Many old friends and relatives gathered to honor them at the home‘ of their sonâ€"D‘Arcy in Uxbridge on Sunday. Retired, after a busy life Congratulatory messages were received by the couple from Queen Elizabeth, Prime Minister Lester Pearson and Mayor Donald Russell, as well as many from friends and relatives near and far. Married 60 years ago in Mount! Albert near Uxbridge where they< lived for all but the last four and | a half years of their marriage, Mr. i and Mrs. Kirton have two sons,: D‘Arey in Uxbridge and Doug, Port Rowen; two daughters, Doris, | H. Darnborough, New Toronto, nine grandchildren and six great grandchildren. Mrs. Art Sheldrick and May, Mrs. Mr. and Mrs. Robert Kirton of 42 Emerald Crescent, New Toronto celebrated their Diamond Wedding Anniversary on March 14, when friends and neighbours dropped in to wish them z:upineu. 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Ice fishermen can be penalized for dumping garbage on lakes, the Department of Lands and Forests warns, Sally Scott Says: Local 60 â€" 61 â€" 62 Wait A While Before Stepping Into Marriage (10 year Hydro Guarantee) . 2594265 (No Installation Cost) Net Per Month NO DUMPING Installed Photo by Stan Windrim =| Children Topic M | "of ormsa I love my husb:nd‘very much. I‘d do anything.in my power to change him. Please help me. I think you are living with a very disturbed and irrational man. Dear R.M What to serve for dinner'vhenlu'p, you haven‘t shopped yet, or plans are changed at the last minâ€"|extra guests appear? The answer When he gets home, his supper is on the table. After his meal, he goes into the bedroom, and that is his day. If any of us have to go into the bedroom for anything, he shouts: "Get out: don‘t bother me." I‘ve been married for five years, and have two darling children. But my husband is growing away from me. He treats me like a maid, nothing more. You are young, so take your time. It‘s a big step. If it is the right step, waiting a while won‘t spoil things. If it is the wrong step, you will be mighty glad you waited. Best of luck. . Sally Scott. Dear Sally Dear "In Love": If your parents have given you fair and logical reasons for waitâ€" ing, by all means accept their sugâ€" gestions. Real love grows with passing time. So if you wait a little longer, you won‘t harm your love. Hot & Hearty Salmon Sandwiches The 35 millimeter filmstrip may be obtained by writing Consumer Information, Dow Chemical of Canada, 600 University Avenue, Toronto, Ontario. with a man of 23. He loves me and wants to marry me right away. I know he would be very good to me. We have been going together for over a year now. My parents want us to wait a, while, owing What vegetables are suitable for deep freezing? What types of seaâ€" food? Fowl? Pastry ? to my age. Wh’(do you think, Sally ? In Love. To ‘answer these questions Dow Chemical has prepared a 69â€"Frame full eolor educational filmstrip that is available on loan, without charge, to all interested groups. . Accompanied by a printed narâ€" ration guide, FOCUS ON HOME FREEZING is a 14â€"minuteâ€"long pictorial guidebook that discusses the foods to select for freezing along with their preparation and wrapping. The film also shows how to prepare quick meals from your freezer. > Such wellâ€"known personalities as The Honorable Judy LaMarsh, The Secretary of State, R. S. K. Welch, M.P.P. Lincoln Riding and Dr. 8. R. Laycock will be on hand to bring challenging and thought provoking messages to all in attedâ€" to bring challenging and provoking messages to all ance. ’M :1. ‘l\-.:h-o: "The Chalâ€" ‘hnhh- on stich subjects as: higher academic qualifications for teachers, nd‘uh’“«miudu and water pollution will be presentâ€" ed to the Annual Meeting. Proâ€" grams on such vital subjects as: "Training Elementary School Teachers for the 70‘s" â€" The New Morality" . "Indians in Ontaric" and many others will give every delegate a greater knowledge in the welfare and education of‘ children and youth. Homemakers‘ Deep Freeze Film Strip The annual Convention of the Ontario Federation of Home & School Associations is to be held in Toronto at the Inn on the Park, Annual Meeting He sounds to me to be desparately I A doctor can advise you the best in need of psychiatric care. You|way to handle him. I do hope this owe it to yourself and the children |will help you and him. to get help for him as quickly as | Sally Scott. possible. , * * * â€" Get in touch with a doctor or a psychiatrist and enWkt his help beâ€" fore mentioning it to your husband. "Season of mists and mellow fruitfulness, Close bosomâ€" friend of the maturing sun, Conspiring with him how to load and bless With fruit the vines that round the thatchâ€"eves run. . .." 5 "Does the road wind upâ€"hill all the way? Yes, to the very end. Will the day‘s journey take the whole long day ? From morn to night, my friend. .. ." There‘s a lilt and a swing to some of Rudyard Kipling‘s verse but he‘s not really a poetâ€"he‘s a great storyâ€"teller. A little of Rupert Brooke goes a long way for me, probably because he‘s been overâ€"sold and overâ€"quoted and because his simple brand of patriotism is a menace today. Tennyson, ‘Wordsworth, Shelley and John Donne are all good poets, but not among my favourites. Poetry has to be a personal choice and for me, it must speak to the heart. I must be able to quicken emotionally to a poem, it must echo my own thoughts and experiences, in greater language than I can command. ‘The poems I love are like old friends; I come to them grateâ€" fully again and again. ‘ "Fear death?â€"to feel the fog in my throat, ‘ The mist in my face, | When the snows begin, and the blasts denote I am nearing the place . . . . I was ever a fighter, soâ€"one fight more. The best and the last! I would hat that death bandaged my eyes and forbore And bade me creep past . . . .", or _ "Ah love, let us be true to one anoth&ï¬ To one another! for the world, which seems 1 To lie before us like a land of dreams, | So various, so beautiful, so new, 4 Hath really neither joy, nor love, nor light, Nor certitude, nor peace, nor help for pain ; And we are here, as a darkling plain â€" Swept with confused alarms of struggle and flight, ‘ Where ignorant armies clash by night." There are some wonderful bits in the Bible and Shakeâ€" speare: "Remember now thy Creator in the days of thy youth, While the evid days"come not, nor the years draw nigh, When thou shalt say, I have no pleaseure in them, While the sun, or the light, or the moon, r the stars, be not darkened, Nor the clouds return after the rain . . ." Noble stuff, that quickens the blood. And Emily Dickinson . . . ‘"Because I could not stop for death, He kindly stopped for me; The carriage held but just ourselves and immortality As you can see, I like goetry that is reasonably explicit, poetry that means something, poetry that is not just a glorious noise, like Dylan Thomas‘ stuff. It‘s marvellous to hear recordings of Dylan booming and ranting and shooting great cannonades of words into the air and all you can do is marvel and take cover, but when it‘s over and the spell is broken, you realise that nothing made any sense and you still don‘t know what he was trying to say. In fact, Dylan Thomas leaves me emptier than before, except for his stories like ‘"‘Under Milkwood" and "A Welsh Christmas". It‘s stuffy of me, I suppose, but most modern poetry gives me a pain under my pinny. The aim seems to be as incomprehensible as possibleâ€"it‘s «loâ€"itâ€"yourself poetry since presumably the reader is to put his own interpretation on what often sounds like a sex maniac‘s laundry list. M I don‘t much care for Chaucer or Robbie Burnsâ€"they‘re too difficult to readâ€"and the wry pawky humour and philosophy of Burns‘ poems such as To a louse on seeing one on a lady‘s bonnet at church" seem to me to be wasted on silly subjects of this kind. Milton and Pope speak to the intellect only and are not for me, neither for different reasons, are Cowper or Goldsmith, Herman Melville, Robert Service, Edward Guestâ€"or Bliss Carman, or poems which teach a moral or poems about flowers, saucy shepherdesses, animals, battles or narrative poems which tell stories such as the "Ancient, Mariner". I don‘t like old ballads about the king sitting in Dundee toun, sucking his fingers, or poems which begin "It fell about the martimmas time and a gay time it was then" or "Ye blushing virgins happy are, in the chaste nunnery of her breasts". > Blake, Walter de la Mare, Matthew Arnold, Yeats, Walt Whitâ€" man and Archibald Lampman, the Canadian civil servant who died at 38, having dm.t.lrd his short life away in a job he hated. And Ogden Nash, for fun. ("Candy is dandy, But likker is quikker." in poetry is not for the exotic, but for the traditional and romanticâ€"Keats, the Brownings, Christina Rossetti, A. E. Housman, some of T. S. Elioct, Emily Dickinson, m illia My dear old baggyâ€"bottomed beersodden readers, I have a confession to make after all these yearsâ€"I am not what you think I am. Well, of course, I am a proâ€"abortionist, antiâ€" clericalist bleached blonde, which I‘m not trying to deny, but I have another little weakness which I have not revealed before. I read poetry. What‘s worse, I write it sometimes. Like my eating habits, which are pretty prosaic, my choice Place toast in square shallow casserole dish or in individual casâ€" seroles. Arrange egg wedges on tomst and sprinkle with cheese. Empty ~vontents of package of cream . of mushroom soup into saucepan and gradually stir in cold milk. Heat and continue |tirrlnf until soup just comes to a boil. Reduce ‘heat and stif in salmon. Pour _ sauce . over Lut slices. Sprinkle with crushed potato chips. Bake 10â€"15 minutes /in oven (425 4 slices of toasted bread, 4 hardâ€" cooked eggs, quartered, % cup grated cheddar cheese, 1 package Lipton Cream. of Mushroom Soup Mix, 2 cups of cold water, 1 can salmon, drained and flaked, 4 cup crushed potato rh:wa. ; deg. F.) ° ALWAYS FISH Lake Simcoe provides recreation for more than 100,000 ice fisherâ€" men each winter. lies in a wellâ€"stocked emergency shelf, which can ‘yield nourishing and tasty hot salmon sandwiches for two or a crowd as long as the bread and eggs hold out. With some canned salmon and packages of the new cream of mushroom soup mix on hand, these hearty sandwiches can be produced on the spur of the moment andare an ideal starf~for the young cook who is tackling the family supper for the first time. (Any problems, folks? â€" Take them to Sally Scott, c/o this paper, and she will help you with advice.) By JOAN SEAGER HOT SALMON SANDWQCH ES Foster boarding home rates will be boosted throughkut Metropolitan Toronto for all &lenn in the care of the two Children‘s Aid Societies. The increaged rates will become effective in April, and will affect some 2,000 foster homes in the Metropolitan area. Metro CAS has about 2,000 children in foster home care and the Catholic society about 1,000 children. The new rates will amount to $60 per month for children up to ‘and including the age of 12, and $75 Increase To Foster Parents Are you a fosterâ€"parent or a prospective fosterâ€"parent? There are many children, and will be even more this summer, needing the security of a family with lots of T.L.C. (tender, loving care) and the Children‘s Aid Societies are looking for homes for these youngsters. _ Commencing the week of A S.M-dxo-hd“w-::ll elnuulmghntth etropolâ€" itan area of Toronto, will begin a new series of instruction for mothersâ€"torbe. Attendance at these Increase To Foster Parents _Offered By Metroâ€"C. A. Stressed In Prenatal Classes 27 RESERVE NOW! Phone BE 3â€"8880 ® CLOVERDALE MALL BE 9 6171 & 2 CARLTON AT YONGE EM 25071 a 62A BLOOR AT BAY wa 20628 + NORTHTOWN SHOPPING CENTRE BA 2â€"1491 + YORKDALE SHOPPING CENTRE 783.5361 11:30 to 2:30â€"Monday thru Fridayâ€"$1.25 BANQUET ROOMS AVAILABLE BLOUSES SPECIAL PBURCHASE Shown are just 2 of 5 beautiful styles we are excited and proud to offer you at this terrific value. All are 100% Dacron Crepe sleeveless overblouses designed especially for us in the flattering new sculptured line. In white, plus one colour choice in each style (pink, yellow, blug, beige). Fly back closings. Sizes 10â€"20. Limited quantities, so do come, see and select yours C y»» 199 The West Mail (South of the Municipal Offices) BUFFET LUNCH {(regularly $6.98 each), now " TAVERN & RESTAURANT SEATING 12â€"300 For further information contact: Catholic Children‘s Aid Society, Miss Jane McNally, 26 Maitland St. Phone: 925â€"6641 or Children‘s Aid Society of Metro Toronto, Miss Florence Schill, 33 Charles St. E. Phone: 924â€"4646 per month for those 13 years of age classes is increasing yearly. . Lakeshore and Etobicoke mothersâ€"toâ€"be, seeking instruction on pregnancy and motherhood, may choose one of three possible locâ€" and over. Both societies are hopeful that the long awaited increase will be effective in increasing the number of homes available to them for foster home placement. Increase were scheduled for the beginning of the year, but budget discussions and paring of figures held up the move. & More homes are needed for childâ€" ren of all ages, but particularly for babies, to avert the &mml shortâ€" age of homes throughout the sumâ€" mer months. ations for prenatal classes â€" the * DON MILLS shOoPPING CENTRE “7-17‘2 ® 113 YONGE AT ADELaAiDE Em 86822 * 786 YONGE AT BLooR WA 23121 _ ® 444 EGLINTON w. at CASTLEKNOCK HU 8â€"5083 * 13 ST. ClaiR ave. W. AT YONGE 921â€"9671 IE i j=l| 5 * * | |areesnamant | | BURNHAMTHORPE RO. HOW TO GET THERE! _ During the first hour, mothers learn about and discuss: The dey. elopment of their babies, preparâ€" ation and equipment for the baby, "hygiene of ‘pregnancy, the need for medical supervision, food for the family, labour, preparation for confinement, care of the baby at home and other pertinent topics, Tours of the maternity wards are arranged in the hospitals where mothers are to be confined. Preregistration is required for al classes. Please telephone the Pre. natal Office, 363â€"4971 to register During the second hour, mothers who are not beyond the end of their sixth mornth of pregnancy, and who have their doctor‘s written approval may attend the classes in physical preparation for childbearâ€" ing. These classes emphasize good posture, the art of voluntary reâ€" laxation and purposeful breathing. Bloorâ€"Gladstone Library Bloor and Dufferin Etobicoke ici t i w,:auwu or hhfl-unuc.:.‘ for the class nearest you. Do not | sns vabsindisematacats 42904 O cessn Classes are conducted by public Health Nurses from agencies in Metropolitan Toronto. They are held once a week for gight weeks and are two hours in duration. phone the location of the class. LINGERIE / CORSETRY HOSIERY SPORTSWEAR ACCESSORIES U