to us they may expect of us, even demand of us, more self- denials and sacrifices for them. The most unselfish and ungrateful child- ren five, 12 or 20 are those whose parents have given up too much to gratify these children's whims, wishes and demands. Think of all the mothers labor- ing over stoves and ironing boards, or sewing and mending late at night, so their children may be well dressed; of the mothers whose adol- escent sons command them at any time to be their tailors, or who are scolded by their daughters for not having laundered their apparel just right. This I discuss in a new bulletin "The Very Selfish Child," to be had in a stamped envelope sent me in care of this newspaper. Wallpaper Ideas For Difficult Rooms By JOAN BARBERIS Canadian Press Staff Writer The wallpaper industry in Can- ada is blossoming with new pat- terns, new ideas, and easy methods of application. They apparently haven't yet gen- erally adopted one new idea in Britain, where a company puts wallpaper on a sort of 'board panel" arrange ment which is placed on the wall. This is easily attached or removed, and is said to be indistinguishable from regu- lar wallpaper. In Canada however there are plenty of modern ideas on whll- paper, and here are some of them: Fort the room with the sloping ceiling a gay, small, non-direc- tional design, such as a spatter dash or diminutive that will cover the ceiling and all four walls. Then pick up a color in the pattern and use accents of solid color through- out the room and at the windows. A pretty wallpaper is also nice under a glass vanity top. Kitchen |cannister sets covered with a plas- |tic-coated paper are both gay and | practical. The small pattern minimizes the slopes. COLORFUL TOUCHES There are innumerable little "ex- tras" for those few rooms in which a dash of fun and plenty of imagin- ation are not out of place. Particularly nice for nurseries are blinds covered with wallpaper that matches the walls It can ve very attractive, easy to put on and the extra body gives new snap to the blinds. It is a good idea when buying wallpaper to find out whether it is the type that can be washed, or {even scrubbed. The room with a low ceiling looks best with light airy tints. However, | with a higher ceiling you can use & new approach with patterns. Gay Pre-Grad Dance For OGH Nurses Following the uet in the lower hall of the 03 hall on Fri- day night the Alumnae Association of Oshawa General Hospital School of Nursing hela 3 dance oh fhe main floor for the class of °53, their escorts and friends. Bourne, director of Schaan, pres- Miss Mary nursing, Miss Alvina ident the Alumnae Association and Mrs. R. S. McLaughlin, presi- dent of the Women's Hospital Aux- iliary, formed the receiving line. Miss Schaan was in rainbow mist lon marquisette, Miss Bourne in black lace and net and Mrs. Mec- Laughlin in flame red lace and chiffon with a corsage of lilies of the valley. Among those seen dancing were: Miss Joanne Phillips, Mr. Ken- Deth Reeves, oni Miss Dore ogue . urray Davis, Lindsay, Miss Helen Goodenough, Mr. Douglas Northey, Miss Mar- gare Avery, Mr. Robert Turner, ld Springs, Miss Mary Vajda, Mr. Frank Maidis, Toronto, Miss Marian ey, Mr. William Bur- ess anville, Miss Christine innindonth, Mr. Herbert Mullen, To! ,. Miss Mirdza Ziemelis, Dr. H. Daugavietis. Miss Ann Kot, Mr. Thomas Smith, Miss Isabelle Acton, Mr. Claude Rondeau, Miss Jacqueline Gibson, Mr. George Hill, Hamilton, Miss Marilyn Robb, Mr. Robert Parkin, Miss Lillian Ennis, Mr, James Knightingale, Guelph, Miss Erla Eastman, Mr. William Jack- son, Miss Jacqueline Thompson, Mr. Malcolm Johnson, Toronto, Miss Ruth Snowden, Mr. Howard Eastman, Miss Doris Bennett, Mr. Ian Cunningham. Miss Caroline Hayden, Mr. Al- lan Colbel, Miss Barbara Loucks, Mr. Ewart Leask, Miss Eunice Leask, Mr. Robert Elston, Miss Joan Miles, Mr. Clare Brown, Til- bury, Mr. and Mrs. Frank Peter- son, Miss Verna Embury 2 Frank Coleman, Miss Beth Ans- dell, Mr. Norman Gray, Miss Orma Fleming, Mr. Kenneth Har- die, Miss Elsie Sheremeta, Mr. Bruce Affleck, Mr. and Mrs. Arn- old Graham, Toronto, Mr. and Mrs. Arnold Graham, Toronto, Mr. and Mrs. J. Anderson. Miss Ruth Carson, Mr. James Halliday, Miss Phyllis Henry, Mr. Eric Kofmel, Mr. and Mrs. D. Bowman, Mr. and Mrs. Norman Harrison, Minden, Miss Betty Pet- ers, Mr. John Burns, Miss Faye Gilroy, Mr. Murray Vice, Mr. and Mrs. Murray Mountjoy, Mr. and Mrs. John Brinning, Mr. and Mrs. Donald Houlden, Mr. and Mrs, William Jordan, Port Colborne, Mr. and Mrs. Glen Baker, Miss Helen Leppanan, Mr. Tony Zagar. Miss Betty Beal, Mr. Bruce Cav- erly, Mr. and Mrs. Ralph Baker, Mr. and Mrs. John Jeffrey, Miss Lois Jeffrey, Mr. Norman Aldread, Miss Dorothy Ferguson, Mr. Nor- man Kennedy, Miss Audrey Stur- rock, Mr. Donald Thompson, Mr. and Mrs. Ronald Killens, Mr. Mrs. William Whitsitt, Mr, and Mrs. Allan Keetch, Mr. and Mrs. Albert Dionne, Mr. and Mrs. Stan- ley Millson, Mr. and Mrs. Walter Brooks, Miss Huska, Mr, James Arnold. Miss Marie Carter, Mr. Harry Huska, Mr. and Mrs. Eric Dean, Mr, and Mrs. Eldon Southwell, Mr. and Mrs. Stanley Russell, Miss Elinor Stark, Dr. William Mathews, Mr. and Mrs. Ronald Spence, Angus, Mr. and Mrs. R. Burnham, Cobourg, Mr. and Mrs. C. Carter, Port Perry, Mr. and Mrs. Gordon Wiltshire, Mr. and Mrs. Russell Nesbitt. Mr. and Mrs. Grant Glover, Mr. and Mrs. J. Magee, Mr. and Mrs, Wilfred Chesebrough, Mr. and Mrs. M. Roscoe, Hamilton, Mr. and Mrs. Keith Harper, Cobourg, Mr. and Mrs. Morley Budd, OTE, Mr. and Mrs. John Delvin, Mr. and Mrs. Harold Mosier, Mr, and Mrs. Edward Hill, Mr. and Mrs. A. Johnston, Toronto, Mr. and Mrs. J. Harper, Mr. and Mrs. Gerald Ly- mer, Miss Mary Robertson, Mr. Lyle Blafr. Miss Agnes Thompson, Mr. John Henderson, Miss Jacqueline Doyle, Mr. Donald McClellan, Miss Irene Canfield, Mr. Ross Hubbard, Mr. and Mrs. Morley Chester, Miss Muriel Gifford, Mr. Douglas Coates, Miss Marion Bannon, Mr. Jack er, Mr. and Mrs. Rob- ert Evans, Mr. and Mrs. J. Sim- mons, Mr. and Mrs. B. Neil, Mr, and Mrs. D. Bentley, Ajax, Miss Dorothy Paul, Toronto, . James Kane, Toronto. Miss Shirley Porter, Dr. Bruce Bird, Mr. and Mrs. C. Gyigg, Dr. and Mrs. H. C. Hall, Dr. A. Stocks, Miss Lois Peacock, Miss: Winni- fred Schaan, Mr. Philip Morrow, Dr. and Mrs. W. H. Stanley, Mr. and Mrs. D. Conlin, Mr. and Mrs. D. Wulson, Whitby, Dr. and Mrs. C. H. Vipond, Dr. and Mrs. C. E. Mcllveen, Dr. and Mrs. Edward Glazier, Dr. and Mrs. J. E. Run- dle, . and Mrs. A. P. Fulton, Dr. and Mrs. W. M. Shaw Dr. and Mrs. R. S. Ideson, Dr and Mrs. W. W. Baldwin, Dr. and Mrs. W. G. Watt, Dr. B Doherty, Miss Ann Beechinor, Mr. and Mrs. R. Kimmerly, Mr. and Mrs. Dav- id Henry, Miss Joanne Timmins, Mr. William Crouch, Dr. and Mrs. D. Best, Burlington, Mr. and Mrs. C. E. Chesebrough, Miss Luella McKnight, Dr. F. Smolarzyk, Mr. and Mrs. M. DeNure, Port Perry, Mr. and Mrs, E. Roberts, Mr. and Mrs, William Evans, Dr. and Mrs. W. Graham, Fenelon Falls. colors, subtle tints, bold designs, little patterns, florals, foliage and plaids have all been used attrac- tively on ceilings of kitchens, bath- rooms, - dining rooms and bed- rooms. And the days when pasting wall- {paper was a job for experts are |p, {gone for ever. Now you just put an adhesive mixture on the wall and put up dry, easy to handle paper. Bread dough should be allowed to rise until it is double in bulk. olf in doubt about it, test it by punching 'two fingers into the dough. If the hole remains in the dough, it is ready to punch down and be shaped' into bread or rolls. Guests at the Coronation Ball given by the Commanding Offi- cer, Non -Commissioned Officers and men of the Ontario Regi- ment at the Armories on Satur- day night voted it an outstand- ing success. In the top" picture chatting are Lieut. and Mrs. E. V. Davies, Lieut. and Mrs. Jack McAdam and Officer Cadet and Mrs. Earl Lince. Below, caught by the camera are: Col. A. G. Coulter, Mrs. Coulter, Mrs. Naylor and Mayor W. John Nay- lor, and in the third picture are: Mr. Arthur Borrowdale, Miss L. Weeks, and Mrs. J. R. Barker and Mr. Barker, president, Ontario Regiment Association. --Photos by Dutton-Times Studio. THE DAILY TIMES-GAZETTE, Tuesday, June 8, M88 MARY HAWORTH'S MAIL Woman Seeks to Dear Mary Haworth My mother died a few years ago, leaving my brother and me. Tom is 42 and gotten involved with a woman more than old enough to be his mother. Because of the things people are thinking and saying, I must hang my head in shame and, feel 80 badly--remembering we had a won- derful mother, who taught us al- ways to live fine decent lives. This woman is known sven to her own family as a person of very doubtful reputation and she knows what this afair is doigg to Tom and those near to hin}. Yet she brags to everyone that she has him under her control. He is aware of all this but apparently hasn't enough decency left wo save him- seif. wake up to the mess he is making of his life and seek decent com- panionship among young people of his own age and background? Or will she continue to and him down to further disgrace? It is evident that he finds it hard to live with his conscience, but either he fegrs her or he hasn the strength to pull out of this hor- rible situation. I love my brother very much and would like to rescue him from such evil influence. Why will an old, old woman ruin the life of a young man, when there are old men with whom she might have an affair? Please write an answer that might help him and others. ED. ... ... MAY BE LOVE Dear E.D.: It appears that you and Tom each have a problem, a yourselves in middle age, after being too long attached to your mother's leading strings. Events suggest that Tom felt lost without his mother, after her death, hence gravitated to the com- pany of anoher much older woman, with whom he is now infatuated. This woman's possessive behavior, which you deplore, and her open pride in having him under control, Extra Light for TV Makes It Hot Work By BOB THOMAS HOLLYWOOD (AP) -- The new 3-D techniques may be a. boon to the box office, but they can be tough on actors. 80 says Ann Miller, who now is tapping her way through "Kiss Me Kate," the first big musical to be done in wide screen and three dimensions. The actors are doing their work under huge banks of bright lights. "The other day the temperature on the set was 120 degrees," Miss Miller said. "Then I had to step in and do a dance number in front of three mirrors. You can imagine how hot that was!" The extra lights are needed for two reasons: 1. The camera's range is wider and more of the set must be lighted; 2. The set must be brighter because of the light lost by viewing the pictur® through tinted glasses. While the movie set is hot, the rest of the stage is air conditioned to a cool temperature. The change of temperature has been causing sinus trouble and colds for Miss Miller, Kathryn Grayson and other members of the cast and crew. ""And then we're supposed to act gay and carefree in front of the camera' Ann exclaimed. New dimensions in movies are readily available in the Los An- geles area, at least. Theatrical pages list ads for eight diferent attractions, all with some new kind of gimmick. Now if the studios would only get together on one kind of system the rest of the theatres might also be able to do business. Arch Boler has never revealed the cost of his pioneering 3-D epic, "Bwana Devil." But from ga re- liable source I hear that it ran $200,000. The bill came to about $300,000 with the cutting and pro- cessing. Not a bad investment for has | him, a Is there any hope that he will |, ot vestment. Thus you are Yeugefully Rescue Brother From Misalliance with Woman may be reminiscent (in Tom mind) of his mother's way and possibly mental likeness binds Perhaps the ,, confus realizing a sense of per in each other's company. ceptance appreciation. may be a sort of psychological wet nurse to Tom. SHOULDNT INTERFERE About yourself: apparen si have no love-interest in life Tom, no other tie or emotional ine ealous of this woman who m--against all standard rules for romance--and you are vehemently | intent on blackguarding her in all | eyes, if possible, and forcing them | apart, if a wedge can be contrived. I think the sensible course is to concede Tom the right, at 42, to find his own answers--without ine terference or outcries from you. You must differentiate your life from his and learn to circulate on your own power--and for help in this, it might be well to unburden your soul to a good psychologist. personal tragedy of what to do with | M.H. Mary Haworth counsels through her column, not by mail or per- sonal interview. Write her in care of this newspaper. HALF-SIZER Sew this smart, young half-sizer. It's correctly proportioned to your waist, hips, shoulders -- no alteras By ALICE BROOKS tion worries! Flower - embroidery or cotton lace for trimming. Pattern 7174: tissue pattern; eme broidery transfer. Sizes 14%, 16%, 1812, 20%, 22%, 24%. State size. Send TWENTY-FIVE CENTS in coins for this pattern (stamps can- not be accepted) to Daily Times- Oshawa, Ontario. Print plainly NAME, ADDRESS, PATTERN ER and SIZE! TE! COMPLETE PATERNS to sew, embroider, crochet--print- ed in the new 1953 Alice Brooks Needlecraft Book! Plus mgny more patterns to send for -- including a film that is bringing in millions. ideas for gifts, home, accessories, toys, fashions! Send 25 cents now! Well-Dressed and Vivacious at 60 Mary Pickiord Pattern of Charm By, CYNTHIA LOWRY NEW YORK (AP)--Mary Pick- ford, now 60 years old, is one liv- ing legend without nostalgia. Still golden-haired, but with a chic, short hair-do, the Toronto- born sweetheart of the early silent screen is a youthful, slim figure in high fashion clothes, modern as to- morrow's newspaper and as friendly as the lady next door. Interviewed in her flower-filled New York hotel suite, she was as full of the future as a June college graduate, looking back warmly and without regret on the fabulous 54 years of her theatrical career. Mary Pickford made her last movie 20 years ago. She's thinking about television. She's a founder of a major film company but is satisfied now to reap her reward as a major stockholder. She reigned supreme over Hollywood for years. Now as an abdicated monarch she seems perfectly con- tent in bringing up her two adopted children and indulging her enthus- iasm for volunteer work and hob- ies. a BOND-SELLING TOUR Now she is on a 13-city tour to Fumuisie sales of U.S. savings s. In talking, her vivacious face took on that earnest, serious-little- giri look that another generation of movie fans adored. "You know, I'm an American citizen by choice. I was born in Canada. As a child I thought all Americans were tall and dark. The first Yankee I ever met was Elsie Janis so I believed they were all as tall and dark as she." She talked of going on the stage |' at six, barnstorming and playing the stock circuit with her widowed mother and younger brother and sister, "I never had a real childhood,® she said. "What I had, I lived out on the stage, playing little girl roles. It wasn't all bad. There was lots of laughter and we were to- gether and we always had enougn to eat." i ON BROADWAY AT 10 She told of the day she stormed her way in to see the great David Belasco and got her first Broad- way role. She was 10 years old. "I believe I was guided; I'm sure I was," she concluded. 'There was 'one chance in a million I would have been successful." The difficult years of constant travel, little money and no family roots left their scars of insecurity. Throughout her life, she said, she has never been able to feel that wealth and fame is anything but transient. She's pleased--and quite proud-- of her reputation as a shrewd and hard-headed business woman. "I have a strange relationship to money," she said. "It never seems real unless it is in cash and in my hand. > 'Believe me, I'd never pay $700 or $1,000 for a dress. I'd never pay money like that for clothes." HOLLYWOOD DAYS She is matter of fact about the high old days in Hollywood when she was married to Douglas Fair- banks Sr., when Pickfair was called "Buckingham Palace" and film premieres didn't start until Doug and Mary had arrived in state. "Douglas," she explained, "loved to accumulate human beings the way some people collect stamps and coins, Why, he kept one man on his payroll for 30 years because he once loaned Douglas an over} coat." Each night, no matter what time' they finished work at the studio, they came back to a dinner table set for 15--no matter whether any- one had been invited. Usually, the table was full because gregarious Douglas filled the place with friends and friends' friends. '""How did I like it?" she asked. '""How would any woman like that sort of life? It was certainly rough on my artistic life. I was trying to be an actress and a producer and I had to run three establish- ments. We'd entertain 14 at lun- cheon in the studio bungalow each day. Then there was Pickfair. It isn't as big as people think, only four bedrooms, but there's the guesthouse, too--and there was the beachhouse at Santa Monica with room for six or eight guests." However, added Miss Pickford, "the travelling and meeting people was wonderful for me." "SALADA TEA BAGS HOUSEHOLD HINT A place mat folder is a nice gift or a useful gceessory for your own linen closet. One practical type is made of washable, brightly color- ed floral paper, lined in white, with ribbon ties. It will hold as many as 36 mats and doilies flat, unwrinkled and clean. When the cover becomes soiled, wash it with a well-wrung-out soapy cloth. VENETIAN SHADES Moade-to-Measure FREE ESTIMATES WARD'S Simcoe at Athol Dia 3.115! Il BE ASK YOUR PAINT DEALER FOR FREE FOLDER Tim-ber-lox is non - oxidizing and does not stain or weather out like varnish type materials, Recommended for summer cottages, Half log Siding, Cedar and Spruce Siding. IT'S HERE! by THREE SIZES COSMETIC 8 KING ST. E. 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