a _-- ee Wiest seta Mr. Alex Smykaluk, presi- dent of the Oshawa Lions Club, assists Miss Vera Siblock, president of the Hu- moresque Club to cut the Humoresque Club Of The Blind Celebrates 15th The Humoresque Club of the Blind celebrated its 15th annual birthday party last Thursday. The meeting was opened with the club song followed by the reading of the verse for the blind. Miss Vera Siblock presid- ed, The evening was turned over to the social convener Mrs. Murray Chute. Guests from the Advisory Board and the Lians' Club. were present. Entertainment was provided by the First Baptist Quartet: Mr. Kenneth Smart, Mr. Larry Gannon, Mr. Wilbert Merrithew, Mr, William Smart singing "It's Me, O Lord" and "Living for Jesus", accompanied by John McQuirk, pianist. Mr. and + & birthday cake at the 15th an- nual birthday party. The Lions Club is the sponsor of the Humoresque Club. --Oshawa Times Photo Birthday God Dips His Love in My Heart". Mr. Jack Stewart sang a solo with Mrs. Stewart ac- companying on the piano. Piano solos were given by John Mc- Quirk and Miss Pamela Chute, 11 years old. Elocutionist, Mrs. Clayton Lee gave several read- ings. 'Birthday gifts were present- ed to Miss Patricia McConnell and Mr. Charles Brown. The lucky draw was won. by Mrs. Charles Brown, Miss Grace Ste- vens and Mrs. John McQuirk. Mrs. Jack Stewart played the piano while Mr. Jack Stewart led in a sing-song. Refreshments Mr.jwere served by the Lionettes, Mrs. Jack Anderson and Mrs. Mrs. Jack Stewart sang "When!Edwin Wellman. DISTAFF DIARY Summary of reports of meetings and activities of Oshawa women's organiaztions as compiled from reports submitted by their secretaries 6A HOME LEAGUE The regular meeting of the Salvation Army Home League opened with the favorite choruses being sung, led 'by Mrs, Frank Buller. Mrs. Wil- liam James read two letters from missionaries in Africa. Mrs. George Hester, Sr., gave an interesting talk on the formation of the Salvation Army Crest. Mrs. Major Fred Lewis sang a. solo, "We are Marching On." The fellowship group served tea. ST. PAUL'S CPTA The monthly meeting of St. Paul's Catholic Parent-Teach- ers was held Monday evening. Mrs. Berand Jones, convener for the social bingo to be held soon in St. Mary's Auditorium, reported .the progress of the committees. As was discussed at a previ- ous meeting Mrs. Edward Flegal introduced two young students wearing sample uni- forms and the members were urged to give their opinions of them. Mrs. Flegal's committee was going to follow through with a further report at a further meeting. : Mr. Robert Ireland, the prin- cipal, spoke briefly to the par- ents 'on the importance of the following few months for the students to keep up with their studies and the parents to keep up with their co-operation also. Mrs. R, Maloney introduced guest speaker Constable Wil- liam Tane of the Oshawa Police Department Traffic Divi- sion who gave an interesting talk on safety patrol and edu- cation and how important it was for each parent to be responsi- blie forhis child's safety by being sure he knew his safety rules and remembered them at Il times. "The social hour was held under the direction of Mrs. Wil- liam Gardner, assisted by Mrs. Sidney Mummery and Mrs. Gerald Kasbeck, Grade 2 mothers. BETA SIGMA PHI The fegular bi-monthly meet- ing of Gamma Epsilon chapter of Beta Sigma Phi was held re- cently at the home of Mrs. Murray Fraser, Durham street. The program for the evening éntitled '"'Nature's. Landscape"' was prepared and presented by Mrs. Thomas Platts. Mrs. Platts described her favorite beauty spot in Ontario and ask- ed each member present to de- scribe their beauty spot. Each member descriped vividly some described with few exceptions could be found in Ontario. Mrs. Barry Hooper, social convener, is planning a theatre party in February at whic! time memders will attend Osh- awa Little Theatre presenta- tion of "Twelve Angry Men." The next meeting of the chapter will be held at the home of Mrs. Percy Bradley, 49 Grassmere street on Janu- ary 26. SIMCOE STREET UCW The regular meeting of Sim- coe Street United Church Women's Good wil] Unit was held Thursday with the presi- dent, Mrs. Everett Warne, pre- siding. Mrs. Herbert Wurbs read the annual report of the activities for 1964. It was decided to. continue with the same executive for 1965. Members were asked for items of food towards the sup- per to be held following the February 11. It was announced that Mrs. John Dyer and her committee would be in charge of the February meeting. Miss Phyllis Glass, accom- panied by Mrs. Ann Potter, sang "Lord, For Tomorrow and Its Need I Do Not Pray." Mrs. Frank Ross introduced the Reverend Helmuth Dyck, who spoke on "Our Christian Faith." Refreshments were served by the executive in charge. ST. PHILIP'S The St Philip's Catholic Women's League met Wednes- day evening with 20 members present. Mrs. Harry Gowanlock opened the meeting with the league prayer. A letter of thanks was read from the Reverend M. A. Beri- ault, also a letter from the CWL. Plans were discussed for a bake sale in the near future and a social bingo on February 11. Refreshments were served to bring the evening to a close. Presbyterian UCW meeting of 4, Entertains With By ELEANOR ROSS Does a woman have to be a veteran homemaker before she ican give a formal dinner party without suffering headaches and heartaches? Does the newly - married hostess have to learn how to entertain at home via the cas- ual approach before graduating to the formal? The answer to both queries is ar unqualified no. Empire Crafts, which con- cerns itself with our marvellous American-made china and sil- ver, has some very definite ideas on the matter. It insists that wise planning takes care of 'everything. © Its home entertaining bureau advises you to think ahead, or- ganize your steps and, beyond all do not undertake anything beyond your capacity or means. All of which is pertinent and |well-proven advice. Spluring is not the answer to a successful dinner party, But, with a formal dinner party there should be no compromise, no halfway measures. Tradition which was once so important, is again a factor. INVENTORY MADE So the young hostess takes stock of her table from silver to salt cellars. (The stores re- port that china and 'silver are today's most important wed- ding gifts so we know that to- day's young hostess is aware of the tren¢ back to tradition, and wants to entertain with ele- gance.) She knows her guests will ap- preciate the graciousness of candlelight, fine linen, china, silver and crystal at a table formally set. Can she cook? Well, nearly every young woman has one main dish she prepares well, so she builds around this. She makes use of the best in convenience foods and learns to give these processed or pre- pared items individual touches. She takes paper and pencil and gets te work on her plans. She wisely keeps her first dinner party small and she mails invitations to her guests about twc weeks in advance with an RSVP request. Phone 'Organization' Woman Ease calls are in order if the ac- ceptances or regrets have not been forthcoming. As for the menu, it should be small, choice and uncluttered, concentrating on one or two ex- cellent dishes well prepared and beautifully served. It isn't a feast or a banquet, just a bride's first real dinner party. If the best dish, the chef d'oeuvre, is chicken, then she builds around that. BOUND TO PLEASE If our bride has managed to conquer roast beef, remember there's hardly anyone who does not appreciate a cut of prime beef, well prepared. The thing for our bride to do until she is experienced is to stay away from new recipes. Try them on hubby, not on guests! Using her menu as guide, she should check off all items in stock, then make up the mar- keting lisi. Then comes the table setting. She writes down everything re- quired--linens, china, silver glassware, small appointments, centerpiece. Then she checks her. inven- tory list and shops for any necessary fill-ins, especially the proper serving and carving tools. The bride might as well start right at the very first dinner party. She should select the best, because good china and silver are lifetime investments. TRAFFIC PATTERN The party "traffic" must be studied and planned. Where will guests enjoy preprandial pota- bles and nibbles? Will the ap- petizer be served at the dining table -- preferred at a formal dinner--or will it be served with the drinks? She should plan too, where the party will move at the conclusion of the meal. CASUAL ELEGANCE A unique pattern, with vertical stripes and a geo- metrical band, is the design used for this casually ele- gant after-five dress. It is a perfect choice to take on a cruise or to wear for cock- Seconds Saved THE OSHAWA TIMES, Tuesday, February 2,1965 ]] Provide Time, For New Projects By ROBERTA ROESCH As promised in another col- umn, I'm back with pointers on beating the clock in answer to readers who ask: "How -is it possible to get started on new projects and op- portunities when time is such ANN LANDERS SET THE DEADLINES She has an excellent position Start setting up time limits|and makes a beautiful i and deadlines for 'getting|Sister has always been close to started on the new projects or|mother and lived in mother's opportunities in which you'd| house. like to involve yourself. Then,| Five years ago mother broke ished. Sister and mother moved into As you set up timetables,|an apartment. Two years ago however, break up your big/sister began to criticize us bit- deadline into a series of little|terly because we have not con- ones. Then use available min-|tributed to mother's support. utes to meet the It{le deadlines|She says she cannot work for- instead of worrying about. the|ever and now she must begin big one. In this way, you'll|to put something away for the make progress as you go, and|future. (She is only 53.) you won't bog down on a big} Ann, all of us have children opportunity because you feel|to think about. Sister has only you don't have the total time/herself. Is it our fault that she it will take. chose the single life? None of As you move toward Gead-jus is rich and college these lines, learn to work rapidly on|days costs a fortune. We all big jobs as well as little onas--|jhave children to put through. and especially on the little ones} We can't change our standard that you can do by "rote." of living just because sister has One woman I know, for ex-|suddenly decided to abandon ample, who accomplishes ajher responsibility. Please say great deal this way, literally;we are right. We need your runs around the beds while she|help.--Up Against. It makes them, just to get done) pear Up: Where did you get in "jig" time. the idea that your mother is At the same time you speediyqur sister's responsibility? Tae eer samo, ae ee and the care of your home Your sister has carried the n ; load without complaining all while you continue to keep hey F ma ae »»|these years. So that means she Home"' looking like 'Home. should die in harness? For instance, you'll find that 4 some of today's lovely artificial) YoU four ingrates should now share all the expenses for your greens look almost as nice as - fresh flowers in your rooms,|™0ther's keep and relieve your sister from here on in. She's And when you fill your house The sleeveless frock is made in pastel shades of Tycora yarn with glittering gold threads interspersed in the knit. A tasseled self belt and a deep V-neckline are other details. Unmarried Daughter Carrying The Load after you get going, give your-jher hip and couldn't take the the self a deadline for getting fin-|stairs, so she sold her home. ficial a fleeting thing?" : . In satition ta pointers we've Baro rage Ayia Sih thee oe ae ee already given, here are severallare five children in the family.| Ca more to tack up right beside/Four of us are married and|--wis 4 your clock so you'll beat Father|have families of our own. Our]; Know Time. middle sister never married.| Dear pages -- bp Big Our pastor who feels about this decided to thing about it. He ha lors shear ll" Semone coun! asks, "How are you?" them the following. printed sage: "You ask me how I a I will tell you, My in and my tonsils epiglottis is working my sinuses are clear. is o.k., my feet are free of b ions and my heart is bea' with regular rhythm. My is saved by Jesus Christ an am His property. If you further information please let me know. And will you also let me know what you plan to do with this information?" . Clever, eh?-<A Friend Dear Friend: Not very. As a matter of fact I think it's pretty revolting. I suggest your pastor save his little cards until someone asks him specifically about his ap- penidx, his tonsils, his sinuses and his bunions. Until then, "Fine, thank you," should do rg aS» Fesdbe ¢ : eee B2ee TeeS; Betty tail parties around town. --By Tracy Adrian It all sounds rather forbid- ding, but really, if everything, every possible contingency is thought out and planned for, there's no reason why that first dinner party should not be a de- light for guest, host -- and for the young hostess. CHILD GUIDANCE By GARRY C. MYERS, Ph.D. To this day I often feel self- conscious as I talk in the pres- ence of certain types of persons who seem to speak very com- fortably and effectively. I can recall times in my _ earlier years, especially in my early teens, when I suffered great fear while trying to express my- self. This occurred especially in the presence of certain persons I think who were aware of my poor expression. I can also re- member when I was uncom- fortable as I spoke in class at school and in various other groups. However, I am glad to report that I feel sure I have improved, thanks to consider- able effort over the years. In some earlier articles of this column I discussed the problem of discomfort many children have when they speak in the grades and high school, or in the home and elsewhere. In some of these articles I re- ported a few of the hundreds of remarks about this matter from children in the grades, junior and senior high school, and col- lege students. A TROUBLED CHILD Recently, I received the fol- lowing letter. It was signed, but gave no address, so I could not answer it personally. "Dear Dr. Myers: I have trouble speaking before my class. I am in the sixth grade. I just can't talk to my teacher and parents about this. They think I am stubborn and dumb. My sister recites poems and gets parts in plays but I don't or could not talk if I did. I like to read and learn things My. parents said, 'She is not smart like her sister but we love her too.' I -have tried to do something about this but I am getting worse all the time." FEELS INFERIOR Just imagine yourself in this child's place. She sees how well her sister does in reciting poems at school and in doing parts in plays. She observes all the applause this sister gets and then imagines how poorly she expresses herself, feeling so in- ferior. Then on top of all this suffering, she heard her par- ents say of her, "She is not smart like her sister." And then the touching remark, "I have tried to do something about it but I am getting worse all the time." If this girl could "have under- standing teachers and parents, schoolmates and pals and an older sister who appreciated her plight, she might gradually WIFE PRESERVER place she felt was unique, beau- tiful and some even awe inspir- Lose an earring? Sew the one ing. Mrs. Neil MacLean thank-|that's left to your favorite suit d the speaker tiog of the fact that all places and made men-jor dress and wear it as a 'brooch, ' |parents about, this." Perhaps nei _ever regain hope and self - regard and come to speak at school or elsewhere comfortably and at- tractively. But she says, 'I can't talk to my teacher and sup- posed this girl felt she couldn't. Chances are that neither her teacher nor parents ever for a moment imagined themselves in this girl's place. How then could they know of her need- less suffering? How could they help her? How is the child go- ing. to be able to help herself? Your heart and mine go out to Cathy. How I wish I might talk Speaking Carefully Helps Child's Self-Expression to her, her teachers and par- ents. HELPFUL SUGGESTIONS To any child, youth or adult who happen to be reading this let me suggest: When you wish to make a re- mark to another person alone or in any formal or informal group, decide first exactly what you are going to say. Then try to make yourself say just that and nothing more. For some while don't try to say much. The shorter what you wish to say is, the more surely you will be able to say it. When you memorize some- thing to say, as at an assembly program, choose something very short. You can master longer selections later. Be slow and easy. Never hurry. Take a good comfortable breath before beginning. BE GOOD LISTENER When among others who seem to speak glibly don't think you have to say much. Be a good listener. Time may come when what you want to say will just say itself. To parents and teachers of the child who "'uhs' and "ahs" and '"'ands" and seems to be speaking uncomfortably, be a poised, appreciative listener. The way you breathe, look, and act then can help this child more than you have ever sup- RARE HONOR POWELL RIVER, B.C. (CP) Coreen Mitchell, 23, has been THE STARS SAY By ESTRELLITA with them you also save your- self the minutes you'd lose in the care of fresh flowers. hours. done her part--and then some. sound like a dumb question, but Similarly, both at home and|I need an answer. on\the job develop the kind of} When a fellow dances with a sh s that ultimately save|very lovely and refined young liminate jobs that you/lady for the first time how nicely. Slipped Dise Pains Nervous Headaches Dear Ann Landers: This may FOR TOMORROW Planetary influences will be extremely generous toward cre- ative and intellectual pursuits on Wednesday; also favor tra- vel, outdoor interests and per- sonal relationships. Make the most of a good day! FOR THE BIRTHDAY If tomorrow is your birthday, your horoscope indicates that, while you may be faced with some financial problems off and on during the next year, you can easily solve them if you emphasize your inherent good judgment and sense of realism. Do not allow worry or pesimism to interfere with your efforts to get ahead. Some good "breaks" in late April, mid- May and August should give you a@ lift, and the knowledge that you and all other Aquar- ians will enter an unusually fine planetary cycle along monetary lines in late Novem- ber should help you to keep striving. Farly May and mid-Septem- ber promise some unusual rec- ognition for past occupational efforts--especially if your work requires creative skill and- or organizing ability. 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