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It isn‘t just a theory that a negative attitude is what holds peo&:efunbnci.ltiufut. yeonduwedrueamhhuembliuhodtht::ldy 10 or 15 mmmm-mnmttobepmmd; the tngag!forthe i is that, though they would like to be pmmotod,theirnega&vefwthnttheywouldmtmakem and negative distaste for responsibility prevents them Live life in a positive manner Anyway, here are some of the negative stop signs that which negqtive~xï¬indei‘l persona aree;lrla;'ea: 6&7)31} +HILFIGER _ +GANT _ +FAR WEST emyrrmvenenemimameninnanmminermnicmaipne i â€" mm ce PERSPECTIVE Talking So Teens Will Listen helps parents to know more about teen and preteen growth and developâ€" ment, and helps parents encourage their teens to make good choices, understand changes and peer pressure and build selfâ€"esteem. Talking So Kids Will Listen helps parents teach children how to think, to accept responsibility for behavior and handle feelings. It also offers effective enting tools to deal with temper tantrums, biting, the "no" stage, thumbsucking, eating, bedtime, toilet Sponsored jointly by the Waterloo County board of education, the Waterloo Region Roman Catholic sepaâ€" rate school board, and Kâ€"W Counselling Services, the courses are offered free of charge at a variety of locaâ€" one secondary school credit. Through the courses she had developed, Bosch offers the skills needed to foster improved communiâ€" parents to offer support to their children, while and life educator with [ $ a * Kitchenerâ€"Waterloo Counselling Services. "And so teens need to D0e# your teenager shu begin to separate from So Teens, Kids and P: their parents, and they through courses offered sometimes go whole hog VC instead of gradually. "There‘s always the contrast that one minute they want to be taken care of and the next minute they don‘t want anyone to say anything about what they‘re doing. Parents want to rein them back in, because they recognize that as they get towards teen years, the mistakes kids can make can be very serious â€" much more serious than a scraped knee. There‘s sexuâ€" ality, alcohol, drugs and accidents, and other things that are lifeâ€"threatening." Bosch has developed, and now teaches (along with approximately 20 other trained educators) a series of courses which help parents, and their children get through the frustrating, confusing years of child It‘s not easy being a teenager. And it‘s certainly not easy being a teenager‘s parent. The teenage years are a time when young people are developing both emotionally and physically, and a dence. Meanwhile, parents of teenagers are faced with a growing number of concerns as their children are exposed more to the outside world and its threats. As a result, conflicts arise & o frow a child‘s eiruggte for independence and a parent‘s need to protect and guide his or her "They (teenagers) are trying to understand themselves at a time when parents have a lot of worries about the problems that teenagers can get into," says Courses help parents and kids bridge the communication gap And Talking So Preschoolers Will Listen offers parâ€" Does your teenager shut you out? Learn to "Talk So Teens, Kids and Preschoolers Will Listen" through courses offered by Kâ€"W Counselling Serâ€" r SUITS & SPORTCOATS * 50% OFF WATERLOO CHRONICLE, WEDNESDAY, JANUARY 5, 1994 â€" PAGE 9 Talking So Preschoolers Will Listen classes are offered at Doonâ€"Pioneer Park Community Centre, Tuesdays from 1 to 3:30 p.m., beginning Jan. 25 through May 31; and St. Peters Lutheran Church, Thursdays from 7 to 10 p.m., beginning Jan. 27 PWIWAVNS M WIPUIN st Centennisl senior y Kâ€"W Counselling Serâ€" public school, Mondays from 7 to 10 p.m. beganâ€" ning Jan. 24 through May 16, Eastwood Collegiate Institute, Tuesdays from 7 to 10 p.m., beginning Jan 15 through May 10; St. Mary‘s high school, Wednesâ€" days from 7 to 10 p.m., beginning Jan. 26 through May 18; and Doon public school, Wednesdays from 7 to 10 p.m., beginning Jan. 26 to May 11 through May 12. Talking So Kids Will Listen classes are offered at Cedarbrae publc school, Tuesdays from 7 to 10 p.m. beginning Jan. 25 through May 10, St Agnes separate school, Thursdays from 7 to 10 p m beginning Jan. 27 through May 19; St. Stephen‘s Lutheran Church, Tuesdays from 9 to 11.30 a m beginning Jan. 18 through May 24; St. Damel sepaâ€" rate school, Wednesdays from 7 to 10 p.m., beginnung Jan. 26 through May 19; Smithson public school, Mondays from 7 to 10 p.m., beginning Jan. 24 through May 16; Chandlerâ€"Mowat Community Cenâ€" tre, Tuesdays from 1 to 3:30 p.m., beginning Jan. 25 through May 31; Glencairn public school, Tuesdays from 7 to 10 p.m., beginning Jan. 25 through May 10, and John Darting public school, Wednesdays form 7 to 10 p.m., beginning Jan. 26 through May 11 A Talking So Kids Will Listen course for Spanishâ€" speaking parents will be held at the Chandlerâ€"Mowat Community Centre, Fridays from 6 to 8:30 p m , beginning Jan. 28 through March 25; and a course for Polishâ€"speaking parents will be held at Monsignor Gleason separate school, Wednesdays from 7 to 10 bolidranitasadlicand animbutadiiionnantits S mc ts itcb t it fls p.m., beginning Feb. 2 through April 13. Neither course is for secondary school credit. To register for any of the "Talking" courses, contact the Kitchenerâ€"Waterioo Counselling Services office at 743â€"6391. encouraging them to respect themselves and make "Sometimes, we haven‘t helped our lads to learn how to make good decisions for themselves, and to resist peer pressure," Bosch says. "And all of that cenâ€" tres around the child‘s self esteem. We need to help teens recognize that even when they make mistakes, we still love them. Instead of getting all hot and bothâ€" ered, ranting and raving when something goes wrong â€" there‘s a poor grade on a report card, they‘ve had an accident with the car, or lost something â€" look at how to solve the problem ‘ You can learn from it, the teen can learn from ‘ it, and you can figure out -» how you‘re going to solve * 50% OFF It‘s a learning process It‘s not just punishment Hurting kids doesn‘t really help them to learn But the whole exercise of processing the issue, sitâ€" uation or event can help them to figure out ahead of time what to do or not to do next time " Talking So Teens Will Listen classes are offered ra \\€