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your relationship developed so that you are experiencing this exclusion nor do you mention in what ways your own fulfilment is being jeopardized by your husbands communication with his mother other than something important about his job is being relayed to you by her the situation only becomes a problem depending on ones own perception of the experience especially for instance if you dont like his mother on one hand if you really like your motherinlaw this could be seen as a benefit if you dislike her however a problem results a friend in meade dr ed meade are you working to improve your own communication with your husband are you failing to assert yourself in any way are you benefiting even covertly in some way by your husband tak ing so many of his concerns to his mother perhaps it lets you off the hook in terms of helping him manage his life the type of situation you describe is complex and requires more clarification before any written hypothesis could be formed i should this 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