economist suntribune may 10 1989 c2s new moms need some rest with the birth of a baby come many added responsibilities and often some hectic times for mothers for mom some of the best times are quiet times those moments when she can re juvenate her body and spirit here are a dozen ideas to inspire mom provided by peggy kline wife professional mother of two young children and professional consultant youll probably discover some favorite ideas of your own locate your caring connec tions dont be afraid to call on the people who make quiet moments possible such as your husband relatives and friends in addition try to line up a few reliable babysitters have a haven find a special place in or around your home under a tree in your backyard a comfy old chair a rocking chair or even the bathtub for relaxing and enjoying peaceful moments of solitude baby your body your body needs pampering too luxuriate in a warm relaxing bubble bath ask your partner for a back rub or just put your feet up for a few minutes if youve had a par ticularly rough day try the breathing relaxation techniques youiised during labor take a walk with your thoughts a pleasant walk with or without your baby in tow can be a great change of pace and is good exercise too walking gives you an opportunity to let your mind wander or even to plan ahead nuzzle up with a novel take pleasure in the wonder of words while baby takes a snooze pick up a copy of that book youve been wanting to read and dont accessory can be a great gift if you dont quite trust your sense of your mothers size or taste in apparel then you can take refuge in any of countless accessories that dress up or dress down her every outfit when looking for a gift this mothers day a scarf or kerchief of the right proportions pattern or color can iriake an outfit look serious or playful a handbag can convey a sense of formality a businesslike pur pose or a devilmaycare mood ilightweight gloves can be for dressier occasions or just to cover up rings bracelets and other jewelry worth protecting from prying eyes and hands ifor the hair there are flowers combs barrettes and ribbons and they serve the double pur pose of fashion and function by stylishly doing the job for which they were designed how about a pair of one-size- fitsall house slippers not only ptactical and fashionable but vry very soothing for the work ing mom and what mom doesnt work whether at home or in the workplace a11 you need is a little imagina tion and knowledge of your mom aid the lifestyle she leads as for cost you can fit your idea of a different gift into just about any budget or pocketbook shop early or shop late but dont forget to shop for your mothers djy gift prrandma honored i grandmothers enjoy their grandchildren without the responsibility of constant care apct discipline however grandmothers enjoy everything from bottlefeeding to i babysitting their loving guidance and helpful hands are ntuch appreciated especially by wprking mothers this mothers day dont forget to recognize how great your grandmother is with a special card or gift it is sure to brighten her day forget a bookmark take a visual vacation when youre having a tense day close your eyes for a moment and think about a warm sunny beach with cool waves splashing up on the shore or a romantic mountain hideaway for two take a mini getaway youll find yourself refreshed and ready to face reali ty again stay in touch make an ef fort to keep in contact with friends and relatives remember they were an impor tant part of your life before the baby arrived and dont forget about the rest of the world keep up with cur- rent events by reading newspapers and magazines and listening to the radio communicate your concerns share your feelings and wor ries with other moms consider joining a mothers support group which you can locate through your hospital ywca or family services agency in your area rest without guilt sometimes its harder to get mom to take a nap than to get baby to sleep acknowledge that fatigue is part of your new role but also understand the benefit of rest buy yourself a birth day present you should be proud of your accomplishment celebrate by buying yourself a special pre sent like a new blouse or a pretty hair clip plan a special mothers day arrange for a day away from your normal babycare routine plan a romantic rendez vous with your husband go to a movie solo and munch on pop corn or get together for a good gab with a friend build your own stages and phases one of moms best teachers is time so be patient with yourself its also a good idea to set some specific goals for example when youre ready sign up for that foreign language class youve wanted to take or start on that re decorating project set some family goals too such as seeing your parents more often or strengthening your rela tionship with your inlaws by focusing on your own wellbeing youll also add to the dimension of motherhood mairaoftastt mothers day cards available remember mothers 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