VJ thalexaminer Friday Doc 1977 26 k9 iiAvs TRAY SERVICE 7284700 female st allbegins tonight Duality Clothing for the two of you this Christmas Jack Webb WIT LTD 267 Bradford St weekend devoted to Chris tian Family living gets underway tonight at arries Emmanuel Baptist Church Tom Allen 21 earold from Ohio who trave throughout North America as rt of the Reginabased Cana ian Reviv al Fellowship will lead fami Iy rally tonight at 730 Seminars for adults and young people will be held all day Saturday Allen draws on background as one of 10 children of minister and two years in charge of Ohio churches during his student days Schedule for the rest of the weekend Saturday am men on ly 10 am women only 11 am the communication breakdown 130 pm fami ly worship seminar not service pm question and answer period 715 gmfamily night com ination ral and seminar Sunday 930 am Bi ble school 1045 am mor ning worship service pm evening worship 7283632 Ernie and Ollie Bridger seem to be enjoying the action at the regular Friday session of the Stroud Strutters squaredance club with Al Calhoun of Hillsdale right doing the calling The intermediatelevel club began just over one year ago There are presently 23 member couples Any others with more than one year of squaredancing experience are invited to join by calling Mr and Mrs Charlie Lucas at 4361243 Examiner Photo Squaredancers swing when Al starts to sing By IALI IllELEAN Examiner Staff Reporter Al Calhoun with His record library contains about 500 square dancing in strumentals in the standard here and mix them all up but what good is that The main thing is to make them enjoy themselves have bit of exer hes going to do when hes got 39 squares of dancers on the floor Calhoun collects fee for his Ann Lenders Childs actions anger parents Dear Ann In the last four years our only daughter age 21 has been strung out on drugs She has run away tw1ce The last time to Mexico We flew down and brought her home when she became seriously ill She has dropped out of school three times had an abortion and has been sexually promiscuous with three other men This week she decided to live openly with man she met recently The fellow has never dated girl before and just spent $3000 of his savings to pay off her car debt and other overdue bills She has fulltimejob We did not bring her up to behave this way She had hap py childhood Christian upbringing and loving parents We stopped giving her money so now is angry and refuses to speak to us What happened to the biblical adage Train up child in the way he should go and he will not depart from it We need some counsel Battered Parems Dear Parents Many children depart from the way they were trained up and there is no pat explanation Peer pressure and an overwhelming need to rebel against authority are just two factors that may account for your daughters behavior My advice to parents who are faced with such problems is this Investigate the availability of counselling and suggest it There are many drug abuse clinics and mental health centres that do fine job If she refuses drop the matter Stop giving money or gifts Let her know the door is open but make no effort to repair the rupture in the relationship If your daughter is angry let her stay angry In other words let her alone to grow up and shape up if and when she chooses It wont be easy but its the only way to go Dear Ann How does one collect from house guests who make longdistance telephone calls and take their own sweet time about paying up just managed to collect sizable sum from woman who stayed with me during the Labor Day weekend Shell be back for Thanksgiving have telephone credit card and wouldnt think of charging longdistance call to host or hostess Please reply in print for whole group of us who are your faithful rea ersinSan Bernardino Dear Faithfuls Most people who complain to me about this problem never get paid Your concern is that your frien ds dont pay up soon enough Short of telling the offenders flat out that they are not at liberty to make longdistance calls on your phone your only option is to install pay phone booth la Paul Getty Make joke of it but theyll get the message Dear Ann Landers What can do about neighbor who inSists on bringing over all the food she wants to dispose of realize she is trying to be nice but resent her presen ting me with leftovers slightly stale bakery goods and wilted vegetables and fruit We are not in need of anything and have told her so many times but she refuses to take no for an answer Any suggestions Not Grateful Dear Not The woman is com ulsive giver and you cant do much about her neurosis Throw out the stale and wilted stuff and give the rest to someone who needs it Iflhnn microphone is likeapoliceman beat The special 45 rpm directing traffic discs sell for about $325 apiece Ocean wave swing Through various publica through boys run tions he endeavours to keep up couples circulate he intones with the new steps being added from the stage at Sunnybrae regularly tothe morethan 3000 School inStroud already recognized in the do In the hall before him 40 mainofsruaredaiicing dancers do their best to follow The cal ers job as he sees it his instructions Theres an 0c is to make the participants casional bottleneck when so dancesmoothlyaixi enjoy it meone turns left instead of Calhoun preparesa program to where they started from right or misunderstaiids before every engagement so squan dancing is as challeng directive but the smiles are that the music IS both varied ing asthe caller wanisio make it and the club wants to dance cise and fun efforts but he does make cost concessions to smaller club The average price is $30 though the profit after expenses amounts to very little That domnt deter him in the least love it he says of his moonlight pursuit Local dancers will tell you that hes mighty good as is but Calhoun is constantly striving to get better He still practices regularly at Erma Bombeck Driving lesson ages mother Im always intrigued with those picture stories they do on the president of the United States that compare how he looked when he entered office and how within few short N0 PATTERN He has an idea of where hes going with every tune but there is no set pattern Improvisation is the name of the game and it calls for spontaneous decisions watch sightcall take them out of position then back Alt ASK MOM DAD TO BRING YOU TO THE BAYFIELD SANTA IS AT THE MALL EVERY DAY THIS WEEK FROM 200 PM TO 500 PM AND 630 PM TO 900 PM SATURDAY 1000 AM TO 500 PM CHRISMOUSE CHRISMOOSE JOIN SANTA THURS FRI 630 PM TD 900 PM ON SATURDAY FROM 1000 AM TD 500 PM SANTAS HERE BE SURE TO COME AND SEE SANTA Children receive free candy canes coloring pictures of ChrisMouse and ChrisMoose and can have their pic tures taken with Santa or ChrisMouse and ChrisMoose MONDAY TO SATURDAY 65 STORES SERVICES SHOPPING HOURS 10 AM TD 930 PM LOTS OF FREE PARKING WITH OVER BAYFIELD MALL OH PM Mm at tall Pawm om 60 whites to SHIV YOU VISITWITH US AT SIMCOE COUNTYSLARGEST INDOOR SHOPPING MALL WITH CthAIE CONTROLLED COMFORT omnipresent Calhoun is 5uaredance caller one of the in On tario and this Friday session in Stroud was just one of an average six Week for the 51 yearold real estate salesman from Hillsdale and appropriate to the dancing level of that evenings aur dience Any damn fool can get up it Whats callers nightmare to the accompaniment To go blank and forget what recorded tapes home calling to the rureation room wall and also in his car seven years ago when at the suggestion of wife Itenia he decided to replace caller who till the squaredance club they belonged to at Canadian Forces Base Borden He had to do lot of practicing Calhoun recalls It began as hobby for him It was rough to begin with morning and night Mrs used to do two or three hours day Id get into room and just call visualizing the squares on the wall Calhoun explains The rookie caller first tested his skill on friends who would gather at home and form practice square four couples PUBLIC DEBUT It wasnt long after his public debut that the offers from other clubs started to come in People travel They hear you in certain place and remember you when they head home Sometime later you might get an invitation to call at their club Calhoun has called in Van couver Calgary Fredericton Winnipeg and throughout the province of Ontario He usually tries to combine his annual vacation with series of calling dates in one region of the coun try Although he obviously enjoys himself when puttin hall full of dancers through eir aces Calhoun takes his obby seriously Three times hes attended weeklong courses on calling in the United States xi Graydon Kohl Graydoii Kohl former mayor of Collingwood died in Barrie on Nov 20 Born near London Ont Kohl received his commis sion in the Royal Flying Corps at Ca mp Borden After serving two years in the Sterling Bank in Toronto he opened up his own music business in Collingwmd He later ran ladies clothing store and fur salon until he retired in 1954 Kohl became active in municipal affairs by first serving on the local board of education He was mayor from 1936 to 1938 from 1946 to 1948 and 1953 former president of the Kiwanis Club he was also active in the Red Cross Victorian Order of Nurses and the Progress Club He belonged to the Royal Canadian Legion and Trinity Church Kohl bought the land on which the Blue Mountain club first opened up trails turning it over to the club at no extra cost Along with other interested citizens he became brothers Wilbert Fred and Squaredancing isnt among the most publicized of pastimes but its still strong favorite with thousands of Canadians The Stroud Strutters one of several area clubs that bring square dance enthusiasts together meet Friday evenings at Sunnybrae School Ernie Bridger and Doris Younger slip under bridge formed by another couple in their square during proceedings last week Examiner Photo guarantor to develop the ski ing which has become ma jor tourist attraction In 1955 Mr and Mrs Kohl moved to Barrie where Kohl opened up his own real estate brokerage on Dunlop St He maintained the office for more than 17 years In Barrie Kohl was former president of the Cancer Society and the Kiwanis Club He was an ac tive member of Trinity Anglican Church and served on the synod for number of years He is survived by his wife Perle daughter Mrs George Boileau two sisters Mrs Betty Brown and Mrs Bessie ONeill both of Lon don Ont and four grand children Paul Ricky David and Sherri Deceased are his three Clarence Funeral services were held in Trinity Anglican Church conducted by Canon loliii Speers and assisted by Canon Ralph Adye of Toronto and Rev Samuel Abol Burial was at Harrie Union Cemetery months it has aged him There was one in the paper last week of President Jimmy Carter The article was quick to point out that within just 11 months in office there were new furrows in his brow deeper creases in his cheeks fresh lines around his eyes and more flesh beneath the chin suggesting an aging process un related to time Big deal Beside Delores Finfrock who just taught her teenage son how to drive he looks like Donnie Osmond at prune festival Delores was beautiful girl taut skin smiled ealsigj with deepset eyes that looked right at you when you ta dispped in on her ytsterday Dorian Gray lives shout She shoved stick of gum into her mouth without taking off the wrapper Dontkid around she snapped Im not kidding Delores You look terrible What hap pened to your hairline It couldnt be receding Of course its not receding she said irritabl may have pulled out few strands when Roger pull over and parked just to change the knobs on the car radio Whats the matter with that Sounds like he used good judgment On the median of the expressway You look like you could use good nights sleep havent slept since be parallel parked put two gar bags cans in front of the house and to him to park between them What happened He sideswiped our mailbox ran down 200yearold blue spruce and sunk the rear wheels over the septic tank You cant go on like this Youre looking more like Abra ham Lincoln every day President Carter looks better than you Why shouldnt be she snarled All hes got is the energy program Lance the Panama Canal and Andrew Young We heard the wheels spin the brakes screeched and gar bage can rolled into the street Waitll Amy gets her temps Youll never see those straight white smiling teeth again Iron wax on blotters DEAR POLLY There are several spots of candle wax on my lovely embroidered linen tablecloth and have not laundered it as am waiting for you to tell me how to remove them HELEN DEAR HELEN The foilwoing method for removing candle wax is recommended by the Soap and Detergent association Scrape off any excess wax Place stained parts between two white blotters and press with hot iron Then rub spots with cold lard or turpentine and wash In warm suds POLLY DEAR POLLY My Pet Peeve is with friends and relatives who bring their children to visit and then allow them to run helter skelter through the house They act as if there is nothing wrong in letting child bang on the piano turn the knobs on the television set and so on begrud serving refreshments to such children as they invariab spill things and the parents ignore it and some of these are highly educated professional people This is annoying when you think you have graduated from sticky door knobs and spilled punch Such parents hold tight rein in their own homes so why are they insensitive in anothers MARVA DEAR POLLY Like Susan could not find nonskid material to use for the bottoms of the feet on pajamas made for my grandchildren tried light weight rubber backed drapery fabric and it worked beautiful put piece of the pajama material on the inside of each foot to make it soft Hope this helps Susan ANNA MARY DEAR POLLY Susan should spray the bottoms of the feet in her childrens pajamas with rubber rug backing This nonslip backing is sold in shops that sell rug making supplies LINDA DEAR POLLY There is nonskid fabric made for the soles of childrens pajamas and knitted and crocheted bedroom slippers that comes in sheets twelve by thirtyxsix inches bought some of this at fabric shop in Florida but imagine such shops all over have it DEAR POLLY Maybe some of you have been doing this for years but it is recent discovery of mine always hated the mess caused by blood splattcriiig all over the kitchen cupboard when pounded meat but now put piece of plastic wrap over the meat and it works beautifully No splatters no mess on the hanuiier and the plastic wrap stays intact no matter how hard or how long pound Try this you will like it DOROTHY