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iE FRIDAY, DECEMBER 21, 1951 THE DAILY TIMES.GAZETTE In Jhe Home Merry Christmas Everyone! Sparkle, rustle, tinsel and bustle-- seals, ribbons, boxes and bundles end up with family gatherings and gay greetings. Christmas is all this ~--but much more, too. Christmas is a time for living | memories, and for building pictures that will remain with little tots for | the rest of their lives. It isn't just | one day--it is usually bne month of exciting activity that brings out the | stars in children's eyes. TAKE A TIP 1 To prevent candles from drip- ping, keep them in the refriger- ator overnight, 2 Twelve to fourteen pound turkeys require about 8 cups soft bread crumbs for the stuffing. To make an extra quantity of turkey gravy cook the giblets, neck and heart in 2 quarts of water. Buy an extra half pound of hearts for making a good quality stock. 4 To make a Cranberry relish mix 1 pint' of cranberries (about % pound), 1 cup sugar and % cup water in a saucepan. Stir over moderate heat for 2 or 3 minutes. Bring to a boil, stirring occasion- ally. Cover pan and cook over low heat about 10 minutes. Re- move from heat. Let stand cov- ered for 20 minutes then pour into refrigerator dish and chill. To thoroughly mash turnips whip with electric. food mixer, Flavor turnips with a little sugar, milk and a dash of nutmeg. @ To serve a not-so-sweet sauce for the Christmas pudding cook a Lemon Sauce: Mix 2 tbsps, flour, 2 tbsps. lemon rind, % cup sugar with 2 cups warm water. Boil the mixture 5 minutes. Remove from the element and add 4 tbsps. lemon juice and 3 tbsps. butter. 7 To make an inexpensive Sugar- Plum tree: Cut the side of an empty can (such as one that is emptied of cbrn) into narrow strips vertically from top to bot- tom. Each strip is twisted a bit, spread out, and the ends are snipped to a point, Finally, cook- jes are affixed to each end. To prevent breaking the cookies, make holes by spearing them with a B® metal skewer dipped in hot water. THE QUESTION BOX Mrs. K. T. asks: What is the recipe for fruit stuffing? Answer: Fruit Stuffing for Goose. Va cup butter 1 tbsp. minced onion 12 cup chopped celery Ya cup grated carrot 3% tsp. ground cloves Winid DISPLAY OF Typical of our many gilt suggestions in quality baggage . . . The Man's Aeropack with ®-suit hanger unit priced as lowas........ exe sania 425° Ladies" Dressing Cases in smart tweeds priced as low po 13% FINE 2S Zz KING wd SIMCOE ~ OF INTEREST % cup sultana raisins 1% cup crushed pineapple 3 cups bread crumbs Mrs. 8. M. asks: How to bake a ham? Answer: Whenever possible fol- low the cooking instructions given by the packers. If these are not provided either bake or simmmer the ham until almost tender. With- in the last 45 minutes remove pap- er and rind, make a series of shal- low cuts across the fat. Spread with a mixture of 1 cup brown sugar mixed with rind and juice of 1 or- ange. Insert 8 or 10 cloves. Bake uncovered at 325 degrees. Mrs, E. C. asks: Recipe for spare- ribs for 4 people. Answer: Sweet and Sour Spare- ribs. 4 1% lbs. spareribs, back 2 eggs Flour Cut spareribs into 2 inch size pieces, bone and all. Dip into 2 beaten eggs and then in flour and saute quickly for about 15 mins. Add sweet and sour sauce; a cooked sugar mixture of 2 cup brown sugar, % cup vinegar, 1 cup water, 2% cup chili sauce Anne Allan invites you to write to her care of this paper. Send in your suggestions on homemaking prolems and watch this column for replies. ' HOUSEHOLD HINT Good lighting in the home de- pends largely upon clean lamps and bulbs. The safe way to clean them is to disconnect each lamp or fixture, removing parts for washing. Bowls can. be washed in soapsuds like china. Wipe the bulbs with a soft cloth wrung out of soapy water, then with a clean damp cloth; dry completely. 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Hollywood Highlights By BOB THOMAS Hollywood (AP) -- Undismayed by the flop of her recent play, Ginger Rogers says 'she is willing to tackle Broadway again. But next time it'll be different. Back from New York after the failure of her first play in many years 'Love and Let Love," she isn't bitter about the experience, but she is about the play's author, Louis Verneuil. "I can't understand how any | MARY HAWORTH'S MAIL:- Older Woman and Young Mate Dear Mary Haworth: Foolishly or not, I have matried a man eleven years younger than I, and of a different religious faith. We have been married six months. Phil is now 28 and I'am 39. I come to you for advice. Speci- fically what, in your opinion, are the most important factors in making a lifelong success of this marriage? -- -that isn't given a "ghost of a chance" according to the local grapevine. At present we have no problems. We love each other with a devotion that comes of the meeting of two persons who've known a great deal of loss and loneliness. We are happily employed and we joyfully share the housework in our little apartment. But I fear the future. I have no physical beauty what- soever, and the years won't im- prove that situation. What can I do, what can I give Phil, to com- pensate for the youth and beauty he will never have in his wife? You probably will agree that a first child at 40 years of age is not recommended. But is that fiar to Phil? Would it not be better to step aside in the event he should find someone nearer his own age? As time goes on, the fires of romance will of course burn down. down. They must be replaced. How? Your advice will be ap- preciated. L.D. PURGE PESSIMISM Dear L. D.: What you are stat- ing, unawarely, is a profound un- conscious disbelief in the possibil- author would refuse to alter his work until a week before the New York opening, when it was too late," she declared. "It was apparent from the reviews that it needed revisions. .But he absol- utely refused to touch it. . . "After all, every playwright is expected to work on the play dur- ing the out - of - town openings. That's what the try - out period is for." Miss Rogers said she wouldn't be adverse to doing another Broad- way show. "But next time," she added, "I would have some legal assurance that the author would do whatever rewriting was neces- sary. GOT HER MONEY BACK She got back her original invest- ment of $23,000 before the producer decided to close the play. Although hooted by the critics, the show might have turned a profit. It had a healthy advance sale, largely because of the star's personal draw. "But we lost the advance by coming into New York three weeks late," she explained. "We stayed longer on the road in hopes of get- ting the show in shape." Miss Rogers' return to the movie (in '""we're not marrie") will be a brief one. As she said: "Before, I never could settle down to one career and devote all my time to it because I didn't know whether I was going to stick to the movies or try the stage.Now I know where I'm going -- to tele- vision!" She soon will start a contract with CBS. | ity of nappiness ror yourself, ex- perienced in terms of abiding mutual love. Because of this con- ditioned pessimism, you are un- prepared to participate in the blessed reality of happiness when it offers. Thus you can't be happy even now, due to worry lest the present boon vanish at some fu- ture day. You mention that you and Phil have in common 'a great deal of loss and loneliness' in the past -- and this history of personal desola- tion probably accounts for your unconsciously skeptical attitude to- wards the good companionship that envelops you in relation to him. You can't accept it as true -- or at any rate as- lasting. So you conjure all sorts of arguments why it will fail, where you fall short, etc. -- figuratively turning a knife in your heart, as if to get used to the pain before the actual thrust is made. Obviously you've been through. a severe (or considerable) experi- ence of emotional insecurity. As a result, you involuntarily bring a '"'have-not" philosophy to mar- riage. Deprived of sanctuary and stability in early relationships, you don't expect to find these sustain- ing qualities in any alllance -- so your unconscious ideology runs. And this is your greatest handicap in the matter of breathing longev- ity and perennial good feeling into your partnership with Phil, NEUROTIC PATTERN? Psychiatry reports a tendency amongst confused neurotics to gravitate to affiliations most cal- culated to invoke their chronic (or '"favorite'"') misfortunes. And it may be that in marrying a younger man, you were blindly adhering to this framework compulsively rethreading a pattern of self de- feat and doomed hope, in an osten- sible quest for love-security. But it needn't pan out that way, if you begin to deeply understand what you are doing; and if you truly. want Phil's lifetime allegiance, and would be happy in giving him happiness to the best of your ability. Actually there is no guaranteed perpetuity of joy, satisfaction or security in anyone's love life. Loss of companionship or loss of devo- tion is a risk you face, in plighting your troth or giving your heart. Rational adults recognize this, take it in stride and dismiss it from mind, in experiencing maximum happiness in the here-and-now. Don't fret about yourself. If Phil had wanted "cutie" beauty or pro- lific youth in his wife, he wouldn't have chosen you. And the fact that you won his love without dewy ap- peal means that 'your charm needn't fade, from his viewpoint. MH Mary Haworth counsels through her column, not by mail or perso- nal interview. Write her in care of The Daily Times-Gazette, Oshawa, Ontario. ASIAN RIVER The Obi river in western Siberia flows for 2200 miles, draining an area of more than one million square miles. wu00se Yardley . « « let your gift speak fragrant good wishes far into the future. Give Yardley-- and your gift will be remembered. eo Ladies' Set $10.00 Lavender Bath Salts, Lavender, Toilet Soap. Men's Set $4.50 After Shaving Lotion, Shaving Bowl and After Shower Pow- der. Men's Set $2.25 After Shaving Lotion and Shaving Cream. 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Pomegranates, for instance, were well known in the holy land long before Christ. Red apples should be polished until they fairly glow. rBright red emperor grapes and glossy bits of holly contribute more color. For the dinner-table or buffet is sugested a big platter of persim- mons, pomegranates "for senti- meni,"' black grapes, oranges, apples and bananas. A cluster of pine completes the picture. nally, for the féstive dessert, "ambrosia." Ingredients: Six O..ges; three bananas, three tablespoons lemon juice, one-half cup honey, one-half cup grated fresh or shredded coconut, mara- schino cherries. Cut oranges into sections, slice bananas and toss together. Mix honey and lemon juice and pour over fruit. Sprinkle with coconut and garnish with cherries. Serve well chilled. PARTYING - Home economists of the con- sumer section, Dominion Depart- ment of Agriculture, say that Christmas parties plan themselves. Simple refreshments are always best to serve, particularly ones that can be prepared ahead of time. Party spread can be made early, and in quantities large enough to last for several parties. Combine various types of cheese, meat, fish or poultry with pickles, olives and spices. These can be placed in bowls and everyone al- lowed to serve himself. Instead of a bowl, a grapefruit or orange shell makes an excellent container for the filling. Spread suggestions: Cream and pepper and worcestershire sauce; or cream cheese, mayon- naise and chipped dried beef; again, cream cheese, ground, steamed pruned, figs or apricot and chopped nuts. Finely minced ham or chicken, chopped olives or gherkins and nuts also make a fine spread. Liverwurst, chopped pickles and mayonnaise make another tasty sandwich. THRIFT LOBBY The Canadian Association of Consumers has urged the federal government to ban the practice of rseale price maintenance, and has called on all consumers to add / cheese, finely minced garlic, salt tn PAOE SEVEN he CHILD GUIDANCE:- Temper Tantrums In Children "© By GARRY CLEVELAND MYERS, PhD. Any mother of a child from one to five may know what a tan- trum 'is. The first show of anger in the infant may come when she dresses or bathes him, when his freedom of movements is hamp- ered, or when he must wait long for some accustomed attention. Tantrums often develop in the infant when he is not taken up promptly following his usual cries. As fulfillment of his wants is de- layed, he, naturally, grows more angry and responds more violently, employing his feet and hands and as much of his body as possible to express his' rage. : MINIMUM HAMPERING Careful, tender handling of the infant and adjustment of his cloth- ing with a minimum of hamper- ing of his normal bodily move- ments can prevent most early tan- trums in him. "If the infant is always taken up when he seems to want to be taken up and, later, given always what he wants right when he wants it, he may have no strong angers for some weeks or even months. But as all of his apparent wants are promptly supplied, these wants increase manifoldly, and there soon comes a time when they won't or cannot be supplied promptly. Then his rages will inevitably increase. The best way to prepare a baby to have many tantrums later is to start early to give him always what he wants right when he wants it. Tantrums often develop when the mother, not sure whether she should ever let her baby "cry it out," sometimes lets him cry a long while 'before taking him up and at other times takes him up rather promptly. Or, she may, after being reassured by her phy- sician, resolve to let the young- ster cry it out. But after he has cried for ten, fifteen or thirty minutes, growing more and more angry the while, she finally suc- cumbs. The longer he thus strug- their individual voices to the cam- paign. In a special bulletin to all its members the CAC asks them to write their members of parliament asking them '"'to protect the inter- est of the buying public in these times of high prices by voting to outlaw the present pric e-fixing practice of resale price mainten- ance," the system whereby manu- facturers fix the retail price of their goods. . gles before he gets the reward, the more ready he is to ery longer Whether your child is six months, thirteen months or two years ot age, if you are sure you should let him cry it out, as in the case of his erying to be taken into bed with you, consult your doctor if you have doubts and then see the matter through. Unless you are he wants right away. No sense in making him fight longer and longer each time and get more practice in rage. As you see, the harder and longer he has fought, the more glorious and rewarding his victory when he finally wins. Tantrums at two, three or four may also grow in your child who on his hearing you say no, is able to make you change it to YES. Snatching by force a forbidden object from a youngster under two can arouse violent tantrums. Wise parents patiently win him to give up the object willingly. source of tantrums is use of pain or other force to get the child under three or four to do what you want him to do, failing to draw the line between restraint and coopera- tion. Alse, tantrums can grow out of physical causes which only the physician can diagnose and treat properly. (My bulletins, "Tan - trums," "Stubbornness'" and "The Nervous, Jittery Mother," may be had in a stamped envelope sent me in care of this paper.) FOR THE BUSY SHOPPER During busy shopping days pre- pare foods ahead of time, A gela- tine containing cubed cooked meat, grated carrots and cabbage may be served as a main course. A can of hot soup makes a fine first course. 1. Set 5.00 weekly 2. 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