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Those-truly sandwiched between STAFF PHOTO/NICK IWANYSHYN Mth ’a grown son, Adam, in uni- versity and 17-year old Nicole in Grade 11, she is beginning to feel degrees of stress, despite the fact both Ms Levine and her husband work their kids and elderly parents have options. Many seniors have the means to pay for extended or home care. Community Care Access Centres oï¬er evaluation and help. Care eli- gibility, however, must meet strict criteria. While costs at private retire- ment facilities vary based on levels of care and amenities, average monthly costs hover in the $3,000 range. An early, preemptive strategy, involving both loved ones and chil- dren, goes a long way to avoiding surprises or disappointment, Mr. Bazin said. “Sure, there’s strain,†she said. “But I don't view it that way. I look at it as a normal course of life. 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