( Milton Canadian Champion | Thursday, November 1 insidehalton.com a ~#%> DR. ELAYNE TANNER Registered Social Worker Counselling & Psychotherapy Milton 905-854-0801 www. DrEloyneTanner.com Q: My child seems reluctant fo go to school and complains of stomach aches. After the recent tragedy where that young boy was killed in front of his mother, | am afraid that my son is being bullied. What can | do? A: Its ght. Bullying is mbalance of power nds as it you may be r aggressive, inte hal behaviour repeated over ime that involves ar r strenath in be pt such as hit ng, emc honal! like taunting, teas ng or spreading rumors either In persor or on-line, active such as stealing the vichn possessions, of passive as in ignoring or leaving out the other ndividual Victims tend to be passive and submissive and are ofter auhious, sensitive, quiet withdrawn or shy. Sometimes they are apxious and insecure with low self-esteem Bullies on the other hand, are often of dominant personal ty, impulsive, easily angered and have litle empathy. They can be defiant and aggressive to adults, including parents and-teachers, and often have antisocial behaviours with rule breaking. Both boys and girls can be bullies Contrary to what was believed in the past, it is now recognized that bullies do not have self-esteem problens. This realization has shattered many myths and altered the way we work with bullies, in the way that instead of trying to build the confidence of a bully, which results in reinforcing their bullying behaviour, we must teach empathy and build a comprehensive response that includes teachers, parents, school staff and all students. When other kids observe bullying they take sides and support the bully r the victim. When no one takes responsibility to: stop the bullying it becomes more to bé concerned if our child is being bullied, but also 2 now new and effective approaches to bullying. It you are concerned that your child is being bullied or is a bully, lets begin to develop a comprehensive and effective approach before the problems get totally out of hand "HELPING YOU HELP YOURSELF" Elayne Tanner Sociol Work Professional Corporation DR. RON STROHAN OPTOMETRIST WAKEFIELD PROFESSIONAL CENTRE 106 WAKEFIELD RD MILTON, ONTARIO + L9T 218 PHONE: 905-878-5882 WWWMILTONEYEANDVISIONCARE.COM Dr. Ron Strohan Optometrist If I had known the effects of the internet and technology. ( Your Smart phone won't help you here) The aftermath of beliefs based on self-researched eye care concerns. It seem' only 40 percent of people have regular eye exams. Some people-are oblivious to the actual necessities of vision clanty to dnve. Many exclaim "I see just fine" vet do not see well enough to dnve. At least 20/50 evesight is the minimum acuity to dnve. The Ministry of Transport is allowing SELF determination to obtain your license! At what cost?" Your safety! YET COMMUNICATION WITH THI MINISTRY SEEMS TO GO UNHEARD allowing it to continue Some people are scared to have an eye examination because they might need eye wear to dnve, may have their license revoked, or fear that a heath issue might be discovered Some people ask how much an eye examination costs thinking-its for the determination of the possible prescription for eye wear, when it's really to ensure optimal eye health The various parts of an eye examination determine I- Optical properties and focusing mechanisms of the eye > Rx 2- Sensory measurements and muscle coordination, as they direct your body in your environment, assist your ability to survive and effect life style acuvity 3- Neurological assessments of nerve pathways in the brain. The visual process involves more than 40 percént of your brains function and pass from the eyes at the front, to the Visual Cortex at the back of the bgun. A Threshold Visual Analysis is required toassess that. Specialized equipment is used to determine peripheral vision. d term the test, "finding out what you do not see 4- Optical Coherent Topography. Imaging of the internal of the eye with a Infra Red Laser to see microscopic detail of the interior structures and other structures of the eye Most tissues are transparent to the naked eye. Hidden changes are only viewable with special instrumentation S- Tear Analysis and Lid Gland Function by Meibography A special infra red imaging of the inner glands of the eye lid. Poor function leads to dry eye, and poor visibility Looking at the internet to determine what you need will likely cause further issues. As well as thinking that an eye drop ofl the shell 1s the night treatment worth to you" WILL THEY LAST YOUR LIFETIME? Your Smart phone won't help you her So what are your cy In fact people are developing both visual and are continuously looking down Proudly Serving Milton Since 1979 back problems from Smart phone use, since your eyes Ask the PROFESSIONALS -- towne h ~ Dr. Mark Cross 905 876 | 38 an ne Dr. Tony Wan B.Sc, D.D.S. aly rin! B.Sc, D.DS. Www iow ng Are electric toothbrushes actually a better choice than manual ones? Fir il When electric may be better } tly and require Ask the PROFESSIONALS advertorial section is growing. This is an exclusive feature (Only one advertiser per category) To advertise, contact your Canadian Champion, Sales representative 905-878-2341 ify Eee ART Ce SOMETHING TO SMILE ABOUT He a lec. Vanessa Briguglio photo Milton Tim Hortons owners present representatives of the Milton District Hospital Foundation with a cheque for $30,829 from their Smile Cookie Milton. Campaign. This marks the largest amount raised from the campaign ever in B WHAT'S ON The Milton Choristers will be performing George Frideric Han- del's "Messiah" at the FirstOntario Centre for the Arts Milton on Nov. 30. "Messiah" continues to be the most popular masterwork for choirs and orchestras to*perform at Christmas or Easter. The Milton Choristers is a four- part community choir that has en- tertained audiences in Halton Re- gion for more than 50 years. It has approximately 60 members who perform three concerts annually under the direction of Rachel Cle- land and accompanied by collabo- rative pianist, Susan Edmonds. Denise Cooperwhite photo | Led by artistic director Rachel Cleland, the Milton Choristers will perform Handel's Messiah at the FirstOntario Centre Milton for the Arts Nov. 30. MILTON CHORISTERS TO PERFORM HANDEL'S MESSIAH The performance will feature members of the Milton Philhar- monic Orchestra and soloists Adriana Verdonk (soprano), Su- san Black (mezzo-soprano), Jason Hales (tenor) and Michael Robert- Border (baritone). The choir performs frequently at the Milton District Hospital, lo- cal senior residences and nursing homes to bring music to those who may be unable to attend its con- certs. Tickets are $25, seniors 65+ are $20 and youth aged four to 17 are $5. Tickets are available at miltoncho- risters.com or at the First Ontario Centre for the Arts box office.