p 6 weekender august 26 1995 su ers ti stux ttiis column is about my daughter although ultimately ifs about the off spring of any one of us who have survived a famfly breakup and gone on to estab lish the eventual new order we all must work so hard to achieve for the better ment of all especially our children v marissa first appeared in this space back in 1987 when i wrote about how as a spunky eightyearold she somehow managed to get a hit her first time up in her one and only year as a house league softball player i was coaching the team and it gave me a chance to spend time with her after her mom and i went our separate ways the year before i it was four years later that she chose to move in with my new wife susan and i following the pattern of so many kids who end up living in the homes of both par- frorripf where i bruce stapley f why move improve with car roll 4204880 family cperattd taking pride in mortmains hemes sale ems wmesw sbpimber6 1995 jsoooff installed patiorooms 50 off installed windows ba8sd on minimum 4 wmdowofkmngsj 1qooff installed roofvm via our showroom or 906 brook rood south unt 4 ft 5 pickering markham 9054204880 outside markham 18004650593 ents in the years that follow a divorce but what a difference four years makes needless to say wholesale adjustments had to be made by the three of us tilings got even more complicated when the baby came along a year after marissa joined lis it despite the harrowing differences of opinion that characterize the relationship between a parent and an emerg ing teen we managed to hang in there and even have fun together now shes decided she wants to be closer to the action of the big city so shes moving in with her mom in north york in time for the start of the upcoming school year she checked with me first to see if fd be okay and of course i told her i would support her decision in every way that she had to do what was best for her not her parents being just a subway ride from downtown ibronto her mom holds the hot hand right now and tm all for her broadening her horizons besides now when we see each other it will be without the back drop of a perennially messy room uncompleted household chores and ray constant admonitions to get it in gear so shell be on time for school work orthodontal appointments etc ob tm sure that on the day she leaves 111 feel some of the same pangs i felt when we last parted company back in 1986 it will probably be hard to walk into the room that housed her and all that stuff for the first little while thafs only natural and who knows a few years down the road we could live under the same roof once again the door will always be open au reyoir sweetheart and good luck in the big smoke smillests its time you took a look at a performance luxufycar this 1995 seyillests features the northstar system a 32 valve 295 horsepower y8 engine cassette cd delco bosc sound system electric sunroof plus all the luxury standard features finished in red firemist with shale leather trim an outstanding automobile also 3 brand new sts in stock williamson osalk offering was r lease for 36 xuces jvafcnt trade ww0 since 1947 chevrolet cadillac oldsmobile geo call 18002632000 or 9058523331 auto sound design grand opening sale in unionviue at hwy 7 and main st t8s i flb pioneer 6 disc cd add on with rf modulator and remote control adds on to any existing fm stereo featuring a built in pre- emphasis circuit and 12 selectable modulating frequencies e4a00 auto sound design gtttom audio ittttababon unpaidbudsarvka akhonwd iwurono china shop si 529 parts andor labour at additional cost 9053058888 alpine audio art audio control auto command bazooka blade crunch custom autosound hornet jl audio legacy mb quart phoenix gold pioneer prestige rane sony suntech viper 330 tnorrrm ottmt warn w90aft311 fm10su143m ysto 0 m2nss4 wn577s fc4u22t 13sho fcw3064lll hrs mon hu wo am 7 rm sat 30 am 6 fja