PAGE EIGHT .HE DAILY TIMES-GAZETTE MONDAY, JULY 17, 1950" In The Home \. - OF INTEREST English Women Don't Want to Copy High-Pressive Antics of U.S. Sisters London -- (CP) -- A report por- traying the American woman as "pace-maker" in family life land- ed on British ears with all the im- pact of a powder puff on a soft, feminine cheek. Nobody batted an eyelid. Women here, it seems, don't want to emu- late the high-pressure antics of their trans-Atlantic sisters. The English lass is a tamer bird than her fine feathered friend in the United States, and she likes it that way. The comparison arose out of a productivity report by a British en team. Eleven engin- eers, all men, toured American in- dustrial plants and came back with a breathless picture of "ruthless" efficiency. One reason for soaring American production, the Britons said, in ef- fect, is the glossy, gadget-loving American wife. Modern, thrusting and aggressive, she goads her hus- band into working harder to pro- duce more goods, so that he can earn more money, and she can buy more gadgets. British newspapers received the report in stolid silence. The only reaction came from The Daily Mir- ror, which said the general idea is that the American woman wants to work as little as possible 'while her husband works: as hard as possible, Columnist James Carter, a bach- elor, noted that there are only 2,- 000,000 widowers in. the United States, compared with 6,000,000 women in widow's weeds. He blam- ed the husband's shorter life ex- pectancy on such things as instal- ment buying and ulcers. "Thanks," he said, "but I'll stay single." The British View Research by The Canadian Press indicated Britons generally agree that the American male is a hen- pecked husband who puts his little woman on a pedestal, whereas the English gentleman is less gentle; that the English wife usually thinks first of her husband and then of herself; and that if being less acquisitive means a little less in- Steril production, well, that's too Persons interviewed echoed North American columnists like Leland Stowe and Toronto's Morley Calla- ghan, who have written magazine articles assailing the American woman as restless, selfish and gen- erally inferior to her British and continental counterpart. The Italian woman, for instance, calls her man "mio ombro," im- plying that she lives in his shadow. Edith McKenna, London fashion editor, summed up the difference in the species this way: "The English woman likes her man because he is her man; the American woman likes her man for what he can get for her." Emily Hahn, American writer who now lives in Britain, agreed that the keeping-up-with - the- Joneses spirit seems less pronounc- ed here than at home. "I'm afraid we American women use too many things once and then throw them away," she said. "The English women are more thrifty, less spoiled, work harder, and I admire them for it." These were some other comments: Joseph Brayshaw, general secre- tary of Britain's Marriage Guidance Council: "Ten years of rationing have made us think more in terms of fair shares than in what we can get. There may be some truth in the saying that the way to avoid incompatability is for the, husband to have the income, the wife com- patability." Mrs. Hilary Marquand, wife of Britain's pensions minister: "I liv- ed several years in America, and I found American women astonish- ingly alive and vital. Sometimes, though, I found myself thinking what mad, pleasure-seeking crea- tures they were." Mrs, Katharine Cowan, National Council of Women: "The standard of homemaking is much higher in the United States. Canadians and Americans laugh at us when they see us down on our knees scrubbing floors, and it's true that we are a bit behind the times." A group of Canadians in Lon- don, arguing the point, decided that the differences between the two types spring from the countries which produced them -- younger, more aggressive America and older, more relaxed Britain -- and that there's a lot to be said for both. Bulky Greatcoats In Bold Appearance On Fashion Horizon New York--(AP) -- This winter North American women are going to be sitting around in their coats, because they are too beautiful to be hidden in a check room. Philip Mangone outdoes even his own distinguished record this sea- son with a collection of coats and suits of handsome fabrics and skil- ful cut. Most spectacular of the coats are in bulky imported fabrics, often two-faced, used in dashing great- coats of loose and ample cut, that look as if they were designed to be worn in a blizzard. One 'such is a dramatic coat of almost circular cut, in an imported double-woven fabric 'that it gray fleece on the outside, red-and-gray bold plaid inside. The coat is made with the plaid side out on the collar and on the huge buttonback double cuffs. Mangone also uses the season's pet doormat fabric for a number of great coats, and shows a series of town coats in dark woollens completely lined in nutria or mink. His suits accent the nipped waist- line and rounded hip that is typical of the new silhouette, Winding' up the crrowded week of fashion préviews was the show- ing of Cecile Chapman, famous for frothy dance dresses for the young- er set. This fall Miss Chapman goes all out for billowing skirts of nylon net topped by strapless bodices of taffeta or satin cut as low as the law allows and further spiced by petal effects about the bosom. For less formal wear she short strapless taffeta sheaths in ash blonde, black or white taffeta, draped to dramatize the figure, with cover-up boleros. TIPS FOR TEENS :- 'Shortie' Asks"Lanky Lou' to Dance ELINOR WILLIAMS I aril Difference in height is often a éoncern of date-minded high schoolers. Here's a letter from a girl who is invited to a dance by a boy shorter than she. "Dear Elinor: Recently I was asked to a dance. by a boy 1 like and who likes me very much, but he is at least three inches shorter than I am. I said yes, but now I am wondering if I did the right thing. Do you think I could dance with him without making him and myself look ridiculous? My shoes are as flat as I can get them. Please print this in the paper, as I feel sure that many girls are bothered the same as 1." Ans--Nothing can be done about a difference in height except to wear low heels and then forget it. You accepted the invitation, so now you must keep your word and go to the dance with this boy. After- ward, why not decide what you prefer to do in the future when you recelve similar invitations--wheth- er you'd. rather date a boy who is not as tall as you, have fun and "circulate" enough tc meet other boys and girls or refuse the date, stay home and miss the dance. My suggestion is -- Go to the dance and have fun. Forget his height. Telephones buzz more often for girls who date and who are seen dating than for girls who never go places with boys, Do this without appearing to "go steady" with the shorter bov, how- ever, so too-frequent dates with him won't prevent your having oppor- tunities for fun with other boys whom you might enjoy more and perhaps like better. This doesn't mean deceiving him, Simply date him on a friendly basis, have fun. but don't repeat your dates with him often enough to give the im- pression of "going steady." (For tips on the correct care of oily skin with blackheads or blem- ishes, send a stamped, self-address- ed erivelope to Elinor Williams at this paper for a reply.) likes |. Personals Azcounts of social evests and of visitors to and trom the city are appreciated by the Social t TELEPRONE 38 Miss Jean Cornett, Arthur Street, is holidaying at Stoney Lake. * + Pp Mr. and Mrs. Joseph McBride and son have been visiting Mr. and Mrs. Frank Way at Warkworth. > + * Mr. and Mrs. Charles Darling and Eleanor have returned from visiting Mr. Ezra Darling at Dartford. *» + > Mr. and Mrs. George Sanders, Simcoe Street South, spent the weekend visiting f0aiives in Fergus. * Mrs. Evelyn Bateman has as her guest, her aunt, Mrs. Elizabeth Paul Jenkins of St. Petersburg, Florida. * + Miss Lois Colton, Division Street, is vacationing at Grand Behd, On- tario, + * Mrs. C, Fox and Daryl of Moun- tain Grove have been spending a few days with relatives in Oshawa. * * * Mr. and Mrs. D. H. Cox of Moun- tain Grove visited friends in Osh- awa last week. 2 * + Pp Mrs. W. Cox and Miss Musa Cox of Peterborough are guests of Dr. and Mrs. R, E. Cox, Aberdeen Street. * + op Out-of-town guests at the Wilson- Smart wedding were Mr. C. H. Ben- nett, Windsor, Ontario, and Mr. H. N. Boyd, Simcoe. > + * Mrs. W. W. Dawn and Mrs. E. Dawn attended the Davidson-Dawn wedding at Heathcote, near Owen Sound, recently. * + + Miss Ann Wilson left Saturday for her home in Manilla after spend- ing the past week as the guest of Miss Olive Tamblyn, Centre Street. * + Miss Joyce Logeman has returned home after spending two weeks as a leader at the Crusaders Bible Club Camp, Lake Scugog. + + Mr. and Mrs. George Marton of Allan's Mills, near Belleville, have moved to Oshawa to make their home here. > + Mr. and Mrs. 4. Fleming and Mrs. + ndrew Thomson were recent visitors of Mr. and Mrs, William Thomson, Allan's Mills, Ontario. *> +b Mrs. Albert Smith, of Napanee, is visiting her daughter Mrs. Les Howard and Mr. Howard, Burk Street. * + + Mr. and Mrs. James Arnold and Mrs. Joseph Hungerford have re- turned from a trip to Algonquin Park and Quebe-. * + + . Mr. Edgar Dacre, of Arnside, Westmoreland, England, spent the week-end visiting Mr. and Mrs. Cy Elsey, Rosehill Boulevard, + + Miss Mildred McClimond, Buena Vista, and Mr. Horace Vetzal are visiting Mrs. O. Meredith at Lime- stone Lake. * + & Mr. and Mrs. T. L, Wilson and Miss Glenna Wilson have returned from a vacation in Detroit, Michi- gan. + + Mr. and Mrs. M. J. Werry, Col- borne Street East, have as a guest their daughter, Mrs. Walter Murray of Toronto. * + » Mr. and Mrs. John Clark, Rose- dale Avenue, had as recent guests, Mr. and Mrs, Martin McGee, of Saskatoon, Saskatchewan, and Mr. and Mrs, Norman Norton, of Ottawa. > + + Mrs. Ivan W, Parrott and daugh- ter, Jeanne, Oshawa Boulevard, is visiting her sister, Mrs. J, Cham- berlain and children at Lake Dal- rymple. * Pb @ Mrs, M. Ross of Aberdeen, Scotland, a passenger on the Fran- conia is visiting her brother, Mr. Kenneth McKay, Westmoreland Avenue, whom she has not seen for 32 years. * + +» Mr. and Mrs, Thomas J. Hood, of Toronto, were weekend guests of Mr. and Mrs. M. McIntyre Hood, Simcoe Street South, and of Mr. and Mrs. Kenneth Pentland, North Oshawa. * » * Mr, and Mrs. E, Corby, Peter, Mr. and Mrs. E. J. Brown and Miss Maureen Brown motored to London yesterday to visit friends. They also visited friends in Kitchener and Toronto. * +B . Mrs. David Morris and Miss Mil- dred Morris, Bruce Street, and Mrs. Walter Minaker and the Misses Beatrice and Marion Minaker, Royal Street, leave today for a vacation at Gull Lake. + * Ld Mr. and Mrs. E, M. Drinkle and daughter, Deanne, Nassau Street, are holidaying at the summer cot- tage of Mr. and Mrs. Perry, Lake Dalrymple. * @ * 'Mr. and Mrs. Mark G. Swanger, LaSalle Avenue, spent the week- end in Peterborough, the guests of Mrs Swanger's mother, Mrs. D. Custance, and Mr. Swanger's par- ents, Mr, and Mrs. W. J. Swanger. * + Out-of-town guests at the Hard- ing-Way wedding on Saturday were Mrs. M, Harding, Ottawa; Mr, and Mrs. Leo Way, Toronto; Miss Barb- ara Way, Miss Marelyn Way, Mr. Gordon Way, all of Picton; Mr. and Mrs, G. Stacey, Mr. Theodore Stacey, Miss Jean Ormiston, Mrs. I. Ormiston, all of Raglan. * Po Mrs, Robert G. Parish, Howard Street, was hostess on Saturday evening at a surprise party in honor of her brother, Mr. Stanley T. Lockey and his fiancee, Miss Nancy Wed In Double-Ring Ceremony MR. AND MRS. WILLIAM LLOYD HORNER , whose marriage was solemnized recently in Trinity United Church, Bowmanville. The bride, the former Miss Audrey Elizabeth Harness, is the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Laverne Harness, of Orono, and the bridegroom is the son of Mr. and Mrs. Lloyd TO WOMEN -~ omer. 5: Horner, of Oshawa. --Photo by Hornsby Studio. Older Women Make Better Baby Sitters Than Teen-Agers The Canadian Home Economics Association, which has been study- ing the baby-sitting sitmation across Canada, today called for less sitting time and more training for the teen-agers who look after children. The association, holding its an- nual convention here, also had a word for parents. It told them to seek older women through com- munity organizations, leave written instructions with sitters and don't let the girl sitters go home alone after dark. The association based its recom- mendations on results of question- aires sent parents in 60-cities and to 6,000 students in Grades 5 to 13, in | nine provinces. Some of the facts the association lec @p.: . 1. . age range of sitters is 11-19 years. 2. Students spend one to 40 hours weekly sitting. . 3. From 22 to 50 per cent of girl sitters are allowed to go home alone after dark. 4. Only one-third of parents leave instructions with sitter, 5. An average of 40 per cent leave only a phone number. 6. Some parents turn off the heat and the house gets cold. 7. Some parents do not lock the doors when they leave. The association decided that chil- dren under, 14 years should not be employed as sitters and one night a week is enough for the student. The last recommendation was that courses in child development which include guidance for the baby sitter, should be given in all schools and colleges of home economics. Miss Joan Conboy Showered ' Bride-to-Be MRS. CHAS. WHITE Correspondent Thornton's Corners, July 17 -- About forty ladies of the commun~ ity. gathered at the home of Mrs« Clarence Scott last Thursday even- ing to honor Miss Joan Conboy, bride-to-be of this month. When Miss Conboy entered the room she was escorted to a chair decorated in pink and turquoise crepe paper, over which hung confetti-filled bal- loons, which, when burst later showered her with. confetti. She was presented with a corsage of roses by Mrs. E. L. Pipher. A mock wedding took place which caused a lot of laughter due to the outland- ish costumes and the crazy cere- mony. 'The acting clergyman was Mrs. W. Schuermann. The bride was Mrs. Geordie Scott; her father, Mrs. Douglas Lander; bridesmaid, Mrs. Charles White; bridegroom, Mrs. Bert Blair; best man, Mrs. Walter Buss; little girl who carried the bride's train was Mrs. Fred Parry; Mrs, Parry also sang "The Prisoner's Song" after the ceremony. The wedding music was played by Mrs. Clarence Scott. After. the mock wedding little Lois Parker wheeled in a specially decorated doll's pram filled to over- flowing with gifts for the bride- elect. Miss Conboy was assisted in opening her gifts by Miss Marlene Mollon and Miss Verna Nicholls, Courtice. : High level of U.S. interest in news about the British princesses is partly responsible for revival of princess style rings, according to a New York designer. With marquise shapes in palladium and paved diamond settings, the rings are popular among younger women this season, takes place in the near future. The honored pair were presented with a May, of Toronto whose marriage portahle radio and end table. Social Notices $1.00 Marriage Announcements $1.00 ENGAGEMENT Mr. and Mrs. Albert Clark wish to announce the engagement of their daughter, Geraline Elaine, to Frank McCammond, son of Mr, and Mrs. George McCammond, all of Oshawa. The wedding is to take place the latter part of July. MARRIAGE Mrs. C. W. Ramsay, Oshawa, an- nounces the marriage of her daugh- ter, Jean, to Alexander Haig Little, son of Mr. and Mrs. J. F. Little, Campbellford. The wedding took place at Trinity College Chapel, Toronto, en Saturday, July 15, with the Rev. F. H. Cosgrave, DD. of- ficiating, 72-Year-Old Mother Starts Painting for Fun, Vancouver--(CP) -- Mary Clarke wanted to paint, and her years--72 of them -- proved no handicap for the white-haired mother of eight. Mrs. Clarke learnc" the funda- mentals of painting in a winter art course, taking one night a week to wield a brush. She said at first her attempts looked like the work of a four-year-old, but that it didn't matter because she got eremndous enjoyment out of it. Still youthful-looking, Mrs. Clarke sald she took up painting to keep her occupied. "With my children all either married or away on their own and my husband dead, I need a hobby to keep me busy," she ex- 'into a train. A beaded pearl head- In The Community Peter Wilson Weds Miss Helen Smart The marriage of Helen Smart, daughter of Mr. and Mrs, James Smart, and Peter Wilson, son of Mr. and Mrs, Frank Wilson, all of Oshawa, was solemnized on Satur- day afternoon at St. Andrew's United Church. . Baskets of lilies and mixed flow ers formed the setting for the ceremony performed by the Rev. George Telford. Mr, C. J. W. Taylor presided at the organ with Mrs. Lloyd Pegg as soloist. The bride, who was given in marriage by her father, was gowned in slipper satin. Buttons lent in- terest to the front of the bodice which was styled with a face fram- ing collar of lace, and long lace pointed sleeves. The full skirt fell dress held her long veil and she carried a bouquet of red roses and babies breath. Her jewellery was a double strand of pearls, the gift of the bridegroom. The maid-of-honor, Smart, sister of the bride, was in pink floral taffeta with matching headdress and gloves, and carried a bouquet of white and pink roses with babies breath. Mr, William Wilson, brother of the bridegroom, * performed was Mr. Ronald Jay. For the reception held at the Hungarian Hall, the bride's mother received wearing powder blue crepe and a corsage of red roses. The bridegroom's mother who assisted her, wore a printed silk dress with a corsage of white roses. For the wedding trip by motor to Haliburton, the bride was in pink flowered organza with white acces- sories. White roses comprised her corsage. - Mr. and Mrs. Wilson will reside in Oshawa. IODE Plans to Show Royal Carpet at 'Ex' Mrs, W. R. Walton Jr., Oakville, has been named chairman of the Queen Mary's carpet committee of the IODE which is arranging royal carpet displays and its itinerary across the Dominion. Assisting Mrs. Walton will be Mrs. A. K. Richard- son, Mrs. Ryland H. New, Mrs. D. W. McGibbon, Mrs. K, I. G. Drope, Mrs, R. M. Walkey, Dr Charlotte Whitton and Mrs. O. L. Robb. Messages of congratulations have been received by Mrs. John H. Chip- man, national president of the iO DE on the successful offer made by the order for the royal carpet upon which Queen Mary worked for. eight years and then gave as a per- sonal donation to Britain towards helping to solve the dollar situa- tion, The IODE has undertaken to raise $100,000 by a national campaign for funds to be launched in August. The carpet will be displayed at the CNE. Later it will be displayed in other cities. All proceeds from dis- plays will be forwarded to the Unit- ed Kingdom to help close the dollar gap and the IODE will fulfill Queen Mary's stipulation that the carpet will hang in a public place. ESCALLOPED HALIBUT Boil 1%21bs. halibut as usual. Re- move the skin and any bones. Flake the fish coarse. Combine with 2 c. rich white sauce seas¥ned with cel- ery salt and onion juice. Transfer to a well oiled qt. baking dish. Cover with 1 ¢, fine dry bread crumbs mixed with 3 tbsp. butter or margarine. Brown in a hot oven, 400 degrees F. If put together in advance "and chilled in the refrig- erator before browning, allow 30 min. . * + | Rich White Sauce: Melt 3 tbsp. | butter or margarine and stir in 3 thsp. flour, % tsp. pepper, }% tsp. celery salt and % tsp. onion juice. Gradually add 2 c. milk and bring to plained. a rapid boil. Then use as directed, BLACK our Greatest SALE of the vy : CANT AFFORD TO MISS! Watch For Our Ad In The - Daily Times-Gazette --on- WEDNESDAY! Ladies' Wear 72 SIMCOE N. ' PHONE 179 Miss Nan |: the duties of best man and the usher | ° Miss G. Schell Reg. N. Of Oshawa Hospital Has Interesting Job Oshawa friends are glad to hear from Miss Gwenyth Schell, Reg. N., that after completing a post gradu- ate course at Shaughnessy Military Hospital, Vancouver, in June, is spending four months aboard the cruiser ship Chilcotin as stewardess. La MISS GWENYTH SCHELL, R.N. LI I J The 8. 8. Chilcotin gives a 10-day cruise via the inside passage of the B.S. and Alaskan coasts to Skagwag. Deviations from the main steamer channel are taken to remote areas including'the White pass and Yukon route to White Horse and Dawson City. Miss Schell finds her work pleas- ant and interesting and the scenery beyond expectations and hopes to return home in late September for a holiday. Miss Schell is a daughter of Mr. and Mrs, George Schell, Ajax, and is a graduate of Oshawa General Hospital and spent, two years as nurse for United Church Board of Home Missions at R. W. Large Hos- pital at Bella Bella, B.C. Toronto Girl Named To The Royal Society Andrus of Toronto has been nam- ed as Associate of The Royal So- ciety of Great Britain. She is the first woman in Cana- da to earn this award for high pro- ficiency in color photography. Miss Andrus is vie-president of the Toronto Camera Club and at present is studying at the Univer- sity of Toronto. Honors, given for accomplishment in monocrome, are held by another Canadian woman -- Blossom Caron of Montreal. Toronto -- (CP) -- Miss Evelyn | | Miss Barbara Way, Fred. Harding Wed Barbara June Way, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Raymond M. Way, became the bride of Mr. Frederick Harding, son of Mrs, George Hard- ing and the late Mr. Harding, in a ceremony performed by the Rev. E. J. Robertson at The Sign of the Gate on Saturday afternoon. Bou- quets of summer flowers formed the setting and a musical background was supplied by recordings by Dick Liebert. : The bride was given*in marriage; | by her fath Her long sleeved, | ankle-length \gown was of white, © lace over English blush satin, and® | she wore a Juliet cap to match and: | il. Her necklace as a gift of the bride- d her flowers were red roses in a cascade. She was attended by Miss Dorothy - Braund wearing a gown of pink sheer patterned, with white nose-- gays, over pink taffeta. It was styled with a full skirt, ankle length and a round scalloped neck- line. She wore elbow-length mit- tens and a half bonnet to match, and carried light and dark pink carnations. The best man was Mr, Ronald Bone and Mr. Murray Stacey ush- ered the guests. | For the reception that followed | the bride's mother wore a pink silk jersey dress with white accessories and the: bridegroom's mother was in a flowered dress on a yellow background, with black and white | accessories. Also greeting the guests' | was Mrs, Idris Stacey. The honeymoon is being spent in the Haliburton district and for travelling the bride wore a dusty pink gabardine suit with white ac- cessories, Mr. and Mrs. Harding will make their home in Oshawa. A -- SUNNY FIREMAN Winnipeg--(CP)-- S. Pitman of Winnipeg stopped a fire here by Just standing still. 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