THURSDAY, JULY 21, 1949 THE DAILY TIMES-GAZETTE PAGE SEVEN [52 ~ OF INT BEAUTY FOR YOU Every Woman Should Act Her Age By REILEN Of what avail the external evi- dences of loveliness if one's friends drop away from one, if the members of the family give one the cold shoulder at times? That is what happens to the woman who has never grown up emotionally. In al- most every large family there is one of that type. She is far from hap- py and she makes others miserable. 8he is one of the world's worst bores. ! she has never outgrown the sel- fishness of her baby days. Then she, had to have the best toy when play- ing with her comrades. Now she has to have the tenderloin from the | steak, the smallest leaves from the lettuce, the best easy chair, and everybody carrying and fetching for her. Teacher knows what you are thinking, my friend. You have in mind just such a person and, no doubt, you consider her a pig of purest ray serene, Which she is. If she is frustrated in the slight. est way she has tantrums. She would like to roll on the floor, kick | and scream, as she did when she was a child. She sulks, lifts her voice in protest, tells you that fate and every human hand in her im- mediate world is raised against! her. She doesn't look pretty. She| has developed deep frowns between | her eyes. Her face carries an ex-| pression of petulance and self-pity. | This woman will never face her responsibilities. So everybody else has to carry on for her which, real- ly, is not fair business, since every adult should carry his or her load. She can never come to a decision. If you know such a woman and she asks you to make a decision for her, | don't do it. If anything goes wrong she'll fly at you in a fury and say | that it is your fault. Tell her it is all you can do to decide what vou | should do in managing your own| affairs. | If she can't have everything she| wants or everything the way she wants it, she either bawls or fights. The members of her family get so weary and bored they are likely to| do everything possible in the way of | JAMESON {1 Ja: Distributed by King Features Syndicate, The members of her family are likely to do everything in the way of appeasement, A LB BN J appeasement. That makes her be- havior even more trying, but can you blame them? If there isn't peace in the house, the house is not a haven or a home. Suggest that she be her age and she will tell you that she is as she is and she can't change. The truth is, of course, that she doesn't want to change. She has no desire to do for others as she expects others to do for her. She's all for getting, never giving. When the time comes for such a woman to be taken to her Maker, few tears will be shed. There will be sighs of relief instead. It has happened again and again. Youthful Redhead Top Executive For British Jet-Plane Company New York --(CP)-- 'Cynthia | Holloway, General Manager," is the | imposing title on the door. If you walked into her office in London | you would find a vivacious 27-year- | old redhead seated behind+ the desk. She is general manager of Power Jets, a British concern responsible for many war-time developments in! jet-propulsion and gas-turbine en-| gines. "1 was rather a dunce at mathe- matics and science in school and yet here I am with a job like this," she laughs. The "job like this" is one that re- quires her to travel all over the world, acting as liaison officer for her company, talking with engin- eers and urging co-operation be-| tween Britain and other countries developing gas-turbine engines. She | was interviewed the other day in New York. | | Quick Changer : SEW one dress! OWN two or more! That's the marvelous secret here. It's all done with button-on yokes or suntan straps! It's a whole wardrobe, Teener, for you. Pattern 4987 in 'l'een-age sizes 10, 12, i4, 16. Size 12 takes 2% yds. 35 inch: 1 yard contrast. 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Her husband, a water-transport engineer, helps with the cooking, marketing and housekeeping in their apartment in Chelsea. "He's really a better cook than I am," she acknowledges, "although I'm better at making soups." She is amused at people's reac tion in the United States when they find the general manager of Power Jets is a personable young woman. "They, expect to find a portly] gentleman along the line of Colonel Blimp, I guess," she smiles. "But men in England aren't surprised -- they got used to working with women in all sorts of jobs during the war." Mrs. Holloway finds her job too intensive to permit hobbies. "But I did make this hat -- the frame came from Paris and I sewed the ribbon on it." The hat was made| entirely of lavender ribbons and] she wore a pale lavender dress to match. "I'm afraid I'm just not the do- su mestic type -- I love my work too|: much," she said in mock sorrow. Isolated Children Have Book Service Melbourne, Australia -- (CP) -- A world-famous pianist is running a mobile library service for Austral- ian children living in "the outback." The pianist is Hepzibah Menuhin, sister of the celebrated violinist, Yehudi Menuhin, In private life, she is Mrs. Lindsay Nicholas, wife of a grazier at Terinallum, Pura Dura, in the western district of Victoria. ; Her travelling library is housed in a post-war model utility truck, in the back of which are wooden boxes arranged . as bookshelves. These contain over 1,000 children's books. The unit has travelled more than 2,300 miles in the last year, visiting small settlements, schools and farms in outlying areas and open- ing new worlds of color and ad- venture to lonely youngsters. Raising funds to start the library was the first job that Mrs. Nicholas and her helpers had to tackle. By holding dances in the wool shed at Terinallum and - asking business business firms to contribute, they raised enough money to buy the utility truck and to have boxes made for the books. Mrs. Nichplas sald it was decided to distribute the books "through bush 'schools, and teachers were asked to tell the children about the scheme. The children now look forward eagerly to "library day," once every 14 days. ployed will depend upon the kind not be neglected since the condi- | tithe, but rotate the pieces, using A Physician Advises You By HERMAN N. BUNDESEN, M.D. SINUS INFECTIONS UNLIKE colds which, for the most part, occur during the incle- ment months, sinus infections can develop at any time, of year. They do, of course, often come as an aftermath to colds, but, for those who swim, warm weather can offer as much of a hazard as winter in this regard. An acute infection of the sinuses should be treated just as is any other acute infection. The patient should be put at rest in bed in a well-ventilated room, and the air in the room should be kept moist. He should be given plenty of fluids and made comfortable with such drugs as the physician may pre- scribe, such as aspirin. Heat or Cold In acute sinus infection, the ap- plication of heat or cold over the affected area will often give relief from pain. If there is a great deal of congestion in the nose, nose drops, containing substances which shrink the lining membrane, may be used. Some acute sinus infections pro- duce fever. If the fever continues, the physician will decide whether or not to use such preparations as the sulfonamides, penicillin, or strep- tomycin. The substance to be em- of germs producing the infection. It would appear that these prepara- tions do not have a great deal of benefit when used locally. - In other words, the sulfonamides are given by mouth, and the penicillin by in- jection into a muscle. The same is true of the streptomycin. Most physicians, as a rule, do not start active treatment of the sinus infection until the patient no longer has fever. Increase Drainage The treatment used helps to in- crease the drainage from the nose without injuring the nasal tissues. It may include the use of nose drops followed by the application of heat over the affected area. Afterwards, | gentle suction may be employed to stimulate drainage. Washing out the sinuses is not done very often. If such washing is done, it must be carefully carried out by an expert because of certain dangers connected with it, such as damage to the tissues, injury to blood vessels, and excessive bleed- ing. An acute sinus infection should i tion may then befome chronic and | serve as a source of trouble for a period of years. QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS M.S... My sister put a sharp ob- ject into. her boy's ear to remove | some wok. The ear bled a little and now he complains of earache when- ever he presses his ear with his hand. Did she haym the ear in any way? Answer: It is likely that some damage has occurred to the exter- nal ear canal. An examination by an ear specialist should be carried out to determine just what hap- pened. It is possible that there is some infection present. Treatment will be necessary to eliminate the difficulty. Of course, sharp objects should not be used in the ear canal. M. W.: My husband and I both have poor vision. What chances would our children have of having normal vision? Answer: I know of no evidence | Use your sterling silver all the | different pieces at each meal. Newest In Crochet A new idea! Centre section of this doily is fine cotton, border of pineapples is string. Use two colors or two tones of one! Heavy cotton combined with fine speeds up crochet, Pattern 7081 has crochet directions. Our improved pattern -- visual with easy-to-see charts and pho- tos and complete directions mases needlework easy. 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An ex-| perienced corsetiere is a grand find, should be sought when one fares fort to shop. She will know the figure type requirements. Prop- | er fitting is of the utmost import- ance, in a garment constructed of fabric, or fabric and elastic, while a small- er size may be required in a gar- ment with more stretch. Naturally the customer does not know about these matters. Being neatly harnessed is an in- spiration to maintain good posture.|a bra A foundation will below the equator, * as a pancake, legs straight, parallel, to learn. | | man to assume a slouchy attitude. | When a brassiere is too tight, the | that provides and that where the average middle-aged fig- | lows perfect freedom of movement. | ure does not qualify, especially if a| Whether a woman will choose to woman has got into the habit of | wear a girdle and bra or an all-in- | noon garden party is a dress of expecting no work to be done by|one is a matter of personal prefer- crinkled organdie in white with a her spinal column, when she lets ence. But it is well to consult with print of big loose flower bouquets, her shoulders slump, her abdomen | an experienced corsetiere. Iced Tea on the Terrace This young lady has the answer to hot weather days--iced tea. 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"Isn't it awful?" must be fated." Tuesday Titbits Gene Tierney leaves here the day after she finishes "Whirlpool" and sails for England this week. She'll make "Night and the City," in which she plays a bad woman. Ah, these superstitious Irishmen. I watched while Spencer Tracy did the last scene of "Adam's Rib." He wouldn't say the last line in re- hearsal, Claimed it's bad luck. Joan Crawford is the gal most mentioned to play in "Newspaper- woman," if and when it reaches the screen. That's the current book by Agness Underwood, city Editor of the Los Angeles Herald and Ex- press. Short Takes she greed. "I WHAT SHOULD 1 Dear Mrs. Beeckman: Please tell me just what is high tea. for a bride-to-be. To this kind of party do the guests take gifts with them, or is just one present given by the hostess? And what does a woman guest wear? AK. There are two differences between high tea and the usual tea: (1) high tea is served at a later hour, at six or half-past six instead of half-past four or five o'clock; and (2) at a high tea more food is serv- ed and it is of a more substantial ngture than the usual tea-menu. However, the high tea menu is not substantial as a buffet menu, Very often at a high tea the tea-menu is served with the addition of the always-popular chicken salad or in mid-summer fruit salad, or any other kind of salad. Or sometimes the menu features substantial- sandwiches rather than the small, simple, sandwiches serv- ed at tea; for example, open sand- wiches of turkey or chicken or smok- ed turkey; guava -jelly and cream cheese; or chopped olives and cream cheese; or tiny codfish balls, or grilled cocktail sausages, on tooth- picks, or grilled sardines on toast. Then cakes and cookies are served, with or without ,ice cream; and coffee with perhaps an alterna- tive of a cold drink. I shouldn't think the giving of a high tea for a bride-to-be would mean that the guests would take gifts, any more than they woul A Roll-Up Sun Mat That's Easy to Make Van Johnson, Peter Lawford and Robert Walker vie for Deborah Kerr | in "Please Believe Me." Van gets | the girls, . . . Shirley Temple hears reports of | a "Bachelor and the Bobbysoxer" | to be made in France. "But I'm | ders held with ease, abdomen flat and Winter. Popular for late Sum- feet | mer That is not a hard lesson| with touches of velvet. ; i and white silk print, a two-piecer The properly-fitted brassiere also! has its jacket top made with the serves a purpose in promoting good | small collar of black velvet, also A woman may need one size posture. A too-loose garment, with | used for an inlay on the turnback ! its lack of support, may lead a wo-| cuffs and for buttons, | wearer cannot give rein to natural ite freedom of carriage, with constric-| been so ample as now. Designed for tions preventing her from doing so. | the girl who really goes into the The happy medium, of course, is| water is a fitted one-piece model comfortable | in pale blue elasticized satin. provide support | support, without binding muscles or has'a well-shaped bra top and in- is | bones at any point, and which al-| set, shirred panels in front. | | i even not sure I could stay away from Linda Susan that long," she says. . . Fashion F lashes WATCH OUT for velvet this Fall wear are silks and cottons A black VACATIONERS will find a wide variety of swim suits at their favor- store, for stocks have never It 3 ', » + JUST PERFECT for an after- with - a bright green velvet sash catching up the leaf tones. Deep neckline is marked by a draped cuff ccllar and short sleeves have turn- back cuffs. * + % LOOKING AHEAD to Autumn, we note that the well-handled day- time frock of lightweight woolen in lovely colorings is going to be more important than ever. Hand blocked worsted in poppy rose and neon blue on black in an un- plaid design is used for a handsome dress with softly round- ed shoulders, wide tunnel collar and slim skirt with slanting, tabbed pockets, all adding up to a carefully worked out casual approach, go THE ORDER BOOKS of the ma- jority of store buyers show a marked partiality for the fur-lined topper, often with matching skirt to add up to a versatile and use- ful costume. Squirrel and mole- skin, the latter dyed in various lovely colors, join the popular Am- erican broadtail and muskrat lin- ings. To clean the blades of an elec- deal of sticky grease and dirt, add a little ammonia to soapy water and wash, HOT WATER LOTS OF IT! lis Glasteel Deluxe lege tric Water Heater an you'll always have hot water for every house- bold need. © Completely automatic © Glass-Lined tank ® Fiberglas insulated © Dual thermostats © Economical MODELS FROM 99:0 BUDGET TERMS You'll get a lifetime of hot water service at low cost. SEE US Install the In COLVIN ELECTRIC 339 SIMCOE 8. PHONE 1092 triz fan, which accumulate a great |' You don't have to live near the beach to have a lovely golden tan your friends will envy! You can acquire one in lazy luxury in your own back yard or terrace if you have a comfortable beach roll to stretch out on, Here are simple directions, from the Woman's Home Companion, for making a roll-up sun mat, This is what you need: one long strip of plain denim and one of striped, 25 yards long; an extra yard for box- ing strips to go down the sides; six rolls of quilt wadding for stuffing; 21; yards of cototn tape for braided ties. This is what you do. Get every- thing together before starting. The trick is to put two long pieces to=~ gether with boxing strips on side, wadding stitched in. You do this by cutting enough 3-inch-wide boxing strips to piece together two side strips 2% yards long; pin together, baste sides of fabric with these strips, wrong sides out. Stitch seams on machine, wrong sides out, leaving twelve inches open at middle of one long side to use as stuffing vent; then seam two open ends of the sun mat. Turn work right side out, seam again % inch in from edge to make boxed seam. Fold wadding into six pads the width of beach roll and 12 inches the other way; flatten and stuff first one through opening vent. Push bat firmly to one end, anchor with pins, stitch across roll. Con- tinue to set in place, one by one, stitching each bat. Work alternately towards ends, then set last bat in middle at vent and sew up opening. For ease in carrying, braid three 215-inch strips of strong cotton tape and sew to beach roll 8 inches from one end. Then roll up mattress and tie braided tape around it. DO ABOUT Attending A High Tea? By MRS, CORNELIUS BEECEMAN take gifts to a tea given in hone of a bride-to-be. A woman guest wears to a high tea the type of dress she would wear to a tea, a street-length aftérnoon dress or dressy suit. Most unusual procedure: Bridegroom's Friend to Give Bachelor Dinner Dear Mrs. Beeckman: A friend of mine is giving a bachelor dinner soon fot a prospec- tive bridegroom. (1) He would like to know if it would be proper to in- vite the friends and relatives of the bridegroom to a hotel for the party. (2) Would a dinner be appropriate, or should just drinks be served? (3) He would also like to know about the invitations. How should they te worded? And should they be handwritten, or would it be correct to type them? , RM, (1) Traditionally the procedure is that the bridegroom himself gives snd pays for his bachelor dinner, but if your friend takes this over (which is most unusual) and so as- sumes the expense, he will have to make his plans to fit his pocket- book. To his bachelor dinner, the bridegroom invites his best man and ushers, and perhaps several of his other intimate friends and as- sociates, and your friend who is giving the party would of course in- vite the best man and ushers and as many other of the bridegroom's intimate friends as he wishes. The bridegroom's friend who is giving* the dinner may give it in his on home, or at a club or in a private room of a hotel. (2) Since the name of this is "the bachelor dinner," the guests would expect that they were being invited to a dinner, not to a cocktail party. If your friend now feels (as I very much suspect, because of the word- ing of your questions and also be- ceuse of the fact that today some bridegrooms are too inclined to "hint" to one of their attendants (usually the poor, gullible best man!) or one of their friends that it is the responsibility of the best man or the friend to give the bachelor dinner) that he has been "pressed into financial service' rather unwillingly on his part, I suggest that he let the bridegroom take over the expenses of the bachelor dinner, which are rightly his, anyway, and perhaps give a cocktail party for the bridegroom and his attendants. (3) The invitations to such small party as the bachelor dinner usually. is, are usually given by word-of-mouth, perhaps by tele- phone or by telegraph to those who live at a distance. a Planning a Party? Fresh Killed TURKEYS Milk Fed ROASTING CHICKENS BROILERS BOILING FOWL R.LITZ Poultry Station 117 BLOOR ST. E. PHONE 4394 West MEAG ELECTRICAL 92 SIMCOE ST. N. 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