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THE OSHAWA DAILY TIMES, WEDNESDAY, OCTOBER 2, 1940 , Gordon and Pte. Donald Kimmerley of Camp Borden spent lhe week-end at their home on Annis street. ® + @ Miss Marion Burns is in Toronto attending the Provincial Convention of the W.C.T.U. held at Trinity United Church, October 1-4. * + ¢ Mrs. Mark Turner, Mrs. James Didfield and Mrs, Fred Wilson serv- od refreshments to the artists fol- lowing the First Baptist Harvest Home concert on Monday. * % 9 Mr. and Mrs. Wesley Gray of Belleville were guests yesterday at the home of Mr. and Mrs. Frank Vice, Gladstone Avenue, following their marriage at White's Church, Bayside. $$ + 9 Dr. and Mrs. F. L. Harrison of Kingston are in Oshawa today. Dr. Harrison, who is on the faculty of Queen's University, is addressing the annual meeting of the Ontario Music Teachers' Association. > + » Mr. Ben Morewood of Toronto was the guest of Mr. and Mrs. Ira Gil- lette on Sunday. He took services at Northminster Church in the ab- sence of Rev. W. Millson who was preaching in St. Catharines. * + + Miss Olive Ziegler, of Toronto, editor of the "Missionary Monthly" is to be guest speaker at the meet- Ing today of the Elizabeth Long Mission Circle. While in the city Miss Ziegler will be the guest of Mrs. W. Colwill, Burke Street. *> > 9» Mrs. H. White, Burk street, en- tertained Mrs. L. Ferguson's and Mrs. H. Hagerman"s group of King Street W.M.S. After the devotional period a violin solo was given by Ro- bert White and Robert Pankhurst sang. Mrs. R. J. Fursey gave a talk on her trip to Western Canada. MISSION GROUP STUDIES "GIVING" The Thankoffering meeting of the Alice Jackson Evening Auxili- ary of King Street Church, was held last evening in the church parlors. Miss Marjorie Blewett presided. Devotions were followed by the business period during which Mrs. F. A. Davidson and Mrs. D. Myers were appointed delegates to- the sectional rally in Columbus on October 9. The group led by Mrs. O. Orr took charge of the meeting. Mrs. A. Scott read a story "Miss Mor- gan's Quarter"; Marion Nicholls played two piano solos. A sketch on Christian stewardship was given by Miss Birdie Fallis, with a num- per of 'the girls assisting. It told what various amounts of money will do in Mission work. This was fol- jowed by a reading by Gladys Oke and a plano duet by Mrs. H. Brown and Mrs. M. Moffat. Mrs. J. V. McNeely brought an interesting message on "Stewardship". The worship service closed the meeting and its theme was "Thanksgiving and Praise" Mrs. H. Brown read the call to worship and Miss Muriel Oke told a story on "Prayer." After the benediction lunch was served, tet NEW MEMBER FOR CLUB willing Workers Club of Bethel Gospel Church met at the home of Jean Dingman for missionary night. Kay Crouter was in charge of the worship service. Jean Ding- man opened with prayer. We sang the theme song, "Don't Get Blue". The girls sang a few choruses fol- lowed by a sword drill by Kay Crouter. Sheila Couver was then made a member, Mrs, C. Lainson closed the session with prayer. The zest of the evening was spent with business. SOCIAL NOTICES Engagement, Marriage and Receiving Notices, 50c Results of Draws, 10c a line. Announcements or postpone ments of meetings, 10ca line. Accounts of weddings printed free of charge. MARRIAGE Mr. and Mrs. W. H. R. Roughley announce the marriage of their daughter, Edith Louise, to Mr. F. Bruce Anderson, son of Mr. and Mrs J. G. Anderson, on August 17, at College Street United Church, Toronto. ENGAGEMENTS Mr. and Mrs. H. Arthur Twiiley announce the engagement of their eldest daughter Margaret Elizabeth, to Mr. Harold McDermott Beamish, son of Mr. and Mrs, J. H. Beamish, Oshawa. The engagement is announced of Madeline, daughter of Mr. Thomas Reynard and the late Mrs. Réynard, Toronto, Ontario, to Mr. Duncan Bowman, sori of Mr. and Mrs. M. Bowman of Oshawa, the wedding to take place on Saturday, October 26, at 4 o'clock, in Knox Presby-1 terian Church, Oshawa. By GRACE THORNCLIFFE Dress for dinner now that Aut- umn is here with its formality and fashion. Dashing and smart is this trim dinner dress of navy blue vel- veteen made with a simple cami- sole top bodice and a fully flared skirt. It is topped by a jacket that extends just below the hips. The jacket is of dull French blue velveteen with encrustations of navy velvet and simulated jewel embroidery down the front, around the neck, at the hem and around the flap pockets. ETIQUETTE By Alice Barber Clubs, Committees, Executive | Meetings . . . war's work amongst women goes on, and every Canadian woman wants a share in it! And yet | some of them hold back because | they are not sure just how to con- | duct themselves . . . they don't know Just what to say or do at a meet- ing, they are afraid to hold office, and they aren't sel-fconfident about meeting people, or making stugges- tions, Meeting people isn't as terri- fying as you think, When you realize that the other person is probably scared too. Remember to say, "How do you do," and not- "Pleased t» meet you," and to bow rather than shaking hands. Try to catch the name, and don't be embarrassed about asking to have it repeated. Try to relax, be ready and willing to act on suggestions, and listen to everyone's ideas, and people will go away saying "What a nice woman that Mrs. Jones is!" At meetings ad- dress the chair as "Madam presi- dent" and rise while speaking. Speak clearly, and face the room. Don't interrupt when another has the floor. Don't despise anyone's sug- gestions, but try to point out flaws tactfully. If asked to serve on a com- mittee be cheerful about it, and don't be afraid to admit ignorance. Everyone likes to help other people a little. > + @ Mrs. McK., Nanaimo, B.C., wants to form a group of her neighbors into a knitting club, and would like to know how to do it. Should she name herself president? What other officers should she have? Should they have refreshments at the meetings? Who should bear the cost? What should they do about dues? Gather the group at your home, Mrs. McK., and get them to elect a president, a secretary and a treas- urer. The secretary writes all letters, and takes notes at the meetings; the treasurer collects the dues, and the president plans meetings and work. The dues should be collected by the treasurer at each meeting and should be as small as possible. The meetings could be held at the differ- ent members' homes, and tea could be served. Ten cents from each per- son could be collected and given 'o the hostess to pay for the tea. * + » Miss P.C., Amherst, N.S, has a list of questions. "When is it correct to shake hands?" she asks. "When saying goodbye to a person you have just met, do you say, 'I am pleased to have met you." "When a boy takes you to the pictures or any place, should you thank him?" "What would you say?" "What do you say when a boy thanks you for a dance?" As a matter of form, a lady very seldom shakes hands, She may offer her hand to a younger person, or to a person she wants to honor. She seldom offers her hand first to an older person, or to a man, and a man never offers his first, but waits for the lady. When saying good-bye, you may say, "It was nice to have met you," or "I'm so glad to have met you." By all means thank your escort, and say simply, "Thanks very much, I have had a lovely time." Whew a boy thanks you for a dance, say, "I enjoyed it, too." * kb f Mrs. BK., New Westminster, B.C., wants to know whether when writ- ing to a newly widow#i friend, she should address her as%"Mrs. Mary Jones," or as "Mrs. Johh Jones." Address her as Mrs. John Jones. This is the correct form at any time, W.C.T.U. Convening In Toronto Church Toronto.--That the Federal Gov- ernment is sympathetic to the idea of some reasonable form of wartime restriction on the liquor traffic and would welcome an expression of public opinion, and that it is the duty of those interested in the pro- motion of temperance to use their influence in arousing public senti- ment, were opinions expressed by Rev. Dr. E. 8. Bishop, president of the Ontario Temperance Federation, in addressing the sixty-third an- nual convention of the Ontario W.C. T.U. in Trinity United Church, on Tuesday. Mrs. John Wright of Brantford presided at the meeting. Reports claimed progress of temperance work in most parts of the Province. "The doors of our hearts as well as our homes must be open to the stranger in our - midst," declared Mrs. G. A. Throop, Peterboro, in reporging Travellers' Aid. Miss Lot- tie Harris, a Toronto district worker, spoke of the work undertaken re- cently in connection with evacuees Mrs. O. Rosebrough, Galt, reported on moral education, health and her- edity, also mothers' meetings. Mrs J. O. Rowe, Peterboro, siressed the need of more temperance education among the very young in giving her report on Little White Ribboners. A "gratifying" amount of cloth- ing and literature sent to various Indian Reserves and the mission at Labrador was reported by Mrs, T. H. Greenaway, Hamilton. Work among prisoners was reported on by Mrs, W. M. Livingston, Brockville, who feared that "a wet canteen in every camp will lead many young men into drinking habits." Others re- porting were: Miss 8. M. Wegenast, Waterloo, stewardship; Miss Marion Burns, Oshawa, flower mission: Mrs. A. Patterson, London, non-al- coholic fruit products; Mrs. R. M Seymour, Cataragui, clip sheets; Mrs. L. E. Abbott, Hamilton, outpost members. The summer training school had an enrolment of fifty- one and will be repeated next year, sald Mrs. Wright, Dean of the school, with which Mrs. E. D. Craw, | Seaforth, and Mrs. A. K. Cressman, Waterloo, had given valuable assist- | ance, TODAY'S MENU By BETSY NEWMAN Roast veal must be well done to be palatable. If well cooked and | Helen } You Counted the Cost?" TOPR. 1938, HOUSEHOLD ARTS, INC. Rug in Three Colors Crocheted Entirely in Easy Shell Stitch ®ATTERN 6521 Shell stitch, four strands in three colors--a crochet that's all it takes to crochet this lovely rug. It's done in 5 easy-to- handle pieces. Pattern 6521 contain of string hook-- YOUNG PEOPLE HEAR MR. FRANK DANZEY The Bethel Gospel Young Peo- ple's meeting was in charge executive, with Verna Brant acting as chairman, The meeting opened with a hymn and prayer by Ivy Lainson. The hymn, "What a Friend We Have In Jesus", was sung. The husiness was conducted by the acting pr lent, and two minutes' silent prayer was observ- ed for this country and those serv. ing on land, sea, under the sea and in the air. Ruth Claus closed this cession of silence with prayer. The choruses, Work 'and Wat "I'd Rather W were sung. Sharpe er the Fare". Mrs. er. Mr. Stanley Parker "let Jesus Lead, He ¥ | Way". The speaker, Mr. Frank Danzey, gave a message from Jc Three If's of Mary- and Martha" when talking to Christ about their brother, Lazarus. The hymn, "Have and prayer by Mr. Parker closed the meeting. seasoned it is a delicately flavored | meat, good hot or cold, served sliced | or in salad. It is often substituted for chicken in chicken salad. Today's Menu Roast Veal Potatoes Baked with Meat French Fried Eggplant Celery | Pickles Ginger Cookies Grapes Coffee or Tea * + + Roast Veal Round, rib, rolled shoulder or rump roast veal, Salt, 2 or 3 slices bacon, If you want rather a large roast, take the veal round, as it iz meaty and slices well. The shoulder or rump roasts are rolled. ' Wipe meat with damp cloth, dredge with flour, salt and pepper, and put in roaster; sprinkle with dried sage, add an onion or two to the roaster, if you like the flavor. Lay 2 or 3 slices of bacon on top of | roast and put in hot oven (350 | degrees F.), uncovered, for 30 min- | utes, then reduce heat to 300 and roast until tender, allowing at least 2 hour for each pound of meat, | Potatoes may be roasted with the | meat or separately, as you please. | When ready to serve, pour off all fat in roaster but 2 tablespoons, add | 2 tablespoons flour, mix smooth off the fire, then add 1 or more cups hot water, slowly, mixing smooth, put on fire and cook until thick, taste' and add more seasoning if needed. The bacon may be served around the meat. > + French Fried Eggplant 1 eggplant, 1% cup butermilk, 1% cup flour, © Fat for deep frying. Cut off sides of eggplant so tha the center is square, then slice about three-quarters inch thick, cutting slices so the pleces wiil be square, Dip in buttermilk, roll in flour and fry in deep fat until gold- | en brown and tender. Sprinkle with | salt and serve immediately. Serves | about four. + * Ginger Cookies 1 cup lard, 1% cups brown sugar, 1 cup molasses, 2 teaspoons ginger, 1 level teaspoon salt, 1 cup boiling water, 2 teaspoons soda, About 6 cups flour. Cream lard, add sugar gradually and cream well, then add molasses, | then soda in the boiling water. Let | stand for a few moments and then | add flour, some of which has been | sifted with ginger and salt. About | 6 cups of flour will be needed, but add a little at a time until you have a Soft dough that you can handle, Cut out and bake at 350° F, and she should be addressed this way until she decided what she wants to call herself. AMONG THE LATEST STYLES | Yes, it comes to fashion! For this Anne | Adams frock, Pattern 4577, proves that even youngsters may be style leaders. It's made in simple panelled lines that take a Jiffy to cut and stitch with a really smart note in the fullness concentrated at the back. 'This is done either with waistline darts or with a sash that ties in a bow, drawing the fullness together, The sleeves are short puffs or long and full. Make a neat col- lar in self-fabric or in crisp con- trast, perhaps with ruffie trim. Sew gay ribbon bows or buttons down the front--or use bright bands of ric-rac across the bodice. bloomers included. in the pattern are perforated to meXke panties. Pattern 4577 is available in chil- dren's sizes 2, 4,.6, 8 and 10. Size 6 takes 2 yards 35 inch fabric and % yard contrast. Send TWENTY CENTS: in coin to The Oshawa Daily Times to obtain this pattern : of the | n 11, "The | "it's a small world"--when | The | instructions for making rug; illus- trations of it and stitches; mater- ials needed; color schemes. | Send TWENTY CENTS in coin {to The Oshawa Daily Times to ob- | tain this pattern. | Women's Meetings | PMA. CLUB The PM.A. Club met at the Sal- vation Army Hall and opened the meeting with a hymn and prayer. Mrs. W. Collins read the Scripture from Acts 3 and gave another read- irg. It was decided that only those | attending six meetings from now until December will be elegible to vote then, Tea was served after the benediction. EVER READY BIBLE CLASS Mrs. George Bull presided at the meeting of Class at Simcoe Street United Church yesterday in the absence of Mrs. A. E. Murdoch through illness. Five dollars was voted from the class funds to the Win-the-War Cam- paign. It was decided to purchase quilting frames for the use of the class, Rev. A. D. Cornett gave an ad- dress on the subject "Being Ready for an Emergency." Mrs. Bull gave | & reading and a contest on names of Oshawa streets was conducted. Mrs. L. S. Bigwood's group served lunch and the meeting closed with prayer. Varied Program Marks End of Harvest Keeping an annual custom, the Ladies' Aid of First Baptist Church sponsored a harvest home contest on Monday evening. The auditor- ium was nicely decorated with flow- ers and farm and garden produce. Mrs, Arthur Howard Sr., Mrs. John Darcy and Mrs. G. V. Crofoot were in charge of the following program: Vocal solos, Helen Hurst, "Spring- time" by Schubert; "The River"; re- citation, Mrs. R. Godfrey "The Deacon's Wife"; violin selection, Mr.. Mitchell Glecoff,. "Berceuse", from Jocelyn by Goddard and "Souvenir" by Dldla; vocal, Mrs, J. Stuart, "Harvest" and "Somewhere a Voice Is Calling" by Tate; tenor | solos, Leslie Thompson, "Drink to Me Only," by Arne and "Dear Lord of Home" by Sibeluis; piano solo, Mrs. J. H. Wilkins, "Moment Musi- cale" by Schubert; piano-accordian solo, Mrs. R. Godfrey, "There'll Al- | wavs be an England"; vocal solo, | Rev. G. V. Crofoot, "Land of Hope and Glory"; readings, Evelyn Pear- son, "You Tackle It", and "The Quiet Heart." | The Stars Say -- By GENEVIEVE KEMBLE Despite some very excellent pros- peels and promises for success and | accomplishment there may be sev- eral difficult situations and tena- cious obstacles to cope with, judg- ing by the conflicting force of im- portant planets. Matters seem to be | imbued with forces pulling two ways and vigorously, with expansive and ambitious projects hampered and restricted by stubborn opposition, limitation and selfish interests. But | under shrewd and sagaclous effort and with the support and sympathy | of those in power there may be bril- | llant achievements. Those whose birthday it is may encounter a year in which really great attainments and brilliant suc- cess may have to be wrested from a set of contradictory and thwart- ing influences. While there are expansive and ambitious objectives in sight yet there are tenacious Ob- stacles, perhaps delays and sinister antagonism to cone with, But un- der shrewd manipulation and with the assured co-operation of those in prestige and influence. there should be ultimate victory, together with much personal gratification. A child born on this day will have many talents and abilities for van- auishing onpocing forces. He should show creative ability, originality and bravery, combined with sagacity, shrewdness and much subtlety. Radio is being used on a large bridge at New York to control the operation of vehicles equipped with receiving sets, the Ever Ready Bible | CALL FOR LOCAL WOMEN FOR WAR ACTIVITY An open invitation to the public. especially to women who may be interested in "doing their bit" in war or local volunteer service work and who have not yet found an op- portunity to do so, was extended to- day by the Oshawa Red Cross So- clety and the Women's Welfare League. Mrs. E. V. Lander, president of the Women's Welfare League, issued the invitation for her club ,and pointed out that Mrs. Lois Norman was in charge of the work at Sim- coe Hall, headquarters of the league The Times, while speaking to Mrs. Norman, received a clear pic- ture of the activities at Simcoe Hall when Mrs. Norman asked to be ex- cused for a minute. She returned to the 'phone with the explanation that "you see, we have 50 children here this morning, and it's a little hard to hear over the phone .. ." The children, of pre-school age, ar- rive at the League cenrire any time after 8:30 in the morning, and enjoy the privileges of the playground, tion. issued the invitation on behalf of the Red Cross. She pointed out that the "doors are always open" at the local headquarters on 52 Simcoe street north, the former address of the Eaton Groceteria. TORONTO MAYOR WELCOMES O.E.S. Toronto--Jewels flashed on the gleaming white and rich-hued gowns of women guests, candles glowed on the flower-decked banquet tables, music mingled with happy chatter and an atmosphere of good-fellow- ship pervaded the ballroom of the Royal York Hotel Tuesday evening when more than 1,000 men and wo- men gathered for the Silver Jubilee dinner of the Grand Chapter, Order of the Eastern Star of Ontario, con- vening in Toronto. "I have been in this room on A | great many occasions, but I think I have never had the opportunity to speak to a larger or more rep- resentative audience of men and women, coming from all parts of the Province, as they do," said his Worship, Mayor Ralph C. Day, in extending civic welcome. "It is not necessary for me to remind each that it is in comparatively few countries that such a gathering as this is possible at present," he said. "We should appreciate more thau ! ever the truly great privilege we en- joy in Canada, and realize too, that freedom has a cost." Greenwood (May E. Brown, Correspondent) GREENWOOD, Eept. 30.--Quite a number attended the | services at Kinsale | morning and evening. last Sunday | The Women's Missionary Soclety | Mrs. E. J. Bale, secretary of the | college? Oshawa executive of the Red Cross, | Who collected and studied the -in- anniversary | | | will meet at the parsonage on | Thursday afternoon, October 3, at [ 2:00 o'clock, when the Baby Band | and' their mothers will be guests Mrs. Walter Stevenson's group will be in charge of the programme. Rev. R. W. McVey was at Dun- | barton last Sunday while Rev. | Howle was taking the anniversary | services at Kinsale. Archie Davis has started filling | silos. The light frost last week | ripened the corn, Next Sunday morning at Sunday | school the Township Temperance superintendent, R. V. Mowbray, will address the school. Mrs. Ham and children. of Osh- awa, spent the week-end with Mr. and Mrs. John Middleton Mr. and Mrs. Frank Walls moved last Wednesday to Mr. Carson's house where Mr. Walls has a po- sition. Their many friends will miss them in the village. All wish them every success in thelr new home. Rev. M. Jenkinson, of Pickering. will take the church service next Sunday morning at 11:15 o'clock. Thursday morning and The Women's Association dinner to about sixty. Almonds ALMONDS, Sept. 30.--Miss Kayes of Oshawa was Sunday visitor with Miss Welyn Hall, The anniversary concert on Mon- day evening was greatly enjoyed by all and there was a good attend- ance, A duet was sung by Mr. and Mrs. G. Mitchell of Whitby; solos by Miss Marjorie McGregor; a vio- lin selection by Mrs. Robert Shef- field, Oshawa; accompanist, Mrs. V. Rowe; readings by Rev. Clifford Park; and two series of moving pictures on the Royal Tour and ac- tivities of the Ontario Ladies' Col- lege, to these and all other num- bers were highly appreciated, as were also the refreshments. The evenings proceeds were, twenty dollars. Revort of Sunday Services appears elsewhere in this issue. The sympathy of the comunity is extended to Dr, and Mrs. McQuay and family in the suden passing of their son, "Only time can heal the break." served Be Parent Problem®, $y GARRY C. MYERS. Ph.D. | Not all who go to college are grown up. Some are infunts still. Some are not far from the crib, over-dependent on their parents, emotionally unweaned. Some of those unweaned college students will have a hard time of it. A few will suffer so from homesickness that they will return to Pop and Mom. The reason given may be "lll health." And this will pe the true reason--mental ill health. An adult can't have good mental health and still be a baby. Of the thousands of youths who for the first time enter college this fall, there will be a wide variety in terms of self-reliance at one ex- treme and emotional dependence on the other. If one were to rate them on a scale, one would find them ranging from one extreme to the other with the bulk between, of course. How would you rate your son or daughter on this scale? In case you are the youth, how would you rate yourself? Here are some questions which nursing, medical and dental inspec- | might: aid in such a rating: Who first decided that you should go to Who chose the college? formation about this college first? Who first wrote the college? Who planned, prepared and pur- chased your clothes and equipment for college? In this respect did your parents do for you anything. you could have done for yourself?. Who packed the trunk and got it off to the station? Who ascertained the bus or train schedule? Who bought the ticket? Who checked the bag- gage? If you went by automobile, who studied the route, checked on the oil, gas, tires? . When you arrived at college, did you wire, telephone, write home for things you forgot and left behind? Who looked after paying: yotir.'en- trance and tuition fees? Board? Have you a budget? Have you a bank account in your own name? Or must you write home for money every time you feel the need of it? When you do write for money ia the purpose you state always the true purpose? When you write home to you present your experiences in true light or play for pity and sympa- thy? Suppose someone were to read your letters home or the let- ters of your parents to you, would they, if they <id not know 'the facts, suppose these were letters from one adult to ancther? Ch My fellow parent of the young child: Please begin now to educate him to be ready for college or else- where away from home .as ga grown-up self-reliant person; with good habits of responsibility, ready to look after himself and make good, Personal Problems By ANNE THOMSON "I don't care," says Anne, aged seventeen, "if I'm not asked to the dance. I'd rather stay home, any- way." But she does care, and so does her mother, who is bewildered because her girl seems to be left out, and other girls are invited everywhere. Perhaps it is mother's fault, a little, too. It doesn't do to be too emphatic about what a girl should wear, in the first place. Re- | member, when your mother laughed because you wanted to put pads in your hair, or wear a hobble skirt, or use a little bit of face powder? Suppose your daughter does want to look like everyone else . . , her hair o her shoulders, saddle shoes, a "sloppy hoe" sweater, and a bow on top of her head. If you make her dress the way you think she should, and the other girls laugh, you will make her self conscious. Also, better to let her have a com- pact, and put a bit of powder on her nose, and better to buy her a pale rose-colored lipstick, than have ker different from the rest, if it makes her unhappy. If she still doesn't seem to click, can you per=- suade her to invite little groups in to her house . .. to form a small club for "war-work", or to get in- terested in a church or school group and really work at it. Always have cocoa and biscuits on hand, and make her friends welcome, and if she is popular with the girls, in time she will also make the grade with their brothers. * + + Jane B., Bracebridge, Ont., comes to us for advice. "I am {fifteen years old, and I have just started to | go out with boys a little, I go with | a slightly older crowd of girls and | they keep telling me not to be too | enthusiastic, not to seem too eager | The Oshawa Presbytery met in Flea and he seems to be miss- the Greenwood United Church last | ing so much fun. afterncon. | and won't go to dances, or cut to | for dates, and to let the boys do the chasing. Well, I can't help being enthusiastic, and I like dates. Why don't boys like girls who show a little pleasure in their company? I don't want to go steady, or "catch" a boy, I just want to enjoy my- self." If I were you, I would go ahead and enjoy yourself. Put yourself in a boy's place. Does he want to take out a girl who seems half bored in his company, and doesn't show any bright side? Be as enthusiastic as you please, if that is natural to you, and you will get farther than if you would try to hold yourself down and be stilted. » +d Mrs. G. B. is worried about her son. He spends all his time alone or with two other boys. He is He reads a lot, parties at all. How can I break him of his shyness?" Don't try to force him. If you can't get him to go out, see if you can persuade him to have a small party at home, and if he refuses, just let him alone. Many boys don't become interested in a social life until they are much older than eighteen. ZR I Eleanor K. Moose Jaw, Sask. is twenty years old. "I have been go- ing with two boys, one of whom is working, and the other not. The one who is working wants to marry me, but he is older . . . about twenty- eight, and he likes to spend every cent he makes. He is fairly gen- erous to me, but I am afraid he doesn't save much. The other boy is quieter, and is twenty-two, . He hasn't got a job, but he does odd jobs, and helps at home, and I'like him" better. He also gives me things, but they aren't expensive gifts. What shall I do?" If there is any doubt, Eleanor, I would say wait a few years and.see. When he right man comes along, I don't think you will find there 'will be any doub tin your mind .. . However, of the two, the one who is younger seems beter, since when a | man is 28 his habits are pretty well | formed, and if he spends all his money now, there is no reason to think he will be more provident after you were married. PLAN SUPPER Knox Women's Association plan- ned its annual November turkey supper when the members met yes- terday. Mrs, J. L. Beaton presided and Mrs. W. Young read the'strip- ture, ; Wife Preservers,... 1 8-13 A rubbing of liquid wax on the window eills will give them some protection against stains, rain and dust during the "wide-open" season of summer. When in Need of Drugs Call FOWELL'S DRUG STORE 35 Simcoe St. North Phones 1360 - 2259 PROMPT DELIVERY Save the pleces! broken lenses, Let broken frames. Bassctts JEWELLERS On Oshawa's Main Corner We replace us repair WHEN IN TORONTO VISIT THE St. Renin "08 HOTEL | Sherbourne St. at . 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