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TN TT . 4 J ee LS LAB A Sy SREB, A bi x Sie fo Pretty as the flowers of spring is this charming matched *en- semble. The color is blue hyacin- th, a shade that is flattering to blondes, brunettes and red heads. The dress is of silk with & sur- plice bodice with batwing sleeves * that are three-quarter length, a panelled skirt and a self belt. The pumps are blue with white trim and a hat of hyacinth sprigs flatteringly tops the costume. I By TRACY ADRIAN CHILD GUIDANCE Early Discipline is Only Way To Insure Youngsters Safety - By G. CLEVELAND MYERS We have no way of knowing how many young children lose their lives or are seriously injured be- cause they have not been well dis- ciplines. I would guess that half such accidents in children under six are traceable to this cause. Yet all the acres of print on safety practically ignore this factor and assume that all safety meas- ures for preschool children consist of keeping dangers from them, of always being on hand at the proper #ime to intercept the youngsters. A good deal is said about reas- oning with the little child about safety. But as anybody knows, he rarel y is impressed with reasoning in the face of perils. IMPORTANCE OF "NO" Almost nothing appears in all the safety literature on training the tot in effective restraints by means of physical pain, of teach- ing him the meaning of "No." (My bulletin, "How Teach Tot Meaning of No," may be had in a stamped envelope sent me in care of this paper.) The rank and file of writers on bringing up children, teachers and parent counselors, have generally warned against restraint of the young child, especially restraint by means of physical pain. To teach a tot safety by means of physical is brutal, but to let him get ed to death or run down by a car because he has not been trained to heed the monosyllable, No," is socially respectable. Such is the general notion that's abroad. As you know, the plea by so many for permissiveness and for avoidance of the tod- dler assumes that he must escape frustrations and be happy. But I've always maintained t by letting a youngster have and do what he wants when he wants it s 0 as not to frustrate him, only causes him later to face more frustrations and renders him more and more unhappy by-and-by. Now, most parent counselors keep harping on giving the child more love. That's wonderful. But letting him do as he pleases doesn't guarantee more love to him. On the contrary, it decreases the amount of love he will get in long run from his parents or anybody else. Where is the parent who can be always lovely to the child who has no regard for wishes or commands? SAFETY OF SICK CHILD I wonder how many young chil- dren lose their lives when slightly ill because they won't stay in bed when the doctor so orders. Sup- pose the youngster has a light case of scarlet fever or some other such disease. Any physician can tell you that this child's future health may depend on his adher- ing to a rather strict program. But when a child is sick is no time to begin his training in re- straint. Prepare your child from one to six with such discipline that his management when and if he is sick will present no problem. a ra saat MARY HAWORTH'S MAIL Dear Mary Haworth: I need ad- vice desperately. When Ben and I had been married a month, he was sent to the Far East non-combat zone. Since then I have been writ- ing him regularly, several times a week, while his correspondence t6 me has slowly dwindled to two letters a month. I am confident my husband loves me and am equally sure of his fidelity. I realize that one does tire of writing after 14-months' separa- tion and get discouraged generally. However, 1 do feel hurt because he should know how much his let- ters mean to me. Yet I am afraid to chide him for his negligence, and things have reached a point where I don't write him more than three times a week. Having no relatives or close friends to keep me reasonably oc- cupied and less lonely of evenings, I live only for Ben's letters. In these circumstances, is one letter a week too much to expect of him? After 10 days without a letter, I get so tegse that I feel my mind will snap." I rush home from work thinking surely there is a letter today--and again: the mailbox is empty. I never learn, it seems. How can I make him see the im- portance of trying a little harder? How can I impress him with the importance of his letters to our marriage, now and later--without seeming to nag or whine? I've men- tioned how much his letters mean me, so he must know I need them. Jour advice will be appreciated. vw. B. TOO TIMID Dear J. B.: Fourteen-months' separation, following on the heels of a month's marriage, probably could make the notion of close re- lationship seem vaguely unreal-- to the soldier in a far-off land. This may be the reason Ben no longer writes freely. He may feel increasingly that he is addressing himself to a stranger. to someone he barely knew and can scarcely remember--a person with whom he has nothing in common nowadays. It is my impression that the mar- riage was an ipromptu contract, NEW STRIPED LOOK 4585 szes ; By ANNE ADAMS Effective in stripes and how simple to sew! You can make it, yes. YOU--in a few hours. Yoke and sleeves go together like a charm. Enjoy that smart new shal- low neckline. Buttons in front are optional, of course. Easy, full circle skirt is graceful. Pattern 4585: Misses' Sizes 12, 14, 16, 18, 20. Size 16 takes 5 yards 35-inch fabric. This pattern easy to use, simple to sew, is tested for fit. Has com- plete illustrated instructions. Send THIRTY - FIVE CENTS (35¢) in coins (stamps cannot be accepted) for this pattern. Print plainly SIZE, NAME, ADDRESS, STYLE NUMBER. Send order to ANNE ADAMS, care of Daily Times-Gazette, Pat- tern Dept., Oshawa, Ontario. Wh, SIXTH ANNUAL HF YOU ARE INVITED TO ATTEND THE SPRING FLOWER SHOW Sunday, March 29 from 1 to 5 p.m. at our Greenhouses, Bloor St. W., Oshawa Name Address F=------------ = EASTER ROSE BUSHES CINERARIAS DAFFODILS CARNATIONS R. B. REED 10Y2 King St. West -- CLIP THIS ATTENDANCE COUPON R. B. REED & SONS This coupon entitles holder to participate in attendance draw. -- -- -- -- -- fr -- -- ---- w-- o-- -- -- -- ER I RS SR I Rr ay cere LILIES TULIPS & S HYDRANGEAS RHODODENDRONS CALCEOLARIAS SNAPDRAGONS ONS Phone 5-1131 Bride is Discouraged by Lack Of Mail from Bridegroom in Korea made on sketchy or short ac- | quaintance. This I infer from your abashed handling of Ben's dimin- ishing correspondence--as if you were an uncertain girl friend, try- ing to gain his interest without scaring him off. Inasmuch as you are his wife, keeping faithful vigil during his absence, writing him often, you have substantial reason to want at least a weekly letter from him as minimum solace, it seems to me. So why not let him know your feelings, hopes and wishes--your sinking heart when you find it empty? Why make a secret of your real distress at having to wait so long for word from him? FALSE IN MARRIAGE One of the helpful aspects of real marriage, a familiar usage that makes it a close, significant, bene- ficial relationship, is the prerog- ative of speaking frankly (as if to oneself) about things that matter. If this honest trustful intercom- munication doesn't exist in mar- riage, the alliance lacks real sub- stance and unity. And if you are afraid of asking from Ben the con- sideration you crave or think is your due, your marriage to him is somehow false. Perhaps your mistake is in try- ing to keep the exchange to a courtship or honeymoon basis--coy and sweet and unasking on your part--instead of moving on into sensible downright discussfon of what's in your thoughts and how the days go. If you were to address him in that spirit, "man-to-man" as it were, he might have some- thing real to say in reply--hence find letter writing an easier, more inviting chore. He might answer more promptly then. Mary Haworth counsels through her column, not by mail or per- of this.newspaper. Spring Headlines Show Pompadours That Smart Girls Can Set at Home The pompadour is being revived. Women are re-discovering hair sweeping up from the fore- ead before falling in waves or curls, is very flattering. It gives length to the face, slenderness to the figure. The new pompadour, however, is fashioned from short hair. It soft and touchable, with the ap- pearance that the hair wants to go that way. It is not held by pins. It is set to comb and stay high in a wave that turns either side- ways or back, but always ends in a wispy curl. It needs a soft perma- nent which acts like naturally curly hair in case you are not blessed with the real thing. A home permanent with naturalizer will accomplish this, And in order to show to best advantage, the hair should be frequently sham- pooed to keep it manageable and 8 . The setting is slightly different from other hair settings, but it isn't difficult once you get the hang of it. Back and side waves and curls are turned as you usually do, but it's the front that re- quires a new technique. If you wear your hair without a part (this is the newest), sec- tion off the front before setting, as if you were parting it for a bang. Make your division half way between forehead and crown, al- lowing it to reach just below the temple line at the sides. This gives you a half moon of hair across the front, to from the pompadour. Wave it last. With both the sides and back finished, you are better able to see what you are doing. Now for the new type of curl. In order to make your pompadour stand high, comb the strand of hair for curling, in the opposite direction from the way you turn the curl. If you want your wave sonal interview. Write her in care | starting with to turn toward the left, comb each strand of hair to the right, hold it close to the scalp, then the ends of the strand, turn the curl to the left. By BOB THOMAS HOLLWYOOD (AP) -- Today the wraps were taken off a super- secret science fiction film, the first in three dimensions. The picture has an unusual switgh: The creatures who arrive on earth from another planet are not invaders, but visitors. They happen here by mistake and work like beavers to get back home. The picture is called "It Came From Outer Space," and it fea- tures Richard Carlson and Bar- bara Rush. It was filmed in its en- tirety with a "no visitors" sign on the stage door. Even the studio's press agent was not allowed on the set. Now that the Universal-Internat- ional film is completed, the stduio is willing to tglk about it. I chatted with Ray Bradbury, one of the most successful science fiction writ- He was author of the original story. "I started from the premise that there will be conflict if the inhahi- tants of two planets meet," he ex- plained. '"My reasoning is this: If there is any life on other planets, it is doubtful if it has developed into human form. Even if these crea- tures are intellectually developed beyond humans so that they have Hushands! Wives! Want new Pep and Vim? Thousands of couples are weak, worn-out, ex= hausted solely because body lacks iron, For new vim, vitality, try Ostrex Tonic Tablets. Supplies iron you, too, may need for pep; supplemen= tary doses Vitamin By. Introductory or "gets acquainted" size only 60¢. At all druggists, HOLLYWOOD HIGHLIGHTS Screening of Super-Secret Film Is Now. Revealed by Hollywood abolished war and eonflict, there will be a shock when they meet earth people. '"The two races will be do dis- similar that conflict is bound to result. So I envisioned creatures landing here by mistake in a rocket ship. They work feverishly to keep out of sight of humans until they can repair their ship and continue on their way." The '"'visitors" accomplish their missions by using humans. Cer- tain citizens of an Arizona town are hypnotized and instructed to do the visitors' will by telepathy. The visiting space travellers will be seen by the audience only in one brief, horrific flash. The shot is expected to draw a large re- sponse from movie goers, since the picture is in 3-D. tt | and while it is | of When it is rolled to the scalp, is still in an upright position, so you can see through it, straddle the hair ends with one or two hairpins, and then with a bobbie or a clip. Make two or three rows of these upstanding curls, depending on the thickness your hair, but do not flatten them in drying. They must dry in yipstanding position if you expect them to comb out in a pomp. If you wear a part in your hair, use the same technique, but turn the curls on opposite sides of the part in opposite directions. They will give a very flattering lift to the entire hairdo. LAUNDRY BAG! Su Who'd ever guess this pretty doll is a laundry bag! Suspend this doll on the door of your daughter's clos- 3 -- see how fast she learns to bt y. Pop laundry into her big skirt! Pattern 7197: pattern pieces, em- broidery transfer. Send TWENTY-FIVE CENTS in coins for this pattern (stamps can- not be accepted) to Daily Times- Gazette, Household Arts Oshawa, Ontario. Print plainly NAME, ADDRESS, PATTERN NUMBER. A TEN COMPLETE PATTERNS to sew, embroider, crochet--print- ed in the new 1953 Alice Brooks Needlecraft Book! Plus many more paiferns to send for -- including deas for gifts, home accessories, toys, fashions! Send 25 cents now! Help The Red Cross ed with hand homemaker when the ynexpapied. ay THE DAILY TIMES-GAZETTE, Thursday, March 36, 1903 ¥ Quick Chicken Pot Pie Provides Good Dinner for Unexpected Guest "Two's company three's a crowd' can be a true saying when an unexpected dinner guest des- cends upon the household designed for two. Menus planned for a larger family can usually se stretched te serve one more if only by ihe simple expedient of giving the fa- mily smaller servings. But this is not always possible when meals are planned for just two. Having an emergency shelf stock- y-to-use canned and packaged foods has saved many a guest-emergency has arisen. Szalhple Quick Chicken Pie for 3, as delcious as one could desire, is ready in short order when one com- bines: 8-ounce can chicken 10-ounce condensed cream of chicken, mushroom or celery soup 15-ounce can peas, drained % to % cup milk or vegetable cooking water 3 cooked potatdes 3 cooked onions 1% Jive baking powder biscuit ug The potatoes and onions can be cooking while biscuit dough is being prepared. To speed the cook- ing of vegetables, cut potatoes in small pieces and onions in slices or halves. When vegetables are near- ly tender combine the canned chie- ken cut in chunks, the soup, drain. ed peas and milk or water in a saucepan and heat slowly. If fewer peas are preferred, use % of can. When potatoes and onions are tender, add to the chickn mix- ture, pour into casserole. Roll out dough % inch thick and cut into small biscuits and arrange on of chicken mixture. Sprinkle wif paprika and bake in very hot oven 425 deg. F. 15 to 20 minutes until biscuits are cooked and golden brown. If desired a full Tecipe of biscuit dough may be made up and the extra Gough baked as tea bis- cuits. NOTE: To add colour to pot ple, sliced carrots may be used in addition to, or in place of, onions. If desired, biscuit dough may be made as for drop biscuits and drop- 8) uls on chicken. A complete menu built around the pot pie could be: TOMATO JUICE QUICK CHICKEN POT PIE HOW'S THIS for Solid Ii Comfort at Home these nights A SANDWICH and a SPARKLING BOTTLE of GINGER ALE § East .:: West. : : Home's Best! For those evenings when you just wish to stay in the house and relax, what is more delightful than the comfort of an easy chair--and a glass of delicious WILSON'S Ginger Ale! = NO OTHER GINGER ALE, AT ANY PRICE, MATCHES VALUE WITH WILSON'S (be # Higher, Lower or Free) in QUALITY--FLAVOUR--VALUE FAMILY SIZE 30 OUNCES rR PERSONAL SIZE ¢ 2for 35¢ 7 Prices include Govt. Tax BRA A. Style #438 -- Gleaming SSIERES soln strapless. 3 fo 36, A cup: I to 38, B cup: 3M 40 40. C sup White only. 8. Style #505 -- Stitched wndereup bre, in black or white satin, and white broadcloth. 30 to 36, A cup: 32 to 38, B cup; 32 to 40, C cup. (Also plunge neck style in bleek or white setin, AS Beups) C. Circlo-Form -- with Bloating Action, in gleaming white sofin. MW to 3, A ewpi 32 40.38, Beup: MN to 0 € up. Just three of several wonderful Exquisite Form bra stylings now at Rettman's..... each 2 "must" to underline your Spring fashions! 23V2 Simcoe St. S. Se 2 CN